TRIGGER WARNING: SEXUAL ABUSE, INCEST
There is no shame in wanting a life that feels more alive, more erotic, and more deeply connected to your body.
In this episode, I sit with erotic mystic and author Sharon Marie Scott for a conversation on desire, sovereignty, kink, and the alchemy that happens when you finally let yourself want more. We explore Sharon Marie’s work in forbidden alchemy, including how pleasure becomes a spiritual technology, why shame points us toward our deepest healing, and how kink can be a tool for expansion instead of something to hide.
We talk about:
untangling early childhood sexual trauma and the healing journey that followed
reclaiming pleasure and learning to trust her body again
unlinking fantasy from orgasm and expanding her capacity for sensation
using sex magic, arousal, shadow integration, and primal energy as tools for transformation
embodying the dark feminine and dark masculine, choosing sovereignty, and understanding why taboo desires often hold our deepest medicine
Listen in and let this conversation invite you back into your body, your power, and your most authentic desires.
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There is no shame in craving deeper pleasure, and there is no shame in wanting sex that feels more intentional and responsive to your body.
In this episode, I sit with Pleasure Dom, Sir Marvelous for a conversation on what truly creates mind-blowing pleasure. We explore the foundations of real pleasure through patience, anticipation, presence, and the psychology of arousal. Sir Marvelous breaks down edging, sensual dominance, temperature play, rope, fire, and the illusion of danger, along with why vibrators, clitoral stimulation, and thoughtful touch should be standard in every bedroom. We also talk about consent, negotiation, emotional safety, and how those pieces make it possible to relax, let go, and experience pleasure more deeply than ever.
If you are curious about kink, ready to expand your pleasure, or wanting sex that feels richer and more connected, this episode offers practical tools you can take straight into your own intimacy. Listen in!
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There is no shame in wanting what you want, and there is no shame in asking for it out loud.
In my very first Quickie episode, I take you inside a moment from my Paint Your Pleasure event, where we guided a room full of people through a consent-based touch practice that cracked everyone open in the softest, sweetest ways. From neon lights to body paint to dry brush strokes on skin, the entire night was designed to invite people out of performance and into their real desires, and the transformation was electric. We explore how powerful it is to name the touch you want to receive, the touch you want to give, and how liberating it feels when your boundaries are honored without hesitation. I talk about the beauty of watching bodies melt as they ask for slower movement, firmer pressure, lighter tickles, and how meaningful it was for people to practice saying no and witness that nothing bad happened.
This is an invitation to bring that same energy into your own intimacy. Let pleasure become specific instead of assumed. And let consent be playful, sexy, collaborative, and deeply nourishing, because the way you ask for touch is part of your erotic power.
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TRIGGER WARNING: Domestic Violence
There is a kind of harm that does not leave bruises, yet leaves a mark on your entire life.
In this episode, I sit with speaker and advocate Eunice Brownlee for a conversation that brings clarity to the subtle, confusing, and often invisible experience of coercive control. Eunice shares how a situationship that felt casual and harmless slowly shifted into a dynamic filled with manipulation, fear, and emotional exhaustion, long before she had the language to recognise it as abuse.
This conversation is an offering of validation and understanding for anyone who has ever felt confused, unsafe, or unsure of their own perceptions. If you are navigating a complicated relationship, healing from one, or loving someone who is, may this episode remind you that your intuition matters, your story is real, and there is nothing wrong with you for surviving the way you had to.
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There is no shame in pleasure, and there is no shame in kink.
In this episode, I’m joined by certified sexologist and educator Bre Green for a conversation that’s equal parts healing and hot.Bre shares how she went from growing up in a deeply religious environment to reclaiming her sexuality through exploration, curiosity, and kink. We talk about why kink isn’t just about pain or power, rather it’s about safety, trust, and self-knowledge.
From pleasure mapping and sensory play to negotiation, communication, and aftercare, Bre breaks down what safe, intentional exploration really looks like. We also talk about how kink can be a space to rebuild confidence, learn your desires, and reconnect with your body after shame or suppression. This is an invitation to unlearn the guilt, lean into play, and give yourself permission to explore what feels good because pleasure is your birthright.
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Don’t miss the Candlelit Connection: A Massage Candle & Waxplay Workshop November 2nd 2-4 PM in Dallas, TX Join us for a wellness experience where you can create your own massage candle & learn fun, safe ways to explore sensual wax play! Limited seats available, save your spot now! Tickets at candlelitconnection.eventbrite.com
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What if the most sacred thing you could do was not to “preserve your purity” but to reclaim your pleasure?
