Ever ask yourself what are they really in my life for?
Most people are not confused because relationships are unknowable, they are confused because they keep trying to understand behaviour through hope.
Episode 293 is for anyone dealing with mixed signals, hot and cold behaviour, situationships, and anxious attachment. I break down what is happening with three diagnostic lists that force you to look at behaviour side by side, instead of romanticizing, guessing, or replaying messages.
Nothing here is a hard rule. People are complex, context matters, timing matters, and there are always grey areas. But patterns still have a shape, and when you learn to see that shape, you stop losing years.
In this episode you will hear three frameworks
List one, chosen for the long term versus casual and situationship behaviour
List two, boundary crossings that signal real emotional investment and real attachment
List three, what it looks like when chemistry is real, you had closeness before, access was lost, and they want closeness and benefits back without commitment
If you overthink, if you feel stuck decoding signals, this episode is designed to give you clarity without coddling you. The goal is not paranoia, the goal is honesty.
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Keywords, mixed signals, anxious attachment, hot and cold behaviour, situationship signs, commitment avoidance, emotional unavailability, relationship clarity, chosen vs convenient, patterns vs hope, dating psychology, relationship advice podcast