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Bossing Up: Overcoming OCD
Erin Davis
116 episodes
1 week ago
Do you have thoughts that get stuck, hang around too long, and stress you the heck out? Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder can make you feel broken, desperate, and alone. Sometimes the hardest thing to do is to beat the voice in your own head. This podcast offers expert insight on worry, stress, fear, anxiety and OCD. Licensed clinical mental health therapist and OCD specialist, Erin Davis, will deliver the details in a knowledgeable and compassionate way. Hear the sneaky games OCD likes to play. You’ll get actionable support on this very difficult health diagnosis. If you would like to see if you have Relationship OCD, go to my website www.valuedriventherapy.com to snag your results today!
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Do you have thoughts that get stuck, hang around too long, and stress you the heck out? Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder can make you feel broken, desperate, and alone. Sometimes the hardest thing to do is to beat the voice in your own head. This podcast offers expert insight on worry, stress, fear, anxiety and OCD. Licensed clinical mental health therapist and OCD specialist, Erin Davis, will deliver the details in a knowledgeable and compassionate way. Hear the sneaky games OCD likes to play. You’ll get actionable support on this very difficult health diagnosis. If you would like to see if you have Relationship OCD, go to my website www.valuedriventherapy.com to snag your results today!
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Bossing Up: Overcoming OCD
Real Stories of OCD Struggles: When Your Family Doesn't Understand | Ep 108
Do you feel like you're fighting an invisible battle while the people who love you tell you to "just stop" or "get over it"? In this powerful episode, I read anonymous Facebook posts from people whose families don't understand their struggles—and I want you to know: your struggle is valid, even when others can't see it. 💜 If you've ever felt alone because your loved ones dismiss your fears or tell you you're "playing games," this episode will validate your experience and show you that you're not alone. 🎯 What You'll Discover: The Stay-at-Home Mom Who Can't Play:🔹 Why she can't focus on her kids because of constant cleaning and sanitizing [00:29] 💔🔸 How people say "just don't do the housework" without understanding it's not that easy [00:29]🔹 The meltdowns that happen when she tries to ignore the compulsions [00:29] When Medical Trauma Creates Obsessions:🔸 The woman whose kitten triggered contamination fears she can't control [01:47] 😰🔹 Why she's locked in her room crying while her family doesn't understand [01:47]🔸 How acute medical trauma can create rituals around hand washing and separation [01:47] What Your Family Needs to Know:🔹 Why judgment makes everything worse, not better [02:57] 💔🔸 The difference between attention-seeking and a real struggle [02:57]🔹 How to support someone with OCD without enabling compulsions [04:17] ⏰ Episode Timeline: 00:00 Introduction and Welcome to Part 500:29 Stay-at-Home Mom Struggling with Cleaning Obsessions01:47 Medical Trauma Leading to Contamination OCD02:57 Understanding and Supporting Loved Ones with OCD04:17 Conclusion: Your Struggle is Valid 📖 Key Takeaways: Your struggle is real and valid—it's not attention-seeking or playing games "Just stop" isn't helpful advice when you're dealing with OCD patterns Family members need education about OCD, not just willpower from you You deserve understanding, support, and compassion from people who love you 🔥 GET HELP WHEN YOUR FAMILY DOESN'T UNDERSTAND Tired of feeling dismissed by the people who should support you? My OCD Intensives program helps you break free from the patterns that are controlling your life—even when your family doesn't understand. In just 3 weeks, you'll learn to: Break the cleaning and checking cycles that steal your time Handle contamination fears without locking yourself away Communicate your needs to family members Find relief even when you don't have support at home LIMITED SPOTS! Only ONE person per month. 👉 APPLY NOW 💪 SUPPORT YOUR BODY WHILE YOU HEAL YOUR MIND Constant mental battles are exhausting on your body. I personally use Core Nutritionals supplements to support my mental clarity and energy levels when struggling with difficult patterns. Their science-backed formulations help me stay grounded. Use my code "ERIND" for 15% off your first order. 👉 Shop Core Nutritionals Affiliate link - I earn a small commission at no extra cost to you when you use my code! To the mom who can't stop cleaning: you're not failing your kids. To the person locked in their room because of the kitten: your trauma response makes sense. You all deserve understanding, support, and compassion—especially from people who love you. 💜 #OCD #mentalhealth #contamination #intrusivetoughts #anxiety #parentinganxiety #familysupport #mentalhealthmatters #OCDrecovery Affiliate links may be included, supporting my content at no extra cost to you. This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. DISCLAIMER: https://bit.ly/3ycFiY4
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1 week ago
4 minutes

Bossing Up: Overcoming OCD
When You Feel Hopeless: You Still Belong in This World | Ep 107
Have you been fighting intrusive thoughts for so long that you feel exhausted, isolated, and like you don't belong here anymore? In this deeply emotional episode, I read anonymous Facebook posts from people struggling with debilitating OCD—and I want you to know: you belong in this world, even when it doesn't feel like it. 💜 If you've ever felt like giving up because the intrusive thoughts won't stop, this episode is for you. 🎯 What You'll Discover: The 8-Year Battle:🔹 Real post from someone who's had debilitating OCD for 8 years with no break [00:01:00] 💔🔸 Why constant intrusive thoughts create unbearable exhaustion [00:01:00]🔹 The isolation that comes when OCD takes over your life [00:01:00] When Depression Joins OCD:🔸 The person who plans their death more than their future [00:03:00] 😰🔹 How OCD pairs with depression to create hopelessness [00:03:00]🔸 Why "what's the point?" thoughts become constant companions [00:03:00] Finding Hope in the Darkness:🔹 Why your thoughts aren't facts—even the hopeless ones [00:04:00] ✨🔸 Tiny steps you can take today when everything feels impossible [00:04:00]🔹 Resources available right now if you're in crisis [00:00:00] ⏰ Episode Timeline: 00:00 Content Warning and Crisis Resources01:00 Anonymous Post: 8 Years of Debilitating OCD03:00 When OCD Creates Suicidal Thoughts04:00 Why You Belong Here Despite the Pain05:00 Next Episode Preview and Final Encouragement 📖 Key Takeaways: You're not weak for feeling exhausted after years of fighting OCD Your thoughts aren't facts—even when they feel unbearable Help is available: Call 988 for the suicide crisis lifeline (24/7) Focus on tiny steps and things that bring you meaning 🔥 GET INTENSIVE HELP FOR DEBILITATING OCD Have you been fighting OCD for years with no relief? My OCD Intensives program is designed for people who need results FAST. In just 3 weeks, you'll learn to: Break free from constant intrusive thoughts Find meaning and joy again Build a life beyond OCD's control Get specialized help that actually works LIMITED SPOTS! Only ONE person per month. 👉 APPLY NOW IN CRISIS? CALL 988 - The suicide crisis lifeline is available 24/7. You matter. 💜 💪 SUPPORT YOUR MENTAL HEALTH Managing severe OCD takes energy. I use Core Nutritionals to support my workouts and mental clarity. Use code "ERIND" for 15% off. 👉 Shop Core Nutritionals Affiliate link - I earn a small commission at no extra cost to you! You belong in this world. Your life has value even when you can't see it. 💜 #OCD #mentalhealth #suicideprevention #intrusivetoughts #depression #hope #mentalhealthmatters #988lifeline This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. DISCLAIMER: https://bit.ly/3ycFiY4
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2 weeks ago
4 minutes