In this episode, I sit down with Lacey Bond, a certified sex, relationship, and intimacy coach whose work focuses on purity culture, kink, and polyamory. Together, we dive into how growing up in religious purity culture can shape your relationship with your body, your boundaries, and your ability to feel safe in intimacy and how kink offers a way home to yourself.
If you’ve ever been curious about how power play can be healing, what aftercare really looks like, or how consent can change everything, then this conversation is for you.
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What if intimacy could feel like play? In this conversation, we take touch, connection, and communication out of the serious zone and make it fun again.
In this episode, I’m joined by Candace Johnson, the creator of Touchy Feely, a game designed to help people connect more deeply through the power of touch and conversation. We talk about why touch isn’t just physical, how emotional intimacy shapes connection, and the different “levels” of closeness that make this game a total heart-opener.
This game (and this conversation) is flirty, it’s soulful, and it might just change the way you think about connection.
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Ghosting isn’t just something we do to others. We do it to ourselves when we stay too long, avoid the truth, or ignore what we really want. So how do you leave well, without abandoning yourself in the process?
In this episode, I sit down with Naomi Hattaway, author and consultant on the art of Leaving Well. We dive into why endings feel so messy, how to know when it’s time to walk away, and what it really looks like to close a chapter with clarity and dignity.
Naomi breaks down the difference between kindness and niceness, how to spot when power dynamics get in the way of leaving, and why “quiet power” can be your strongest tool during a breakup or transition. From ghosting and breadcrumbing to breakup rituals and friendship fades, this conversation is packed with real talk on how to stop overexplaining, honor your truth, and leave without ghosting yourself. Whether you’re navigating a breakup, a situationship, a friendship, or even leaving a job, this episode is your permission slip to choose yourself and move forward without shame.
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What if the key to hotter, more pleasurable sex was hiding in your pelvic floor? Most of us only hear about it after pregnancy, but pelvic floor health is for everyone. And yes, it can take your orgasms to the next level.
In this episode, I sit down with movement coach and pelvic floor expert Elyse Sparkes to break down everything you need to know about your pelvis. We talk about why pelvic floor health matters beyond childbirth, how it impacts pleasure in the bedroom, and the biggest myths that need to be retired once and for all.
Elyse shares how to spot the red flags of pelvic floor issues, why “tight is right” is a damaging myth, how breath and movement play into better sex, and what simple exercises can reconnect you to your body. Whether you’re looking to reduce pain, improve sensation, or just turn up the heat, this conversation will change the way you think about your pleasure.
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What happens when you date three dominant men — blindfolded — and one of them is your ex?
In this episode of Come Talk with Aimee, I sit down with Amanda, The Kink Consultant, and producer/host Catherine Drysdale to go behind the scenes of The Ex Factor, the bold live show where kink, chemistry, and past relationships collided on stage.
We get into why Amanda said yes, how Catherine brought it to life, and what it means to center desire and sexual preferences in dating.
Raw. Playful. Provocative. This is The Ex Factor, unmasked.
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Chapters
00:00 Introduction to the Guests
01:03 The Concept of The Ex Factor
02:59 Dynamics of Blind Dating with Exes
04:44 The Role of Blindfolds in Dating
06:50 Creating a Unique Dating Experience
08:30 Kink and Sexuality on Stage
10:57 The Importance of Kink Education
13:35 Understanding Kink Dynamics
15:13 Sexual Compatibility in Relationships
17:43 Breaking Down Societal Norms
21:47 Navigating Rejection and Societal Expectations
21:47 Empowerment in Dating: Flipping the Script
22:24 Redefining Relationships: The Role of Community
24:50 The Experiment: Revisiting Past Relationships
27:33 The Reality of Dating: Chemistry vs. Compatibility
33:50 Changing the Narrative: Dating in Modern Culture
40:05 The Role of Influencers in Dating Dynamics
42:45 Catherine's Journey as a Host
45:15 The Importance of Sexual Compatibility
47:47 Navigating Vulnerability in Relationships
50:08 The Power of Communication in Kink
56:34 The Role of Family in Relationships
56:41 Future Plans for The Ex Factor
57:53 Coming to Completion: Kink or Cringe?
