On this special re-air episode of Defining Hospitality, we revisit a powerful conversation on people-centric leadership and the enduring value of culture with Marc Bromley, Regional Vice President and General Manager at Four Seasons Hotel Washington, D.C. Drawing from decades in luxury hospitality, and lessons passed down from his father, legendary hotelier Stan Bromley, Marc shares why exceptional guest experiences always start with taking exceptional care of employees.
The conversation explores the idea of a true “culture of care” and how it’s built, measured, and sustained. Marc explains how Four Seasons prioritizes employee well-being through clear values, rigorous feedback loops, and biannual employee opinion surveys that are treated as more important than financial or guest satisfaction metrics. The episode also dives into mentorship, hiring for attitude over skill, adapting leadership paths for new generations, and balancing uncompromising standards with empathy and wellness.
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“ Not to say we won't move heaven and earth and create legendary, world-class, luxurious, five-star experiences for our guests, but we openly declare that the employee comes first.” - Marc Bromley
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How do you scale hospitality without losing quality, trust, or operational control?
In this episode, Dan Ryan sits down with Ashley Ching, Founder & CEO of Inhaven, for a deep dive into the hidden limits of scale in hospitality and vacation rentals. They explore why service-based businesses often face diseconomies of scale, what leaders can learn from the rapid rise and fall of business, and how complexity, not competition, is often the true threat to growth. Ashley also shares how Inhaven is redefining standardization, elevating local expertise, and rebuilding trust in vacation rentals through consistent bed, bath, and kitchen experiences.
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“Hospitality is really an expression of honor. It's how you honor yourself, your team, your guests, and your ancestors.” - Ashley Ching
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How do you build hospitality experiences, and lead teams, in a way that’s rooted in authenticity, multicultural awareness, and a clear sense of purpose?
In this episode, Dan Ryan sits down with Anna Peretz, Director of Architecture, Design, and Construction at Sonesta International Hotels, to explore her journey from the USSR to Israel to the U.S., and how resilience, cultural diversity, and a passion for people shaped her approach to hospitality. Together, they unpack the balance between design and business realities, the role of authenticity in leadership, and the importance of mentoring future talent while maintaining personal well-being.
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“I am going to be stubborn about my vision, but I'm going to be flexible about the way I'm going to get to it.” - Anna Peretz
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How do you decide where, and whether, to grow in a way that’s strategic, sustainable, and aligned with your organization’s values?
In this episode, Dan Ryan sits down with Paul Sacco, Chief Growth and Development Officer at PM Hotel Group, to unpack the real thought process behind geographic expansion, from evaluating new markets to choosing the right partners. Paul reveals why his team rejects “growth for growth’s sake” and instead relies on a collaborative, intentional model that brings every voice to the table.
He breaks down how they assess operational readiness, including whether nearby assets and staff can support a new deal, and why the quality of the asset, and their ability to truly add value, must pass a high bar. Dan and Paul also explore the importance of long-term owner satisfaction and why alignment in mindset and values is essential before entering any new relationship. This is a grounded look at strategic expansion, operational discipline, leadership, and building partnerships that last.
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“Hospitality isn’t just something we do. Ultimately, it’s who we are. I think it rewards empathy, resilience, and creativity." - Paul Sacco
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How do architects create airports that feel human, intuitive, and welcoming while juggling regulations, budgets, and countless stakeholders?
In this episode, Dan Ryan sits down with John Anthal, Principal and Aviation Sector Leader at Mancini Duffy, to unpack the hidden complexity of airport design, the evolving meaning of hospitality in aviation, and how leadership, technology, and culture shape the future of large-scale infrastructure.
John pulls back the curtain on what it really takes to design terminals for millions of travelers, from Lufthansa’s JFK lounge to major Port Authority projects, while keeping the end user at the center. They explore human-scale design in massive public spaces, the tension between grand architecture and comfort, how AI and new tools are transforming the studio, and why empowering young designers leads to the most innovative ideas. This is a deep dive into architecture, hospitality, leadership, and the future of air travel, grounded in real-world lessons from one of the industry’s most experienced aviation designers.
