Wedding planning doesn’t have to feel stressful or all-consuming. In this episode of Your Wedding Unlimited, Abby Lynch shares her top 10 tips for planning your wedding with more confidence, clarity, and calm.

From mindset and budgeting to timelines and communication, this episode is designed to help you enjoy the planning process and create a wedding day that truly reflects you and your love story.

In this episode, Abby covers:

• Mindset and avoiding comparison
• Choosing clear priorities
• Budgeting to reduce stress
• Taking breaks and asking for help
• Silencing unwanted opinions
• Choosing your own traditions
• Adding buffer time to your timeline
• Communicating clearly throughout planning

Download the free traditions checklist!

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What to listen to next:

Wedding drama: Navigating Family Expectations and Tricky Family Members - https://open.spotify.com/episode/5AUkN5ATuo0JhQeWTtK8lD?si=5bda0caf6acc47c8

Can a Village Hall Really be a Luxury Wedding Venue? - https://open.spotify.com/episode/1RB53Kqq3ytcQk1a1Fm7UK?si=97a4b6cd40114fb3

What if Your Dream Wedding is Out of Budget? - https://open.spotify.com/episode/1D8P0w1ovJ3VDnxjJRTHds?si=86cda5cdda7d4735

Planning Without Pressure: Avoiding the Comparison Trap - https://open.spotify.com/episode/0tjbVAIe8aqKFRez0vAmow?si=8162b294ca9d46d6

The Perfect Wedding Timeline - How to Plan a Smooth Wedding Day - https://open.spotify.com/episode/1QzsQw8cSqY1Gcnm3nlS2d?si=9e48d59b0edb488f

How to Set Your Wedding Budget - and Stick to it! - https://open.spotify.com/episode/0bKCK4dg3Jk9QwIZGCW2ok?si=84bff91128f34a3c

Reinventing Tradition: Making Your Wedding Day Your Own - https://open.spotify.com/episode/06CvcdadwSMuK6iTSP4oFq?si=0fac508c6e834047

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In this special 1st anniversary episode of Your Wedding Unlimited, Abby celebrates one year of the podcast by answering real wedding planning questions submitted by listeners. From creating a clear and stress-free day plan, to navigating anxiety in the final countdown, budgeting realities, guest gifting etiquette, inclusivity in wedding inspiration, and the personal story behind Abby’s love for weddings - this episode is honest, reassuring, and packed with practical advice for couples at every stage of planning.

In this episode, Abby covers:

• How to create a wedding day plan that actually works, including what timings to include, who needs to be involved, and how detailed is too detailed
• Practical tips for managing anxiety in the two-month countdown and trusting that everything will come together
• The etiquette around gifting cash at weddings and what’s considered appropriate if a couple has requested money
• Why so much wedding inspiration is still aimed at brides, and how same-sex couples can find (and create) inclusive, meaningful inspiration
• Why wedding meals are often served at “strange” times and how timings are structured around logistics, not just hunger
• Honest thoughts on budgeting when money feels tight and costs seem to double as soon as the word “wedding” is added
• The personal story behind what made Abby fall in love with weddings and why she still feels passionate about them today

Resources & Mentions

Creating the perfect wedding timeline: https://open.spotify.com/episode/1QzsQw8cSqY1Gcnm3nlS2d?si=df9276d786c74bb6

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In this episode of Your Wedding Unlimited, Abby Lynch explores how couples can embrace the beauty of a winter wedding without leaning into overly Christmas-themed styling. She shares how to create a warm, elegant atmosphere using thoughtful colour palettes, texture, lighting, and seasonal details, while keeping the day personal and timeless.

This episode is perfect for couples planning a winter wedding who want it to feel festive, cosy, and luxurious - without the tinsel.

In this episode, Abby covers:

• Why winter weddings are often overlooked but can be incredibly special
• What “festive” really means when it comes to wedding styling
• Choosing winter colour palettes that feel seasonal, not Christmassy
• Using texture and lighting to create warmth and atmosphere
• Elegant winter florals and foliage ideas
• Festive food and drink ideas without a Christmas theme
• How to prioritise guest comfort during colder months
• Making your wedding personal rather than seasonal

Listen to more:

Listen to this if your wedding is in 2026: https://open.spotify.com/episode/47KO6H2TiQfs73j6uk7O2V?si=b10ff180487a41ac

The perfect wedding timeline: https://open.spotify.com/episode/1QzsQw8cSqY1Gcnm3nlS2d?si=bcaac723d871424d

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If you’ve found yourself thinking “Oh my god… we’re getting married THIS year”, this episode is for you.