What if love didn’t come with rules? Relationship anarchy challenges everything you think you know about commitment, desire, and connection—and it’s hotter than you might expect. 🔥
In this episode of Come Talk with Aimee, I sit down with the brilliant Adriana Smith to explore how to craft relationships on your own terms—where honesty, autonomy, and radical desire lead the way. We talk about breaking free from labels, rewriting the “relationship escalator,” and embracing love that’s unapologetically yours.
Whether you’re curious, adventurous, or ready to ignite your own love revolution, this episode is your wild invitation.
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Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Relationship Anarchy
02:11 Understanding Relationship Anarchy
04:34 Communication and Agreements in Relationships
06:31 Exploring Intimacy and Connection
12:04 Pleasure and Sexuality in Relationship Anarchy
16:08 Self-Discovery and Understanding Needs
17:41 Understanding Intentions in Relationships
20:05 Navigating Relationship Challenges
22:22 Communicating Compatibility and Connection
23:16 Exploring Relationship Anarchy
23:59 Applying Relationship Anarchy to Life
25:41 Coming to Completion
Hot take: there’s nothing wrong with your desire—it just has a flavor, babe. Join Aimee and Angie Enger as they spill the tea on spontaneous vs. responsive desire, why ‘low libido’ is a total myth, and how to turn frustration into exploration. It’s time to stop feeling broken and start owning your unique, sexy blueprint.
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Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Self-Intimacy and Desire
01:11 Understanding Desire Types
02:56 Exploring Arousal and Sensation
06:16 Personal Experiences with Desire
07:56 The Impact of Life Changes on Desire
11:37 Desire Types and Their Misunderstandings
14:08 The Role of Communication in Relationships
17:51 Shame and Societal Expectations
21:33 Creating Safe Spaces for Conversations
23:40 Navigating Different Desire Types in Relationships
27:15 Exploring Myths of Desire
29:08 Cultural Conditioning and Its Impact
33:04 Understanding Desire Types
38:11 Communication in Relationships
42:21 Nervous System and Trauma
44:38 Self-Assessment of Desire
49:29 Reconnecting with Desire
51:40 Coming to Completion
Ready to blow the lid off your pleasure potential?
In this juicy convo, Aimee and certified sex coach Amari Leigh dive deep into the world of orgasms, sexual wellness, and self-empowerment. From the orgasm gap in heterosexual dynamics to the power of self-exploration and communication, they unpack why so many of us are disconnected from pleasure — and how to reclaim it.
You’ll learn:
The difference between 40 types of orgasms (yes, really)
Why the orgasm gap still exists — and how to challenge it
How to communicate your desires with more confidence
Why your body holds more pleasure than you’ve been taught
Whether you’re looking to expand your orgasmic toolkit or just want to feel more at home in your body, this episode is a must-listen.
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Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Orgasms
11:14 Understanding the Types of Orgasms
15:21 The Pressure of Climaxing
16:57 Distinguishing Orgasm from Ejaculation
18:39 Exploring Lesser-Known Orgasm Types
22:45 Energy and Cervical Orgasms
24:43 Overlapping Orgasms and Their Experiences
26:07 Exploring Factors Affecting Sexual Experience
27:50 The Importance of Play in Sexual Exploration
29:21 Reclaiming Orgasms: A Personal Journey
31:24 Communication: The Key to Sexual Satisfaction
33:38 Understanding the Orgasm Gap
36:09 Prostate Orgasms: Breaking Taboos
38:41 The Role of Lubrication in Pleasure
39:56 Coming to Completion: Orgasmic Preferences
We’re kicking off Anal August with a bold convo on anal sex, female pleasure, and why butt stuff should absolutely be on the brunch menu. 🍑✨
Aimee is joined by Whitaker Cohen, founder of AmorSui, to talk anatomy, aftercare, and how to center your pleasure — with zero shame. Whether you’re new to backdoor play or already a baddie, this one’s for you.
We get into:
Why anal play is about more than penetration
How to center female pleasure in anal sex
Talking about butt stuff with your partner & besties (yes, even at brunch)
Emotional safety, boundaries, and anal prep basics
And so much more!
