This week on Calling in Sick, I’m joined by @Samantha Duran, a chronic illness and pain advocate, accessible fashion designer and content creator who is radically honest about life with chronic illness. We talk about the parts of chronic pain that rarely make it into doctor’s offices or public conversations: the shame around needing relief, the reality of public judgment, and the exhausting internal battle of deciding how much pain is “enough” pain to deserve care. Together, we unpack the misconceptions that keep people suffering in silence. We’re diving into: ✨ Samantha’s journey with chronic illness and how it shaped who she is ✨ Why dynamic disabilities are so misunderstood ✨ The stigma around pain management and seeking relief ✨ The internal guilt, fear, and self-doubt that comes with chronic pain ✨ What compassionate, patient-centered pain care should look like If you’ve ever minimized your pain, questioned whether you’re “sick enough,” or felt ashamed for wanting relief, this conversation is for you. xx, Alex 💬 Comment: What’s the hardest part of living with chronic pain that people don’t see? TIMESTAMP: Intro: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling in Sick! 00:03:15 Alex’s Picks of the Week (Hair Growth Go-Tos: DIVI, K18, Jupiter, Hairstory) Our discussion on chronic pain & dynamic disabilities: 00:06:10 Get to know Samantha Duran 00:14:45 The reality of living with a dynamic disability 00:27:20 What living with chronic pain is REALLY like 00:48:00 Why there is a stigma around seeking relief from chronic pain 00:55:15 Why the current medical system’s understanding of chronic pain makes getting relief harder than it needs to be 01:06:47 What gives us hope that chronic pain management will improve over time Conclusion: 01:08:55 One Brain Cell Segment 01:14:17 Thank you for listening! ---------------------------------------------------------------- Follow our Guest, Samantha Duran! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adisabledicon/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@adisabledicon?lang=en Shop her Store: https://thanksicon.com/ Listen to her chronic pain playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6OgAKjwfWMATonF4pNnBHP?si=IRavatdDTzmC0hPmZERoRw Stay connected and follow us on socials for more! Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 Substack - https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod? ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Alex’s Picks of the Week: Samantha said it best… you can be sick, and hot!! Here are my favorite products for reclaiming your hair from chronic illness (no more thinning or frail hair!!) ✨DIVI — https://go.shopmy.us/p-36240548 Alexandra15 for 15% off at checkout!  ✨Jupiter — https://go.shopmy.us/p-36240630 Alexandra20 for 20% off at checkout!  ✨HairStory — https://go.shopmy.us/p-36240725 ✨K18 —https://go.shopmy.us/p-36240750 #ChronicPain #PainManagement #InvisibleIllness #SpoonieLife #MedicalGaslighting #DisabilityAdvocate #ChronicIllness #HealthJourney #MentalHealth #PainStigma #CallingInSickPodcast #AlexWildeson #spooniesupport #samanthaduran #accessibility #dynamicdisability #ambulatorydisability  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Calling in Sick I’m pulling back the curtain on the last two months of medical testing — why I said yes to a clinical study, what the actual tests were like, and how I’m handling the weird emotional whiplash of “we did all that… and we still don’t have a perfect answer.” I’m tired, I’m flaring, I had my first day of IVIG… and somehow we’re still laughing (because if we don’t laugh, we scream in a medical trailer getting injected with nuclear medicine 🙃). We’re diving into: ✨ Why I joined a clinical study (and what it’s actually used for) ✨ The 5-test diagnostic gauntlet: prednisone taper, bloodwork, scopes, pill cam, MRAs/MRIs + a PET scan ✨ Insurance + scheduling lore from HELL ✨ Colonoscopy prep amnesia (it’s like childbirth… you forget on purpose) ✨ My polarizing take: Google Maps > Apple Maps (fight me) ✨ The pill cam panic + urgent care x2 in one week ✨ The mindset shift I didn’t see coming: career momentum, motherhood timeline, and accepting what I’m not ready for yet xx, Alex 💬 COMMENT: What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever had to do for medical testing? TIMESTAMPS: Intro: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling in Sick! 00:06:18 Alex’s Picks of the Week: Gap Body pajamas + bear slippers (kids section hack) Meat & Potatoes: The Diagnostic Gauntlet 00:09:08 Setting the stage: why I did the study 00:09:34 Clinical study 101 (and why it matters for future patients) 00:11:44 The deeper reason: the childhood diagnosis question mark 00:14:21 Prednisone taper (DO NOT DO THIS AT HOME) 00:19:27 Colonoscopy/endoscopy scheduling chaos + prep misery 00:22:26 Bloodwork off meds (and why I wanted the comparison) 00:25:14 Pill cam explained 00:30:47 MRAs/MRIs explained 00:34:56 Rituxan win: the mid-infusion Benadryl trick 00:36:02 IVIG recall 00:36:43 PET scans explained 00:39:19 Biggest takeaways: prep worse than tests + results didn’t show much 00:42:38 What’s next: oral prednisone vs IV, CAR-T trial, methotrexate or… Conclusion: 00:46:00 Why I feel “weirdly okay” right now (and what chronic illness teaches you) 00:49:24 Soft30 with Elastique 00:50:06 One Brain Cell Show: Age of Disclosure 00:52:34 Thank you for listening!  ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow us on socials for more! • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack - https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod? ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ ---------------------------------------------------------------- Alex’s Picks of the Week: We’re talking “surviving medical chaos” essentials this week… aka comfort items and small joys. ✨Gap Body pajamas (port-friendly button down) — https://go.shopmy.us/p-35563702 ✨Gap bear slippers — https://go.shopmy.us/p-35563870 ✨Our MERCH is available still…. Get it while it lasts!!!! — https://calling-in-sick.myshopify.com/ —— Use code “ZOFRAN” for a special discount!! ---------------------------------------------------------------- 🥄 RSVP: Cooking with Cooper LIVE on YouTube on 12/19 —https://www.eventbrite.com/e/cooking-with-coop-tickets-1976990439624?aff=oddtdtcreator ---------------------------------------------------------------- #callinginsickpodcast #callinginsick #chronicillness #autoimmune #spoonielife #spooniesupport #invisibleillness #healthjourney #ivig #rituxan #prednisone #vasculitis #lupuslife #endometriosis #chronicpain #fatigue #medicalgaslighting #spoonietribe #flareup #petscan #pillcam #colonoscopy #mri #mra #clinicalstudy #chronicillnesshumor Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Calling in Sick we’re talking about one of the most controversial skills you’ll ever learn with chronic illness… working smarter instead of harder. After 25+ years being the patient, I’ve learned something I WISH someone told me as a kid… healthy-person rules were never designed for us. So I’m walking you through the “rules” I break on purpose, why my body finally didn’t crash after a holiday (knocking on wood), and the smarter systems I’ve built that protect my energy, time, and sanity. We’re diving into: ✨ Automating anything that drains your energy ✨ Outsourcing high-spoon, low-reward tasks ✨ Scheduling around