Let’s be honest - wedding planning is never just about picking pretty flowers and booking suppliers. Sometimes, it’s also about keeping the peace between family members, handling strong opinions, and figuring out how to balance what you want with what everyone else expects.

In this episode, Abby talks about navigating those tricky family dynamics with calm, confidence, and kindness - because your wedding should reflect you, not just tradition or pressure.

In this episode, Abby covers:

• Why family expectations can get complicated
• How to set kind but firm boundaries
• Common pressure points and how to handle them
• Communication tips for keeping the peace
• How to stay true to your wedding vision without upsetting everyone

Takeaways:

• You can respect your family and still plan a day that’s truly yours.
• Boundaries are loving - not rude.
• The best weddings balance tradition with authenticity.

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Julie Hermann episode: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3J9yALI49rPtoR54JzqYSD?si=694a76ab2b8945f7

Ellis McGill episode: https://open.spotify.com/episode/7fuIlLOulA6nZDvKZ244D6?si=5bb19997ccb94301

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Bridesmaids are such an important part of your wedding journey - but what are they actually supposed to do? In this episode, Abby shares her advice on what the bridesmaid role truly means, the kind of support that makes a difference, and how brides and bridesmaids can avoid the common misunderstandings that cause stress.

In this episode, Abby covers:

• What being a bridesmaid really means
• Wedding planning and process duties
• How bridesmaids can help on the wedding day
• Tips for brides on setting clear expectations
• Tips for bridesmaids on how to support their friend
• Finding balance and communicating clearly

Takeaways:

• Being a bridesmaid is an honour, not an obligation.
• Every bride is different - some need more support than others.
• Communication is everything; clarity prevents conflict.
• Brides should be realistic and understanding of everyone’s lives.
• Bridesmaids should be proactive, positive, and present.
• The goal? To enjoy the experience together and strengthen your friendship along the way.

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In this episode, Abby dives into one of the most underrated parts of your wedding styling - your signage! From welcome boards to seating plans, signs help your day flow smoothly and tie everything together visually. Abby shares what signs you actually need, how to create cohesion, where to get creative, and why your signage deserves more than a last-minute thought.

In this episode, Abby covers:

• The essential types of signage you might want for your day
• How to keep everything consistent with your colours, fonts, and theme
• Creative ways to display and personalise your signs
• Why intention matters more than quantity
• Tips for handling your seating plan (and why it’s okay if it changes!)
• The importance of assigning someone to manage setup and movement

Takeaways:

• Signage should elevate your styling and support your day’s flow.
• Keep it consistent, clear, and personal.
• Plan early - it’s not a last-minute task!
• Your signage is the voice of your wedding - match it to your vibe and let it tell your love story.

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In this episode of Your Wedding Unlimited, Abby Lynch chats with Julie Hermann, a wedding and family photographer originally from France, about the art of creating a personal and relaxed photography experience. They explore how genuine connection, flexibility, and communication help capture truly meaningful moments. Julie also shares the key differences between French and UK weddings, and why breaking away from tradition can lead to celebrations that feel far more authentic and personal.

In this episode, Abby covers:

• Building trust and comfort between couples and photographers
• How a friendly, supportive approach creates natural photos
• The biggest differences between French and UK wedding traditions
• Why personalisation and communication make planning smoother
• How changing laws could bring more flexibility to UK wedding ceremonies

Takeaways:

• Connection is at the heart of authentic photography
• Personal touches make each wedding feel unique
• Communication and coordination are key to a stress-free day
• Don’t be afraid to adapt or skip traditions
• A relaxed, personal approach always leads to better memories

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Your wedding morning sets the tone for the whole day - so it’s worth getting it right! In this episode, Abby shares planner-approved tips to help your morning feel calm, organised, and full of joy. From prep the day before, to timing, delegation, mindset, and even music, you’ll get everything you need to make sure your wedding morning is as relaxing as possible.

In this episode, Abby covers:

• Why a peaceful wedding morning matters and how your energy carries through the day
• How to prep ahead of time - what to do, what to avoid leaving to the last minute
• Setting the scene on the morning itself and overriding chaos with calm
• Eating, drinking, and planning time for everything (hair, makeup, photos, getting dressed)
• Delegation - who does what so you don’t have to stress
• Music and vibes - setting the right energy for your morning
• Mindset and mindfulness - how to start your day calm, happy, and present
• Planner tips - emergency kit essentials, space organisation, timing, and avoiding stress

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In this episode of the Your Wedding Unlimited podcast, Abby Lynch shares an in-depth behind-the-scenes look at the life of a wedding planner. Fresh from planning and coordinating a recent celebration, Abby walks you through the busy week leading up to a wedding, the big day itself, and the reflective moments that follow.