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Chapters
00:00Introduction to AmorSui and Whitaker Cohen
02:00The Inspiration Behind AmorSui
04:07Breaking the Taboo: Conversations Around Anal Play
10:09Understanding the Stigma of Anal Play
13:23Education and Unlearning Shame
16:18Exploring Pleasure: The Journey of Anal Play
18:46Getting Started with Anal Play
20:27Supporting Partners in Exploration
24:39The Role of Products in Enhancing Pleasure
28:39Creating an Approachable Brand for Anal Play
29:20Cultural Expectations and Women's Pleasure
30:05Empowerment Through Open Conversations
31:57Claiming Anal Pleasure
32:27Inclusivity in Anal Play
33:36Brunch Conversations About Butt Stuff
38:23Myth Busting in Anal Play
42:10The Importance of Aftercare
47:39 Come To Completion AKA Rapid Fire Questions on Anal Play
Before the heat, there has to be safety—and sometimes, pleasure is the pathway.
In this episode, somatic sex coach Meryl Victoria joins Aimee to explore the powerful link between the nervous system and intimacy. From polyvagal theory to embodied arousal, we’re flipping the script on what turns you on.
We dive into:
How nervous system regulation sets the stage for deeper connection
Why some bodies shut down—and how to invite them back online
Using sex as a tool for nervous system regulation
Somatic practices to shift from freeze to flow
Whether you’re craving more connection or curious about why you feel “off” in the bedroom, this episode is your roadmap. Because regulation is the real foreplay—and sometimes, pleasure is the medicine.
🎧 Listen now and come talk.
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Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Polyvagal Theory
01:00 Understanding the Nervous System States
01:41 The Impact of Trauma on Sexuality
04:20 Exploring Co-Regulation and Connection
06:42 Rewiring the Nervous System for Pleasure
07:41 Navigating Consent and Safety
09:38 Practical Tools for Nervous System Regulation
21:30 Understanding Internal Family Systems (IFS) in Therapy
22:51 Supporting Partners with Trauma Histories
25:12 The Importance of Relationship Check-Ins
29:16 The Role of Aftercare in Intimacy
30:52 Navigating Communication in Relationships
32:40 Exploring Erotic Styles and Nervous System Regulation
37:18 Coming to Completion
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🔥 Pleasure in the Pause with Tony-Nominated Broadway Legend Brenda Braxton
What if menopause wasn’t the end of pleasure—but a powerful new beginning?
This week, Aimee is joined by the fierce and fabulous Brenda Braxton—Tony-nominated actress, Broadway royalty, and founder of Pause by BBraxton. They get real about sex after 50, the myths that keep us silent, and how to keep the fire burning even as hormones shift.
From hot flashes to hot nights, Brenda brings humor, heart, and unfiltered truth about embracing your body at every stage.
🎭 Aging doesn’t mean fading. It means rising—with style, swagger, and yes… plenty of orgasms.
✨ Hit play, share with a friend, and don’t forget to follow the show for more unfiltered intimacy realness.
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Intentional intimacy doesn't leave you guessing - it comes with clarity, care, and damn good boundaries. In this episode, Aimee and Dakota unpack what it means to stop settling for crumbs and start owning your yes, your no, and your worth.
If someone can't hold your "no," they don't deserve your "yes."
Part of being healthy? Don't be a d*ck.
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Chapters
00:00 Welcome and Intro to Dakota
00:48 Challenging Societal Norms Around Sex
01:30 Understanding Boundaries and Personal Desires
03:35 The Role of Safety in Sexual Relationships
06:41 Navigating Sexuality and Self-Worth
10:08 Intentional Intimacy and Relationship Dynamics
13:50 The Journey of a Lover Girl
19:23 Embracing Queer Joy and Community
21:19 Creativity in Pleasure and Relationships
25:43 Be Gentle with You 28:50 Coming to Completion - Just To Be Queer
31:53 Come Again, Come Again, Come Again
Why does romance always get the spotlight—and everyone else becomes the understudy?
In this spicy episode, I sit down with the brilliant Adam Fitzgerald to take a sledgehammer to relationship hierarchy—that cultural obsession with putting your romantic partner above all else. We unpack how this model often leads to co-dependency, unrealistic expectations, and emotional burnout.
But here’s the truth: healthy relationships don’t happen in isolation. They need community—the friendships, chosen family, and support systems that queer folks have long known are essential to thriving love and intimacy.
Adam brings a powerful lens to how queer relationships challenge the default and lean into non-hierarchical structures that center freedom, autonomy, and deep connection across many forms.