spoons (not expectations) ✨ Proactive wellness + mobility aids BEFORE you look sick ✨ Habit stacking (my Soft30 girlies knowwww) We’ll talk if it’s OK taking mid-day naps during the workweek, cancelling last-minute, using a wheelchair-at-the-airport and what mindset shift that changed everything for me this year. If you’ve ever been called lazy, dramatic, or “too much” for doing what your body actually needs… then this episode is going to be like a chat with THAT friend who encourages you to break every rule healthy people consider “normal.” xx, Alex 💬 COMMENT: What societal rule do YOU break because of chronic illness? TIMESTAMPS: Intro: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling in Sick! 00:01:20 Introducing... Soft30 Challenge with Elastique 00:04:20 Alex’s Picks of the Week (Elastique, Comrad, MERCH!!!) Work Smarter, Not Harder: 00:06:47 Why working smarter not harder may disappoint healthy people 00:10:37 Tip 1: Automate anything that drains you 00:12:39 Tip 2: Outsource selectively 00:15:22 Tip 3: Own your own schedule 00:18:12 Tip 4: Be proactive with your spoons 00:22:33 Tip 5: Habit stacking & My top 5 wellness tools // products Conclusion: 00:27:48 One Brain Cell Show: Man on the Inside (Netflix) 00:29:42 Thank you for listening! ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow us on socials for more! • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack - https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod? ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Alex’s Picks of the Week: We’re talking smarter systems and strategies this week… which obviously means I had to pick things in-line with that aka compression wear ✨Elastique — https://tidd.ly/4oyZWpa —— ALEXW30 for 30% ✨Comrad Socks — go.shopmy.us/p-28820619 —— ALEXWILDESON for 20% ✨Our MERCH is available still…. Get it while it lasts!!!! — https://calling-in-sick.myshopify.com/ —— Use code “ZOFRAN” for a special discount!! #callinginsickpodcast #callinginsick #chronicillness #autoimmune #spoonielife #spooniesupport #invisibleillness #worksmartnothard #disabilitylife #chronicpain #fatigue #chronicillnesspodcast #healthjourney #chronicillnesshumor #autoimmunedisease #lupuslife #vasculitis #mixedconnectivetissuedisease #spoonietips #spoonietools #wellnesstips #ivig #rituxan #duvetday #chronicillnesssupport #pacingskills #spoonietribe #energybudget #restday #mobilityaids #compressionwear #habitstacking #soft30 #burnoutprevention #medicalgaslighting #restisproductive #spoons #flarestory #restculture #energyconservation Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Calling in Sick, we’re getting into one of the most universal chronic illness experiences that NOBODY warns you about. What happens when you internalize the words “I don’t believe you,” and how that becomes the voice in your head. After 25+ years of being the patient, I’m unpacking how dismissal, doubt, and “are you sure?” became my default setting and how trauma therapy (for something else entirely) made me realize how DEEP this runs. We’re diving into: ⭐ The childhood moments that taught me to question my own symptoms — the arthritic kid in the 90s, the teacher who didn’t believe me, and the way it rewired my brain ⚡️ The universal experience that bonds every chronic illness patient — why people don’t “get it” unless they live it, touch it, or you explain it in their language 🧠 How this internalized disbelief shows up everywhere else — work, relationships, self-doubt, medical OCD, and becoming addicted to proving yourself ✨ The realization in trauma therapy that changed everything — and why this “I don’t believe you” voice isn’t actually yours If you’ve ever caught yourself wondering, “Are my symptoms real?” “Do people think I’m exaggerating?” “Is this all in my head?” …this episode is for you. xx,Alex Comment: Do you default to thinking people do believe you, or don’t believe you? Timestamps: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling in Sick! 00:00:25 The childhood moments that taught me to question my own symptoms 00:04:07 Alex’s Picks of the Week (Elastique, Warmies, Calling in Sick merch) 00:10:02 The realization in trauma therapy that changed everything 00:15:52 People “don’t get” chronic illness until they live it, touch it, or you explain it in a language they understand 00:20:17 How internalized disbelief shows up everywhere else (work, relationships, self-doubt, medical OCD, etc.) 00:29:01 The “I don’t believe you” voice in your head isn’t actually yours 00:30:38 One Brain Cell Show: Secret Lives of Mormon Wives 00:32:28 Thank you for listening! ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow us on socials for more! • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack - https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod? ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Alex’s Picks of the Week: This week we’re talking COMFORT because when you have a big “aha” in therapy, your body needs all the softness ✨Elastique wearable wellness for on the go lymphatic-friendly comfort compression — https://go.shopmy.us/p-29784091 ✨Warmies microwaveable, weighted and an immediate nervous system hug packed into slippers — https://amzn.to/4pl7UmU ✨Shop Our Merch ✨ — https://calling-in-sick.myshopify.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Calling in Sick, we’re diving into one of the most begged-for topics in women’s health… hormones. We talk about what they actually do, how they impact chronic illness, and why SO many of us are misdiagnosed or dismissed for years. I’m joined by Dr. Shawn Tassone, America’s Holistic Gynecologist, a double board-certified OB/GYN + Integrative Medicine MD with a PhD in Mind-Body Medicine. He’s known for blending science and spirituality, calling out misinformation online, and giving women the tools to finally understand their bodies. We’re breaking down: 🧩 Hormones 101 — what they really control (hint: it’s way beyond PMS) 🔥 Hormones & Chronic Illness — autoimmune overlap, stress load, flare patterns 🩺 What you can do — red flags, labs that matter, treatments and integrative care 🚨 Hormone Mythbusting — cortisol panic, “balancing your hormones,” internet BS If hormones feel like a mystery box, this episode will make everything finally click. xx, Alex 💬 Comment: What’s ONE hormone symptom you wish doctors took seriously? TIMESTAMPS Intro: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling in Sick! 00:02:39 Alex’s Picks of the Week (MERCH!!, Giveaway, Corkcicle, Hatch) Interview with Dr. Tassone 00:05:34 Intro to Hormones 00:10:50 Intro to Dr. Tassone (who he is, what he does and how he became the Hormone Guru) 00:18:33 Why there is SO much misinformation online about health 00:21:58 Calling in Sick Merch Drop Details 00:25:48 Women's Health & Narrative Medicine Women's Hormones 00:30:17 Why women's hormone health has been overlooked for SO long 00:32:57 The black box warning on women's hormone treatment 00:40:15 When should you look into your hormone health (testing & treatment) 00:44:52 The wrench that insurance throws into this mix (Alex's most recent crashout & impact to procedures) 00:49:50 Current hormone treatments on the market 00:53:57 Rapid Fire Myth Busting and why hormones impact chronic illness Conclusion: 00:58:48 One Brain Cell Segment 01:01:01 Where to find Dr. Tassone & Thank You!! ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow us on socials for more! • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack - https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod? ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Alex’s Picks of the Week:These are my favorite finds to start my morning softly… and without spills! ✨Corckcicle, Sierra Leakproof Cruiser — go.shopmy.us/p-30936310 — CODE: ShopMy20 for 20% off at checkout ✨Hatch, Restore 3 — go.shopmy.us/p-32313847 — $30 off until 12/2, or until it sells out!! #HormoneHealth #ChronicIllness #AutoimmuneDisease #MindBodyConnection #WomenHealth #DrShawnTassone #HormoneBalanceBible #CallingInSickPodcast #AlexWildeson #SpoonieLife #InvisibleIllness #IntegrativeMedicine #Endometriosis #PCOS #Inflammation #MedicalGaslighting #HolisticGynecology #Cortisol #HRT #functionalmedicine Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This month nearly took me out — it literally felt like a physical and mental rollercoaster. I was up…and then down (like almost in the hospital down)…and then up…and then decided it was also a good time to test some boundaries, which brought only more ups and downs. With my monthlong whiplash coming to an end, I wanted to do some reflection to figure out what worked, what didn’t, and what I need to prioritize moving forward. So, this week's episode of Calling in Sick, is that reflection. Please keep your hands, arms, legs, and feet inside this chronic illness rollercoaster at all times because it’s a doozy!! I’m sharing:  💔The rules I broke (+ what happened when I broke them!!) 📝The rules I held firm!! 🙌 My unexpected learnings from testing ALL the boundaries (at once) If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Am I allowed to push? Am I allowed to live big even when I feel small?” — this episode is your permission slip…to at least do some testing. xx, Alex 💬 Comment: What’s your take on couple’s math? If your partner is doing all the cooking/cleaning while you're on low spoons… is it rude to sit out, or is that just survival mode etiquette? Comment your thoughts below!! TIMESTAMP: Intro: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling in Sick 00:20:00 Life catch-up 00:02:38 Alex’s Picks of the Week (Crown Pillow, Kroma Bone Broth) 00:05:32 MERCH dropping Monday 11/24!! Pushing the Limits: 00:08:43 The mental health impact of testing your boundaries and rules 00:13:04 Boundary #1 - Food 00:15:28 Boundary #2 - Sleep 00:17:17 Boundary #3 - Socializing 00:19:42 The rules I followed this weekend 00:25:08 The rules I broke this weekend! 00:28:40 My take on whether the rollercoaster was worth it Conclusion: 00:37:05 One Brain Cell Show: Frankenstein 00:38:22 Thank you for Calling in Sick with me! ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow us on socials for more! • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack - https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod? ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Alex’s Picks of the Week: I’ve really been leaning into all the coziness this month, these 2 are some of my favorites!  ✨Crown Pillow - https://go.shopmy.us/p-31199942 ✨Kroma Bone Broth - https://go.shopmy.us/p-31199981 #ChronicIllnessPodcast #SpoonieLife #InvisibleIllness #AutoimmuneWarrior #FlareUp #ChronicPainCommunity #ChronicIllnessHumor #PodcastForSpoonies #SpoonieSupport #CallingInSickPodcast #AlexWildeson #ChronicWarrior #MentalHealthMatters #ChronicIllnessAwareness #LifeWithChronicIllness #ChronicHealing #SpoonieStruggles #ChronicIllnessPodcastEpisode #SpoonTheory #FatigueFighter #ChronicIllnessJourney #AutoimmuneLife #WellnessJourney #BoundariesMatter #HealthJourney #ChronicIllnessAcceptance #ChronicIllnessTips #DisabilityCommunity #ChronicIllnessSupport #SpoonieTools Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I had a toddler-level crash out this week… like, full-on crying mid–Hot Girl Walk. In this episode, I try to make sense of where it came from. Hint: my brain was definitely trying to protect me. Between the prednisone taper, nonstop testing, and the mental gymnastics of waiting for answers, I didn’t realize how much my anxiety had been brewing under the surface. So today, I’m getting real about what’s actually behind it — and what this latest meltdown taught me. I open up about: 😭 How the literal anticipation of bad news made me crash out 🧠 The sneaky tricks our brains play on us (and why we need to not borrow tomorrow’s trouble) 🩺 Why negative test results can feel like heartbreak 💔 How hard it can be when those you love fail to support you in the way you need 🤯 How I gaslit myself into questioning if I can even be a mom Anxiety really is one SOB, isn’t it?!  xx,Alex 💬 Comment: How do YOU want people to show up for you when you’re struggling — with shit talking, solutions, solidarity, or silliness? TIMESTAMP: Intro: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling in Sick! 00:03:10 Alex’s Picks of the Week (Elastique, Lola Blanket) Why I crashed the F out: 00:04:40 Confession time (ie: I crashed out) 00:08:12 Why I think I got so anxious 00:10:35 How my brain started to play tricks on me 00:14:52 My medical update 00:20:26 What I know for sure: my current protocol isn’t working 00:2250 My reframe since my crash out 00:25:00 The 4 different ways that people need support 00:27:47 The 3 reasons that people may not show up for you when you need them most Conclusion: 00:34:11 One Brain Cell Show: Dancing with the Stars 00:35:27 My approach for the next 2 months 00:36:18 Thanks for Calling in Sick with me this week!! ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow us on socials for more! • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack - https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod? ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Alex’s Picks of the Week: During the rollercoaster of this week, I’ve been leaning into anything that makes life easier, and these 2 have been absolute lifesavers ✨Elastique - https://go.shopmy.us/p-23182655 ✨Lola Blankets - https://go.shopmy.us/p-29496707 ALEXWILD for 55% off at checkout #CallingInSickPodcast #AlexWildeson #ChronicIllness #ChronicIllnessAwareness #SpoonieLife #SpoonieSupport #ChronicPain #InvisibleIllness #AutoimmuneDisease #ChronicFatigue #MentalHealthMatters #HealingJourney #HealthAnxiety #PrednisoneProblems #VasculitisWarrior #ChronicIllnessCommunity #SpooniePodcast #IllnessJourney #MedicalMystery #MindBodyConnection #SelfCompassion #ChronicWarrior #BrainHealth #TraumaHealing #HealthUpdate #PatientPerspective #Duality #AutoimmuneLife #HealthPodcast #SpoonieStories  #EmotionalHealing  #ChronicIllnessAdvocate Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What do I know for sure about chronic illness, you ask?? Literally NONE of it makes sense. As someone who’s been sick for 25 years, you think I would have it all perfectly figured out - what triggers me, what medications work for me, how to talk about my illness with other people - but NOPE, a lot of the time chronic illness still feels a bit like a mystery to me, so how are other people, especially those without chronic illness, supposed to get it?? From flare ups that appear out of nowhere to “doing everything right” and still getting knocked down, this episode dives into the chaos and contradictions of living with chronic illness. What I get into this week: ⚠️ How this past week’s flare up has totally rocked me and what’s next 🤕 My TOP 4 reasons that chronic illnesses just don’t make sense! ⛔️ The different things “flare up” can mean 📝 How I remind myself what healing a chronic disease really means  xx, Alex 💬 Comment: What’s something about your chronic illness that makes zero sense — but you’ve learned to live with anyway? Drop it below! TIMESTAMPS: Intro: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling in Sick! 00:00:44 Life catchup + what we are talking about this week 00:04:10 Alex’s Picks of the week (Conrad compression socks, Cadence travel containers) 4 Reasons Chronic Illnesses make NO sense: 00:07:01 The unpredictability of chronic illness 00:11:44 Why we can’t compare ourselves to other people (even if they have the same disease!!) 