Bossing Up: Overcoming OCD
When Brushing Your Teeth Becomes Mental Torture | Ep 106
Have you ever been so scared of something happening that you avoid normal activities like eating an apple or brushing your teeth? In this powerful episode, I share real stories from people whose intrusive thoughts have turned everyday tasks into absolute mental warfare—and reveal why your brain does this and how to break free! 💜 If you've ever felt trapped by fears that seem ridiculous but feel SO real, or if you find yourself doing rituals just to feel "safe," this video will help you understand what's really happening in your mind. 🎯 What You'll Discover: The Teeth Obsession Trap:🔹 Why a 13-year-old couldn't brush her teeth for a week out of fear [00:00] 😰🔸 How hyper-awareness of your teeth, gums, and enamel steals your peace [00:30]🔹 Why she can't eat carrots or apples without panic [01:00] 🥕🍎 When Studying Becomes Punishment:🔸 The student who must repeat lesson titles perfectly or start over [01:09] 📚🔹 Reading exam questions multiple times even when you know the answers [01:30]🔸 How perfectionist study habits turn into self-sabotage and avoidance [02:00] Understanding False Alarms:🔹 Why your brain makes normal activities feel dangerous [02:31] 🧠🔸 How these "protective" rituals actually build MORE anxiety [02:45]🔹 The simple strategy to break free: delay, skip, or decrease [03:00] ✨ ⏰ Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction: The Teeth Obsession That Controlled Her Life00:30 Hyper-Awareness of Teeth, Gums, and Enamel01:00 Too Scared to Eat Carrots or Apples01:09 The Studying Obsession: Repeating Everything Perfectly01:30 Reading Exam Questions Over and Over02:00 When Perfectionism Becomes Self-Sabotage02:31 Understanding False Alarms and OCD Patterns02:45 Why "Protective" Rituals Build More Anxiety03:00 Breaking Free: Delay, Skip, or Decrease Your Rituals03:30 Conclusion: You Can Break This Cycle 🔥 READY TO BREAK FREE FROM INTRUSIVE THOUGHTS? Is your brain turning normal activities into mental torture? My exclusive Intensive Support Program is designed for people who are: Avoiding normal activities because of intrusive fears Doing rituals that temporarily relieve anxiety but make it worse long-term Tired of feeling controlled by thoughts that seem ridiculous but feel SO real Ready to reclaim their life from mental warfare In just 3 weeks, you'll learn to: Recognize false alarms your brain is sending you Stop the rituals that are building more anxiety Handle daily activities without mental battles Live your life without constant fear SPOTS ARE EXTREMELY LIMITED! I only accept ONE person per month into this transformative program. 👉 APPLY NOW 📖 FREE RESOURCES: Struggling with overthinking in your relationships? Download "The Overthinker's Guide to Love":👉 https://livebeyonddoubt.com/overthinkersguidetolove 💪 SUPPORT YOUR MENTAL HEALTH JOURNEY Mental battles are exhausting on your body and mind. I personally use Core Nutritionals supplements to support my mental clarity and focus during challenging moments. Their science-backed formulations help me stay grounded. Use my code "ERIN" for 15% off your first order. 👉 Shop Core Nutritionals Affiliate link - I earn a small commission at no extra cost to you when you use my code! Your teeth won't fall out from eating an apple. You won't fail your exam from reading questions once. These are false alarms—and you can learn to recognize them and break free. You deserve to live without your brain making everything torture! 💜 #intrusivetoughts #OCD #anxiety #mentalhealth #overthinking #perfectionism #studyanxiety #mentalwellness #OCDrecovery #anxietyrelief This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. DISCLAIMER: https://bit.ly/3ycFiY4
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3 weeks ago
3 minutes

Bossing Up: Overcoming OCD
When Garbage Trucks Control Your Life | Ep 105
What if I told you that feeling responsible for everyone's safety, happiness, and wellbeing isn't about being a good person—it's actually a form of mental torture? In this raw episode, I share real stories from people trapped in responsibility OCD, including a woman who hasn't taken out the trash in 8 YEARS because of garbage truck fears. 💔 If you've ever forced a family member to shower after being near something "contaminated," or felt like you're the only thing standing between your loved ones and disaster, this episode will help you understand what's really happening—and why it's stealing your life. 🎯 What You'll Discover: The Garbage Truck Prison:🔹 The woman who hasn't left her house in 8 years because of garbage truck contamination fears [00:01:00]🔸 Why she forces her sister to wash her hair after a truck passes by [00:01:00]🔹 How responsibility OCD turns you into the "safety manager" for everyone around you [00:02:00] The Mental Torture of Hyper-Responsibility:🔸 Why feeling responsible for everyone isn't noble—it's OCD [00:00:00]🔹 The exhausting burden of believing YOU control everyone's wellbeing [00:02:00]🔸 How family members become trapped in your OCD accommodations [00:03:00] Breaking Free from Responsibility OCD:🔹 Why you're NOT the universe's risk management department [00:04:00]🔸 The truth about what you're actually responsible for (hint: only yourself) [00:04:00]🔹 How to stop managing everyone else's "contamination" and "exposure" [00:05:00] ⏰ Quick Timeline: 00:00 Introduction: When Responsibility Becomes Mental Torture00:01:00 Real Story: 8 Years Without Taking Out the Trash00:02:00 The Sister Who Must Wash Her Hair After Garbage Trucks00:03:00 Understanding Responsibility OCD and Contamination Fears00:04:00 You Are NOT the Universe's Risk Management Department00:05:00 Breaking Free: What You're Actually Responsible For 📖 Key Takeaways: Responsibility OCD makes you believe you control outcomes you don't actually control Forcing accommodations on family members (like making them shower) spreads your OCD You are only responsible for yourself—not everyone's safety, happiness, or wellbeing The more you try to manage everyone's "exposure," the worse your OCD gets 🔥 BREAK FREE FROM RESPONSIBILITY OCD WITH INTENSIVES Are you exhausted from being everyone's "safety manager"? My OCD Intensives program helps you break free from hyper-responsibility in just 3 weeks. You'll learn to: Stop managing everyone else's "contamination" and "exposure" Set boundaries around OCD accommodations Distinguish between real responsibility and OCD responsibility Reclaim your life from the mental prison of hyper-responsibility LIMITED SPOTS! Only ONE woman per month. 👉 APPLY NOW 💪 SUPPORT YOUR RECOVERY Managing responsibility OCD is exhausting. I personally use Core Nutritionals supplements to support my mental clarity and nervous system during challenging moments. Use my code "ERIN" for 15% off your first order. 👉 Shop Core Nutritionals Affiliate link - I earn a small commission at no extra cost to you! You are not the universe's risk management department. You never were. Let me help you find freedom. 💜 #OCD #responsibilityOCD #contaminationOCD #mentalhealth #intrusivetoughts #anxiety #OCDrecovery This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. DISCLAIMER: https://bit.ly/3ycFiY4
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4 weeks ago
3 minutes

Bossing Up: Overcoming OCD
Two Voices in Your Head? This Is What's Really Happening | Ep 104
Ever feel like you have two voices arguing in your head—one that feels like you and one that's something else? In this powerful episode, I break down exactly what's happening when intrusive thoughts take over and why they feel so real, so disturbing, and so much like YOU. 💜 If you've ever thought horrible things that made you question who you are, this episode will help you understand that you're not evil—you're just experiencing OCD. 🎯 What You'll Discover: The Two-Voice Phenomenon:🔹 Why it feels like there are two versions of you fighting in your head [00:01:00]🔸 How OCD blurs the lines between "you" and "the thoughts" [00:01:00]🔹 Why emotions behind thoughts don't make them true [00:02:00] The Evil Thoughts Trap:🔸 Why good people have the most disturbing intrusive thoughts [00:02:00]🔹 The proof that you're NOT the person your thoughts say you are [00:03:00]🔸 How OCD targets what you value most to create maximum distress [00:03:00] Breaking Free from the Noise:🔹 The difference between observing thoughts and being entangled in them [00:04:00]🔸 Why the voice that's horrified by the thoughts is the REAL you [00:05:00]🔹 How to stop losing your identity to intrusive thoughts [00:05:00] ⏰ Quick Timeline: 00:00 Two Voices Fighting: Understanding the Confusion00:01:00 Why OCD Feels So Real and Personal00:02:00 The Evil Thoughts That Prove You're Good00:03:00 How OCD Targets Your Core Values00:04:00 You Are Not Your Thoughts00:05:00 Finding Yourself Again Beyond the Noise 🔥 GET RELIEF IN 3 WEEKS WITH OCD INTENSIVES Tired of intrusive thoughts controlling your life? My OCD Intensives program helps you break free from the mental prison in just 3 weeks. You'll learn to: Distinguish between "you" and "OCD thoughts" Stop getting entangled in disturbing intrusive thoughts Reclaim your identity beyond the mental noise Find peace even when thoughts show up LIMITED SPOTS! Only ONE woman per month. 👉 APPLY NOW You haven't lost your identity—you've just temporarily lost sight of it. Let me help you find yourself again. 💜 #OCD #intrusivetoughts #mentalhealth #anxiety #selfidentity #healing
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1 month ago
5 minutes