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“Learning more from other clients helps us solve problems for our existing clients in ways we hadn’t thought about before. It’s about a diversity of knowledge in a niche market.” - John Anthal
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What happens when hospitality shifts from serving to empowering, when chefs become creators, not just cooks?
In this episode, Dan Ryan sits down with Emmie Nostitz and Zach Knight, co-founders of Tivity, a platform redefining private dining by connecting clients with talented chefs for personalized in-home and venue experiences. Together, they explore how Tivity empowers chefs to run their own businesses, foster creativity, and bring hospitality back to its human roots.
Emmie and Zach share how Tivity began as a passion project and evolved into a chef-centered movement operating across the U.S. and abroad. They discuss their philosophy of quality over quantity, the delicate balance between technology and personal connection, and why thoughtful growth matters more than rapid expansion. From intimate dinners to large-scale events, they reveal how every experience becomes a creative collaboration, crafted with care, trust, and authenticity.
You’ll hear insights on what it means to empower creators, how to manage expectations gracefully, and why true hospitality begins with empathy and human connection. Tivity’s story offers a blueprint for sustainable growth, purpose-driven leadership, and a reimagined future for dining.
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“There’s nothing more intimate and human than someone coming into your home, creating a meal, and then sharing that meal.” - Emmie Nostitz
“If the chef has the tools they need to execute a meal, which is their passion or their pursuit, then they’re going to crush it.” - Zach Knight
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What happens when brand becomes more than a logo and turns into a decision-making framework for every part of hospitality?
In this episode, Dan Ryan sits down with Matt Ferebee, co-founder and Chief Creative Officer of FerebeeLane, to explore how powerful brand strategy shapes luxury hospitality experiences from the inside out. Drawing on his work with properties like Blackberry Farm and global brands like The Ritz-Carlton, Matt shares how authentic care, storytelling, and culture-building drive excellence across teams and guest touchpoints.
They unpack what it means to truly live your story, how to operationalize brand values so they guide every decision, and why human connection remains irreplaceable in a tech-driven world. From empowering staff to embody a brand’s “North Star” to handling mistakes with grace, this conversation reveals how thoughtful branding becomes the heartbeat of extraordinary hospitality.
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“Genuine hospitality is the saving grace in the midst of things going wrong.” - Matt Ferebee
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What does authentic, people-centered hospitality look like?
In this episode, Dan Ryan talks with Margot Stern, hospitality entrepreneur and founder of Avenida Baja and The Hopewell, about her journey from global marketing at Mattel to building boutique hotels rooted in community and belonging. They explore how authenticity, storytelling, and resilience shape successful hospitality ventures and what it takes to raise capital, navigate local politics, and lead with empathy in a traditionally male-dominated industry.
Margot defines hospitality as creating a true sense of welcome, shares candid insights from her path as a female founder, and reveals how transparency, vision, and community engagement can turn challenges into opportunities for growth.
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“Sometimes things don't work out exactly the way you want and it can turn into something beautiful" - Margot Stern
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What does carbon-positive hospitality look like?
In this episode, Dan Ryan talks with Jon Buerge, CEO of Urban Villages, about Populus, the world’s first carbon-positive hotel, and how sustainability is reshaping hospitality from the ground up. They explore how design, materials, and mindset can transform guest experiences, strengthen brand loyalty, and create long-term business value.
Jon shares the story behind Populus and the vision driving Urban Villages’ sustainable developments. He defines hospitality as a selfless pursuit of extraordinary experiences and explains why true hospitality must include care for the planet. From innovative building materials like fly ash concrete to transparent, guest-facing sustainability efforts, Jon and Dan discuss how Populus is redefining what it means to host with purpose.
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“Hospitality is the kind of unwavering and selfless pursuit of an extraordinary experience for a guest” - Jon Buerge
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Can structure and systems actually make hospitality feel more human?
Yann de Rochefort, founder of Boqueria Restaurants, has spent the last 20 years redefining what modern hospitality feels like. From a single tapas bar in Manhattan to beloved locations across the U.S., Yann has built a restaurant brand rooted in warmth, culture, and design, all while keeping the experience consistent and deeply human. Yann shares how structure creates freedom, why culture matters more than any single person, and how intentional design can make every guest feel at home the moment they walk in. He also opens up about scaling Boqueria through stormy seas, building resilient teams, and leading with purpose in one of the toughest industries around.
