This week on It’s Not That Deep, I sit down with Elan Bibas – ultra-marathon runner, former Love Island contestant, and a relentless advocate for mental health.
We explore what drives someone to run 100 kilometers through pain, silence, and solitude – and how those same miles became a pathway to healing. Elan opens up about a moment in his life when everything familiar fell apart: the end of a long-term relationship, the loss of academic structure, and a career path that left him questioning his identity.
Through that breakdown, he rebuilt himself by experimenting with life – trying new things, chasing curiosity, and most importantly, reconnecting with his deeper purpose. Today, his mission is clear: help others navigate mental health through radical honesty, resilience, and movement.
We talk identity, emotional resets, over-identifying with titles, and the inner work it takes to stay aligned with who you really are – especially when your reality changes faster than you can process it.
If you’ve ever felt lost, stuck, or unsure of who you’re becoming, this episode is for you.
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This week, I sit down with Lucy Nelles, founder of Coffee & Chill, and the creative force behind one of the fastest-growing sober movements in Miami and LA.
From packed Sunday morning events with over a thousand attendees to deep conversations about faith, identity, and presence, Lucy has built a global community around healing, connection, and purpose — all without a single drop of alcohol.
In this episode, we dive into the story behind Coffee & Chill, what it really means to lead from intuition, and how Lucy went from a career in nightlife to becoming a guide for the new wave of wellness and authentic community.
We talk about masculine and feminine energy, surrender vs control, the loneliness epidemic, dating, heartbreak, and what it takes to hold a vision bigger than yourself — even when no one else gets it yet.
If you’re building something from your soul, this one will hit deep.
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Amr Alian is a rare breed. A creative entrepreneur, mentor, and philosopher of the modern age. In this episode of It’s Not That Deep, we explore the lessons that shaped him as the founder of multiple businesses, a man of many cities, and a believer in taking bold action with faith.
We talk about what it means to truly listen to yourself, to others, and to the world around you. Amr shares the story of growing up in a conservative Egyptian family, navigating identity and expectations, and finding his voice through creativity, entrepreneurship, and stillness.From starting his first brand in his early 20s, to facing bankruptcy, to rediscovering his calling through community and spirituality, this conversation is a masterclass in perspective.
We unpack masculine energy, faith, intuition, and the internal vs. external metrics of success.This episode is an invitation to slow down, question your programming, and lead a life that feels aligned — not just impressive. If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing everything right but something still feels off, this one’s for you.
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This week I sit down with Brandon Epstein, performance coach to elite entrepreneurs, artists, and athletes. After helping build multiple eight-figure ventures, Brandon realized that true success isn’t about just optimizing your business, it’s about mastering your mind.
Today's episode features an elite mental performance coach discussing how to improve your mindset. We explore techniques to cultivate self belief and the importance of sports psychology in achieving peak performance. Learn practical strategies for self improvement and discover the motivation to excel, guided by a seasoned mental game coach.
We dive into:
How to stop letting external chaos dictate your internal state
Why most entrepreneurs burn out and how to break the pattern
Tools for emotional regulation, embodiment, and nervous system reset
The intersection of masculine power and loving leadership
What it really means to lead with peace and presence without losing your edge
If you’re someone who’s built the business, the brand, the life, but still feels like something’s off… this one’s for you.
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What if you treated your life with the same systems, KPIs, and standards as your business?
This week I sit down with Mina Elias, a no-nonsense operator and serial entrepreneur who has built multiple 7 and 8-figure companies while optimizing every area of his life—from sleep and social life to SOPs and supplements.
We talk about the real cost of not having structure, why hiring a life manager might be the most underrated business decision you ever make, and how to build systems that protect your time, energy, and sanity. Mina breaks down his Sunday planning ritual, personal CRM setup, team scoreboards, and how he built a corporate university inside his company to replicate himself.
We dive into health, habits, and the brutal lessons from MMA that made him a better CEO. And we unpack the mindset shift from “working hard” to “operating like a pro” across every domain.
This is a full blueprint for anyone serious about building a high-performance life. No fluff. No shortcuts. Just systems, standards, and results.
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After six months of soul searching, self-discipline, and going all in on Going Pro, Deepak is back in Miami—reborn.
In this episode, he shares the unexpected decision to return to South Beach and why it feels like the most aligned move he’s ever made. From a life-changing stint in Colombia to a deeper connection with his purpose, he reflects on what it means to listen to your inner voice and follow the call—even when it doesn’t make logical sense.
This is a raw update on identity, intuition, and evolution. We talk about the difference between escape and expansion, what it looks like to build a home base without losing your freedom, and why discipline is the ultimate spiritual practice.
Whether you’re feeling stuck, scattered, or just searching for a sign to start over this one’s for you.
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This week I sat down with Michael Smoke, entrepreneur, content creator, and the man behind one of the most honest transformations on the internet.