As we head into the end of 2025, many 2026 couples are feeling that emotional shift — excitement, nerves, pressure, and a sudden sense that everything needs to be done right now. In this episode, I’m walking you through what actually matters at this stage, what you should be prioritising as the year turns, and what can absolutely wait.

This episode is designed to calm your nerves, give you clarity, and help you step into your wedding year feeling prepared rather than overwhelmed.

In this episode, Abby covers:

• Why this moment feels so emotional - and why that’s completely normal
• What you ideally should have done already (and reassurance if you haven’t)
• What to prioritise in the first few months of 2026
• Key January and February wedding planning tasks
• The admin and logistics couples often forget about at this stage
• What does not need to be decided yet
• How to manage overwhelm, comparison, and family pressure
• How to mentally shift into “our wedding year” mode
• What future-you will be grateful you sorted early

Whether you’re feeling calm, excited, nervous, or all three at once - this episode will help you focus on the right things and head into 2026 with confidence.

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Listen to more:

Avoiding comparison: https://open.spotify.com/episode/0tjbVAIe8aqKFRez0vAmow?si=ccc22f08ec42498f

Navigating family expectations: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5AUkN5ATuo0JhQeWTtK8lD?si=f70857bbb88148bd

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In this episode of the Your Wedding Unlimited podcast, Abby Lynch explores the importance of repurposing your wedding décor to enhance sustainability, maximise your budget, and create a beautifully cohesive wedding day. She highlights how thoughtful choices, especially when it comes to florals, can make a big difference to both the look and cost of your celebration.

Abby shares practical steps for planning décor transitions, assigning tasks, and getting creative with how pieces are used in multiple parts of the day. She also encourages couples to think about how DIY or personal décor items can become meaningful additions to their home after the wedding.

This episode is perfect for couples wanting to get the most out of their investments while reducing waste and elevating their overall wedding experience.

Key Takeaways

• Repurposing décor is a sustainable choice
• Maximising the use of décor pieces saves money
• Cohesive styling improves the overall guest experience
• Flowers should be reused wherever possible
• Assigning décor-movement tasks is essential
• Consider using décor across multiple parts of the day
• DIY décor can be repurposed at home post-wedding
• Intentional choices lead to better outcomes
• Creativity helps décor work harder
• Planning ahead reduces waste and increases impact

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In this conversation, Abby explores the growing pressure couples feel to share every part of their wedding journey online. From the expectation to post engagement photos immediately, to curating the ‘perfect’ wedding day for social media, Abby discusses why this pressure exists and how couples can step back from it. She highlights the importance of authenticity, personal values, and protecting the meaningful moments that truly matter. This episode is a reminder that your wedding doesn’t need to be perfect for other people - it needs to feel right for you.

In this episode, Abby covers:

• The huge pressure to share everything online.
• How social media expectations can overshadow the excitement of planning.
• Why focusing on what feels right for the couple is essential.
• The reminder that weddings don’t need to be perfect; they need to be meaningful.
• How performing for an audience can detract from the personal experience.
• Why authenticity should come before societal standards.
• Encouraging couples to prioritise their own happiness over external validation.
• The importance of making decisions based on personal values.
• Why the wedding day should be about the couple, not about showcasing perfection.
• How it’s completely okay to step back from the pressure of social media.

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Let’s be honest - wedding planning is never just about picking pretty flowers and booking suppliers. Sometimes, it’s also about keeping the peace between family members, handling strong opinions, and figuring out how to balance what you want with what everyone else expects.

In this episode, Abby talks about navigating those tricky family dynamics with calm, confidence, and kindness - because your wedding should reflect you, not just tradition or pressure.

In this episode, Abby covers:

• Why family expectations can get complicated
• How to set kind but firm boundaries
• Common pressure points and how to handle them
• Communication tips for keeping the peace
• How to stay true to your wedding vision without upsetting everyone

Takeaways:

• You can respect your family and still plan a day that’s truly yours.
• Boundaries are loving - not rude.
• The best weddings balance tradition with authenticity.

