This week on Come Curious, we’re easing into 2026 with our annual Fuck-It List - a gentle but powerful reset for your love life, self-worth and sex. Florence and Reed reflect on the wild, messy, magical year that was 2025. Tune in to hear them unpack what they’re ready to let go of, and ask each other (and you) some seriously juicy questions about intimacy, growth, boundaries and desire. From accountability and heartbreak to pregnancy, sobriety and surrender, this episode is your permission slip to reflect, release and re-write the year ahead. Grab a journal, get comfy, and come write your own Fuck-It List with us. You can join us over on Patreon to WATCH the full episode and see our reactions, stories and sweet pretty faces as we journal together: ⁠available for Patreon members only⁠. PLUS we’re diving into two very hot femme-domme films over on Erika Lust's ethical porn platform - sharing what we watched, what we loved, and why sexy, shame-free pleasure deserves a place in your 2026 intentions. Get 45% off with the code SPICY45 - sign up here Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Happy New Year, curious fckers! 💖 We’re popping in to wave goodbye to the chaos of 2025, share our hopes for a calmer, bigger, better 2026 (including one tiny new human !). This is our mini message to remind you (and ourselves) to stress less and give ourselves a break. We’re feeling hopeful, grateful, and so excited for what’s coming next with you. Sending our New Year wishes to you with extra gratitude to our FABULOUS Patreon family - we love what we get to share with you and value your support so much! With love F and R Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Happy holidays Curious Fckers! However you're celebrating this time of year, we're sending love your way! Here's a cheeky mini-message offering some sparkly joy and a gentle reminder to give yourself what you need during this holiday period (especially if you're struggling with the fam). Looking forward to dipping back in with a New Year message! With love F and Rx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It’s a very horny XXXMas episode on Come Curious - Florence and Reed are back in full festive filth mode to share there stocking-filler recommendations (with discount codes galore) and reflect on a year of unforgettable sex. They get real about pregnancy sex bans, unexpected threadworm drama (yes, really), and why sometimes the worst fck teaches you the most. This is an XXXtra kinky episode meaning you can hear them unwrap their juiciest seasonal stories after the watershed - available for Patreon members only - from breeding kink fantasies and bladder orgasms to tickle-kink domination dates and snowy roleplay sessions. PLUS: Get 45% off Erika Lust with code SPICY45, and treat yourself to some very adult Christmas homework. Pour the mulled wine, fluff the tinsel, and come get curious Kinkmas Fckers💋🎄 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

TW: In this episode we discuss drug use, alcohol abuse, suicide and cancer. This week Reed sits down with the brilliant, brutally honest, and heart-meltingly funny Abi Feltham - the creator and influencer who talks openly about addiction, recovery, BPD, crack binges in Thailand, brain cancer, and somehow has you laughing through the tears. If you’re flirting with sobriety, trying to hold on to it, or just feeling shaky as the festive season ramps up, this one is for you. Gentle, honest, raw, and full of “holy shit” wisdom. And if you want the ad-free video, plus our cosy December check-ins and community support, join us on Patreon. We love you. We’re proud of you. And we’re sober-curious with you. Rate & Review if this pod’s ever made you laugh, cry, or rethink your bits — and support the show for extra juicy chats on Patreon: patreon.com/comecurious 💋 Follow us on Instagram: @comecurious • @florencebark • @reedamberx Follow Abi: @abi.feltham and check out her Linktree with all the details Sponsored by Erika Lust - Use code SPICY45 for 45% off the ENTIRE catalogue of films on Erika Lust's website including our latest creation 'Tips and Tricks for Anal Dips'. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Florence & Reed are diving vulva-first into squirting science with JOYclub’s brand-new step-by-step squirting course - and yes, they watched it live so you don’t have to… except you’ll definitely want to after this 😂💦 Have a sneak peak here. From “is it pee?” to “why does it feel like I’m about to pee?” to “HOW THE ACTUAL F**K DID SHE SQUIRT LIKE THAT?!”, we’re breaking down the myths, the muscles, the mess, and the magic. We learnt why squirting ≠ ejaculation, why relaxing is half the battle, and why your G-spot is actually a G-ZONE (yes, fckers, is an expansive pleasure!). Plus, we talk positions, toys, confidence, and how to unlock your own waterfall - solo or with a partner. Head to JOYclub’s sex-ed pages for videos on sensual pegging, masturbation, rimming, real