In this Hot Takes episode of Young, Hot & Divorced, I let Instagram decide. I asked my followers some of the most controversial relationship questions — and the answers did not disappoint.
We’re talking dating red flags, trust, cheating, boundaries, double standards, and the relationship rules people secretly believe but don’t always say out loud. From “Is it ever okay to go through your partner’s phone?” to “Should men and women really be just friends?”, this episode breaks down modern dating norms through real-time audience polls and honest reactions.
If you’re navigating dating after divorce, questioning relationship expectations, or just love a good hot take backed by real opinions, this episode is for you. Expect laughs, strong opinions, and a few moments that might make you rethink your own boundaries.
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In this episode of Young, Hot & Divorced, Victoria Gottlieb explores one of the hardest emotional seasons to navigate: waiting.
Whether you’re waiting on clarity in a divorce, a relationship, custody decisions, or any life outcome beyond your control, this episode offers reassurance and perspective for managing anxiety during uncertainty. Victoria shares honest insights on releasing fear of what’s to come, letting go of control, and finding peace before answers arrive.
Through a faith-centered but approachable lens, this episode encourages listeners to trust the process, stay present, and understand that peace doesn’t depend on knowing the outcome. It’s a grounding conversation for anyone feeling overwhelmed by anticipation, stress, or the pressure to have everything figured out.
Perfect for listeners seeking calm, clarity, and emotional steadiness while navigating divorce, relationships, and major life transitions.
Single moms, entrepreneurship, co-parenting, dating after divorce — this episode has it all.
Tori sits down with her longtime friend Nicole Spoelma, a fellow single mom and the creator of a thriving children’s boutique, to talk about rebuilding life after divorce, navigating legal challenges, and finding strength through intentional parenting.
Nicole opens up about the reality behind launching her business, the importance of community support, the emotional toll of co-parenting, and what she’s learned from past relationships. Together, they explore dating after divorce, financial pressures, and how motherhood shapes their growth and resilience.
If you’re in a season of rebuilding, redefining success, or finding your footing after major life changes — this episode will feel like a warm hug.
Topics We Cover:
• Single motherhood & co-parenting
• Entrepreneurship after divorce
• Dating as a single mom
• Legal + financial stress
• Community support & connection
• Personal growth through motherhood
In this raw and grounded episode, Tori pulls back the curtain on her biggest reset yet. After navigating two marriages, single motherhood, and a cross-country move, she shares the deeply personal shifts she’s making in her faith, health, finances, and everyday habits.
Tori opens up about a major milestone in her seizure journey, the reality check of moving back to New York, and the spiritual clarity that’s been reshaping her priorities. From cutting unnecessary spending to embracing a simpler, more intentional lifestyle, she walks listeners through the changes helping her rebuild her foundation from the inside out.
If you’re craving a fresh start, struggling with your own habits, or just need a reminder that growth is messy but beautiful, this episode feels like a warm, honest reset.
Thank you for being here, for listening, and for growing alongside me. 💛
In this episode of Young, Hot & Divorced, Tori Gottlieb opens up about the reality of co-parenting during the holidays as a single mom in New York. From balancing family traditions to navigating time-sharing with her ex, Tori shares the emotional highs and lows of making the season special for her kids—no matter what the custody schedule says.
She also dives into real-life mom updates, including facing her fear of the dentist after four years, adjusting to life in a new town after moving from Miami, and debating whether to introduce video games to her boys. Through it all, Tori reminds listeners that even when parenting feels chaotic, it’s possible to focus on the good, protect your peace, and create cozy, lasting memories.
🎧 Tune in for an honest, relatable, and slightly chaotic take on parenting, holidays, and finding joy after divorce.
✨ Keywords: co-parenting, holidays, parenting, single mom, family traditions, video games, dental health, New York, life updates, parenting advice
In this episode of Young, Hot & Divorced, Tori shares her journey of personal growth, emotional cleansing, and the challenges of parenting. She reflects on her past relationships and the importance of letting go of physical items that no longer serve her. Tori discusses her financial struggles and how selling these items is a way to fund her future. She also reevaluates her values in relationships, emphasizing the significance of emotional connections over material possessions. The episode concludes with a sense of gratitude for past experiences and a hopeful outlook for the future.