This one’s for anyone ready to build love that’s grounded, expansive, and rooted in more than just one person.
Because love without the ladder?That’s where the good stuff lives.
Chapters
00:00Happy Pride Month and Intro
02:53Understanding Relationship Hierarchy
07:10Exploring Codependency
10:20The Impact of Codependency on Relationships
12:16Correlation Between Relationship Hierarchy and Codependency
12:46Navigating Loneliness in Relationships
14:12The Importance of Maintaining Individuality
15:29Compassion and Self-Discovery
17:27Understanding Codependency
18:08Queerness and Relationship Structures
21:00Breaking Down Relationship Hierarchies
23:17Exploring Non-Traditional Relationships
27:41The Role of Community in Healthy Relationships
30:52Understanding Healing and Triggers
32:34Navigating Codependency and Interdependence
35:05Building Community Beyond Relationships
39:29Self-Reflection in Relationship Dynamics
40:16Exploring Alternative Relationship Structures
46:45Embracing Queer Joy
47:41Navigating New Queerness
48:20Defining Queer Identity
50:02Coming to Completion AKA Just So We're Queer
52:00Come Again, Come Again, Come Again
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Apparently, saying "clit" is more dangerous than spreading hate online - because when it comes to sex, the internet loses its damn mind. In this episode, I'm joined by Mandy Salley, COO of the Woodhull Freedom Foundation, to call out the hypocrisy, the censorship, and the very real fight for our right to talk about sex without getting digitally gagged.
We're breaking down shadowbans, community guidelines that aren't so "community-friendly," and why sexual freedom is free speech. This convo? It's bold, unflitered, and absolutely necessary.
Grab your headphones, your sass, and your side-eye - because we're not here to whisper.
Chapters
00:00 Episode Intro - Banned, Blocked, But Not Broken
02:36 Understanding the Woodhull Freedom Foundation
04:45 Defining Sexual Freedom
06:40 Censorship and Its Impact on Sexual Freedom
10:31 Current Trends in Censorship
15:02 The Pendulum of Progress in Sexual Freedom
17:38 Who is Most Affected by Censorship?
21:49 The Ripple Effect of Censorship
23:24 Understanding Sexual Freedom
24:54 The Censorship Series
28:24 Engaging with Woodhull Freedom Foundation
32:12 Becoming an Advocate
35:00 International Perspectives on Sexual Freedom
36:30 Masturbation and Sexual Freedom
37:28 Celebrating Masturbation May
41:49 Coming to Completion
46:21 Come Again, and Again, and Again
Connect with Woodhull Freedom Foundation
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https://www.youtube.com/@WoodhullSFA
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https://www.woodhullfoundation.org/team/mandy-salley/
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Is your sex life feeling a little… dry? You’re not alone—and it’s time to change that. In this candid and unapologetically real episode, intimacy coach Aimee sits down with Orla Maguire, founder of Lubify, to talk about why personal lubricant is a game-changer for everyone.
From increasing pleasure and reducing discomfort to enhancing intimacy and self-connection, we cover it all: how to choose the right lube for sex, why lube isn’t just for “older people” or “issues,” and how adding a little (or a lot) of slip can completely transform your solo or partnered play.
Expect myth-busting, shame-shedding, and plenty of juicy conversation about drips, squirts, and everything in between.If you’ve ever thought lube was optional, think again.
Let’s make it wetter, better, and way more fun.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Orla McGuire and Lubify
02:26 From Mascara Mogul to Lube Luminary
04:24 The Philosophy Behind Lubify
06:40 Understanding Different Types of Lubes
09:05 The Importance of Scent in Lubes
11:16 Choosing the Right Lube for You
13:24 The Role of Lube in Sexual Health
15:20 Demystifying Lube and Pleasure
17:00 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Pleasure
19:39 Communication and Intimacy
21:49 Future of Lubify and Upcoming Products
30:47 Exploring Pleasure and Intimacy
32:36 The Role of Lubrication in Self-Pleasure
33:03 Coming to Completion
35:16 Redefining Pleasure Beyond Sexuality
36:24 Communication and Overcoming Shame
38:42 The Importance of Conversations
39:40 Come Again, Come Again, and Come Again
Connect with Orla and Lubify
https://ilubify.com
https://www.instagram.com/lubify
https://www.tiktok.com/@ilubify
Connect with Come Talk with Aimee
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https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee
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https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee
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