Bossing Up: Overcoming OCD
🎙️ REPOST: Overcoming OCD & Anxiety for High-Achieving Women – Interview with Erin Davis
Had the honor of being a guest on the Pete vs Anxiety Podcast, and I'm thrilled to share this powerful conversation with you! Host Pete and I dive deep into the unique ways OCD shows up for high-achieving women—and why traditional anxiety advice often misses the mark. 💜 If you've ever been told "it's just stress" when you know it's something more, or if you've struggled for years without getting real help for your intrusive thoughts, this episode will validate your experience and give you hope! 🎯 What You'll Discover: Why OCD Gets Misdiagnosed:🔹 The sneaky ways OCD shows up that therapists often miss [00:05:00]🔸 Why women are told "it's just stress" when it's actually OCD [00:03:00]🔹 The difference between anxiety and OCD (and why it matters!) [00:08:00] The Narcissism Fear Trap:🔸 Why thoughtful, kind women worry they're narcissists [00:15:00]🔹 How OCD attacks what you value most in the sneakiest ways [00:18:00]🔸 The difference between narcissistic behavior and OCD intrusive thoughts [00:20:00] Real Talk About Treatment:🔹 Why "Dr. Google" makes OCD worse, not better [00:12:00]🔸 The exposure therapy approach that actually works [00:25:00]🔹 How to support someone with OCD (without giving reassurance) [00:35:00] 💡 Powerful Moments from This Episode: The homeless man analogy that perfectly explains intrusive thoughts [00:22:00] Why your fear of being a narcissist is actually proof you're NOT one [00:16:00] The average 10-14 year delay before people get proper OCD treatment [00:10:00] How OCD is a belief disorder, not just an anxiety disorder [00:06:00] 🙏 HUGE THANK YOU TO PETE VS ANXIETY! This episode originally aired on the Pete vs Anxiety Podcast, hosted by the amazing Pete who's on a mission to break the stigma around mental health. Pete creates a safe space for real, raw conversations about anxiety, depression, and everything in between. If you loved this episode, please:👉 Subscribe to Pete vs Anxiety Podcast on all platforms👉 Follow Pete on social media @petevs.anxiety👉 Check out his other incredible episodes with mental health experts and real people sharing their stories Pete's tagline says it all: "Don't ask how your day is, ask how your mental health is today." 💙 🔥 READY TO GET REAL HELP FOR YOUR OCD? Tired of being told "it's just stress" when you know it's more? My exclusive OCD Intensives program is designed specifically for high-achieving women who need specialized OCD treatment, not generic anxiety advice. If you're: Struggling with intrusive thoughts that therapists don't understand Worried you might be a narcissist (even though you're clearly not) Tired of Googling symptoms and making things worse Ready for treatment that actually addresses OCD, not just anxiety My OCD Intensives program will give you the specialized help you've been searching for. In just 3 weeks, you'll learn: How to identify OCD thoughts vs. anxiety thoughts Exposure techniques specifically designed for your OCD subtype How to stop compulsions (including mental ones therapists miss) The difference between helpful self-reflection and OCD rumination SPOTS ARE EXTREMELY LIMITED! I only accept ONE woman per month into this transformative program. 👉 VIEW PROGRAM DETAILS & APPLY NOW 💪 SUPPORT YOUR MENTAL HEALTH JOURNEY Managing OCD takes mental and physical energy. I personally use Core Nutritionals supplements to support my nervous system and mental clarity during challenging moments. Their science-backed formulations help me stay grounded and focused. Use my code "ERIN" for 15% off your first order. 👉 Shop Core Nutritionals Affiliate link - I earn a small commission at no extra cost to you when you use my code! Thank you to Pete for having me on his show and for doing such important work in the mental health space. And thank you for listening—you deserve specialized help that actually understands OCD! 💜 #OCD #anxiety #mentalhealth #intrusivetoughts #relationshipOCD #narcissism #therapy #mentalhealthpodcast #petevsanxiet
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1 month ago
57 minutes

Bossing Up: Overcoming OCD
A Therapist's Raw Journey from Childhood Trauma to Healing with Kristin Louise Duncombe | Ep 103
What if the therapist you're seeing has walked the exact same path you're on right now? In this deeply personal and powerful episode, I sit down with Kristin Louise Duncombe—therapist, author, and OCD survivor—who shares her raw journey from childhood tics and emetophobia to becoming the healer she desperately needed as a child. 💜 If you've ever wondered "Will this OCD ever go away?" or felt alone in your struggles with intrusive thoughts, this conversation will give you hope, validation, and practical strategies that actually work. 🎯 What You'll Discover: Kristin's Childhood OCD Journey:🔹 How childhood tics, hypochondria, and emetophobia controlled her life [00:02:00]🔹 Why she became convinced she had leukemia and how magical thinking took over [00:03:00]🔹 Growing up in the 1970s with zero access to OCD treatment or support [00:04:00] The Truth About "Will OCD Ever Go Away?":🔸 Why this question is so common and what it really means [00:07:00]🔸 The paradoxical approach that actually breaks the OCD cycle [00:07:00]🔸 How acceptance (not elimination) becomes your superpower against OCD [00:08:00] From Trauma to Triumph:🔹 Kristin's experience with sexual abuse and how it intersected with OCD [00:12:00]🔹 The connection between bulimia, addiction, and OCD patterns [00:14:00]🔹 How she transformed her pain into purpose by becoming the therapist she needed [00:02:00] 🔑 Breakthrough Moments in This Episode: The Hidden Meaning Technique: How to befriend your OCD and use it as information about what's really bothering you [00:05:00] Emetophobia Treatment: Real strategies for one of the hardest OCD subtypes to treat [00:16:00] The "Fear of Life" Reframe: Why throwing up isn't about dying—it's about being afraid to live [00:18:00] Exposure Therapy Reality: What actually works vs. what's just performative [00:19:00] ⏰ Episode Timeline: 00:00:00 Introduction: Several OCD Patients Ask "Will This Ever Go Away?"00:01:00 Meet Kristin Louise Duncombe: Therapist, Author, OCD Survivor00:02:00 Kristin's Childhood: Tics, Hypochondria, and Emetophobia00:04:00 Growing Up Without Treatment in the 1970s00:05:00 The Behavioral Approach and Hidden Meaning Technique00:07:00 "Will This Ever Go Away?" - The Question Every OCD Patient Asks00:09:00 OCD in Remission: Understanding Lapses vs. Relapses00:12:00 Kristin's Trauma Story: Sexual Abuse and the State Department Cover-Up00:14:00 The Connection Between OCD, Bulimia, and Addictive Behaviors00:16:00 Treating Emetophobia: What Actually Works00:18:00 The "Fear of Life" vs. Fear of Death Reframe00:19:00 Exposure Therapy: Real Strategies That Work00:21:00 Kristin's Book "Object: A Memoir" and Final Wisdom00:22:00 Carrying On Despite OCD: You Can Have Problems and Still Live 📖 Key Takeaways for Women with OCD: OCD comes and goes—accepting this reality reduces its power over you The techniques you learn for one OCD theme work across ALL themes Your worry about being a bad person is actually proof you're not Seeking help and trusting others is essential—you can't do this alone You can have OCD and still carry on with a beautiful, meaningful life 🔥 TRANSFORM YOUR OCD WITH INTENSIVE SUPPORT 🔥 Are you tired of feeling controlled by OCD? Kristin's story shows that healing is possible—and you don't have to wait decades like she did to get the help you need. My exclusive OCD Intensives program is designed for women who are: Struggling with intrusive thoughts that won't go away Tired of doing compulsions that only provide temporary relief Ready to learn acceptance-based approaches that actually work Wanting to break free from the OCD cycle in weeks, not years In just 3 weeks, you'll learn: How to befriend your OCD instead of fighting it Exposure techniques tailored to YOUR specific fears The hidden meaning behind your obsessions How to live a full life even when OCD shows up SPOTS ARE EXTREMELY LIMITED! I only accept ONE woman per month into this transformative program. 👉 VIEW PROGRAM DETAILS &a
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1 month ago
23 minutes