Keywords
personal growth, emotional cleansing, relationships, financial challenges, self-reflection, parenting, life updates, letting go, values, growth journey
In this week’s episode, Tori dives into the reality of being in your 30s—when your best friends might be getting married, having babies, or signing divorce papers. She talks about navigating friendships across totally different life stages, learning to celebrate others’ milestones without comparing timelines, and finding peace in your own path. Whether you’re single, dating, divorced, or somewhere in between, this one’s for you.
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In this episode of Young, Hot & Divorced, Tori explores what it really means to protect your peace and keep your energy in check. From setting healthy boundaries to creating daily self-care rituals, she shares how simple practices like singing, dancing, journaling, and grounding in nature can shift your mindset. Tori opens up about lifestyle changes, the struggle to stay consistent with wellness habits, and the importance of surrounding yourself with positive people who bring out your best.
This conversation is all about embracing good vibes only, giving yourself grace, and learning how prioritizing your own happiness creates a ripple effect for your kids, friends, and relationships. If you’ve been looking for motivation to slow down, reset, and focus on your mental health and personal growth, this one’s for you.
In this episode of Young, Hot & Divorced, Tori opens up about the realities of virtual co-parenting, navigating the ups and downs of staying connected while raising kids across households. She dives into the often complicated relationships with ex in-laws, sharing how these family ties can both challenge and strengthen the parenting journey.
Tori also reflects on stepping into a new romantic relationship while balancing the emotional toll of co-parenting and blended families. From the challenges of creating stability for her children to the joy of embracing new roles and connections, this conversation is raw, relatable, and packed with insights on love, parenting, and emotional well-being after divorce.
In this episode of Young, Hot & Divorced, Tori gets brutally honest about the chaos of solo mom life—forgotten snacks, unpacked boxes, and the nonstop pressure of being both mom and dad. From kindergarten struggles to the weight of doing it all alone, she shares the messy, unfiltered truth of single parenting.
But stay tuned, because there’s a plot twist. After a year and a half of being single, Tori has some big news: she has a boyfriend. Yep, you read that right. Cue the butterflies, the balance, and the late-night smiley texts.
It’s an episode about overwhelm, resilience, and the unexpected good that shows up when you least expect it.
Back-to-school season hits differently when you’re a single mom of "twins". In this episode of Young, Hot & Divorced, Tori opens up about the rollercoaster of sending her boys off to kindergarten. From the mountain of school supplies (seriously, their backpacks weigh more than they do) to navigating co-parenting on milestone days, she shares the messy, emotional, and unexpectedly sweet parts of this transition.
With honesty and humor, Tori dives into the parenting challenges that come with new beginnings: building a supportive environment for her kids, managing her own anxieties, and finding her footing as both mom and co-parent. Whether you’re juggling labels on snacks, feeling the weight of family dynamics, or just trying to keep it together at drop-off, this episode is a reminder that you’re not alone.
In this episode of Young, Hot & Divorced, Tori gets real about her new dating rules, life updates, and the wild stories that come with single mom dating. From married men hitting on her at her go-to restaurant, to navigating the gray area of dating dads who aren’t quite divorced yet, to accidental outdoor hookups (oops!)—nothing is off limits.
Tori shares how her move back to Long Island boosted her confidence, why she’s finally dating more casually, and what it really means to set boundaries as a single mom of two. She dives into dating apps, playdate dilemmas, and why she’s not scared to fall on her face (again).
Whether you’re divorced, dating, or just here for the storytime, this episode is equal parts funny, messy, and relatable.
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In this episode of Young, Hot & Divorced, host Tori Gottlieb sits down with her longtime friend Amanda Pargament—a certified integrative nutrition health coach and brand-new mom—to get real about the postpartum journey. From navigating the physical changes after birth to managing emotional eating, Amanda opens up about her own pregnancy, recovery, and the ongoing balance between motherhood and self-care.
