Introduction: In this episode of Fender Gender, hosts Eyma and Maxine welcome LJ, a non-binary trans masculine poet and educator, to share their journey of self-discovery and the complexities of gender identity. The conversation dives deep into the nuances of being non-binary, the experience of transition, and the importance of community support.
Understanding Identity: The episode begins with LJ sharing their background as a Chinese adoptee, highlighting the unique intersections of their identity. They reflect on how labels like "trans masculine" and "trans man" can mean different things to different people, emphasizing personal preference in defining one’s identity.
The Journey of Discovery: LJ reveals that their journey toward self-identity began at the age of 16 during a queer summer camp in Ontario. Surrounded by trans masculine individuals, they realized that being non-binary was a valid and recognized identity, which opened up new possibilities for them.
Hormones and the Body: As the conversation progresses, the topic of hormone therapy comes up. LJ discusses their initial hesitations about starting testosterone and how they navigated the changes it brought. Despite passing as male after starting hormones, they maintain a strong identification as non-binary. LJ describes their experience as being on a spectrum rather than strictly identifying as a man, which reflects the fluidity of gender identity.
Unexpected Realizations: Throughout their transition, LJ faced unexpected challenges and realizations. They recount how their mental image of themselves aligned with the physical changes brought about by testosterone. This alignment provided a sense of validation and fulfillment, as LJ felt they were finally stepping into a part of themselves that had always existed but had not fully manifested.
Familial Relationships and Acceptance: The conversation also touches on family dynamics, particularly how LJ’s non-binary identity was received by their parents. They share the complexities of being understood within a family that may find it easier to grasp a binary identity. LJ reflects on their childhood experiences and how their interests and behaviours hinted at their true identity long before they had the language to express it.
Conclusion: The episode wraps up with key takeaways about the importance of community, self-acceptance, and the ongoing journey of exploring one’s identity. LJ’s story serves as a reminder of the diverse experiences within the gender spectrum and the need for understanding and support. Ultimately, embracing one’s true self is a journey worth taking, no matter where it leads.
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In this episode of Fender Gender, Eyma, Maxine, and Keanda dive into performative maleness and the personal evolution of self-expression, we share our unique perspectives on living authentically.
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In this episode of Fender Gender, Eyma, Maxine, and Keanda talk about the first time they truly felt right in their gender. What that moment meant, how it shaped their confidence, and how it changed the way they moved through the world.
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In this episode of Fender Gender, Eyma, Maxine, and Keanda talk about the unique challenges of being trans in the workplace. We dive into the differences between coming out socially versus professionally.
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Dive in with us into the weird, wonderful world of dating as trans people. In this episode, we explore the challenges, triumphs, and heartfelt stories that define the trans dating experience. Things get a little spicy, a little chaotic, and definitely honest because once sex comes up, we don’t shut up. Join us for a raw, funny, and unfiltered convo about love, attraction, and everything that makes dating while trans both complicated and beautiful.
P.S. We filmed outside, so apologies for a bit of background noise here and there. If you want to skip the motorcycle talk, the dating convo starts at 17:46.
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Join us as we share our experiences navigating friendships after transitioning. We discuss the challenges and joys of maintaining connections, coming out to friends, and finding new communities. This episode offers a heartfelt look at how our relationships have evolved and the support we've found along the way.
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In our first episode of Fender Gender, we explore the invaluable role of trans elders in our community. Join us as we discuss their wisdom, the challenges they face, and the impact they have on younger generations. Through personal stories and heartfelt conversations, we highlight the importance of preserving and sharing the experiences of those who have paved the way.
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What do motorcycles, messy conversations, and being trans have in common? That’s what Fender Gender is here to explore. Hosted by Eyma and Maxine, this podcast dives into stories, hot takes, and truths that don’t always get told. Here’s a first taste of what’s coming.
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