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“What distinguishes hospitality from a transaction is the human connection.” - Yann de Rochefort
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What makes hospitality design truly memorable?
Today, Dan is joined by James Lee, Hospitality Managing Director and Design Principal at IA Interior Architects. James discusses the blurring lines between architecture and interior design in the context of hospitality, emphasizing the emotional impact of interior spaces. They explore the unique focus of IA on creating immersive and memorable experiences through design. James shares insights on the importance of understanding local culture for international projects, the role of social media in contemporary design research, and the significance of budget considerations in executing successful hospitality projects. Additionally, the conversation highlights the team's innovative approach, exemplified by their radical innovation project, 'The Passage,' aimed at repurposing abandoned railway lines into sustainable hotel destinations. James discusses the collaborative efforts within IA and emphasizes nurturing young talent to drive creative and impactful design solutions.
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“ Let's not try to hit the brain, let’s try to hit the heart. Let the story really relate to what we wanna say, not just literally, but emotionally.” - James Lee
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What happens when luxury design meets the wild?
Award-winning designer, Graeme Labe, Managing Partner and Chief Design Officer at Luxury Frontiers, shares how he’s redefining hospitality by crafting experiences that connect people deeply to nature, while championing sustainability and community. Graeme shares his journey from traditional hospitality design to founding Luxury Frontiers, which focuses on creating unique, luxurious experiences in remote locations. The conversation covers topics such as the importance of experiential hospitality, the challenges of working in remote environments, and the role of sustainability and community engagement in their projects. Graeme also discusses the innovation culture within his team, their participation in the Radical Innovation Award, and the significance of site-specific design.
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“ It’s those moments that take you out of your comfort zone, when you’re truly immersed in a place, that change your life. That’s the kind of experience we try to design for.” - Graeme Labe
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What does it take to lead a hotel company through constant headwinds while still inspiring teams and delivering exceptional guest experiences?
Today Dan interviews Scott Roby, President of Pacifica Hotels, to explore the state of the hospitality industry. They discuss the importance of focusing on controllable aspects of business, such as team and guest care, amid economic headwinds and legislative challenges in California. Scott shares insights on Pacifica's strategy of balancing ownership and third-party management, the value of maintaining a strong company culture, and the critical role of technology in the industry. The conversation also touches upon the future prospects and financial strategies for 2026 and beyond, emphasizing a meticulous approach to cost management and team accountability.
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“A hotel management company is its people. The quality of the company is first and foremost about the people that they have on their team and how they're leading and inspiring the hotel teams.” - Scott Roby
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Is EQ more important than IQ when it comes to hospitality?
Today, Manish Puri, General Manager of the Regent Hotels and Resorts Bali, joins Dan to dive into key topics in the industry, such as sustainability, community, and leadership. They discuss the essence of hospitality, differentiating it from mere service, and delve into the concept of regenerative hospitality and sustainability. Manish shares insights from his career at prestigious hotel brands like Oberoi, Burj Al Arab, Six Senses, and Regent Bali. They explore how sustainability initiatives can transform the industry, turning cost centers into investment centers, and the importance of heartfelt service. The conversation also covers the challenges of opening and managing new hotels and the impact of leadership and open-heartedness in inspiring younger generations in the hospitality industry.
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“ A luxury brand has to have that caring side of it. Caring for the environment, caring for all stakeholders, caring for the community. Without it, you are not a complete hotel.” - Manish Puri
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What happens when a hotel developer moves from building Hampton Inns to creating lifestyle hotels with fire pits and Michelin-starred restaurants?
Today’s guest is a returning guest, Stephen Wendell, Co-Founder and CEO of Mountain Shore Properties. They explore the shift from select-service properties to luxury and lifestyle hotels, examining the business dynamics and guest experiences that differentiate these segments. Steven shares insights on building independent lifestyle hotels, dealing with construction challenges, financing, and the pivotal role of major brands and creative freedom. They also discuss the evolving demands of younger travelers and the potential for lifestyle hotels to serve as cultural hubs. The conversation touches on financing strategies, the impact of current economic conditions, and the balance between guest experience and profitability.