Expect candid conversations about body image, breastfeeding realities, and simple, realistic nutrition tips for busy moms. Whether you’re a new parent, preparing for postpartum life, or just craving an honest look at health and wellness after baby, this episode delivers both relatable stories and practical advice you can use right now.
Divorce isn’t just paperwork — it’s an emotional rollercoaster. 💔
In this episode of Young, Hot & Divorced, Tori takes you inside the legal process of divorce, sharing unfiltered stories from her two divorces — from getting served while juggling parenting duties to learning the hard way why handshake deals don’t cut it.
She opens up about the emotional toll divorce can take, especially as a single mom navigating child support, co-parenting, and self-advocacy. With humor, honesty, and a little bit of sass, Tori offers relationship advice and insights to help you make clearer decisions, protect yourself legally, and feel empowered during one of life’s hardest transitions.
Whether you’re in the middle of a split, supporting a friend, or just curious about what really happens behind the scenes, this episode is a reminder that your story matters — and you’re not alone.
💌 Let’s keep the conversation going — share your story and connect with a community of women who get it.
In this episode of Young, Hot & Divorced, Tori Gottlieb spills all the tea on her first post-divorce romance — a whirlwind rebound with a gorgeous Frenchman. From late-night beach dates in Miami to champagne and heartbreak in Paris, Tori shares the red flags, the butterflies, and the very real moment she realized she caught feelings.
If you've ever jumped back into dating too soon — or too hot — this one’s for you.
💋 We talk:
– Rebounding after divorce
– Dating European men (ooh la la)
– Emotional rollercoasters and real growth
– Why Paris will never be the same
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In this episode of 'Young, Hot and Divorced', Tori Gottlieb shares her experiences as a single mom, providing life updates and insights into her dating life, particularly focusing on dating older men and single dads. She shares humorous anecdotes from her dating experiences, discusses the challenges and joys of being a single parent, and emphasizes the importance of community and connection in her journey.
In this personal Q&A episode of Young, Hot & Divorced, Tori answers your most raw and real questions about her journey through pregnancy, miscarriage, and life as a NICU mom.
From the shocking differences between her first and second pregnancies, to surviving hyperemesis, dealing with stretch marks and body changes, navigating the heartbreak of infertility and hysterectomy, and the rollercoaster that comes with having a baby in the NICU during a pandemic—nothing is off limits.
Tori shares what helped her break the silence around TTC struggles, why shame doesn’t belong in this conversation, and the tough truths about how these experiences impacted her relationships. Whether you’re trying to conceive, healing from loss, or just curious about what really happens behind the Instagram highlight reel, this episode is for you.
💌 Trigger warning: This episode discusses miscarriage, infertility, and NICU experiences.
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In this heartfelt episode of "Young, Hot & Divorced," host Tori Gottlieb opens up about her deeply personal journey through relationships, pregnancy, and the unexpected challenges of trying to conceive. From the excitement of early pregnancy to the heartbreak of miscarriage and the complexities of navigating motherhood during a pandemic, Tori shares her story with raw honesty and vulnerability. Join her as she reflects on the lessons learned and the resilience found in the face of life's unpredictable twists. This episode is a testament to the strength and courage it takes to embrace life's uncertainties. #YoungHotAndDivorced #MotherhoodJourney #Resilience
In this episode of "Young, Hot and Divorced," host Tori Gottlieb dives into the complexities of dating after divorce, sharing personal stories and insights on building a supportive community. Tori candidly discusses the courage it takes to leave a relationship and the journey of self-discovery that follows. Whether you're navigating a breakup or simply curious about life post-divorce, this episode offers a raw and authentic perspective. Tune in for an engaging conversation that resonates with anyone seeking connection and understanding.
divorce, dating, relationships, community, personal growth, motherhood, emotional health, self-discovery, dating after divorce, surrogacy
Welcome to the first episode of Young, Hot, and Divorced ! I’m Tori Gottlieb—twice married, twice divorced, mom of two, and clearly not one to keep quiet about it.
No scripts. No oversharing. No ex-bashing. Just me showing up messy and honest—hoping it gives you permission to do the same. Let's get into it!