In this Hot Takes episode of Young, Hot & Divorced, I let Instagram decide. I asked my followers some of the most controversial relationship questions — and the answers did not disappoint.

We’re talking dating red flags, trust, cheating, boundaries, double standards, and the relationship rules people secretly believe but don’t always say out loud. From “Is it ever okay to go through your partner’s phone?” to “Should men and women really be just friends?”, this episode breaks down modern dating norms through real-time audience polls and honest reactions.

If you’re navigating dating after divorce, questioning relationship expectations, or just love a good hot take backed by real opinions, this episode is for you. Expect laughs, strong opinions, and a few moments that might make you rethink your own boundaries.

Follow Young, Hot & Divorced on Spotify and join the conversation — because sometimes the truth hurts, and sometimes it just needs to be said.