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Wives Not Sisters

Kayla Nielsen and Alix Tucker

21 episodes

5 days ago

Is it cheating… or just crossing a line? Alix and Kayla kick off the new year from Nicaragua by playing "Cheating or No?" —breaking down gray-area relationship scenarios like shared playlists, DMs, flirting, emotional affairs, and “we weren’t official” loopholes. They read listener-submitted cheating stories that include coworker crushes, wedding-night confessions, secret double lives, and queer awakenings sparked by one kiss. Honest, funny, and unfiltered conversations about boundaries, emot...

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Is it cheating… or just crossing a line? Alix and Kayla kick off the new year from Nicaragua by playing "Cheating or No?" —breaking down gray-area relationship scenarios like shared playlists, DMs, flirting, emotional affairs, and “we weren’t official” loopholes. They read listener-submitted cheating stories that include coworker crushes, wedding-night confessions, secret double lives, and queer awakenings sparked by one kiss. Honest, funny, and unfiltered conversations about boundaries, emot...

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Episodes (20/21)

Wives Not Sisters

Cheating Stories in 3, 2, 1…

Is it cheating… or just crossing a line? Alix and Kayla kick off the new year from Nicaragua by playing "Cheating or No?" —breaking down gray-area relationship scenarios like shared playlists, DMs, flirting, emotional affairs, and “we weren’t official” loopholes. They read listener-submitted cheating stories that include coworker crushes, wedding-night confessions, secret double lives, and queer awakenings sparked by one kiss. Honest, funny, and unfiltered conversations about boundaries, emot...

1 week ago

48 minutes

Wives Not Sisters

Is This Female Friendship or Gay AF? Untangling Homoerotic WLW Dynamics

Are homoerotic friendships a canon queer experience? 🌈 Recording from their new studio in Nicaragua, Alix and Kayla dive into homoerotic WLW friendships—the kind that blur the line between “best friend” and “something more.” From red/green flag dating games to listener submissions about twin-bed cuddling, forehead kisses, shared Google Docs, and lifelong “what ifs,” this episode unpacks queer longing, closeted intimacy, and the friendships that change us forever. Plus: a late-addition deep di...

3 weeks ago

1 hour 8 minutes

Wives Not Sisters

Chosen Family, Holidays, and Saying No to Expectations

Family, queerness, religion, and the holidays—this episode goes deep. Alix and Kayla open up about navigating strained family relationships, missed weddings, religious rejection, reconciliation, and what it really takes to protect your peace as a queer couple during the holidays. From engagement fallout and parents not showing up, to rebuilding trust, setting boundaries, and creating chosen family traditions in Nicaragua—this is an honest, emotional, and deeply relatable conversation for anyo...

4 weeks ago

1 hour 19 minutes

Wives Not Sisters

Lore: Caitlyn Jenner

In this juicy, long-form episode, Alix and Kayla go deep into Caitlyn Jenner’s childhood, gender dysphoria, Olympic fame, marriages, parenting issues, transition timeline, political contradictions, and why the public remains so divided. Honest, funny, compassionate, and unfiltered. 00:00 – Intro, reviews & coming-out stories 01:20 – Why listeners say the show helped them come out 04:40 – Caitlyn Jenner: pronouns & how she refers to her past 06:30 – Childhood, dyslexia & early gend...

1 month ago

1 hour 20 minutes

Wives Not Sisters

When Queer Love Changes: Trans Partners, Privilege & Progress

This week on Wives Not Sisters, Alix & Kayla dive into your juiciest queer write-in questions—identity shifts, relationship changes, generational LGBTQ+ tensions, age-gap love, and what really counts as “queer representation.” It’s honest, hilarious, vulnerable, and very, very gay. 🌈 We also play Underrated or Overrated (spoiler: baths don’t stand a chance), confront who’s the problem this week, and unpack the Sydney Sweeney “good jeans” chaos. 00:00 – Intro: Married, codependent, and c...

1 month ago

55 minutes

Wives Not Sisters

WLW Lore: Caroline Calloway

Alix and Kayla dive deep into the wild, chaotic, endlessly fascinating lore of Caroline Calloway — from Instagram fame and ghostwritten captions to book-deal drama, retreat controversies, and the blurred lines between “scam,” self-mythology, and survival. The wives break down the friendship between Caroline and Natalie Beach, the homoerotic tension, the internet cancellation, the workshops, the snake-oil era, and why queer audiences are obsessed with this story. If you love scammers, internet...

1 month ago

1 hour 20 minutes

Wives Not Sisters

Two Wives, One Wallet: Love, Finances and Your Money Confessions

If you’ve ever argued about groceries, avoided showing your partner your skincare receipts, or wondered how to merge finances without losing your mind, this one’s for you! From $300 facials to $3,000 handbags, Venmo-requesting girlfriends, U-Haul financial disasters, queer throuple budgeting, and how not to commit tax fraud as a married couple — this episode has answers to the questions YOU submitted about managing money. 01:35 – Splurge or Save: Dyson dryers, facials & quiet luxury 05:2...

1 month ago

1 hour 4 minutes

Wives Not Sisters

In this episode, Alix & Kayla dive into the internet discourse that blew up: Are lesbians allowed to have dating preferences—specifically around bi women or trans women—without being labeled discriminatory or TERFs? Check out the post that started the comments war HERE! This conversation isn’t about exclusion—it's about autonomy, nuance, and consent in queer dating. 🎙️ Whether you agree or disagree, you’ll want to be in the comments for this one. 02:00 – Why real conversations matter 02:3...

2 months ago

1 hour 7 minutes

Wives Not Sisters

How Problematic is The L Word?!

In this queer culture deep-dive, Alix and Kayla revisit The L Word — the iconic show that shaped lesbian visibility for an entire generation. From nostalgic favorites to problematic storylines, they unpack what the series got right (and wrong) about queer representation, trans inclusion, family, and chosen community. If you’ve ever debated who you’d be on The L Word, this one’s for you. 00:08 – Intro + Spotify love from listeners 01:13 – Would You Rather: The L Word edition 05:30 – Why The L ...

2 months ago

59 minutes

Wives Not Sisters

WLW Lore: Sedona Prince

In this episode of Wives Not Sisters, Alix and Kayla cover the shocking story of college basketball star Sedona Prince — from her rise to fame as a gender equality advocate to the disturbing domestic violence and assault allegations shared by multiple exes. This episode dives deep into power, manipulation, and healing after abuse during Domestic Violence Awareness Month. ⚠️ Trigger Warning: discussions of domestic violence, sexual assault, and emotional abuse. 00:00 – Intro + Domestic Violenc...

2 months ago

1 hour 11 minutes

Wives Not Sisters

Coming Out Confusion: The Most Googled Questions and Our Real Answers

Ever Googled “Am I gay?” You’re not alone. In this hilarious and heartfelt episode of Wives Not Sisters, Alix and Kayla react to the internet’s most-searched coming-out questions — from “How do I know if I’m gay?” to “Can queer people still travel?” They share their own coming-out stories, red flags (or rainbow flags), gay panic moments, and what it’s really like navigating identity, family, and love in 2025. 00:00 – Online slang test: “Serving cunt,” “shipping,” & other chaotic lingo 0...

2 months ago

1 hour 11 minutes

Wives Not Sisters

Fighting Fair: What Took Us Years To Learn

In this episode, Alix and Kayla get real about what it means to fight fair after six years together. From weirdly specific compliments to the unspoken rules that keep their relationship grounded, the couple unpacks how they’ve learned to communicate, manage triggers, and find humor in the chaos. Expect laughter, honesty, and a little courtroom energy. Timestamps: 00:00 – Weirdly specific compliments 💕 10:50 – Why we fight and how it’s changed over time 14:30 – Ground rules for healthy conflic...

3 months ago

59 minutes

Wives Not Sisters

WLW Lore: Jojo Siwa

In this episode of Wives Not Sisters, Alex and Kayla dive deep into Jojo Siwa’s rise from Dance Moms to queer icon status. From the origins of her bow empire to Nickelodeon fame, child star controversies, her bold coming out, and her highly public relationships—this is a full WLW Lore Series breakdown you don’t want to miss. The hosts unpack Jojo’s “karma era,” viral moments, her mom’s controversial role, and whether the internet’s obsession is fair or fueled by queerness and celebrity cultur...

3 months ago

1 hour 16 minutes

Wives Not Sisters

Queer Culture: Lesbians vs Bi Girls

This week, Alix and Kayla dive into the long-standing dynamics between bisexual women and lesbians—myths, stereotypes, and the cultural nuances that shape queer relationships. From playful debates (Renee Rapp vs. Cara Delevingne) to candid reflections on identity, cancel culture, and representation in media, this episode explores queerness, binaries, and belonging in both private and public conversations. ⏰ Timestamps 00:01 – Intro + community shoutouts 01:21 – Bi vs. Lesbian: celebrity edi...

3 months ago

1 hour 13 minutes

Wives Not Sisters

Are We Actually Compatible? A Queer Couple Takes the Ultimate Relationship Quiz

In this episode of Wives Not Sisters, Alix and Kayla put their relationship to the test with a compatibility quiz led by producer Lex. From cover-stealing confessions to worst vacations, love languages, chores, intimacy, and financial teamwork, the couple dives deep into what makes their partnership thrive (and where it needs work). This candid and hilarious conversation shows that compatibility is about more than just matching answers—it’s about laughter, growth, and resilience. Timestamps...

3 months ago

1 hour 11 minutes

Wives Not Sisters

Our Queer Fertility Journey: IUI, IVF, Pregnancy Loss, and Choosing Surrogacy

In this episode of Wives Not Sisters, Alix and Kayla unpack the “propaganda we’re not falling for”—from self-help catchphrases to fitness influencers and even avocado toast—before diving deep into their three-year fertility journey. They share candidly about choosing a sperm donor, navigating IUIs and IVF, pregnancy loss, and ultimately turning to surrogacy. Honest, funny, and vulnerable, this episode is a must-listen for anyone curious about queer family building, fertility challenges, or si...

3 months ago

1 hour 10 minutes

Wives Not Sisters

WLW Lore: The Shannon Beveridge Episode

In this episode of Wives Not Sisters, Alex and Kayla dive deep into the lore of Shannon Beveridge—from her early YouTube days and first love with Cammie Scott, to her rollercoaster relationships with Fletcher, Becky, and Becca. They unpack parasocial dynamics, viral breakup videos, the infamous Becky So Hot moment, and what it means to navigate queer identity in the public eye. Expect gossip, internet sleuthing, and lots of laughs along the way. ⏱️ Timestamps 00:00 – Welcome & “Would Yo...

4 months ago

1 hour 15 minutes

Wives Not Sisters

Queer Culture: Queer Ultimatum

Alix & Kayla break down The Ultimatum: Queer Love—from boundaries and exes to chosen family, romance, and what true compatibility looks like. Expect laughs, hot takes, and some real talk on queer representation in reality TV. Timestamps: • 00:01 | “This or That” game to kick things off • 07:36 | Why queer reality TV matters (even when it’s messy) • 15:22 | Boundaries, exes, and “open energy” in WLW relationsh...

4 months ago

1 hour 12 minutes

Wives Not Sisters

Our Queer Love Story: We Met, Moved In, and Got Married Within a Year as a WLW Couple

In their very first episode, Alix and Kayla dive into spicy hot takes, share lessons on love, and tell the hilarious, heartfelt story of how they met and fell for each other. Episode Timestamps: • 1:56 – Hot Takes: Pop culture, Jojo Siwa, queerness, and the “trad wife” trend. • 11:19 – Marriage tips: What a 103-year-old couple taught them about lasting love. • 18:03 – The Story of Us: From parallel lives to meeti...

4 months ago

1 hour 4 minutes

Wives Not Sisters

Making Friends in Your 30s...why is it so hard?

Alix and Kayla are back for episode two! They share each other’s “toxic traits” before diving into loneliness, friendship struggles, and how one genuine connection can shift everything. Timestamps: • 00:01 – Intro + playful “toxic traits” game • 09:39 – Matching outfits & why the podcast is called Wives Not Sisters • 10:07 – Admitting loneliness + challenges of making friends in your 30s • ...

4 months ago

58 minutes