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Other Links:

Julie Hermann episode: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3J9yALI49rPtoR54JzqYSD?si=694a76ab2b8945f7

Ellis McGill episode: https://open.spotify.com/episode/7fuIlLOulA6nZDvKZ244D6?si=5bb19997ccb94301

How To Plan For Your Wedding (Ep 1): https://open.spotify.com/episode/18L6XYfPric4jRhfc3UOFY?si=184b7b17b2b741b2

Download the FREE Wedding Traditions Checklist: https://eleganceunlimited.co.uk/download-your-checklist/

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Bridesmaids are such an important part of your wedding journey - but what are they actually supposed to do? In this episode, Abby shares her advice on what the bridesmaid role truly means, the kind of support that makes a difference, and how brides and bridesmaids can avoid the common misunderstandings that cause stress.

In this episode, Abby covers:

• What being a bridesmaid really means
• Wedding planning and process duties
• How bridesmaids can help on the wedding day
• Tips for brides on setting clear expectations
• Tips for bridesmaids on how to support their friend
• Finding balance and communicating clearly

Takeaways:

• Being a bridesmaid is an honour, not an obligation.
• Every bride is different - some need more support than others.
• Communication is everything; clarity prevents conflict.
• Brides should be realistic and understanding of everyone’s lives.
• Bridesmaids should be proactive, positive, and present.
• The goal? To enjoy the experience together and strengthen your friendship along the way.

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In this episode, Abby dives into one of the most underrated parts of your wedding styling - your signage! From welcome boards to seating plans, signs help your day flow smoothly and tie everything together visually. Abby shares what signs you actually need, how to create cohesion, where to get creative, and why your signage deserves more than a last-minute thought.

In this episode, Abby covers:

• The essential types of signage you might want for your day
• How to keep everything consistent with your colours, fonts, and theme
• Creative ways to display and personalise your signs
• Why intention matters more than quantity
• Tips for handling your seating plan (and why it’s okay if it changes!)
• The importance of assigning someone to manage setup and movement

Takeaways:

• Signage should elevate your styling and support your day’s flow.
• Keep it consistent, clear, and personal.
• Plan early - it’s not a last-minute task!
• Your signage is the voice of your wedding - match it to your vibe and let it tell your love story.

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In this episode of Your Wedding Unlimited, Abby Lynch chats with Julie Hermann, a wedding and family photographer originally from France, about the art of creating a personal and relaxed photography experience. They explore how genuine connection, flexibility, and communication help capture truly meaningful moments. Julie also shares the key differences between French and UK weddings, and why breaking away from tradition can lead to celebrations that feel far more authentic and personal.

In this episode, Abby covers:

• Building trust and comfort between couples and photographers
• How a friendly, supportive approach creates natural photos
• The biggest differences between French and UK wedding traditions
• Why personalisation and communication make planning smoother
• How changing laws could bring more flexibility to UK wedding ceremonies

Takeaways:

• Connection is at the heart of authentic photography
• Personal touches make each wedding feel unique
• Communication and coordination are key to a stress-free day
• Don’t be afraid to adapt or skip traditions
• A relaxed, personal approach always leads to better memories

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Your wedding morning sets the tone for the whole day - so it’s worth getting it right! In this episode, Abby shares planner-approved tips to help your morning feel calm, organised, and full of joy. From prep the day before, to timing, delegation, mindset, and even music, you’ll get everything you need to make sure your wedding morning is as relaxing as possible.

In this episode, Abby covers:

• Why a peaceful wedding morning matters and how your energy carries through the day
• How to prep ahead of time - what to do, what to avoid leaving to the last minute
• Setting the scene on the morning itself and overriding chaos with calm
• Eating, drinking, and planning time for everything (hair, makeup, photos, getting dressed)
• Delegation - who does what so you don’t have to stress
• Music and vibes - setting the right energy for your morning
• Mindset and mindfulness - how to start your day calm, happy, and present
• Planner tips - emergency kit essentials, space organisation, timing, and avoiding stress

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In this episode of the Your Wedding Unlimited podcast, Abby Lynch shares an in-depth behind-the-scenes look at the life of a wedding planner. Fresh from planning and coordinating a recent celebration, Abby walks you through the busy week leading up to a wedding, the big day itself, and the reflective moments that follow.

She discusses the importance of clear communication, collaboration with suppliers, and practising self-care amidst the chaos. Abby also opens up about the emotional, rewarding side of wedding planning - and the lessons learned from each unique celebration.

Whether you’re planning your own wedding or just curious about what really happens behind the scenes, this episode gives an honest, heartfelt glimpse into the world of professional wedding planning in the UK.

✨ In this episode, Abby covers:

• The busy and sometimes chaotic week leading up to a wedding
• Why communication with couples is absolutely crucial
• The role of self-care in helping planners perform at their best
• What really happens behind the scenes on a wedding day
• How to handle unexpected challenges and make quick decisions
• Why trusting suppliers is essential for a smooth experience
• The unseen prep work that brings every detail together
• How collaboration with vendors enhances the wedding day
• Post-wedding reflections and how they shape future plans
• Finding balance between work life and personal wellbeing

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In this episode of the Your Wedding Unlimited podcast, Abby Lynch breaks down one of the most important (but often confusing!) parts of wedding planning - your venue contract.

Your wedding venue is usually your biggest booking, and with that comes a lot of fine print. Abby explains what to look out for, the common hidden costs couples miss, and how to make sure your contract truly protects you. From access times and setup arrangements to catering policies, minimum spends, and decor restrictions, this episode helps you feel confident and in control before you sign on the dotted line.

Whether you’re planning a countryside barn wedding, a modern city celebration, or a coastal marquee, this is essential listening for any couple booking a wedding venue in the UK.

💡 In this episode, Abby covers:

• Why your venue contract is the foundation of your whole wedding

• What’s typically included (and what’s not) in venue hire fees

• The hidden fees that can quickly impact your budget

• Understanding minimum spend requirements

• Checking access times and setup arrangements

• Navigating catering and alcohol policies

• Knowing your venue’s restrictions on décor, candles, and music

• Why verbal agreements aren’t enough - always get it in writing

• Red flags to watch out for before signing anything

• How to make sure your contract protects you, not just the venue

📝 Key takeaways:

• Your venue is typically your biggest booking

• Always clarify what’s included in the venue cost

• Hidden fees can significantly impact your budget

• Understand minimum spend requirements

• Check access times and setup arrangements

• Ask about catering policies and flexibility

• Know the restrictions on décor and music

• Don’t rely on verbal promises - get everything in writing

• Be cautious of red flags in venue contracts

• Your contract should protect both you and the venue

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When you think of a village hall wedding, do you picture plastic chairs and strip lighting? Let’s reframe that. A village hall doesn’t have to mean “low budget” or “basic.” With intentional styling, the right suppliers, and a creative vision, it can become the luxury wedding space of your dreams.

In this episode, I’m diving into how to elevate a simple community space into a truly magical wedding venue. Whether you’re looking to save on venue costs, have more flexibility, or simply love the idea of creating a one-of-a-kind celebration, this episode is packed with ideas and inspiration.

In this episode, Abby covers:

🌸 Reframing the idea of village hall weddings

⚠️ Caveats and considerations before you book

💍 The benefits of choosing a village hall for your wedding

✨ Transforming the space with styling, lighting, and focal décor

💷 Splurge vs save: where to invest and where you can DIY

🍸 Elevating guest experience with catering, bars, and entertainment

📊 Realistic planning and budgeting tips

Final Thoughts

A village hall might not come with the bells and whistles of a traditional wedding venue, but that doesn’t mean it can’t be luxury. With a creative vision and the right professionals by your side, you can absolutely transform a humble space into a breathtaking setting for your big day.

Would you go for a village hall wedding? I’d love to know!

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Choosing a wedding planner is about so much more than ticking a box on your to-do list. You’re not just booking a package — you’re choosing a person to guide you through the planning process, support your vision, and be by your side on the most important day of your life. In this episode, I’m sharing the key questions you should ask when choosing your planner, what actually matters, and a few red flags to watch out for.

In this episode, Abby covers:

💭 Why it’s about more than just choosing a package within your budget

🔎 The research to do before you book a call

📋 Questions to ask about their process and communication

💡 How to focus on what’s important to you

❓ Extra helpful questions about budget, suppliers, and on-the-day support

🚩 What isn’t as important as people make it seem

⚠️ Red flags to watch out for when meeting planners

💕 Reassurance that you’ll know when the fit is right

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Today we’re diving into one of the trickiest and most awkward wedding dilemmas: can you actually uninvite someone from your wedding?