00:15:33 Why it feels like nobody fully understands chronic illness  00:16:20 How I define a flare-up 00:19:57 The goal of healing a chronic illness Conclusion: 00:24:51 One Brain Cell Show: Wife Swap: The Real Housewives Edition (Bravo) 00:26:45 Thank you for listening! ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow us on socials for more! • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack - https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod? ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Alex’s Picks of the Week: The items that that are a must have for your go-bag (hospitals, infusions and travel)! ✨Comrad compression socks - https://go.shopmy.us/p-28820619 — use “ALEXWILDESON20” for 20% off at checkout!! ✨Cadence travel containers - https://go.shopmy.us/p-29547777 #ChronicIllness #AutoimmuneLife #InvisibleIllness #ChronicIllnessWarrior #ChronicFatigue #SpoonieLife #SpoonieCommunity #ChronicPain #ChronicIllnessAwareness #MentalHealthMatters #HealingJourney #ChronicIllnessDoesntMakeSense #DisabilityAwareness #LifeWithChronicIllness #ChronicPainRelief #FightingFatigue #SpoonieSupport #CallingInSickPodcast #AlexWildeson #BrainFog #FlareUp #InvisibleDisability #AutoimmuneDisease #HealthJourney #WellnessMindset #SelfCareRoutine #HealingNotCured #ChronicIllnessAcceptance #RestIsProductive #ChronicWarrior #UnpredictableBody #MindBodyHealth #SpoonieTips #AutoimmuneCommunity  #ChronicIllnessSupport Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I girlbossed too close to the sun 😵‍💫 (forcing a flare for diagnostics + having a little too much fun!!) — so I’m calling in sick for real this week and giving my body the rest it needs. While I take a breather (and a heating pad nap), I’m revisiting one of my all-time favorite episodes. This conversation with Dr. Zachary Spiritos, a neuro-gastro-immunologist and advocate for women’s health, changed the way I think about medicine, bias, and being believed. We talk about why so many women’s symptoms are dismissed, how to actually advocate for yourself in appointments, and what invisible illness really means. If you’ve ever been told “it’s all in your head” — this episode is your reminder that it’s not. What we cover: 🧠 Why women’s pain is often minimized or misdiagnosed ⚠️ How medical gaslighting shows up — and how to handle it 🥼 What real advocacy looks like in the doctor’s office 💩 The gut-health connection to chronic conditions 💬 Why “trust your body” isn’t just a phrase — it’s a survival skill Whether you’re fighting to be taken seriously, learning to listen to your body, or just craving validation that you’re not alone — this one still hits. Thanks for Calling in Sick with us 💛 xx, Alex Comment: What’s one thing you wish more doctors understood about women’s health? TIMESTAMPS:  Intro 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling In Sick!  00:02:15 Alex’s Picks Of the Week (IB Guard, Magnesium)  My Interview with Dr. Spiritos 00:03:45 Meet Dr. Zachary Spiritos & understanding neuro-gastro-immunology  00:24:48 Where the disparity in women’s health comes from 00:29:00 The reality of medical gaslighting and how to respond  00:44:33 How to advocate for yourself in appointments, and have success! Final Thoughts 00:47:34 What’s next for Dr. Zachary Spiritos  00:55:00 Dr. Zachary’s final recommendations 00:57:25 Thank you for listening!!!  ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow social: • Instagram - ⁠https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/⁠ • TikTok - ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod⁠ • Facebook -  ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568⁠ • Substack -  ⁠https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod?⁠ ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- ⁠https://www.justmediahouse.com/⁠ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — ⁠https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/⁠ ---------------------------------------------------------------- Episode Sponsor: LifeBoost Coffee! • First Time Customer (58% off): ⁠https://lifeboostcoffee.com/pages/healthy-coffee-ot2e-19-cp?ref=ALEXANDRAWILDESON⁠ • Subscribe and Save (Up to 48% off): ⁠https://lifeboostcoffee.com/pages/subscribe-save?ref=ALEXANDRAWILDESON⁠ Use code ALEXANDRA10 for 10% off!! ---------------------------------------------------------------- Alex’s Picks of the Week: This week's picks are for all my friends whose tummy hurts!! ✨IB Guard — ⁠ https://amzn.to/47nlDSC ✨Pure Encapsulation (Magnesium Supplementation) — ⁠ https://amzn.to/47nlHlk ---------------------------------------------------------------- #podcast #podcastclips #chronicillness #autoimmunedisease #ChronicPain #ChronicFatigue #spoonielife #HealthJourney #CallingInSick #SpoonieSupport #ChronicIllnessAwareness #MedicalJourney#DisabilityAwareness #SurvivalMode #IdentityShift #medicalgaslighting #womenshealth #zachspiritos#neurology #gastroenterology #immunology #selfadvocacy #medicalbias Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

After 25 years, I’m still constantly wondering if my childhood diagnosis is even right, which has a LOT of implications. Like am I taking the right meds, am I seeing the right doctors, why am I not feeling better. So when my doctors offered a *potential* way to get a more definitive answer, I was quick to say HELL YES…even though that meant literally making myself flare up. In this episode of Calling in Sick, I get real about what it’s like to go off your meds to try get that final, definitive answer. This week I talk about: What prompted the discussion of forcing a flare up & why I said OK What a RAPID prednisone taper is really like How my diagnostic tests are going, so far The toll this has taken on my mental health The TL;DR? After spending most of my life living in the grey without a clear diagnosis, I’m letting logic take a backseat to hope. If you’ve ever felt like a detective in your own body, chasing every clue and doing whatever it takes to uncover the truth, I think you’ll like this episode. As always, sending my love. xx, Alex Comment: Would you ever go off your meds to get a clearer diagnosis, or is that totally off limits? Drop your thoughts in the comments!!! I am dying to know if I’m the only one who would give a hell yes to this madness… TIMESTAMP: Intro: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling in Sick!! 00:01:10 What today’s episode is really about 01:49 You’re invited to a Calling in Sick Vision Board Night!! - October 30 at 6pm CST 00:03:05 Alex’s Picks (Our Place Cookware Set, Zevo Fruit Fly Trap) I Forced the Flare: 00:05:18 What made me force a flare up 00:09:52 This is why I share the intimate stuff 00:10:05 Is it wrong to force a flare up?? 00:12:21 The real reason I said yes 00:13:32 What going off prednisone actually feels like 00:16:33 My colonoscopy experience + colonoscopy pro tips!! 00:23:30 All of this may be for…nothing Conclusion: 00:26:11 One Brain Cell Show: Is it Cake? (Netflix) 00:27:18 Where to follow along for test updates 00:27:25 Thanks for Calling in Sick! ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow us on socials for more! • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack - https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod? ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Alex’s Picks of the Week: This week’s picks are coming straight from my house to yours - 2 of my current favorite nontoxic house items!! ✨Our Place Cookware Set - https://go.shopmy.us/p-28091714 ✨ Zevo Flying Insect Trap - https://go.shopmy.us/p-27239252 #CallingInSickPodcast #SpoonieSupport #ChronicIllness #InvisibleIllness #AutoimmuneLife #ChronicPainCommunity #HealthJourney #FlareUp #LupusWarrior #MixedConnectiveTissueDisease #PrednisoneTaper #SpoonieHumor  #PatientAdvocate #SpoonieLife #ChronicFatigue #BrainFog #SpoonTheory #ChronicIllnessAwareness #ChronicLife #HealthPodcast #ChronicIllnessPodcast #DisabilityAwareness #AlexWildeson #ChronicIllnessSupport #WellnessPodcast #SpoonieStories  #MedicalMystery #HealthAnxiety #IBDWarrior #AutoimmuneAwareness #PatientExperience  #LivingWithIllness #SpoonieStruggles #DiagnosisJourney Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Calling in Sick, I sit down with Oli Mittermaier, Co-Founder of CIT clinics, to unpack how ketamine therapy is reshaping treatment for mental health and chronic pain. When we hear ketamine therapy, most of us have an immediate reaction: you might feel like it’s taboo and all you can think about is “drugs are BAD,” perhaps you’ve tried Ketamine therapy and it had a life changing impact on your health, or maybe you are genuinely curious what it is and how it can be used in a clinical setting and if you are a good candidate for it. No matter where you are coming from, if you listen with a bit of an open-mind, this episode is for you!   This week we dive into: My experience with Ketamine therapy The science behind how ketamine promotes neuroplasticity and healing What ketamine therapy is ACTUALLY like How to explore this therapeuritc for your own healing Tune in for a mind-expanding discussion! xx, Alex 💬 Comment: What’s one therapy, practice, or experience that actually surprised you in your healing journey? TIMESTAMP: Intro: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling in Sick! 00:00:07 What prompted me to try Ketamine therapy + my experience 00:07:21 Preconceived notions of Ketamine 00:10:19 Alex’s Picks (Relief Pack, CBD Living Roll-on) An Introduction to Ketamine Therapy: 00:12:10 Meet Ali Mittermaier - Oli’s story with Ketamine therapy 00:20:22 Mental health is more than just symptoms and a diagnosis 00:35:28 Oli’s 10 Non-Negotiatibles of Well-Being 00:41:26 Not every Ketamine therapy experience is equal 00:49:33 What Ketamine actually does to the brain + how it makes you feel 00:01:08 The future of Ketamine 01:10:46 How to know if you’re a good candidate  01:17:17 How to get involved even if you aren’t ready to try Ketamine therapy or do it somewhere different Conclusion: 01:17:17 Oli’s One Brain Cell Show & my One Brain Cell Show (Kurzgesagt) 00:38:22 Thank you for listening! ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow us on socials for more! • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack - https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod? ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Alex’s Picks of the Week My favorite 2 items that are always available for me ✨Relief Pack — https://www.releafpack.com/product-page/rock-on — 6ANN gives you a 25% discount at checkout! ✨CBD Living Roll-On — https://cbdliving.com/products/cbd-roll-on-freeze-1500-mg — I use the 1,500 mg CBD Roll-On Freeze #KetamineTherapy #PsychedelicMedicine #MentalHealthAwareness #ChronicPainRelief #Neuroplasticity #TraumaHealing #MindBodyConnection #CITClinics #HealingJourney #YouAreNotYourDiagnosis #CallingInSickPodcast #AlexWildeson #SpoonieSupport #AnxietyHelp #DepressionRecovery #SelfCompassion #MindfulnessPractice #BrainHealth #PsychedelicHealing #AlternativeTherapies #HolisticHealth #IntegrativeMedicine #HealingFromWithin #ResilienceBuilding #KetamineForPTSD #ChronicPainCommunity #MentalHealthPodcast #TraumaInformedCare #NeuroscienceOfHealing #StressRelief #WellnessPodcast #InnerPeace #ReframingHealing #HealingTrauma #AgencyOverAnxiety #MentalHealthInnovation #KetamineJourney #CallingInSickPodcast #AlexWildeson Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this week’s episode of Calling in Sick, I’m opening up about how being “a pleasure to have in class” growing up has morphed into a deep need to be a PERFECT patient!!! I share how I try get my therapist to laugh during appointments like I’m some stand-up comedian and why I love to hear “your so tough” like I’m a Navy Seal. The reality is that the clash of this constant need to people please mixed with my chronic illnesses has led me to….lie to my doctors. I come clean on the extents I’ve gone through to be perfect, how it’s backfired, and answer the subsequent, polarizing question: is it ever OK to lie to your doctor? Plus, I drop my TOP 3 TIPS for breaking free from “perfect patient” mode. If you’ve ever downplayed symptoms, performed for a laugh mid-appointment, or craved your provider’s approval… you’re not alone, and we can quit this very sick game together. So here’s to us, becoming not so perfect! xx, Alex 💬 Comment: Have you ever downplayed symptoms or lied to your doctor to seem like the ‘perfect patient’? Drop your confession below  TIMESTAMP: Intro: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling in Sick! 00:24:00 Clinical Study Update & The Surprise I pulled off this week!!! The Perfect Patient Trap & How to Escape it: 00:05:06 Qualities of a people-pleasing, perfect patient 00:06:03 Why I NEED to be the perfection patient 00:08:14 My recovery from people-pleasing 00:14:30 A story of how I lied to my doctor 00:16:55 3 tips to challenge your desire to be the perfect patient 00:19:20 Your permission to be imperfect Conclusion: 00:20:20 Alex’s Picks of the Week (Los Angeles Apparel, Soludos) 00:22:51 One Brain Cell Pick…for spooky season! (Haunted Hotel - Netflix) 00:25:18 Thanks for Calling in Sick with me! ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow us on socials for more! • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack - https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod? ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Alex’s Picks of the Week: In honor of reminiscing this week for Saint Cooper’s birthday, here are my nostalgic picks for you!! ✨Los Angeles Apparel - https://go.shopmy.us/p-25899517 ✨Soludos - go.shopmy.us/p-27019178 #CallingInSickPodcast #AlexWildeson #PerfectPatient #ChronicIllness #SpoonieSupport #SpoonieCommunity #ChronicLife #AutoimmuneDisease #InvisibleIllness #PeoplePleasing #PatientAdvocacy #MedicalGaslighting #HealthcareTips #DoctorVisits  #PatientEmpowerment #LyingToYourDoctor #MentalHealthMatters #ChronicPain #PatientStories #DoctorOfficeConfessions #RadicalAcceptance #AccountabilityMatters #TraumaHealing #TherapyHumor #PrednisoneLife #FlareUps #ChronicFatigue #IBD #InvisibleDisabilities #SpoonieSisters #HealthEquity #SelfAdvocacy #HonestPatient #PeoplePleaserRecovery  #HealthBoundaries Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Is “gut health” just another buzzy wellness trend, OR is it a real component of chronic illness that we may be able to change?? In this episode of Calling in Sick, I sit down with Dr. Stephanie Culler, microbiome PhD, cancer researcher, and co-founder/CEO of Persephone Biosciences, to cut through the hype and bring you the real Gut Microbiome 101. In this episode, we cover: 🌱 What the microbiome actually is (and how it develops from birth to adulthood) 💊 Why antibiotics aren’t always the enemy and how to recover after using them 🤓 The truth about “leaky gut,” gut dysbiosis, and what the gut–brain connection is 🦠 How microbiome diversity affects immunity, mood, inflammation, and even response to medications 💕 Which supplements are worth your money, and the 4 low-lift habits that actually improve gut health If you’ve ever wondered what’s going on with your, why gut talk is so buzzy, or if you can do something to help improve your gut… this is the episode you can’t miss. xx, Alex ** You can read more about Dr. Culler's groundbreaking, largest of it's kind, infant microbiome study, "My Baby Biome" here: https://www.nature.com/articles/s42003-025-08274-7 💬 Comment: Fermented foods, fiber, or supplements: what’s your go-to for gut support? Share your routine in the comments! TIMESTAMP: Intro: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling in Sick! 00:03:45 Alex’s Picks of the Week (Persephone Biosciences Symbiotic, Hilma Fiber Supplement) 00:04:53 Introducing Dr. Stephanie Culler Gut Health 101: 00:07:21 What is the microbiome + why does it really matter? 00:12:28 Gut impact of antibiotics and how to make good bacteria thrive 00:20:46 Leaky Gut explained 00:28:33 Can you even improve an unhealthy microbiome? 00:42:46 4 lifestyle changes you can implement now to improve your gut Conclusion: 00:49:12 My takeaways from my own gut testing 00:51:31 Overview of a clinical study (where does funding come from and does it sway research?!) 00:57:40 Thank you to Dr. Stephanie Culler! 00:57:58 Episode wrap-up and how to stay in touch with Calling in Sick! ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow us on socials for more! • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack - https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod? ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Alex’s Picks of the Week: These 2 supplements help me make sure that I am taking care of my gut health! ✨Persephone Biosciences Symbiotic: https://go.shopmy.us/p-26313246 ✨Hilma Fiber Supplement:  https://rebrand.ly/6tq0q7k —— Use code “ALEXANDRA20” for 20% off at checkout!! #GutHealth #GutMicrobiome #Microbiome101 #GutHealthMythBusting #ChronicIllnessCommunity #ChronicIllnessSupport #AutoimmuneHealth #RootCauseHealing #GutHealing #LeakyGutMyth #DigestiveHealth #GutBrainConnection #ImmuneHealth #HormoneHealth #HolisticHealing #GutReset #HealthyHabits #WellnessJourney #MindBodyConnection #MicrobiomeResearch #HealthAndWellness #SelfCareTips #MicrobiomeFacts #GutHealthTips #InflammationRelief #ChronicIllnessLife #AutoimmuneWarrior #HealthyGutHealthyLife #DigestiveWellness #SpoonieSupport #CallingInSickPodcast #AlexWildeson Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Calling in Sick, Cooper joins me to chat all things prednisone… because prednisone isn’t just hard on the person taking it, it’s a full-on rollercoaster for the people around them too!! After more than a decade of riding out meltdowns, bickers, and plenty of learning curves, we are pulling back the curtain on what it’s really like to survive prednisone together. Coop shares his POV on what prednisone is really like... from my not-so-cute mood swings, overstimulation meltdowns, and guilt spirals to our top 4 tips that have kept our relationship steady throughout it all. Tune in to hear: ⭐ Cooper’s number one rule for when I’m on prednisone (hint hint… anticipation is key!!) 💊 How we came up with “Victoria” and why personifying prednisone has changed everything ✨ Why being vulnerable and having open communication is critical ⚠️ My biggest lesson about being prednisone and taking accountability If you or someone you love is on prednisone, this episode is your field guide to supporting them, without losing your sanity (or your relationship). Save it, share it, and breathe easier knowing you’re not alone in this. xx, Alex & Coops 💬 Comment: What’s the funniest fight you’ve got into while on prednisone?! TIMESTAMPS: Intro: 00:00:11 Welcome back to Calling in Sick and welcome to Saint Cooper! 00:1:35 Story time… this week’s Prednisone rage 00:04:15 Life catch up A Loved One’s Guide to Prednisone: 00:5:14 Why I say yes to Prednisone 00:10:22 Our experience on Prednisone  00:13:11: Tip 1 - Give Prednisone a name 00:19:10 Tip 2 - Practice regulation…amidst the roid rage 00:27:13 Tip 3 - Communicate openly 00:29:32 Tip 4 - Anticipate, anticipate, anticipate! 00:33:05 Recapping Cooper’s Tips Conclusion: 00:34:44 Alex’s Picks of the Week (The Absorption Company, Ion Layer) 00:39:00 One Brain Cell Movie… KPop Demon Hunters (duh!!!!!) 00:41:15 Thank you for listening! ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow us on socials for more! • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack - https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod? ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Alex’s Picks of the Week: Since prednisone makes sleeping, eating and hydrating tricky, I’m sharing my newest supplement obsessions!! These picks have found the *best* routes for absorption, so you’ll get the biggest bang for your buck. Enjoy!!! ✨The Absorption Company — https://go.shopmy.us/p-25813864 —> Their sleep supplement is *amazing* and actually works!! Scientific patent that allows us to absorb 5x the amount of the product (higher bioavailability is GREAT!) ✨Ion Layer — https://ionlayer.com/AWILDESON —> Get all the benefits of an IV vitamin infusion, at home… without any pokes and a quarter of the price!! —> EXCLUSIVE 3 DAY SALE (9/22-9/24)… get $150 off Ion Layer Patches (NAD+, B1, Vitamin C and Glutathione) with code AWILDESON150 #CallingInSickPodcast #AlexWildeson  #Prednisone #PrednisoneSideEffects #SteroidTreatment #SteroidSideEffects #PrednisoneMoodSwings #PrednisoneProblems #ChronicIllnessCommunity #ChronicIllnessLife #ChronicIllnessSupport #InvisibleIllness #CaregiverLife #CaregiverSupport #PartnerSupport #LoveThroughIllness  #ChronicLife #ChronicIllnessWarrior #AutoimmuneLife #SpoonieLife #MentalHealthAwareness #MoodSwings #AnxietySupport #CopingWithChronicIllness #SurvivalGuide #SelfCareTips #MindBodyConnection #PrednisoneTaper #SupportSystem #LifeOnPrednisone Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Calling in Sick, I’m showing up mad. After almost two years of flaring, I’m starting to wonder if this maybe isn’t just a flare anymore… maybe it’s my new normal. And with that comes the worry that my current medical protocol is failing. THAT is a brutal, frustrating, gut-punch of a realization. Although I am usually a pretty positive gal, I know that anger has its place in any chronic illness journey. Anger is valid, it’s messy, and it can even be productive. So this week I’m