penis sizes and SO much more: joy.club/ccs Find our Come Curious profile at joy.club/ccjoy, join the forums, get kinky with us, and explore the community. In the UK? Sign up at joy.club/cc for a FREE premium membership (usually £9.99/month). No code needed - just verify your account. Follow JOYclub on IG @uk_joyclub and catch our cheeky YouTube minisode pulling the best bits from this episode 💦✨ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week Florence sits down with pleasure-hypnosis and orgasmic-birth practitioner Lucia Nicolini for a mind-melting journey into how hypnosis can transform pregnancy, pleasure, and even the way you give birth. From reconnecting to your body after trauma (Florence shares her own experience) to the wild truth about orgasmic birth, nipple-stimulation hacks, sexy self-hypnosis, and why your mind is the biggest birthing muscle you have - this episode is equal parts soothing, spicy, and seriously paradigm-shifting. PLUS: Don’t miss our new film Tips & Tricks for Anal Dips over on Erika Lust - Use code SPICY45 for 45% off! Follow Lucia on her website www.lucianicolini.com And via IG @choose_holistic To watch the full video AD FREE, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week Florence and Reed ride the ADHD mania wave straight into sex trends, porn obsessions, squirting reviews, and the hottest holiday horniness you didn’t know you needed. From orgasm-during-pregnancy revelations to airport sex stats that blew everyone’s minds, it’s chaotic, juicy, and very, very curious. And THEN - after the watershed - we flip the switch. The second half is XXXtra filthy and only for our Patreon babes. Think explicit stories, fresh-out-the-bedroom updates, and Reed’s newest naked adventures… unlocked only on Patreon. PLUS our brand new Erica Lust film ‘Tips & Tricks for Anal Dips’ drops TODAY! Use code SPICY45 for 45% off (yes, really) via watch.erikalust.com Be sure to check out Reed' upcoming workshops via her Eventbrite page here Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

She broke the internet with her latest article 'Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrasing Now?' and now she's joining Reed to talk about the dilemmas of modern dating. This week we've got writer Chanté Joseph on the show to dive into why posting your partner feels cringe, the heterosexual repair industry, and how to date without compromise. From breadcrumbing to boundary-setting, Chanté shares her unfiltered take on why men need to do better and how women can stop accepting less than they deserve. Rate & review if you've ever hidden a situationship from your Instagram grid and don't forget to watch the full episode and support us on Patreon: patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram: @comecurious Reed @reedamberx Guest: @chantayyjayy & Strangers in the City @strangersinthecityevents Sponsored by Erika Lust ❤️ Use our special code for 45% discount: SPICY45 Head to watch.erikalust.com Join Reed on 17th Dec for her next online event 'Addict for 10 Years: Lets Talk Drugs, Porn, Booze & Love' - tickets available here Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Florence and Reed are joined by certified sex educator and founder of Admin by Amari, the brilliant Amari Leigh, to bust some of the biggest sex myths and unlock the secrets to truly maximising your moans. The trio gets candid about kink safety, sex toys, and the forty (yes, forty!) types of orgasms you can have. Plus, we explore the stigma around bi men, discover kinky Swifties (yep, Taylor Swift sex parties are real), and learn why average can be amazing. Rate & review if you’ve ever learned something new about your sexy life from us and don’t forget to watch the full episode and support us on Patreon: patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram: @comecuriousFlorence @florencebarkReed @reedamberxGuest: @sxcoachingbyamari & @adminbyamari Links to Amari's amazing guides: 40 Orgasm guides Lube guide Sponsored by Erika Lust ❤️ Use our special code for 45% discount: SPICY45 Head to watch.erikalust.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week Florence sits down with Harley Dee - friend and inspiration - to talk about life, loss, and learning to love your body after breast cancer. Harley opens up about treatment, scars, and the emotional rollercoaster of facing chemical menopause in her 30s. Together, they explore everything from hair loss to egg-freezing, and rediscovering pleasure when your body doesn’t feel like it used to. It’s a raw, truthful and deeply important conversation about survival, self-love, and what cancer really teaches you about being alive. Get to know Harley on IG @theharleylama Rate & Review if this pod’s ever made you think, feel or be less alone - and support the show for extra juicy chats on Patreon: patreon.com/comecurious - listen and watch AD-FREE! Follow us on Instagram: @comecurious • @florencebark • @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week Florence and Reed get cheeky (literally) as they spill all the behind-the-scenes secrets from directing their first anal porn film. From the beauty of real chemistry to the chaos of lube, fluff, and butthole talk - it’s a deep dive into everything they learnt about anal on and off camera. Expect laughs, lube, and a lot of love for the bum. Rate & Review If we’ve ever made you think then smash that five star, baby. Want more? Watch the full episode, get behind-the-scenes goodies, and support the podcast on Patreon: ⁠patreon.com/comecurious⁠ Follow us on Instagram: @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, we go beyond the mic with Ceros - an online tornado of truth known for his YT channel Ceros TV sharing stories about his bisexuality, schizophrenia and femboy loving G-Pa. From marrying a 90-year-old at 18, to sleeping with her daughter... and granddaughter, we go beneath the viral chaos to learn more Ceros's experiences of masculinity, pain and survival. No filters. No performance. Just raw humanity. Get to know Ceros on YT @cerostv Follow him on IG @cerostv Rate & Review If we’ve ever made you think then smash that five star, baby. Want more? Watch the full episode, get behind-the-scenes goodies, and support the podcast on Patreon: patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram: @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Big news, Curious F**kers - our gorgeous Florence is expecting a baby! 💕 With life changing in every sense, Florence and Reed are getting real about transformation, identity, and what it means to let go - including Florence (potentially) saying goodbye to OnlyFans. It’s honest, thoughtful, and full of heart - a conversation about growth, boundaries, and change in all its messy, beautiful forms. To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week Florence sits down with Dr. Natalie Crawford, a leading fertility expert and author of The Fertility Formula, to unpack how everyday choices impact our hormones, cycles, and chances of conceiving. From diet and toxins to sleep, exercise, and stress, Natalie reveals the five key pillars for supporting reproductive health - and why fertility isn’t just about the moment you start trying for a baby, but the years leading up to it. Florence shares her own journey through miscarriage and navigating the confusing world of TTC, while Natalie offers compassionate, science-backed insights that every curious f**ker needs to hear - whether you’re thinking about kids one day or already deep in the journey. Rate & Review Smash that five star, baby. Want more? Watch the full episode, get behind-the-scenes goodies, and support the podcast on Patreon: patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram: @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow our guest Natalie Crawford @nataliecrawfordmd Get to know her book - The Fertility Formula And follow her podcast - As a Woman Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Let’s get vanilla, baby! This week Florence and Reed dive into the joy of “plain” old sex - because vanilla is anything but boring. From the underrated magic of missionary to the giggles, intimacy, and melt-your-soul moments that don’t need whips or chains, we’re giving simple pleasure the spotlight it deserves. Reed uncovers what her vanilla side looks like, Florence shares some unforgettable vanilla romps (think otherworldly without the kink), and of course, we’ve got your stories celebrating the sweet, sexy basics. Rate & Review If we’ve ever made you giggle mid-wank or rethink your O-face in the mirror — smash that five star, baby. Want more? Watch the full episode, get behind-the-scenes goodies, and support the podcast on Patreon: patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram: @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Reed sits down with the brilliant Michelle Elman — life coach, author, and unapologetic boundary queen. From dating without shame to grieving the loss of friendships, Michelle is here to challenge the stories we’ve been sold about love, loyalty, and letting go. We dive into her books The Selfish Romantic and Bad Friend, exploring why demanding more in dating is actually powerful, and why friendship breakups cut just as deep (if not deeper) than romantic ones. Michelle unpacks how ghosting erodes trust, why women are trained to soften their needs, and what it really takes to communicate with honesty (even when it hurts). Expect raw stories (including TV dates and friendship “mass exoduses”), laughter through the pain, and practical advice for anyone wondering: how do you heal when the person who knew you best walks away? Curious f**kers, whether you’re redefining dating, nursing a friendship heartbreak, or just craving real talk on boundaries and self-worth, this episode is going to crack you open. Follow Get to know Michelle onine @michelleelman and get to know about her books here Follow