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“Some people quit in the messy middle. We’ve pushed through, and now we know what to do and how to do it.” - Stephen Wendell
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“Design is subjective, but quality is objective.”
Today, Spencer Levine, President of RAL Companies and Affiliates, joins Dan to dive into hospitality development. Spencer shares insights from his extensive career in architecture and landscape development. The conversation covers the importance of delivering tangible and thoughtful hospitality experiences, the significance of strategic partnerships, and the crucial role of creative problem-solving in the development process. Spencer also delves into his experiences during the 2008 financial crisis and how it shaped his company's approach to handling distressed projects. Additionally, he reflects on lessons from his father and the impact of company culture on successful project execution.
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“Design is not necessarily just beautiful, it's making a decision and forging ahead with it.” - Spencer Levine
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The secret to a hotel's success isn’t just great design; it's what guests don't see.
Harzali Hashim, Complex Director of Engineering at Kyo-ya Hotels and Resorts in Honolulu, joins Dan to discuss sustainability engineering within the hospitality industry. They discuss Harzali's extensive 20-year career in hotel and resort engineering, focusing on the importance of maintenance, design, and sustainability in creating memorable guest experiences. They explore the operational challenges of managing historic properties, the significance of green engineering, and the collaborative efforts across the industry to uphold high standards. The episode also touches on Harzali's leadership within the Hawaii Lodging and Tourism Association's Engineers Advisory Council and his proactive approach in mentoring and fostering sustainability initiatives.
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“Sustainability has been part of me for a while. Being here in Hawaii, embracing the local community means being sustainable.” - Harzali Hashim
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What does it take to manage 420 apartments and create a million memorable moments?
On this episode, host Dan Ryan sits down with Sebastián Torres-Calderón, the CEO of Stay U-nique, an award-winning short-term rental company in Spain. Sebastián shares his journey from customer journey intern to CEO and reveals how implementing the Entrepreneurial Operating System (EOS) helped his company not only survive the chaos of COVID but quadruple in size. The conversation dives deep into how Stay U-nique uses data and technology to create a frictionless guest experience, the challenges of a rapidly evolving industry, and the political headwinds facing the short-term rental market. Sebastián offers a unique perspective on the debate between prohibition and regulation and provides a powerful case for why collaboration between the private and public sectors is the key to solving housing inventory issues.
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“To take that time and make it something that they will remember forever, and get to do that every day, that's amazing.” - Sebastián Torres-Calderón
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What does it mean to develop a host mindset?
Today, Dan dives into the transformative principles of the 'host mindset' with Steve Fortunato, founder of roomforty and the Fig House. Steve shares his journey from a restaurateur and caterer to becoming an influential leadership facilitator, emphasizing the importance of making others feel valued. The conversation highlights the impact of hospitality in business, practical strategies to foster engagement, and the significance of personal growth and generosity-driven cultures. This episode is a deep exploration of how hospitality principles can enhance both personal and professional interactions, creating a kinder and collaborative environment.
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“ I don't believe hospitality is an industry. I believe it's a virtue.” - Steve Fortunato
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What is the power of providing unique experiences?
Today, Dan chats with the Co-Founders of Reset Hotels, Ben Uyeda and Adam Wininger, about their unique hotel venture designed for the next generation of conscious travelers. Ben and Adam share insights from their journey in hospitality, emphasizing the importance of midweek group bookings for corporate and wellness retreats, and creating meaningful, immersive experiences in the vast, open spaces of Joshua Tree. The conversation explores the concept of 'reset' in hospitality, the value of modular construction in remote areas, and future visions including art installations, unique retreats, and potentially an interplanetary hotel. Join the conversation as they discuss how thoughtful design and unique experiences can transform simple stays into unforgettable journeys.
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”I've always thought of hospitality as the craft of the welcome.” - Ben Uyeda
“ We fully intend to do all that. Just creating little moments of surprise for people out in the desert.” - Adam Wininger
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