Bossing Up: Overcoming OCD
Why Sitting Still is So Hard for Perfectionists | Ep 102
When was the last time you sat still without your phone, without a to-do list, without feeling guilty? If you're a perfectionist woman, the answer is probably "I can't remember." In this eye-opening video, I reveal why your brain is literally wired to resist rest—and how to rewire it for peace! 💜 If you find yourself constantly busy, feeling guilty when you're not productive, or unable to relax without anxiety creeping in, this video will help you understand why stillness feels so impossible and what to do about it. 🎯 What You'll Discover: The Perfectionist Rest Paradox:🔹 Why your brain treats rest as "wasted time" and how this keeps you exhausted [00:00]🔹 The neurological reasons perfectionists struggle with stillness [00:29]🔹 How constant busyness becomes an addiction that's impossible to break [00:29] The Science Behind Perfectionist Restlessness:🔸 Why rest is actually essential for your mental health and productivity [02:20]🔸 How perfectionism hijacks your nervous system and prevents true relaxation [02:20]🔸 The difference between "rest" and actual nervous system regulation [04:44] Practical Strategies for Perfectionist Rest:🔹 Simple techniques to embrace stillness without guilt [04:44]🔹 How to rewire your brain to see rest as productive, not lazy [06:28]🔹 The mindset shifts that make stillness feel safe instead of scary [06:55] ⏰ Timestamps: 00:00 The Challenge of Sitting Still for Perfectionists00:29 Understanding Perfectionism and Rest Resistance01:18 How OCD Intensives Helps Women Find Peace02:20 The Importance of Rest for Mental Health and Productivity04:44 Practical Tips for Embracing Stillness Without Guilt06:28 Finding Success in Stillness as a Perfectionist06:55 Conclusion and Your Next Steps to Rest 🔥 LEARN TO REST WITH OCD INTENSIVES 🔥 Can't sit still without feeling guilty or anxious? This video gives you a glimpse into the powerful rest and nervous system regulation techniques I teach in my exclusive OCD Intensives program. If you're a perfectionist woman who: Feels guilty every time you try to rest Can't sit still without your mind racing with to-dos Believes rest is "unproductive" or "lazy" Wants to learn how to actually relax without anxiety My OCD Intensives program will teach you advanced techniques to rewire your perfectionist brain for rest, peace, and true relaxation. In just 3 weeks, you'll learn to: Sit still without guilt or anxiety Rewire your brain to see rest as essential, not optional Regulate your nervous system for true relaxation Create sustainable rest practices that actually work for perfectionists SPOTS ARE EXTREMELY LIMITED! I only accept ONE perfectionist woman per month into this transformative program. 👉 VIEW PROGRAM DETAILS & APPLY NOW 💪 SUPPORT YOUR BODY WHILE YOU LEARN TO REST Learning to rest is hard work! I personally use Core Nutritionals supplements to support my nervous system and mental clarity while rewiring perfectionist patterns. Their science-backed formulations help me stay calm and focused during the challenging process of learning to be still. Use my code "ERIN" for 15% off your first order. 👉 Shop Core Nutritionals Affiliate link - I earn a small commission at no extra cost to you when you use my code! Remember: Rest isn't lazy—it's essential. You deserve to feel peace in stillness! 🌟 #perfectionism #rest #mentalhealth #anxiety #OCD #selfcare #mindfulness #burnout #productivity #stillness
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1 month ago
7 minutes

Bossing Up: Overcoming OCD
Managing Anger and Perfectionism: The TIPP Technique That Actually Works for High-Achieving Women | Ep 101
Are you a high-achieving woman who gets angry at yourself when things aren't perfect? Do you find yourself in fight-or-flight mode when your standards aren't met, then feel guilty about your anger? You're not broken—you're just stuck in a perfectionism cycle that's hijacking your nervous system! 💜 In this powerful episode, I share a real client session that reveals why perfectionist women struggle with anger and introduce the game-changing TIP technique that helps you reset your nervous system in minutes, not hours. 🎯 What You'll Discover:- The Perfectionism-Anger Connection:    🔹 Why high-achieving women get trapped in anger when things aren't "perfect" [00:00]    🔹 How trauma and perfectionism create a constant fight-or-flight state [00:37]    🔹 The guilt cycle that keeps you stuck after perfectionist anger episodes [00:06] - The TIPP Technique That Changes Everything:    🔸 Temperature change: The fastest way to reset your nervous system [02:14]    🔸 Intense exercise: How 30 seconds can shift your entire emotional state [02:44]    🔸 Purposeful breathing: The modified approach that actually works for perfectionists [03:15] - Advanced Nervous System Reset:    🔹 Progressive muscle relaxation: Full-body reset for perfectionist tension [04:27]    🔹 How to use these techniques before, during, and after perfectionist episodes [05:21]    🔹 Why traditional anger management doesn't work for perfectionist women [00:37] ⏰ Episode Timestamps:00:00 Understanding Anger in Perfectionism00:06 Client's Story and Common Perfectionist Struggles00:37 The Impact of Trauma and Fight or Flight Mode on Perfectionists01:45 Introducing the DBT Tool: TIP with Two Ps02:14 Temperature: The First Step to Nervous System Reset02:44 Intense Exercise: Quick Endorphin Boost for Perfectionist Anger03:15 Purposeful Breathing: A Modified Approach for High Achievers04:27 Progressive Muscle Relaxation: Full Body Reset for Perfectionists05:21 Wrapping Up and Your Next Steps to Freedom 📖 Key Takeaways for High-Achieving Women:- Perfectionist anger isn't a character flaw—it's a nervous system response- The TIP technique works faster than traditional therapy techniques for acute episodes- You can learn to interrupt the perfectionism-anger cycle before it spirals- Your anger is information about your unmet needs and impossible standards 🔥 TRANSFORM YOUR PERFECTIONIST ANGER WITH OCD INTENSIVES 🔥Are you tired of getting angry at yourself every time something isn't perfect?This episode gives you a taste of the powerful techniques I teach in my exclusive OCD Intensives program. If you're a high-achieving woman who:- Gets angry when things don't meet your impossible standards- Feels guilty about your perfectionist anger episodes- Wants to break the cycle of fight-or-flight perfectionism- Is ready to learn advanced nervous system regulation techniques My OCD Intensives program will teach you not just the TIP technique, but dozens of other strategies specifically designed for perfectionist women who are tired of being controlled by their emotions. In just 3 weeks, you'll learn to:- Interrupt perfectionist anger before it takes over- Reset your nervous system in under 2 minutes- Create realistic standards that don't trigger fight-or-flight- Build a toolkit of techniques that work for YOUR specific triggers SPOTS ARE EXTREMELY LIMITED! I only accept ONE high-achieving woman per month into this transformative program. 👉 VIEW PROGRAM DETAILS & APPLY NOW! https://bit.ly/ocd-intensives-program) Don't spend another day being controlled by perfectionist anger. The techniques in this episode are just the beginning—imagine what's possible when you have the full toolkit! 💪 SUPPORT YOUR NERVOUS SYSTEM WHILE YOU HEALManaging perfectionist anger is exhausting on your body and mind. I personally use Core Nutritionals supplements to support my nervous system and mental clarity, especially when working through intense emotional regulation. Their science-backed formulations help
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2 months ago
6 minutes

Bossing Up: Overcoming OCD
The One Word That Will Transform Your Perfectionism | Episode 100!
Are you a high-achieving woman who finally accomplishes something amazing, only to immediately think "it wasn't good enough"? Do you find yourself constantly moving the goalpost instead of celebrating your wins? In this milestone 100th episode, I dive deep into the perfectionism trap that's stealing your joy and keeping you exhausted! 💜 If you're tired of feeling like nothing you do is ever enough—especially as a military wife juggling deployments, PCS moves, and endless responsibilities—this episode will help you break free from the cycle that's keeping you stuck. 🎯 What You'll Discover: The Goalpost Moving Addiction:🔹 Why you can't celebrate accomplishments and immediately create more tasks [00:00]🔹 How perfectionism becomes an addictive cycle that's impossible to satisfy [01:00]🔹 The shocking truth about what happens when you finally get your house "perfect" [01:00] The Hidden Cost of Perfectionism:🔸 Why you never get to celebrate wins and how it robs you of momentum [01:00]🔸 How endless revisions exhaust you and steal time from what matters [01:00]🔸 The impossible standards you're modeling for your family and colleagues [02:00] Breaking the Perfectionism Cycle:🔹 How to recognize when you're moving the goalpost (the "should" trap) [02:00]🔹 The "enough practice" that will transform how you approach goals [03:00]🔹 Why "good enough" isn't settling—it's choosing to live more [04:00] ⏰ Episode Timeline: 00:00 Welcome to Episode 100 - The Perfectionism Trap01:00 How Moving the Goalpost Becomes an Addiction01:00 The 5 Ways Perfectionism Destroys Your Life02:00 Recognizing When You're Moving the Goalpost03:00 The Life-Changing "Enough Practice"03:16 The Instagram Quote That Changed Everything04:00 Final Thoughts: You're Choosing to Live More, Not Less 📖 Key Takeaways for High-Achieving Women: Your brain learns that completion isn't the goal—perfection is (and perfection is impossible) You're teaching everyone around you that "good enough" isn't acceptable Time is a resource you can't get back—stop spending it on endless perfectionism The "enough practice": Set your enough point, complete the project, celebrate, then move on 🔥 BREAK FREE FROM PERFECTIONISM WITH OCD INTENSIVES 🔥 Are you a high-achieving military wife tired of perfectionist thoughts controlling your life? My exclusive OCD Intensives program is designed specifically for women who are: Constantly moving the goalpost instead of celebrating wins Exhausted from endless revisions and never feeling "enough" Ready to break free from the perfectionism cycle that's stealing their joy Wanting to model healthy standards for their families In just 3 weeks, you'll learn to set "enough points," celebrate accomplishments, and build momentum instead of getting stuck in endless perfectionism. SPOTS ARE EXTREMELY LIMITED! I only accept ONE client per month into this transformative program. 👉 VIEW PROGRAM DETAILS & APPLY NOW 💪 SUPPORT YOUR BODY WHILE HEALING YOUR MIND Perfectionism is exhausting—and your body feels it too! Between managing everything as a high-achieving woman, constant stress, and never feeling "good enough," your body needs extra support. I personally use Core Nutritionals supplements to support my mental clarity and energy levels. Their science-backed formulations help me stay focused and calm, especially when battling perfectionist thoughts. If you're ready to support your body while you work on healing your perfectionist mindset, check out Core Nutritionals and use my code "ERIN" for 15% off your order. 👉 Shop Core Nutritionals Affiliate link - I earn a small commission at no extra cost to you when you use my code! Remember: You're not settling for less when you practice "enough"—you're choosing to live more. Thank you for being here for 100 episodes of transformation! Affiliate links may be included, supporting my content at no extra cost to you. This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for p
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2 months ago
4 minutes

Bossing Up: Overcoming OCD
Why Military Wives Feel So Much Pressure (And How to Finally Stop) | Ep 99
Do you lie awake at night replaying every interaction with other military spouses? Wondering if you said the wrong thing at the FRG meeting or if your house wasn't clean enough when the first sargent's wife stopped by?   Military life creates the perfect storm for perfectionism, from constant evaluations to managing everything alone during deployments. If you're tired of feeling like you're never doing enough, this episode will help you understand why perfectionism is stealing your joy and what to do about it.   🎯 What You'll Discover: The Military Wife Perfectionism Trap:🔹 Why military wives face constant evaluation and judgment that fuels perfectionism [00:20]🔹 How isolation during PCS moves and deployments makes perfectionism worse [00:20]🔹 The hidden cost of trying to be the "perfect" military spouse [00:00] The Single Parenting Perfectionism Spiral:🔸 Why managing everything alone during deployments triggers perfectionist tendencies [00:56]🔸 How career sacrifices for military life create guilt and perfectionist compensation [00:56]🔸 The exhausting mental load that makes you feel like you're never doing enough [01:57] Breaking Free from Societal Expectations:🔹 How societal expectations create impossible standards for military wives [02:55]🔹 Why perfectionism actually makes military life harder, not easier [02:55]🔹 Permission to struggle, seek help, and be imperfect [04:14]   ⏰ Episode Timeline: 00:00 The Hidden Struggles of Military Wives and Perfectionism00:20 Constant Evaluation and Isolation Fueling Perfectionism00:56 Single Parenting Pressures and Career Sacrifice Guilt01:57 The Mental Load and Perfectionist Logistics Management02:55 Societal Expectations and Perfectionism Pressure04:14 Permission to Struggle and Seek Help Despite Perfectionism04:50 Conclusion: Embracing Imperfection in Military Life   📖 Key Takeaways: Perfectionism in military life is a survival mechanism that's actually making you miserable Military wife isolation and constant evaluation create unique perfectionist pressures You deserve support for perfectionist struggles—not just after the next PCS or deployment   🔥 APPLY FOR THE OCD INTENSIVES PROGRAM 🔥 Are you tired of perfectionist thoughts controlling your military life? My exclusive OCD Intensives program is designed specifically for military wives who are: Constantly trying to be the "perfect" military spouse Feeling overwhelmed by perfectionist expectations during deployments and PCS moves Struggling with perfectionist anxiety about single parenting and career sacrifices Ready to break free from the mental prison of perfectionism and societal expectations In just 3 weeks, you'll learn to manage perfectionist anxiety, stop the all-or-nothing thinking, and reclaim your peace—no matter what military life throws at you. SPOTS ARE EXTREMELY LIMITED! I only accept ONE military wife per month into this transformative program. 👉 VIEW PROGRAM DETAILS & APPLY NOW to see if this program is right for you!   💪 SUPPORT YOUR BODY WHILE HEALING YOUR MIND Perfectionism is exhausting—and your body feels it too! Between managing everything alone during deployments, constant stress, and never feeling "good enough," your body needs extra support. I personally use Core Nutritionals supplements to support my mental clarity and energy levels. Their science-backed formulations help me stay focused and calm, especially when I'm battling perfectionist thoughts and military life stress. If you're ready to support your body while you work on healing your perfectionist mindset, check out Core Nutritionals and use my code "ERIN" for 15% off your first order. 👉 Shop Core Nutritionals     You don't have to be perfect to be a good military wife. Your struggles with perfectionism and societal expectations are valid, and you deserve support. Take the first step toward embracing imperfection today! Affiliate links may be included, supporting my content at no extra cost to you. This podcast is for infor
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2 months ago
5 minutes

Bossing Up: Overcoming OCD
Giving Yourself Permission to Be Imperfect: Military Wife Edition | Ep 98
Are you exhausted from trying to be the "perfect" military spouse? In this heartfelt episode, I share my own journey as a former military wife and reveal the hidden toll that perfectionism takes on your mental health, relationships, and happiness during military life. 💜   Military life comes with enough pressure without adding impossible standards for yourself. Learn how to recognize when it's time to ease up and discover practical mindset shifts that will transform your experience.   🎯 What You'll Discover: The Perfectionism Trap:🔹 Why military life creates the perfect storm for perfectionism🔹 How striving for control actually increases your anxiety🔹 The difference between high standards and harmful perfectionism Three Warning Signs It's Time to Loosen Control:🔸 When your need for order is causing more stress than relief🔸 How perfectionism impacts your relationships with family and friends🔸 The physical symptoms that signal you're pushing too hard Three Mindset Shifts for Military Life:🔹 Embracing flexibility without feeling like you're failing🔹 Finding the balance between structure and adaptability🔹 How to give yourself permission to be imperfectly human ⏰ Episode Timeline: 00:00 Introduction: Understanding Military Life Pressures00:12 The Trap of Perfectionism in Military Life01:12 Three Signs It's Time to Loosen Control02:26 Mindset Shifts for Thriving in Military Life02:47 Conclusion and Next Episode Preview   🔥 APPLY FOR THE OCD INTENSIVES PROGRAM 🔥 Is perfectionism taking over your military life? My exclusive OCD Intensives program is designed specifically for military spouses who need results FAST. In just 3 weeks (meeting 3 times per week for 3 hours), you'll: Break free from perfectionism and people-pleasing patterns Learn practical tools to manage anxiety during military transitions Develop healthy boundaries that honor both structure and flexibility Reclaim joy in your daily life, even amidst military challenges   SPOTS ARE EXTREMELY LIMITED! I only accept ONE military spouse per month into this transformative program. 👉 APPLY for the OCD Intensives Program to see if this program is right for you!   Fuel your body and mind with premium supplements you can trust! Core Nutritionals provides science-backed formulations that support mental clarity, energy, and overall wellness—exactly what military spouses need during stressful times.   Use code "ERIND" for 15% off your order at Core Nutritionals or use this link: https://bit.ly/strong-with-core    You don't have to be perfect to thrive in military life. Take the first step toward freedom today!   Affiliate links may be included, supporting my content at no extra cost to you.   This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment.   DISCLAIMER: https://bit.ly/3ycFiY4
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2 months ago
3 minutes

Bossing Up: Overcoming OCD
OCD Intensives for Military Wives: Fast, Specialized Help Without Leaving Home | Ep 97
Military life is challenging enough without OCD stealing your peace! In this special episode, I pull back the curtain on my exclusive OCD Intensives program—designed specifically for military families who need results FAST before the next PCS or deployment disrupts your progress.   Did you know studies show that intensive OCD treatment produces faster, more lasting results than weekly therapy? If you're tired of feeling like a prisoner to your mind while juggling military life's unique challenges, this episode reveals the solution you've been searching for. 🎯 What You'll Discover: The Military-Specific Advantage:🔹 Why culturally adapted therapy has 30% better outcomes for military families🔹 How the program works around YOUR schedule, not the other way around🔹 The unique benefits of getting results before your next PCS or deployment Inside the Intensive Experience:🔸 The powerful 3-3-3 structure: 3 weeks, 3 hours per session, 3 times per week🔸 How virtual sessions eliminate childcare headaches and scheduling conflicts🔸 The gold-standard ERP approach tailored specifically for military stressors Beyond the Sessions:🔹 24/7 messaging support between sessions (9am-9pm response time)🔹 Bonus resources that accelerate your progress🔹 How to leverage insurance benefits to make treatment affordable 📖 Key Takeaways: This intensive format means you can get your life back in THREE WEEKS, not years The program is completely virtual—perfect for military families with unpredictable schedules You'll develop strategies that help you through deployments, PCS moves, and beyond 🔥 APPLY FOR THE OCD INTENSIVES PROGRAM 🔥 Spots are EXTREMELY limited! I only take ONE client per month for this transformative program. This program is perfect for you if: You're tired of managing OCD symptoms alone during military challenges You want military-specific understanding of your triggers You need results faster than traditional weekly therapy can provide You're ready to invest in intensive change that lasts through deployments and moves 👉 BOOK YOUR FREE 30-MINUTE CONSULTATION to see if this program is right for you! ⏰ Episode Timeline: 00:00 Introduction to Military Stress and OCD00:17 Overview of the OCD Intensives Program01:09 Program Structure and Benefits02:14 Therapeutic Techniques Used03:38 Additional Program Perks04:15 Eligibility and Consultation05:44 Financial Information and Insurance06:14 Expected Outcomes and Benefits06:56 Final Thoughts and Application Process Military life is unpredictable enough—your mental health doesn't have to be. Apply now and transform your military experience from surviving to thriving! Affiliate links may be included, supporting my content at no extra cost to you. This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. DISCLAIMER: https://bit.ly/3ycFiY4
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3 months ago
8 minutes

Bossing Up: Overcoming OCD
4 Essential Deployment Tips for Managing OCD and Anxiety | Ep 96
Deployments are hard enough without your own brain making them harder! In this powerful episode, I reveal the exact strategies that helped me survive my husband's Afghanistan deployment while pregnant—and how you can find peace even when everything feels uncertain. Did you know research shows that the more frequently you check for communication during deployment, the MORE anxious you become? I'll show you how to break this cycle and reclaim your mental health during one of military life's biggest challenges. 🎯 What You'll Discover: The Communication Trap:🔹 Why constantly checking your phone actually increases your anxiety🔹 How to set healthy boundaries around communication frequency🔹 The surprising research that changed how I handled deployment contact My Raw Deployment Story:🔸 The birthday dinner interrupted by deployment news🔸 Managing pregnancy while my husband deployed to Afghanistan🔸 How we handled our gender reveal over Skype (before Zoom existed!) OCD's Sneaky Deployment Tricks:🔹 Communication obsessions that keep you glued to your phone🔹 Safety compulsions that make anxiety worse, not better🔹 The "time zone torture" that steals your present moments 📖 Key Takeaways: The research-backed reason why "no news is good news" should become your mantra Why flexibility around communication times protects your mental health How to create predictability without feeding the OCD cycle 🔥 JOIN MY EXCLUSIVE OCD INTENSIVE PROGRAM 🔥 Are deployments turning you into someone you don't recognize? My specialized OCD Intensive Program is designed specifically for military spouses who are: Constantly checking their phones during deployment Unable to sleep due to worry about their service member Feeling guilty for not handling deployment "better" Struggling to maintain their own life while their partner is away LIMITED SPOTS AVAILABLE! I only work with 1-2 dedicated women per month who are ready to transform their deployment experience. 👉 BOOK YOUR 30-MINUTE STRATEGY CALL and discover how to make deployments manageable instead of miserable! ⏰ Episode Timeline: 00:00 Introduction to Deployment and OCD00:56 Personal Deployment Story02:45 Understanding Deployment OCD03:37 Practical Tips to Manage Deployment Anxiety Don't let OCD steal another deployment from you. The strategies in this episode have helped hundreds of military spouses find peace—even during the most challenging separations. Affiliate links may be included, supporting my content at no extra cost to you. This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. DISCLAIMER: https://bit.ly/3ycFiY4
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3 months ago
4 minutes

Bossing Up: Overcoming OCD
Military OCD vs. Normal Worry: How to Tell the Difference | Ep 95
Ever wonder if your military life worries are normal or something more? In this eye-opening episode, I reveal the hidden signs that separate typical military spouse concerns from OCD—and why knowing the difference could save your mental health AND your relationships! If you've ever found yourself checking your phone obsessively during deployments, making endless PCS lists, or lying awake worrying about base security, this episode will help you understand what's really happening in your mind. 🎯 What You'll Discover: The Certainty Trap:🔹 Why OCD demands 100% certainty while normal worry accepts life's unknowns🔹 How to recognize when your need for control has crossed into OCD territory🔹 The surprising reason reassurance never works with OCD (but does with normal worry) Military-Specific Red Flags:🔸 Deployment anxiety that goes beyond normal concern🔸 PCS perfectionism that's stealing your joy during moves🔸 Safety compulsions that are actually making you feel less secure My Personal Story:🔹 The middle-of-the-night knock that triggered my worst deployment fears🔹 How I recognized I was stuck in the "OCD bubble" during my husband's Afghanistan deployment🔹 What this experience taught me about staying in the here and now 📖 Key Takeaways: The average time from OCD symptom onset to proper diagnosis is 7-10 years—even longer for military spouses Normal worry motivates helpful action while OCD worry spirals endlessly The earlier you recognize you've stepped into the "OCD bubble," the better your relationships will be 🔥 TRANSFORM YOUR LIFE WITH OCD INTENSIVES 🔥 Ready to break free from the mental prison of military OCD? My exclusive OCD Intensives are designed specifically for military spouses who are tired of putting their mental health on hold until "after the next deployment" or "after the next PCS." In just 8 weeks, you'll: Learn to distinguish between normal military worry and OCD Develop practical tools to manage deployment anxiety Create a personalized strategy for maintaining mental health during PCS moves Build confidence in your decision-making without OCD interference SPOTS ARE LIMITED! I only accept 1-2 women per month into this transformative program.👉 BOOK YOUR STRATEGY CALL NOW ⏰ Episode Timeline: 00:00 Introduction to Military OCD Concerns01:09 Understanding Normal Military Worry vs. OCD02:31 Signs of Military-Specific OCD02:52 Personal Story: Dealing with Deployment Anxiety05:35 OCD Red Flags During PCS Moves06:31 Safety OCD in Military Life06:49 A Simple Test to Identify OCD08:17 Conclusion and Next Steps Don't wait until after the next duty station or deployment to get help. The time to reclaim your peace is NOW! Affiliate links may be included, supporting my content at no extra cost to you. This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. DISCLAIMER: https://bit.ly/3ycFiY4
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3 months ago
8 minutes

Bossing Up: Overcoming OCD
Busting the Myth of Being ‘Strong Enough’ with OCD | Ep 94
What if being “strong enough” is actually holding you back?   Bossing Up: Overcoming OCD host, Erin Davis — therapist, former army wife, and mom of three — pulls back the curtain on the hidden pressures military spouses face. From the constant relocations to the silent expectation to “hold it all together,” she unpacks how OCD sneaks into these struggles and why chasing perfection leaves so many women burnt out and battling depression.   You’ll hear: 💡 How to separate the OCD voice from your true self💬 Real stories from women who stopped faking “strength” and started healing🛠️ Simple mindset shifts and healthy habits that actually make life lighter🤝 Why community (not superhuman effort) is the key to lasting resilience   If you’ve ever felt the crushing pressure to do it all and be it all, this conversation will remind you that you’re not broken—you’re human. And there’s a healthier way forward.   Episode Breakdown: 00:00 – Welcome & Why Military Spouses Face Unique OCD StrugglesErin introduces the topic and shares her own perspective as a former army wife. 00:20 – The Pressure to Be ‘Strong Enough’ in Military LifeUnrealistic expectations, silent burdens, and how they affect mental health. 01:30 – Understanding OCD in Military SpousesHow OCD shows up differently in military families and why it often goes unseen. 01:55 – Real Success Stories: Amanda & Sarah’s Journey to Overcoming OCDInspiring breakthroughs from women who stopped pretending and started healing. 03:14 – Mindset Shifts That Break the Strength MythHow to separate OCD thoughts from your identity and finally feel “good enough.” 03:56 – Healthy Habits & Building a Supportive CommunityDaily practices that help military wives find balance and resilience. 04:27 – Final Thoughts & Encouragement for Military SpousesWhy asking for support is not weakness but strength — and how to take the next step.   📱 Connect on Social:🟧 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/erindaviscoaching 📧 Threads: https://www.threads.com/@erindaviscoaching   💪 Working out? Get strong and feel your best with Core Nutritionals without the crash. Core has safe ingredients that really work! https://bit.ly/strongwithcore    🆘 Stop the spiral now at www.livebeyonddoubt.com/link-tree    Affiliate links may be included, supporting my content at no extra cost to you.   *This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment.   DISCLAIMER:https://bit.ly/3ycFiY4  
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3 months ago
4 minutes

Bossing Up: Overcoming OCD
Military Wife With OCD? The 3-Step Reset That Stopped My Spirals | Ep 93
Are you a military wife drowning in obsessive thoughts that feel impossible to control? You're not alone - and more importantly, you're not broken. In this breakthrough episode, I reveal why military life creates the PERFECT storm for OCD to take over your mind. From constant uncertainty to hypervigilance to isolation, I'll show you the hidden triggers that are sabotaging your peace of mind. You'll discover: Why traditional OCD advice fails military wives (and what works instead) The pivotal moment that changes everything for women stuck in thought spirals My 3-step system that stops OCD attacks before they destroy your day How Jessica, a Navy spouse, went from daily panic attacks to living freely in just 30 days   STOP letting OCD steal another precious moment with your family. This episode gives you the exact roadmap I've used to help 847+ military wives break free from the prison of obsessive thoughts.   If you're tired of feeling like a prisoner in your own mind, this episode will show you there IS a way out. Your freedom is waiting.   ⏰ Timestamps:00:00 - Why your OCD feels impossible to control (the military connection no one talks about)00:19 - The 4 hidden triggers that make military wives 3x more likely to develop severe OCD00:55 - EXPOSED: The uncertainty trap that's keeping you stuck in endless worry cycles02:28 - Client breakthrough: How Navy spouse Jessica went from 6+ hours of daily rituals to complete freedom03:19 - My proven 3-step system to break OCD patterns before they spiral (works in under 5 minutes)04:41 - Your action plan: What to do RIGHT NOW if OCD is stealing your life   📱 Connect on Social: 🟧 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/erindaviscoaching 📧 Threads: https://www.threads.com/@erindaviscoaching 🎵 TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@erindaviscoaching ⭕ YouTube: https://youtube.com/@erindavisyoutube 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/erindaviscoaching   🎯 READY TO STOP LETTING OCD STEAL YOUR PEACE? ONLY 10 SPOTS AVAILABLE for those who join my FREE masterclass "How to Finally Feel at Peace with Your Thoughts." Act NOW before space fills up: https://livebeyonddoubt.com/webinar-registration-erin   💪 Working out? Get strong and feel your best with Core Nutritionals without the crash. Core has safe ingredients that really work! https://bit.ly/strongwithcore   💬 From overthinking to clarity in one download. Get my FREE "30 Scripts for Difficult Conversations" guide and stop wondering what to say in those make-or-break moments. Transform your communication now → https://bit.ly/30scriptsfree   🆘 Stop the spiral now at www.livebeyonddoubt.com/link-tree   Affiliate links may be included, supporting my content at no extra cost to you.   *This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment.   DISCLAIMER:https://bit.ly/3ycFiY4
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4 months ago
5 minutes

Bossing Up: Overcoming OCD
OCD Entrepreneur? One Platform That Freed My Brain with Caroline Balinska | Ep 92
Struggling with OCD while trying to build your dream business or career? You're about to discover how technology can become your greatest ally instead of another source of overwhelm.   In this eye-opening conversation with my business coach Caroline, I reveal the exact tech tools and systems that transformed my mental health practice - and my OCD recovery.   You'll discover: ➡️ The #1 mistake that keeps OCD entrepreneurs stuck in endless busy work➡️ How to use technology to reduce mental load instead of adding to it➡️ My proven system for creating passive income without triggering perfectionism spirals➡️ Why building a sustainable practice is crucial for long-term OCD management➡️ The mindset shifts that changed everything for my OCD recovery   STOP letting your mental health hold back your professional dreams. This episode shows you exactly how to leverage technology to create the work-life balance you've been craving while managing OCD.   If you're a mom, entrepreneur, or professional woman tired of feeling like you have to choose between success and mental wellness, this conversation will show you there's a better way.   Your sustainable, OCD-friendly business model is waiting.   ⏰ Timestamps: 00:00 - Why technology is your secret weapon against OCD (not another distraction) 00:35 - Meet Caroline: The business coach who transformed my mental health practice 01:24 - GAME-CHANGER: How the right tech stack reduced my admin time by 80% 01:58 - Building a sustainable practice that doesn't trigger your OCD perfectionism 03:38 - The passive income strategy that gave me freedom from constant client worry 04:34 - Why empowering women entrepreneurs is the key to breaking generational OCD patterns07:32 - Your next step: Stop letting mental load destroy your dreams   📱 Connect on Social:🟧 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/erindaviscoaching 📧 Threads: https://www.threads.com/@erindaviscoaching  🎵 TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@erindaviscoaching  ⭕ YouTube: https://youtube.com/@erindavisyoutube  📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/erindaviscoaching    🎯 READY TO STOP LETTING OCD STEAL YOUR PEACE? ONLY 10 SPOTS AVAILABLE for those who join my FREE masterclass "How to Finally Feel at Peace with Your Thoughts." Act NOW before space fills up: https://livebeyonddoubt.com/webinar-registration-erin     💪 Working out? Get strong and feel your best with Core Nutritionals without the crash. Core has safe ingredients that really work! https://bit.ly/strongwithcore     💬 From overthinking to clarity in one download. Get my FREE "30 Scripts for Difficult Conversations" guide and stop wondering what to say in those make-or-break moments. Transform your communication now → https://bit.ly/30scriptsfree     🆘 Stop the spiral now at www.livebeyonddoubt.com/link-tree    Affiliate links may be included, supporting my content at no extra cost to you.   *This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment.   DISCLAIMER: https://bit.ly/3ycFiY4   #MentalHealth #Entrepreneur #BusinessTips #OCDTendencies #EfficientBusiness
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4 months ago
8 minutes

Bossing Up: Overcoming OCD
How Extreme Jealousy Almost Ended Her Marriage with Shanenn | Ep 91
Shanenn opens up about her personal journey through relationship OCD, sharing vulnerable insights from a chaotic upbringing to a transformative moment in therapy. Her story tackles the heart of jealousy, insecurity, and the struggle to break free from self-blame.   Here’s what you can expect: – Shannen's early experiences growing up in a chaotic environment and how it shaped her relationship with trust and intimacy. – The evolution of her relationship OCD, with a focus on jealousy and the constant feeling of inadequacy. – The turning point in therapy: when her therapist shared a card titled “14 Characteristics of an Adult Child of an Alcoholic.” – How that raw, honest moment—hearing “check, check, check” and realizing she wasn’t alone—became a catalyst for change and healing. – Practical insights and reflections on breaking the cycle of self-blame and finding validation in one’s own struggle.   • Why This Episode Matters: – Hear firsthand how understanding and accepting your past can lead to empowerment and transformation. – Learn from Shanenn's journey how therapy and honest self-reflection can change the narrative of relationship OCD. – Celebrate the courage it takes to face your vulnerabilities and reclaim your sense of self-worth.   • Who Should Listen: – Anyone struggling with relationship OCD, jealousy, or feelings of isolation. – Listeners interested in mental health, personal growth, and the real-life impact of trauma on relationships. – Those looking for reassurance that they are not alone in their struggles and that healing is possible.   ⏰ Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction and Emotional Opening 00:15 Meet Shanenn Bryant 00:27 Special guest's Background and Struggles 01:41 The Turning Point: Therapy and Realizations 02:52 The Cycle of Jealousy and Insecurity 07:27 Breaking the Cycle: Tips and Support 08:28 Reprogramming Core Beliefs 13:28 Impact on Relationships and Personal Growth 15:04 Life After Overcoming Jealousy 16:47 Conclusion and Contact Information   If Shannen’s story resonated with you, share your thoughts or personal experiences on our social media channels. https://www.instagram.com/topselfco  – Subscribe and leave a review to help others discover this episode. – For more tools and support on managing OCD and relationship struggles, check out my Obsess Less, Love More program linked in the description.   📱 Connect on Social: 🎵 TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@erindaviscoaching  ⭕ Youtube: https://youtube.com/@erindavisyoutube  📘Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/erindaviscoaching  🟧 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/erindaviscoaching    🎯 READY TO STOP LETTING ANXIETY STEAL YOUR SUMMER? ONLY 10 SPOTS AVAILABLE for those who join my FREE masterclass "The First Step to Understanding Relationship OCD." Act now before space fills up: https://livebeyonddoubt.com/webinar-registration-erin    💪 Working out? Get strong and feel your best with Core Nutritional's without the crash. Core has safe ingredients that really work! https://bit.ly/strongwithcore     💬 From overthinking to clarity in one download. Get my FREE “30 Scripts for Difficult Conversations” guide and stop wondering what to say in those make-or-break moments. Transform your communication now → https://bit.ly/30scriptsfree  Affiliate links may be included, supporting my content at no extra cost to you.   *This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment.     DISCLAIMER: https://bit.ly/3ycFiY4
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4 months ago
17 minutes 5 seconds

Bossing Up: Overcoming OCD
The Narcissist Test: Why You're NOT What You Fear | Ep 90
Have you been stuck in an endless loop of questioning whether you're a narcissist? In this powerful finale to my narcissism series, I reveal the exact steps to break free from this exhausting OCD cycle once and for all. If you've been torturing yourself with self-doubt, this episode is for you!   🎯 What You'll Discover: 🔹 Why traditional reassurance-seeking actually makes your fears worse🔹 The counterintuitive approach that finally breaks the "Am I a narcissist?" loop🔹 How to respond to intrusive thoughts without getting trapped in analysis   ⏰ Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction to OCD's Manipulative Tactics 01:17 Understanding OCD's Mismatching Trick 01:46 Reverse Reasoning: How OCD Twists Logic 02:39 Out of Context Facts: OCD's Deceptive Strategy 03:13 Double Jeopardy: The No-Win Situation 03:44 Going Deep: The Rabbit Hole of Obsessions 04:13 Living the Fear: Physical Manifestations 04:40 Testing It Out: Seeking False Reassurance 05:48 Conclusion: Taking Steps Toward Real Peace   📱 Connect on Social: 🎵 TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@erindaviscoaching  ⭕ Youtube: https://youtube.com/@erindavisyoutube  📘Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/erindaviscoaching  🟧 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/erindaviscoaching    💪 Working out? Get strong and feel your best with Core Nutritionals without the crash. Core has safe ingredients that really work! https://bit.ly/strongwithcore    💬 From overthinking to clarity in one download. Get my FREE “30 Scripts for Difficult Conversations” guide and stop wondering what to say in those make-or-break moments. Transform your communication now → https://bit.ly/30scriptsfree    🆘 Stop the spiral now at www.livebeyonddoubt.com/link-tree    👉 Download THE OVERTHINKER'S GUIDE TO LOVE:Get my free guide to understand the 5 biggest mistakes that fuel relationship anxiety and how to overcome them.Download Now   Affiliate links may be included, supporting my content at no extra cost to you.   *This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment.     DISCLAIMER: https://bit.ly/3ycFiY4
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4 months ago
6 minutes 52 seconds

Bossing Up: Overcoming OCD
Do you have thoughts that get stuck, hang around too long, and stress you the heck out? Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder can make you feel broken, desperate, and alone. Sometimes the hardest thing to do is to beat the voice in your own head. This podcast offers expert insight on worry, stress, fear, anxiety and OCD. Licensed clinical mental health therapist and OCD specialist, Erin Davis, will deliver the details in a knowledgeable and compassionate way. Hear the sneaky games OCD likes to play. You’ll get actionable support on this very difficult health diagnosis. If you would like to see if you have Relationship OCD, go to my website www.valuedriventherapy.com to snag your results today!