It’s not something couples plan for when they first make their guest list, but sometimes circumstances change — and whether it’s a budget squeeze, family drama, or just realising you invited someone out of obligation, you might find yourself wondering if you can take an invitation back.

In this episode, I’m breaking down the why, the how, and the alternatives so you feel confident about putting your happiness first.

In this episode, Abby covers:

🌸 Reasons you might consider uninviting someone

⚖️ Whether it’s “allowed” and how modern etiquette views it

🛠️ Practical tips for handling the conversation kindly

🙌 How to manage guilt and emotional fallout

🌿 Alternatives to uninviting that still protect your boundaries

📝 Guest list strategies to avoid this situation in the first place

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Traditionally, speeches have always followed the wedding breakfast, but that doesn’t mean you have to stick to that! In this episode, I’ll share why timing matters, different options for when speeches can happen, and some practical tips to make them flow smoothly into your day.

In this episode, Abby covers:

💍 The tradition of speeches after the wedding breakfast (and why it can be stressful for speakers)

🕒 Why timing matters and how it affects the flow of your day

🍾 Alternative timings — during your ceremony, drinks reception, staggered throughout, or even in the evening

🙅‍♀️ Why it’s okay to have no speeches at all

📝 How to decide what works best for your vision, nerves, and guest experience

🎤 Extra tips for making speeches impactful (and not painfully long!)

Speeches are such a lovely part of a wedding day — with a little thought and intention, they can really elevate the atmosphere and create beautiful memories.

✨ I want to know — when are you doing speeches on your wedding day?

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It’s so easy to get swept up in Pinterest boards, TikToks, and styled shoots – suddenly your “dream wedding” feels more like a shopping list than a celebration of love 💕. But what if you realise the wedding vision in your head is out of budget? Don’t panic – this episode is here to help.

As a UK wedding planner based in Dorset, I’ve supported couples with budgets big and small, and I know how to reframe your dream wedding so it still feels personal, magical, and totally you – without overspending. Whether you’re planning a UK countryside celebration or an intimate Dorset wedding, these tips will help you focus on what truly matters.

In this episode, Abby covers:

💭 Why it’s normal to feel like your dream wedding is slipping out of budget

🌸 How to reframe your “dream” and pinpoint the elements that matter most

📌 Prioritising details that tell your love story without trying to do it all

💷 The importance of knowing your wedding budget inside and out (and keeping a backup fund!)

🌿 Creative alternatives – from venues and outfits to décor hacks and guest lists

🏰 What to do if your dream venue feels out of reach (and how styling can transform a space)

🧘 Mindset shifts that remind you your day is about love, not perfection

Your wedding will always be what you make it – and with the right mindset and priorities, even a smaller budget won’t stop you from having the day of your dreams. If you’re planning a UK wedding and feeling overwhelmed by costs, this episode is packed with practical advice to help you feel back in control.

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In this episode of Your Wedding Unlimited, Abby chats with celebrant Ellis McGill about how celebrants bring couples’ love stories to life through personalised wedding ceremonies. They explore the freedom of stepping away from rigid traditions, the importance of managing family expectations, and why the ceremony is the true heart of the wedding day.

In this episode, Abby and Ellis cover:

• The difference between celebrants and registrars
• How to create a ceremony that reflects your values and personality
• Why building a rapport with your celebrant is so important
• Ways celebrants help couples manage family dynamics
• Adding unique touches like music, children, pets, and personal vows
• Why love should always be at the centre of your wedding decisions

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Website - https://www.weddingswithellis.co.uk/ 

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Email address - weddingswithellis@gmail.com

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There’s still a lot of mystery around what a wedding planner actually does—and it’s no surprise when there are so many roles that sound similar: venue coordinators, wedding coordinators, event planners… it’s easy to get confused.

In this episode, I walk you through the full process of what it looks like to work with a wedding planner (me!), from that very first enquiry, through planning, the big day itself, and even what happens after the wedding.

Whether you’re undecided about hiring a planner or just curious what we actually do, this one’s for you!

In this episode, Abby covers:

💌 What happens when you first enquire

📝 What the planning process really involves

📊 Budget support and supplier research

📋 How she runs your day from behind the scenes

💖 What support looks like after the wedding too

If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Do I really need a wedding planner?”—this episode might just shift your perspective.

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