In this episode, I sit down with Candice Boyd to talk openly about the realities of raising a child with autism, the traumatic moments most families never talk about, and what explosive meltdowns actually look like.
Candice shares how her daughter’s behaviour changed almost overnight, how food triggers played a role, and the emotional toll it took on her as a parent.
We also explore mum-guilt, burnout, and how Candice turned pain into purpose by creating SheRest, a community that offers connection, support, and respite for mothers raising autistic children. This episode is real, raw, and deeply moving.Watch the episode on YouTube:https://youtu.be/65O6MtkoKDI
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS00:00 Welcome and intro00:31 Who is Candice Boyd?01:25 Early signs of regression03:22 The importance of getting a diagnosis06:01 The "Switch Flipped" moment in Queensland10:11 Initial discovery: Food and behaviors12:33 Dealing with "Mom Guilt"14:59 Identifying trauma in the body18:41 Meltdowns vs. Tantrums21:31 Asking "How can I help?" instead of judging26:39 Finding humor in the hardship28:25 The breaking point: Crying under the doona31:59 Taking action: The birth of SheRest33:53 The first community lunch38:14 Business lesson: You don't need ducks in a row45:30 Dreaming big: Nationwide hubs47:52 The hidden domestic violence of carer burnout52:47 Understanding Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA)58:20 The "What's in it for me?" mindset01:01:53 Fears for the future: Police and the law01:07:20 The importance of true respite01:10:46 How special needs parenting impacts marriage01:13:30 Clashing parenting styles01:21:04 The Tug of War: Picking your battles01:23:37 The question of "HeRests"01:29:29 Deep dive: Artificial colors and MSG01:36:47 Final message: Stay curious
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