us @comecurious Follow Reed @reedamberx Produced by @bxsassy2 Rate & Review If you’ve ever felt seen, soothed, or shaken by our convos — drop us a five star, babe. Want more? Catch the full episode, behind-the-scenes extras, and support the pod on Patreon: 👉 https://www.patreon.com/comecurious Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We’ve all seen them - the porn-star-perfect O-face, the silent shudder, the dramatic gasp. But babe… is your cum face the real deal, or a total performance? This week, Florence and Reed and Florence are lifting the sheets on orgasm expressions: the ones we make, the ones we fake, and what they really say about our sex lives. We’re swapping our own cringe and glorious cum face confessions, asking why some of us go full Hollywood while others barely twitch, and digging into how porn, partners, and pressure can shape the way we “perform” pleasure. Plus: we look at why authenticity feels so vulnerable in bed and tips for unlearning performative habits so you can cum how you actually want to. Whether you’re a silent cummer, a moaner, a mascara-running-thriller-queen, or still faking it ‘til you make it - this one’s for you, curious f**kers. ERIKA LUST DISCOUNT CODE: Erika Lust creates original, cinematic adult films celebrating sexuality and championing a sex-positive world. You can explore their wide range of categories and genres, including extra goodies for kink enthusiasts. Get 45% off at ⁠erikalust.com⁠ with code COME45 Don’t miss the chance to own your pleasure - visit ⁠Erikalust.com⁠ Rate & Review If we’ve ever made you giggle mid-wank or rethink your O-face in the mirror — smash that five star, baby. Want more? Watch the full episode, get behind-the-scenes goodies, and support the podcast on Patreon: patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram: @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Florence is joined by the ultimate love duo — Asa and David, relationship coaches, partners, and parents, who are keeping it raw, real, and ultra practical when it comes to long-term love. From mismatched libidos to conflict spirals, morning routines to raising a baby, they’re spilling the kind of advice that makes you go, “Oof… why didn’t anyone tell me this sooner?” We dive into how to fight fair (without the silent treatment or full-blown meltdowns), why honesty only works if you can handle hearing the uncomfortable stuff, and how to bring back intimacy when Netflix and exhaustion have taken over your evenings. Asa and David share their own story too — from a suitcase that turned into six months of living together, to a move abroad, to parenthood — and how they built a foundation that can hold both deep healing and wild love. Expect laughter, vulnerability, and so many “aha” moments as we ask: what does it really take to keep desire, connection, and teamwork alive once the honeymoon fades? Curious f**kers, if you’ve ever thought “are we normal?” when it comes to fights, mismatched sex drives, or parenting stress — this episode is your permission slip to breathe, laugh, and know you’re not alone. ASA's Links: IG @coachwithasa The Boundary Blueprint - Asa Baav (free download): www.asabaav.com/the-boundary-blueprint/ Unapologetic 2025 - Asa Baav: www.asabaav.com/unapologetic-2025/ DAVID'S Links:  YT ⁨@TheAuthenticMan⁩  IG @theauthenticman_ Breaking The Chains of Avoidance: www.theauthenticman.net/btca-sep-2025 FREE GIFT Why You Keep Pulling Away (Even When You Don’t Want To): ⁠www.theauthenticman.net/why-you-keep-pulling-away-page⁠ To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Produced by @_thesassyshow Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Florence and Reed are joined by the powerhouse that is Sangeeta Pillai — creator of the award-winning Masala Podcast, author of her new book Bad Daughter and unapologetic queen of smashing South Asian taboos. From sex and shame to pleasure and power, we’re diving into the cultural scripts that shape us — and how to rip them up (with love, sass, and maybe a vibrator or two). Sangeeta shares her journey growing up in a world of silence around sex, discovering her own voice, and now amplifying thousands of others through fearless conversations. We’re talking generational trauma, reclaiming pleasure, and why breaking taboos isn’t just radical — it’s healing. Expect laughter, honesty, and more than a few “oh sh*t” moments as we ask: how do you rewrite the rules when your culture says “don’t even talk about it”? Curious f**kers, whether you’ve battled shame yourself or just want inspo to live louder, this one’s going to hit deep. Rate & Review If we’ve ever made you laugh, squirm, or rethink your cultural hang-ups — smash that five star, baby. Want more? Watch the full episode, get behind-the-scenes goodies, and support the podcast on Patreon: 👉 https://www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow Florence: @florencebark Follow Reed: @reedamberx Follow Sangeeta: @soulsutras