This is Episode 300 of You’re Probably Right, and it is a pause, not a celebration.
This episode is for the people who gave their love, time, energy, and loyalty, only to feel drained, overlooked, or quietly discarded. It is for anyone who stayed too long, over gave, or tried harder when the relationship was already slipping away. Not because they were weak, but because they cared.
In this monologue, MCM speaks directly to the experience of being used, emotionally neglected, or taken for granted, and the damage that does to self worth. It explores how one sided love erodes confidence, why over giving becomes a survival strategy, and how people mistake relief from loneliness for real connection.
This episode is not about blaming the other person, and it is not about self pity. It is about understanding why toxic attachments form, why hope keeps people stuck, and why walking away is sometimes the first real act of self respect.
If you have ever felt like you lost yourself trying to love someone, this episode is a reminder that your kindness was never the problem. Your capacity to love was not a flaw. The lesson is not to love less, but to love with boundaries, clarity, and self respect.
Episode 300 is about healing without bitterness, letting go without guilt, and rebuilding a sense of worth that does not depend on being chosen by someone who could not meet you where you stood.
This episode is for the overlooked.
And for the moment you decide to choose yourself.
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Episode 299
Not Everyone Comes Back When You Finally Realize Their Value
A single sentence went viral and exposed something many people are not prepared to face, realizing someone’s value does not guarantee their return.
This episode examines what people reveal about themselves after loss removes denial. It unpacks regret that arrives too late, the rewriting of personal narratives, the misuse of boundary language, and the uncomfortable difference between missing a person and missing what they provided. It also challenges the popular belief that awareness, apologies, or closure automatically earn second chances.
Rather than assigning blame, this conversation focuses on accountability, psychological self protection, and the stories people tell to preserve identity after relationships end. It explores why reunions often fail, why real change does not require access, and why respecting someone’s absence can be the clearest sign of growth.
This is not a motivational episode. It is a reflective examination of loss, boundaries, and consequence, delivered without moral shortcuts or emotional reassurance.
If this episode makes you uncomfortable, that discomfort is the signal. Something honest landed.
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Dating does not usually hurt people because of betrayal.
It hurts people because of soft warnings they chose to translate into hope.
In this episode of You’re Probably Right Podcast, I break down twenty harsh but necessary truths about modern dating, the kind that do not show up as big dramatic moments, but as small comments, delayed replies, vague language, and mixed signals that slowly drain your energy.
This is not motivation content.
This is clarity.
We talk about what phrases like “I’m not ready for a relationship,” “let’s just vibe,” “I need space,” and “I don’t like labels” actually mean in real life behaviour, not in fantasy. We unpack why niceness without boundaries backfires, why emotional availability is often misunderstood, why people keep others in holding patterns, and why confusion is sometimes a strategy, not an accident.
This episode is for anyone who has felt like they were trying harder than they should, analysing texts, negotiating red flags, or staying longer because things were almost good. It is for people who want honesty over comfort, and self respect over false hope.
If you have ever felt like you were giving full effort while being offered half clarity, this episode is for you.
Listen with an open mind, not to blame anyone, but to stop losing yourself in situations that were never meant to grow.
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Episode 297 – How Do I Find Them?
In a world where proximity doesn’t guarantee connection, how do we actually find someone worth building with? In this solo episode, MCM breaks down the quiet realities behind modern relationships—what “high-value” really means, whether settling is weakness or wisdom, and how changing roles and income gaps are reshaping who ends up with whom.
From workplace crushes to partner standards, this is the kind of talk that might challenge your views—or help you finally make sense of them.
Real, grounded, no hype. Just a conversation that might stick with you.
Some connections never become relationships, but they still manage to take everything out of you.
This episode is a long form, story driven monologue about how certain modern connections form through repeated proximity, familiarity, and access, not clear intention or commitment, and why they so often leave one person steady and intact while the other is left depleted and confused.
This is not a conversation about villains, manipulation, or blame. It is an examination of emotional imbalance, over giving, and what happens when one person quietly becomes the stabilizer in a connection that was never designed to sustain two people equally.
I explore why intimacy can feel real but never accumulate, why generosity often backfires, why clarity never arrives in ambiguous relationships, and why common advice like just communicate or just walk away fails in proximity based situations where disappearance is not simple.
If you have ever felt drained in a situationship, taken for granted emotionally, or unsure why you were the one left holding the weight when nothing was ever defined, this episode will give language to that experience.
This is about emotional regulation in modern relationships, attachment without commitment, and the hidden cost of being the good one.
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There are relationship questions people do not answer out loud. Not because they are dishonest, but because the answers are uncomfortable, complicated, and would force real decisions.
This special Q and A episode is built around twenty questions that expose unhealthy attachment, mixed signals, people pleasing, and the quiet ways people shrink themselves to keep access, peace, or hope alive. These are not surface level questions. They are the ones you answer privately, when nobody is listening, and when you finally stop negotiating with yourself.
If you have ever felt stuck, undervalued, confused, or like you were walking on eggshells in a relationship, this episode helps you separate patterns from hope. It is not about blaming anyone. It is about seeing the mechanics clearly so you can stop repeating the same dynamic in a new form.
This episode is especially for people who overthink texts, replay conversations, tolerate mixed signals, or sense that something is off but keep telling themselves it will get better. The questions are designed to create clarity, not comfort.
Listen slowly. Pause when needed. Answer honestly.
You are not stuck because you are weak. You are stuck because you have been avoiding the truth.
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Unplayable,Why Men Shrink Themselves and Attraction Dies, Episode 294
A lot of men do not lose their relationship all at once, they lose themselvesfirst.
Inthis episode, I break down a pattern that shows up in heterosexualrelationships everywhere. A man starts out confident, funny, grounded, andattractive, then once he gets attached he starts editing himself to keep peaceand keep access. He over gives. He over explains. He swallows conflict. Hebecomes agreeable instead of authentic. And slowly, attraction dies.
Wealso talk about the uncomfortable piece people avoid. In some relationships,warmth, distance, and intimacy become a steering wheel. Not always on purpose,not in every couple, but often enough that many men end up trained to managemoods instead of leading their lives.
Thisis not a men bad, women bad episode. It is a mechanics episode. Men willrecognise how they become playable, meaning steerable by fear, withdrawal, andreward. Women will recognise how a man can start to feel less solid over time,and why that shift changes attraction.
Iclose with a step by step way out, how to rebuild backbone without becomingrude, how to stop walking on eggshells, how to reset respect, and how to becomeunplayable in the healthy sense, like an NPC in a video game, a character withpurpose and a code that cannot be controlled by someone else’s reward andpunishment system.
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Ever ask yourself what are they really in my life for?
Most people are not confused because relationships are unknowable, they are confused because they keep trying to understand behaviour through hope.
Episode 293 is for anyone dealing with mixed signals, hot and cold behaviour, situationships, and anxious attachment. I break down what is happening with three diagnostic lists that force you to look at behaviour side by side, instead of romanticizing, guessing, or replaying messages.
Nothing here is a hard rule. People are complex, context matters, timing matters, and there are always grey areas. But patterns still have a shape, and when you learn to see that shape, you stop losing years.
In this episode you will hear three frameworks
List one, chosen for the long term versus casual and situationship behaviour
List two, boundary crossings that signal real emotional investment and real attachment
List three, what it looks like when chemistry is real, you had closeness before, access was lost, and they want closeness and benefits back without commitment
If you overthink, if you feel stuck decoding signals, this episode is designed to give you clarity without coddling you. The goal is not paranoia, the goal is honesty.
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Episode 292 – I Don’t Want to Lose What I’ve Got
In this one hour monologue, MCM explores a truth many men struggle to admit out loud, the fear of losing what they have often turns them into someone they were never meant to be.
This episode breaks down why men are often most attractive when nothing is on the line, and how relationships change once there is something to lose. From shrinking personalities, managing behaviour, and avoiding conflict, to sex fading and respect quietly eroding, this is a grounded look at what happens when men organise their lives around keeping a relationship instead of standing in themselves.
This is not an episode about rejecting women, marriage, or commitment. It is about understanding why men lose themselves trying to protect access, peace, and intimacy, and why that instinct often backfires.
If you’ve ever felt like you became less yourself just to keep what you had, this episode will resonate.
Recorded as a single uninterrupted reflection, this is a long listen designed for quiet moments, long nights, and honest thinking.
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In Episode 291 of You’re Probably Right, MCM takes a grounded look at how people make sense of their lives when certainty is gone. This episode sits in the quiet space between who we thought we would be and where we actually are, examining how expectations, relationships, and personal responsibility collide over time.
Rather than offering quick answers or loud opinions, this episode slows things down. It explores how people adapt when old frameworks stop working, how internal narratives shape decision making, and why clarity often comes from reflection instead of reaction.
This is a reflective, experience based monologue meant for listeners who are thinking deeply about life, connection, and the choices that shape identity. No trends, no shortcuts, just honest perspective and thoughtful observation.
If you’re questioning where you are, how you got here, or what comes next, this episode meets you there.
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Episode 290
The Unspoken Contract of Giving
What really happens when you give and receive nothing back, not rejection, not conflict, just silence.
In this episode of You’re Probably Right, we unpack the psychology of giving in adult relationships and why unacknowledged effort can feel more painful than being told no. This is not about holidays, birthdays, or special occasions. It is about the everyday reality of giving that happens all year long in dating, marriage, friendships, situationships, and long term connections.
We explore why people give in the first place, including clean generosity, anxious giving, guilt driven giving, image based giving, and the need to quiet one’s conscience. We also look closely at why people receive the way they do, from secure and appreciative responses to avoidance, entitlement, overwhelm, and emotional distance.
This episode breaks down how men and women often interpret giving differently, how social expectations and gender norms shape reactions, and why the same act of generosity can be experienced as care by one person and pressure by another. We discuss male giving to female, female giving to male, and the misunderstandings that arise when effort replaces clarity.
You will hear a deep dive into unspoken transactional dynamics, sometimes called soft sugar arrangements, where generosity exists without labels or agreement, and why ambiguity almost always benefits one person more than the other. We also examine why silence after giving triggers self doubt, rumination, and resentment, even in people who are generally secure and emotionally grounded.
This episode introduces practical ways to assess a dynamic without games or manipulation, including how to pause giving to gather information, how to recognize when generosity has stopped being clean, and how to set boundaries that create respect rather than conflict.
If you have ever wondered why giving left you feeling confused instead of connected, or why appreciation seems to disappear over time, this episode offers language, structure, and perspective to understand what is really happening beneath the surface.
This is a long form, reflective episode about clarity, accountability, and emotional balance in adult relationships.
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In a world of dating apps and endless checklists, are we missing the one thing that truly creates lasting attraction? In this episode of You’re Probably Right, we dive into why presence—not looks, not checkboxes—matters most in finding a lifelong partner.
Join us as we explore how the constant search for the perfect match can overshadow the real key to connection: the ability to be genuinely present. We’ll discuss why modern dating often erodes presence and how focusing on understanding and attention can transform the way we connect.
If you’ve ever felt that dating is just a numbers game that leaves everyone more skeptical and less hopeful, this episode is for you. Let’s redefine attraction by putting presence back at the center.
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Why do grown adults flirt like undercover agents?
Why do people who are interested hide behind innocent comments, mixed messages, and half sentences nobody knows how to decode?
In this episode, we break down thirty real phrases people use when they are secretly attracted to you but too afraid to say it directly. These are the signals in adult dating that most people miss, misunderstand, or blame on “being friendly.”
If you’ve ever wondered whether someone actually likes you, this episode gives you the psychology, the translation, and the reason behind every subtle hint. From “You’re different” to “I don’t want to make things weird” to “Let’s just see where this goes,” we expose the real meaning behind the quiet breadcrumbs people drop when they want connection without risking rejection.
You’ll learn:
• how adults flirt indirectly
• the psychology of ambiguous attraction
• how avoidants send hidden signals
• how men and women misunderstand each other
• how fear of rejection creates breadcrumb flirting
• how to tell when someone likes you but won’t admit it
• how to stop misreading mixed messages
• how emotional safety shapes modern relationships
This episode is perfect for anyone navigating dating in their thirties, forties, or fifties, anyone who missed social cues growing up, anyone healing from past relationships, and anyone trying to understand adult attachment and emotional intelligence.
If someone in your life has been acting “different,” this episode will make everything clear.
🎧 Press play and find out what those signals really mean.
Because if you think someone might like you…
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Why do avoidant partners pull away when things feel close, yet return to the one person who stays steady, grounded, and emotionally light? In this episode of You are Probably Right, MCM breaks down the psychology behind avoidant attachment and the power of relief and controlled presence.
You will learn:
• why avoidants retreat when emotions rise
• why calm confidence creates emotional safety
• how relief lowers their defences and pulls them closer
• what controlled presence looks like in real relationships
• what avoidants respond to and what pushes them away
• how to stay centred without chasing or overgiving
This episode is a clear guide for men and women who want healthier relationships without losing their self respect. If you have ever been confused by mixed signals, silent retreats, or the distance that shows up right when things start feeling real, this one will help you understand the pattern and break it with strength.
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There comes a point where you have to stop asking, “Why are they doing this to me?” and start asking, “Why do I keep allowing it?”
In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM speaks straight to the ones who have given more to one person than they ever have to anyone else – more money, more time, more patience, more emotional support – and got the least in return. You showed up as the best version of yourself, and they responded with crumbs, confusion, and bare minimum effort.
This is not about calling you weak. It is about understanding why you overgive, why you accept disrespect, and why you keep fighting for people who would never fight for you in the same way. We break down what is really going on when you become the permanent giver, and why the real pattern is not just about “takers” – it is about how you see yourself.
In this episode, MCM talks about:
What an unbalanced relationship actually feels like in your body
How childhood roles and people pleasing turn into overgiving in adult relationships
The quiet “deal” you make in your mind when you hope effort will buy loyalty
The emotional cost of overgiving: exhaustion, resentment, and losing yourself
Why respect matters even more than “I love you” in male and female relationships
How takers learn your limits by watching what you allow
Why you have to stop trying to earn love through suffering and sacrifice
Practical steps to rebuild self worth, set real boundaries, and stop trying to fix people with effort
How to start loving yourself without turning cold or bitter
If you have ever wondered, “Would they still be here if I stopped doing everything?” this episode is for you. It is not about blaming you for their behaviour, it is about giving you your power back so your love and your self respect can finally walk together.
In this powerful episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM breaks down one of the most difficult emotional crossroads we face — knowing it’s time to walk away while every part of you still wants to stay. This conversation explores why we hold on, why the heart resists change, and how fear, attachment, hope, and history keep us stuck in places we’ve already outgrown.
You’ll hear a deep, honest look at:
• why your intuition recognises the truth long before your heart accepts it
• how emotional memory and attachment create “false hope loops”
• the difference between love and emotional responsibility
• how avoidance, inconsistency, and anxiety keep you tied to relationships that drain you
• the psychology behind staying too long
• what self-respect sounds like when you finally listen
• the moment the quiet inside you becomes louder than the connection you’re fighting for
If you’ve ever been torn between your feelings and your future, this episode will steady you, ground you, and remind you that letting go is not failure — it’s growth.
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Why does a good man, a man who loves you deeply, still get jealous?
Why does a man who loves you so deeply still get jealous?
This episode explains the quiet insecurity that wakes up in a loving man when you step into situations that make him feel unsure, even when he trusts you. We break down how fear, comparison, and past relationships shape his reactions, and why he sometimes pulls back or watches you more closely. This is an honest, relatable conversation for women who love a good man but still see jealousy show up in unexpected ways. Learn how love, security, and reassurance work together in a real relationship.
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A reflective deep dive into why people distance themselves when you offer consistency, honesty, and emotional presence. This episode explores fear of intimacy, avoidant attachment, nervous system overwhelm, and why some people retreat when love gets real. If you've ever felt someone pull away just as you were ready to love them well, this one is for you.
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What does real love actually look like — not the movie version, but the human version?
In this two-part episode of You’re Probably Right, M.C.M. breaks down 100 powerful ways men and women express love, loyalty, protection, and vulnerability — side by side.
This isn’t just a relationship checklist. It’s a deep dive into the emotional blueprints that shape how we love, what we need, and how we sometimes miss each other even when we care deeply.
Whether you’re trying to understand your partner, heal from love that hurt, or simply learn how men and women connect differently, this conversation will make you think, laugh, and maybe even reflect on your own patterns.
👉 Topics covered include:
How women express emotional safety and connection
How men show love through consistency, reliability, and sacrifice
The subtle signs of true affection vs. performance
Emotional presence, trust, and loyalty in modern relationships
The difference between deserving love and being worthy of it
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What does real love actually look like — not the movie version, but the human version?
In this two-part episode of You’re Probably Right, M.C.M. breaks down 100 powerful ways men and women express love, loyalty, protection, and vulnerability — side by side.
This isn’t just a relationship checklist. It’s a deep dive into the emotional blueprints that shape how we love, what we need, and how we sometimes miss each other even when we care deeply.
Whether you’re trying to understand your partner, heal from love that hurt, or simply learn how men and women connect differently, this conversation will make you think, laugh, and maybe even reflect on your own patterns.
👉 Topics covered include:
How women express emotional safety and connection
How men show love through consistency, reliability, and sacrifice
The subtle signs of true affection vs. performance
Emotional presence, trust, and loyalty in modern relationships
The difference between deserving love and being worthy of it
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