She discusses the importance of clear communication, collaboration with suppliers, and practising self-care amidst the chaos. Abby also opens up about the emotional, rewarding side of wedding planning - and the lessons learned from each unique celebration.

Whether you’re planning your own wedding or just curious about what really happens behind the scenes, this episode gives an honest, heartfelt glimpse into the world of professional wedding planning in the UK.

✨ In this episode, Abby covers:

• The busy and sometimes chaotic week leading up to a wedding
• Why communication with couples is absolutely crucial
• The role of self-care in helping planners perform at their best
• What really happens behind the scenes on a wedding day
• How to handle unexpected challenges and make quick decisions
• Why trusting suppliers is essential for a smooth experience
• The unseen prep work that brings every detail together
• How collaboration with vendors enhances the wedding day
• Post-wedding reflections and how they shape future plans
• Finding balance between work life and personal wellbeing

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In this episode of the Your Wedding Unlimited podcast, Abby Lynch breaks down one of the most important (but often confusing!) parts of wedding planning - your venue contract.

Your wedding venue is usually your biggest booking, and with that comes a lot of fine print. Abby explains what to look out for, the common hidden costs couples miss, and how to make sure your contract truly protects you. From access times and setup arrangements to catering policies, minimum spends, and decor restrictions, this episode helps you feel confident and in control before you sign on the dotted line.

Whether you’re planning a countryside barn wedding, a modern city celebration, or a coastal marquee, this is essential listening for any couple booking a wedding venue in the UK.

💡 In this episode, Abby covers:

• Why your venue contract is the foundation of your whole wedding

• What’s typically included (and what’s not) in venue hire fees

• The hidden fees that can quickly impact your budget

• Understanding minimum spend requirements

• Checking access times and setup arrangements

• Navigating catering and alcohol policies

• Knowing your venue’s restrictions on décor, candles, and music

• Why verbal agreements aren’t enough - always get it in writing

• Red flags to watch out for before signing anything

• How to make sure your contract protects you, not just the venue

📝 Key takeaways:

• Your venue is typically your biggest booking

• Always clarify what’s included in the venue cost

• Hidden fees can significantly impact your budget

• Understand minimum spend requirements

• Check access times and setup arrangements

• Ask about catering policies and flexibility

• Know the restrictions on décor and music

• Don’t rely on verbal promises - get everything in writing

• Be cautious of red flags in venue contracts

• Your contract should protect both you and the venue

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When you think of a village hall wedding, do you picture plastic chairs and strip lighting? Let’s reframe that. A village hall doesn’t have to mean “low budget” or “basic.” With intentional styling, the right suppliers, and a creative vision, it can become the luxury wedding space of your dreams.

In this episode, I’m diving into how to elevate a simple community space into a truly magical wedding venue. Whether you’re looking to save on venue costs, have more flexibility, or simply love the idea of creating a one-of-a-kind celebration, this episode is packed with ideas and inspiration.

In this episode, Abby covers:

🌸 Reframing the idea of village hall weddings

⚠️ Caveats and considerations before you book

💍 The benefits of choosing a village hall for your wedding

✨ Transforming the space with styling, lighting, and focal décor

💷 Splurge vs save: where to invest and where you can DIY

🍸 Elevating guest experience with catering, bars, and entertainment

📊 Realistic planning and budgeting tips

Final Thoughts

A village hall might not come with the bells and whistles of a traditional wedding venue, but that doesn’t mean it can’t be luxury. With a creative vision and the right professionals by your side, you can absolutely transform a humble space into a breathtaking setting for your big day.

Would you go for a village hall wedding? I’d love to know!

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Choosing a wedding planner is about so much more than ticking a box on your to-do list. You’re not just booking a package — you’re choosing a person to guide you through the planning process, support your vision, and be by your side on the most important day of your life. In this episode, I’m sharing the key questions you should ask when choosing your planner, what actually matters, and a few red flags to watch out for.

In this episode, Abby covers:

💭 Why it’s about more than just choosing a package within your budget

🔎 The research to do before you book a call

📋 Questions to ask about their process and communication

💡 How to focus on what’s important to you

❓ Extra helpful questions about budget, suppliers, and on-the-day support

🚩 What isn’t as important as people make it seem

⚠️ Red flags to watch out for when meeting planners

💕 Reassurance that you’ll know when the fit is right

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Today we’re diving into one of the trickiest and most awkward wedding dilemmas: can you actually uninvite someone from your wedding?

It’s not something couples plan for when they first make their guest list, but sometimes circumstances change — and whether it’s a budget squeeze, family drama, or just realising you invited someone out of obligation, you might find yourself wondering if you can take an invitation back.

In this episode, I’m breaking down the why, the how, and the alternatives so you feel confident about putting your happiness first.

In this episode, Abby covers:

🌸 Reasons you might consider uninviting someone

⚖️ Whether it’s “allowed” and how modern etiquette views it

🛠️ Practical tips for handling the conversation kindly

🙌 How to manage guilt and emotional fallout

🌿 Alternatives to uninviting that still protect your boundaries

📝 Guest list strategies to avoid this situation in the first place

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Traditionally, speeches have always followed the wedding breakfast, but that doesn’t mean you have to stick to that! In this episode, I’ll share why timing matters, different options for when speeches can happen, and some practical tips to make them flow smoothly into your day.

In this episode, Abby covers:

💍 The tradition of speeches after the wedding breakfast (and why it can be stressful for speakers)

🕒 Why timing matters and how it affects the flow of your day

🍾 Alternative timings — during your ceremony, drinks reception, staggered throughout, or even in the evening

🙅‍♀️ Why it’s okay to have no speeches at all

📝 How to decide what works best for your vision, nerves, and guest experience

🎤 Extra tips for making speeches impactful (and not painfully long!)

Speeches are such a lovely part of a wedding day — with a little thought and intention, they can really elevate the atmosphere and create beautiful memories.

✨ I want to know — when are you doing speeches on your wedding day?

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It’s so easy to get swept up in Pinterest boards, TikToks, and styled shoots – suddenly your “dream wedding” feels more like a shopping list than a celebration of love 💕. But what if you realise the wedding vision in your head is out of budget? Don’t panic – this episode is here to help.

As a UK wedding planner based in Dorset, I’ve supported couples with budgets big and small, and I know how to reframe your dream wedding so it still feels personal, magical, and totally you – without overspending. Whether you’re planning a UK countryside celebration or an intimate Dorset wedding, these tips will help you focus on what truly matters.

In this episode, Abby covers:

💭 Why it’s normal to feel like your dream wedding is slipping out of budget

🌸 How to reframe your “dream” and pinpoint the elements that matter most

📌 Prioritising details that tell your love story without trying to do it all

💷 The importance of knowing your wedding budget inside and out (and keeping a backup fund!)

🌿 Creative alternatives – from venues and outfits to décor hacks and guest lists

🏰 What to do if your dream venue feels out of reach (and how styling can transform a space)

🧘 Mindset shifts that remind you your day is about love, not perfection

Your wedding will always be what you make it – and with the right mindset and priorities, even a smaller budget won’t stop you from having the day of your dreams. If you’re planning a UK wedding and feeling overwhelmed by costs, this episode is packed with practical advice to help you feel back in control.

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In this episode of Your Wedding Unlimited, Abby chats with celebrant Ellis McGill about how celebrants bring couples’ love stories to life through personalised wedding ceremonies. They explore the freedom of stepping away from rigid traditions, the importance of managing family expectations, and why the ceremony is the true heart of the wedding day.

In this episode, Abby and Ellis cover:

• The difference between celebrants and registrars
• How to create a ceremony that reflects your values and personality
• Why building a rapport with your celebrant is so important
• Ways celebrants help couples manage family dynamics
• Adding unique touches like music, children, pets, and personal vows
• Why love should always be at the centre of your wedding decisions

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There’s still a lot of mystery around what a wedding planner actually does—and it’s no surprise when there are so many roles that sound similar: venue coordinators, wedding coordinators, event planners… it’s easy to get confused.

In this episode, I walk you through the full process of what it looks like to work with a wedding planner (me!), from that very first enquiry, through planning, the big day itself, and even what happens after the wedding.

Whether you’re undecided about hiring a planner or just curious what we actually do, this one’s for you!

In this episode, Abby covers:

💌 What happens when you first enquire

📝 What the planning process really involves

📊 Budget support and supplier research

📋 How she runs your day from behind the scenes

💖 What support looks like after the wedding too

If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Do I really need a wedding planner?”—this episode might just shift your perspective.

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Choosing your venue is one of the biggest decisions you will make for your wedding. It’s not just about what the venue looks like – it’s about what it offers behind the scenes too.

There are different types of wedding venues – and today, we’re breaking down the difference between dry hire and full service venues to help you decide what’s right for your day.

In this episode, Abby covers:

🏛️ The difference between dry hire and full service wedding venues

🪵 What’s actually included with dry hire venues (and what’s not!)

🛎️ What you can expect from full service venues

✅ The pros and cons of both venue types

🤔 How to decide which option is right for your wedding

💡 A key reminder if you’re going for a dry hire space

📋 Why confirming exactly what’s included is essential — for any venue

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Your ceremony is done, you're officially married... and then what? The drinks reception is one of the most overlooked parts of a wedding day - but it shouldn't be. This is your first real party moment and the perfect time for guests to relax, connect, and celebrate your love story.

In this episode, I’m sharing how to avoid the awkward “standing around waiting” energy and instead create a drinks reception that flows, feels joyful, and reflects you.

In this episode, Abby covers:

🍹 Why your drinks reception deserves more love

🎶 Ways to create a vibe that feels fun and welcoming

🍕 Food and drink essentials (no one wants hangry guests)

🎨 Creative extras to make it memorable – from live music to tattoo artists

📸 How to balance mingling, photos, and guest experience

💡 Fun twists on tradition like doing speeches or cake-cutting early

What are you planning for your drinks reception?

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Guest outfits might not be the first thing on your planning list — but they can influence the vibe, look, and feel of your day. And when it comes to things like white dresses, practical footwear, or someone wanting to match your bridesmaids... it’s worth thinking about it early.

In this episode, Abby covers:

👗 Whether you can or should ask guests to dress a certain way

🎨 How to use colour palettes to guide outfit choices without being restrictive

🙅‍♀️ Why it’s okay to ask people not to wear white (yes, still!)

💬 What to do when someone wants to match your wedding party

❌ The big “don’ts” when it comes to dress codes

💖 How to make kind outfit suggestions while still holding your vision

Whether you're planning a barefoot beach day or a formal black-tie affair, this episode gives you tips on how to approach outfit requests kindly but clearly — without becoming a wedding dictator 👀

✨ The takeaway? You can have opinions on your guests' outfits... but flexibility, visuals, and thoughtful language go a long way.

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Before you fall in love with the aesthetic or book based on vibes alone, there are a lot of important questions to ask your venue. From what’s actually included in the hire price to noise restrictions and contingency plans - these are the things that can make or break your wedding day behind the scenes.

In this episode of Your Wedding Unlimited, I’m sharing essential questions to ask before you book your wedding venue, especially the ones you might not have even considered yet.

Asking the right questions upfront isn’t being “difficult” - it’s smart, and it saves you from stress (and surprise costs) later down the line.

In this episode, Abby covers:

💭 What’s usually included in your venue hire - and what’s not

📋 Why you need to understand supplier rules and styling restrictions

🕐 Access times, setup allowances, and exclusive-use options

🏡 Venue accommodation and nearby guest options

🧑‍💼 The difference between venue coordinators and planners

🌧️ What to ask about contingency plans (hello, British weather)

🔇 Sound curfews, children, pets, renovations, and more

✨ Remember: your venue is likely the biggest cost in your wedding budget - you deserve to have all the information.

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In this episode, Abby dives into a topic that almost every couple experiences — comparison. With Pinterest boards, wedding TikToks, and well-meaning friends in your ear, it’s easy to feel like your day needs to be bigger, better, or more... but let’s take a breath. Comparison doesn’t just create stress — it actually steals joy from your own, beautiful experience.

In this episode, Abby covers:

💭 Why comparison is so common during wedding planning

📱 How to quiet the noise (including when to log off social media)

🌟 Finding your wow-factor — not someone else's

💬 How to redirect unhelpful conversations with loved ones

🧠 Shifting your mindset back to what really matters

💖 Why pleasing everyone shouldn’t be your goal

Remember: comparison is the thief of joy, and you deserve to enjoy every second of planning this day — your way.

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In Episode 28 of the Your Wedding Unlimited podcast, Abby is here to give you the pep talk (and practical plan) you need if you're feeling behind on your wedding planning. Whether you're genuinely short on time or just overwhelmed by the to-do list, this episode will help you get unstuck and moving forward again - with confidence and calm.

In this episode, Abby covers:

💭 The difference between actually being behind and just feeling like you are

📆 How to assess your current planning progress

📝 What to do if you’ve only got a few months to go and still lots to do

💡 Reasons you might feel behind (like comparison, overwhelm or decision fatigue)

🎯 How to get back on track with checklists, priorities and mini planning sessions

🧠 The importance of resetting your mindset, not just your plans

🤝 Why it's okay (and smart!) to ask for help when you need it

Whether you need to shift gears or just shift your mindset, this episode will help you breathe, reset, and fall back in love with your planning journey. You’ve got this 💕

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