sharing the reality of my flare, the “Sophie’s choice” of next steps my doctors and I are weighing, and why this timeline impact is breaking my heart. We’re diving into: 🔥 What it feels like to be stuck in flare limbo: blip vs. starting over from square one 👩‍⚕️ The impossible decisions between steroids, testing, and “AMA” moments 💔 Why shifting motherhood timelines hurts so much… and why I hope is pushing me forward 🌱 My solulu for sitting with anger, finding joy in small glimmers, and controlling what I can If you’ve ever been mad at your body, mad at the system, or mad at the endless waiting, this episode is your permission slip to say it out loud, feel it fully, and then keep going. xx, Alex Comment: What’s one way you’ve learned to sit with your frustration during flares? Timestamps: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling in Sick!  00:07:47 Alex’s Picks of the Week (Boka, Camp Snap Camera) 00:11:25 What a flare up looks like for me 00:15:20 The impossible decisions between steroids, testing, and “AMA” moments 00:25:18 My solution for sitting with anger, finding joy in small glimmers, and controlling what I can 00:27:55 One Brain Cell Show: Love Thy Nader  00:31:10 Thank you for listening! ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow us on socials for more! • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack - https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod? ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Alex’s Picks of the Week: How to get pearly white teeth for any camera-ready moment!!! ✨Snap Camera - go.shopmy.us/p-25209103 ($70; shopmy) ✨Boka Toothpaste - https://amzn.to/3K1j7JW ($12; amazon) #ChronicIllness #FlareLife #InvisibleIllness #AutoimmuneDisease #ChronicPain #SpoonieLife #AngerIsValid #MotherhoodJourney #HealthJourney #CallingInSickPodcast #AlexWildeson #MedicalGaslighting #SpoonieSupport #MentalHealth #HealingJourney #RadicalAcceptance Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

DESCRIPTION: This week on Calling in Sick, we’re celebrating a big milestone — ONE YEAR of the podcast! I share why I started this show, what I’ve learned, and how this community has changed me in ways I didn’t expect. We’re diving into: ⭐ Why I launched Calling in Sick and how this community has healed parts of me I didn’t know needed it ⚡ What I’ve learned about identity, ambition, and practicing what I preach 💡 The limiting beliefs I’ve broken up with and the new mantras that carry me through 🌹 My roses & thorns from year one and what I’m excited for in year two Whether you’ve been here since day one or just found the pod, this episode is my love letter to you. Thank you for being part of this community, for sharing your stories, and for calling in with me on the good and tough days. Onwards! xx, Alex 💬 Comment: What’s one thing this podcast has helped you feel or realize in the last year? TIMESTAMPS: Intro: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling in Sick! 00:00:50 Alex’s Weekly Update (an ER trip & my TV debut with Born Different) 00:05:02 Alex’s Picks of the Week (top 4 favorites of the year) Calling in Sick: Year 1 Review 00:09:19 Why I started Calling in Sick 00:13:48 The biggest lessons I’ve learned through the podcast 00:23:08 What I wish I could tell myself one year ago today 00:26:15 What’s ahead for Calling in Sick in year two Conclusion: 00:27:58 One Brain Cell TV: The Netflix hack you NEED & my favorite shows across 5 different streaming platforms 00:32:59 Thanks so much for listening!!! ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow us on socials for more! • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack - https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod? ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Alex’s Picks of the Week: Every week, I share a few of my favorite items that make life a little bit better or happier… from sweat sets to wellness tech to clean beauty picks and supplements. But if I *had* to boil it down to just 4 picks... I’d tell you to try THESE 4 things out! ✨ DIVI hair serum & dry shampoo; https://go.shopmy.us/p-21829164 —> ALEXANDRA15 for 15% off ✨ Tilt lip treatment; https://go.shopmy.us/p-24773396 —> ALEXANDRA15 for 15% off ✨ Perelel Green Powder; https://go.shopmy.us/p-24773343 —> ALEXANDRA for 15% off ✨ HigherDose PEMF Mat; https://go.shopmy.us/p-21829252 —> ALEXANDRA for 15% off  #CallingInSickPodcast #ChronicIllness #SpoonieLife #InvisibleIllness #AutoimmuneDisease #MedicalGaslighting #HealthJourney #PodcastAnniversary #OneYearIn #CommunityHealing #PatientAdvocacy #SickButThriving #MentalHealth #LifeWithChronicIllness #SpoonieSupport #AlexWildeson Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Happy Labor Day!!! We’re just one week away from the one-year anniversary of Calling in Sick (!!), and to celebrate, I’m re-releasing one of our favorite solo episodes from this past year: How Chronic Illness Changes Our Definition of Ambition and Drive. This conversation was a turning point for me — realizing that losing my “high-functioning, hustle-at-all-costs” self didn’t mean I’d lost my ambition. It just meant ambition needed a new definition. In this episode, I open up about: 💭 What it’s like to lose your “old self” to chronic illness 💊 The quiet shame of feeling dulled by meds and fatigue 🔥 How illness reroutes ambition from speed → survival 🌱 Why softness, slowness, and intention can be THE real success If you’ve ever had to ask yourself, “Who am I without the hustle?” — this episode is for you. You my dear, are not behind. You’re becoming. 💛 Stay tuned next week for our one-year anniversary episode — but for now, I hope this re-release reminds you that ambition doesn’t disappear with illness. It just shifts into something softer, deeper, and just as worthy. xx, Alex 💛 💬 Comment: Do you feel like your ambition or drive has changed since getting sick? How have you redefined success? TIMESTAMPS: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling In Sick 00:00:35 Life Update: Becoming a Procrastinator!! 00:02:58 Alex’s Picks of the Week: Hilma Supplements + DoBites 00:06:11 The Old Version of Me: Urgency, Output, Identity 00:08:25 Grief & the Unbecoming of the Old Alex 00:11:00 Discovering the New Me -- Freedom After Grief 00:17:30 Chronic Illness Management vs. Urgency 00:20:20 One Brain Cell Segment: Love on the Spectrum 00:23:59 THANK YOU!!!! ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow social: • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack - https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod? ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Alex’s Picks of the Week: ✨ Hilma Supplements – gentle, clean symptom support https://rebrand.ly/6tq0q7k Use code ALEXANDRA20 for 20% off!! ✨ DoBites – functional, top-8 allergen-free snack bites for energy & focus https://amzn.to/3G6bQGt #podcast #podcastclips #podcast #podcastclips #ChronicIllness #AutoimmuneDisease #SelfWorth #SuccessMindset #ChronicPain #ChronicFatigue #SpoonieLife #HealthJourney #SickGirlLife #CallingInSick #SpoonieSupport #ChronicIllnessAwareness #ChronicWarrior #FlareUpTips #MedicalJourney #DisabilityAwareness #selfworth #selflove #success #hustleculture #ambition #drive #success #urgency Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Calling in Sick, I’m opening up about my journey to motherhood while living with chronic illness — the highs, the heartbreaks, and the hope that keeps me going. From IVF to pregnancy loss to unexpected health setbacks, I’m sharing what it’s really like to dream of becoming a mom when your body doesn’t always cooperate. We’re diving into: 🌱 The ups and downs of my motherhood timeline — IVF, surgery complications, and pregnancy loss reshaping my path 🤱 The worries I carry into motherhood — energy, flare-ups, and balancing chronic illness with raising a baby ✨ The joy and hope that fuel me — why I’m still so excited to become a mom and how I hold space for the future  If you’ve ever felt your health challenges complicate your motherhood journey, this episode is a reminder you’re not alone — and that even when the path shifts, hope and joy can stay at the center. xx, Alex 💬 Comment: For those still on the path to parenthood, what’s one mantra or mindset that helps you keep going? Timestamps:  00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling In Sick! 00:03:35 We’re moving?!  00:05:00 Journey to motherhood with a chronic illness 00:08:43 Alex’s Picks of the Week – Dosey and the Lola Blanket  00:09:56 My story with motherhood and chronic illness 00:12:42 Shifting timeline to motherhood – IVF, pregnancy loss and surgery complications 00:20:02 Why I’m so excited to be a mom  00:25:25 What I’m worried about with motherhood 00:31:08 Holding space for hope in pregnancy/motherhood  00:32:37 One Brain Cell Show – Only Murders in the Building  00:33:36 Thank you for listening!  ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow us on socials for more! • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack - https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod? ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ ---------------------------------------------------------------- Alex’s Picks of the Week: Small treats that make me feel happier :) ✨Dosey Pill Organizer —  https://dosey.com/ALEXANDRA15 ——— Use code “ALEXANDRA15” for 15% off at checkout! ✨Lola Blanket — https://go.shopmy.us/p-23336664 ——— Use code “ALEXWILD50” for 50% off at checkout and a $50 gift card for future use!!!! ---------------------------------------------------------------- #ChronicIllness #MotherhoodJourney #PregnancyAfterLoss #IVFJourney #FertilityStruggles #PregnancyComplications #SurgeryRecovery #AutoimmuneDisease #ChronicIllnessMama #HighRiskPregnancy #PregnancyHope #ChronicPain #InvisibleIllness #SpoonieLife #MiscarriageAwareness #MotherhoodAndChronicIllness #HealthJourney #MentalHealth #TryingToConceive #SpoonieSupport #CallingInSickPodcast #AlexWildeson Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Calling in Sick we are diving into one of the least talked about and most important skills to learn in your medical journey... how (and when) to say NO! After 25 years of being the patient, I’m sharing where “not right now” has protected my body, my sanity, and my future. We’re diving into: ⭐ Saying NO to providers who aren’t a fit — red flags, finding your QB, and why “I can’t help you” can be a green flag ⚠️ Saying NO to procedures/tests you don’t need — scheduling on your timeline, avoiding repeats, and pushing back on “flare for testing” asks 💊 Saying NO to meds (or side effects) — black box fears, pregnancy considerations, trial windows, and when lifestyle impact outweighs benefit If you’ve ever felt pressured to say yes because a white coat suggested it, this episode is your permission slip to pause, ask better questions, and choose what’s right for your life. xx, Alex 💬 Comment: What’s one “NO” (or “not right now”) that protected your health? TIMESTAMPS: Intro: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling in Sick! 00:04:48 Alex’s Picks of the Week (Abercrombie, Rag & Bone, MOTHER Denim) My Guide to Saying NO: 00:07:40 Intro to saying NO to medicine and doctors (+ a quick disclaimer!!!) 00:12:08 When to say NO to a provider 00:17:20 When to say NO to a procedure/testing 00:24:22 When to say NO to medications Conclusion: 00:37:05 One Brain Cell Show: Wednesday (Netflix) 00:38:22 Thank you for listening! ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow us on socials for more! • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack - https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod? ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson -- https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Alex’s Picks of the Week: Jeans that are comfy enough to pass as sweatpants, but dressy enough for *that* kind of doctor’s appointment!! ✨Abercrombie Boyfriend Jeans — https://go.shopmy.us/p-23220181 ✨Mother Sweatpants Jeans — https://go.shopmy.us/p-23220571 ✨Rag&Bone Sweatpants Jeans — https://go.shopmy.us/p-23220274 #Prednisone #SteroidSideEffects #PrednisoneWeightGain #SteroidRage #PrednisoneSurvivalGuide #ChronicIllness #SpoonieLife #InvisibleIllness #AutoimmuneDisease #MedicalGaslighting #ChronicPain #HealthJourney #Inflammation #SteroidWithdrawal #PrednisoneTaper #MentalHealth #SteroidAnxiety #SpoonieSupport #CallingInSickPodcast #AlexWildeson Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Calling in Sick, it’s just you and me — and one of the most polarizing meds in chronic illness: Prednisone. Over 70% of us with chronic illness are prescribed it at some point, and whether you call it a miracle drug or a necessary evil… you’ve probably got a story. We’re diving into: ⭐ The good, the bad, and the psychotic breaks of Prednisone ⚠️ Why I think not all doctors should be able to prescribe it 💪 How I’ve learned to love (and talk to) my body through steroid weight gain ⚡ Why you have to “use the energy or lose the energy” in the first 72 hours 🤣 My most embarrassing pred rage story — and the alter ego Coop named 🧠 Tips for safer tapers to avoid brutal withdrawals If you’ve ever been on Prednisone, I promise you’ll feel seen, validated, and maybe even laugh a little. xx, Alex 💬 Comment: What’s your best Prednisone tip for a newbie? TIMESTAMPS: Intro: 00:00:00 Welcome Back to Calling In Sick!  00:02:57 Introduction to the Prednisone Survival Guide 00:05:05 Alex’s Weekly Life & Health Updates 00:08:05 Alex’s Picks of the Week (Paint by Numbers & Face Roller) 00:08:50 Prednisone and Chronic Illness Prednisone Survival Guide: 00:12:18 Tip #1: Create an Alter Ego 00:18:18 Tip #2: Harness the Chaotic Energy 00:23:38 Tip #3: Your Body Will Change 00:29:38 Tip #4: Tapering Prednisone 00:34:44 Tip #5: Finding the Right Doctor Conclusion: 00:36:00 One Brain Cell Show of the Week: Somebody Feed Phil (Netflix) 00:37:30 - Thank You for Listening! ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow us on socials for more! • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack - https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod? ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Alex’s Picks of the Week: ✨Paint by Numbers on Etsy — https://go.shopmy.us/p-17737668 ✨Face Ice Roller @ Detox Market — https://go.shopmy.us/p-22478442 —— Use code ALEXWILDDETOX15 for 15% off at checkout! #Prednisone #SteroidSideEffects #PrednisoneWeightGain #SteroidRage #PrednisoneSurvivalGuide #ChronicIllness #SpoonieLife #InvisibleIllness #AutoimmuneDisease #MedicalGaslighting #ChronicPain #HealthJourney #Inflammation #SteroidWithdrawal #PrednisoneTaper #MentalHealth #SteroidAnxiety #SpoonieSupport #CallingInSickPodcast #AlexWildeson Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices