Welcome to the fourth episode of our special 5-part series with Suzi Tucker, author, teacher, and one of the most influential voices in the world of Family Constellations. Today we dive into the profound role of language — how we speak, how we listen, and how our words shape what unfolds in the constellation field.
This episode is especially valuable for:
• Family Constellation facilitators
• Therapists and counselors
• Group leaders of any kind
• Anyone curious about deepening their presence and clarity.
Suzi shares practical insights on:Hosting groups and working without judgment You’ll also hear a lovely short story about Suzi’s contribution to one of Bert Hellinger’s books.
Enjoy listening — and I’d love for you to share your own family phrase — that special saying or line that’s unique to your family.
Connect with Suzi Tucker:https://www.suzitucker.com
Messengers of Healing book: https://www.amazon.com/Messengers-Hea...
Connect with Iris Shaham:https://www.irisconstellations.com
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This is a special 5 episodes' series with Suzi Tucker, author, teacher, and a true pioneer in Family Constellations.
In this third episode, I sit down with Suzi to explore the five elements that appear in our lives.This is one of my favorite episodes — we explore the elements, core fears, and I share a personal story from growing up in a kibbutz.
This episode is an invitation to reflect on your own life story and notice what resonates with you.
Feel welcomed to share.Don’t forget to watch Episodes 1 and 2 if you missed them.
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This is a special 5-episode series with Suzi Tucker, author, teacher, and a true pioneer in Family Constellations.
In this second episode, we explore what it truly means to acknowledge what is — not to fix, not to escape, but to meet reality exactly as it is. This is one of the more challenging conversations in our series, a profound dialogue that invites you to slow down, breathe, and listen fully.
Before diving into the heart of the topic, Suzi shares the story of how she met Bert Hellinger, founder of Family Constellations.
A gentle exploration of mindfulness, awareness, and the quiet strength of seeing things as they are. This episode is deep and thought-provoking, best listened to when you have time to sit with it fully.
Enjoy!
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The Gather Enough Fireflies Book
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This is a special 5 episodes' series with Suzi Tucker, author, teacher, and a true pioneer in Family Constellations.
In this opening episode, I sit down with Suzi to explore the intricate process of decision making through the lens of family systems.
Together, we reflect on how our choices are often shaped by unseen loyalties, inherited patterns, and the deep connections that bind us to our family stories.
This conversation is an invitation to pause and ask yourself:
What part of your decision-making truly belongs to you — and what might you be carrying for someone else?
I truly hope you’ll find it meaningful and beneficial!
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The Gather Enough Fireflies Book
I recommend you to hear this beautiful exercise with Suzi: Finding Context for Your Issue
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