Once known as “Sloppy Smoke,” Michael was living below his potential, undisciplined, unfocused, and disconnected from who he truly was. But through extreme ownership, faith, and the daily decision to do hard things, he rebuilt himself from the inside out.
In this episode, we dive deep into what real confidence is, not affirmations or fake hype, but evidence-based confidence earned through keeping promises to yourself. Michael opens up about how shame became his wake-up call, the identity shift that comes with doing uncomfortable things, and the spiritual growth that comes from taking full responsibility for your life.
We explore what it really means to change, the psychology behind self-mastery, the tension between vulnerability and strength, and how redefining masculinity starts with telling yourself the truth.
This conversation is for anyone who’s tired of feeling stuck, searching for direction, or ready to become the kind of person their younger self needed.
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This week I sat down with Matt Brown UFC legend, gym owner, father, and the man behind the name “The Immortal.”
With more knockouts than almost anyone in UFC history, Matt’s legacy inside the octagon is undeniable. But in this episode, we go far beyond the cage. From heroin addiction and street fights to becoming one of the most respected martial artists of our time, Matt opens up about the identity crisis behind retirement, what it really means to fight, and how martial arts helped him rebuild his life—one rep at a time.
We dive into his philosophies on stoicism, parenting, masculinity, and mental mastery. He breaks down the difference between martial skills and martial arts, why visualization isn’t just some woo-woo tactic, and how teaching kids to throw a punch might be more valuable than any classroom lesson.
This conversation is a blueprint for anyone trying to find meaning, discipline, or a path forward. Whether you’re an athlete, a parent, a business owner, or someone trying to reinvent themselves, Matt’s story is a reminder that your past doesn’t define you—your choices do.
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This week I sat down with Blake Harris, founder of the largest offshore asset protection law firm in the United StatesBlake isn’t your typical lawyer. He’s built a global legal practice by helping high-net-worth individuals protect their wealth before it’s too late. In a world where lawsuits are inevitable and judgments are handed down by the billions, his mission is simple—give people peace of mindIn this episode we dive deep into what offshore trusts really are, why most people misunderstand them, and how they’ve become one of the most powerful tools to preserve generational wealth. Blake breaks down the myths around offshore structures, the ethics of financial protection, and how anyone with over $1M in assets should be thinking globally about their legal strategiesWe also talk about the real definition of success, the rise of litigation culture in America, and what it means to build a business that leaves a legacy. Blake shares his journey from building his practice alone in Denver to becoming a trusted advisor to clients around the world. Along the way, we cover trust, resilience, Muay Thai, and the mindset required to thrive in uncertain timesThis episode is a wake-up call for anyone who’s built something worth protecting. The truth is, if you wait until you need a trust, it’s already too late🎯 Access the tools, offers, and ways to work with me: https://stan.store/deepaksharma📲 Enjoyed the episode? Share it and tag me on IG: @deepaksharma.coThanks for tuning in. And just rememberIt’s Not That Deep.
What if everything you learned about sex… was wrong?
In this deeply candid and educational episode, I sit down with intimacy educator and performance coach Jackson Hightower to talk about what men really need to know about sex, relationships, pleasure, and masculine energy.
We cover topics most people are too scared to say out loud — from porn addiction and performance anxiety to responsive desire, breathwork, male utility, and how to actually create deep connection in and out of the bedroom.
Highlights include:
💥 The myth of “more friction” and why it’s ruining your sex life
💥 What women actually want but rarely say out loud
💥 The psychology of arousal and how it differs between men and women
💥 Why so many long-term couples stop having sex — and how to fix it
💥 How porn is stealing your drive, confidence, and connection
💥 The difference between sex and intimacy — and why aftercare matters
💥 Masculinity, rejection, and being a high-value man in today’s world
💥 Soulmates, sacred sex, and the real cost of repressing desire
This is the type of conversation that could genuinely change the way you see yourself, your relationships, and your potential. Whether you’re single, dating, or in a long-term partnership, this episode is packed with insight.
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In this solo episode of It’s Not That Deep, I’m pulling back the curtain on some of the most important decisions I’ve made in 2025 decisions that are already transforming my life, business, and mindset.From leaving Miami and cutting personal expenses in half, to taking a break from alcohol and finally training for my first amateur fight, this episode is a raw, unfiltered reflection on what it really means to go pro in every area of life.This isn’t just about discipline or transformation. It’s about tuning into your higher self, reclaiming your energy, and treating your life like the meaningful project it is.If you’re someone who’s ready to level up—mentally, physically, spiritually—this one’s for you.🎯 Access the tools, offers, and ways to work with me: https://stan.store/deepaksharma📲 Enjoyed the episode? Share it and tag me on IG: @deepaksharma.co
I wouldn't be where I am today if I didn't make that decision in 2019 to start "It's Not That Deep" in my attic apartment in Ottawa, Canada1000 subscribers may not seem like a lot to you but that's over 100 conversations that made me the man I am today, and that's what I'm really excited aboutBut now it's time to take this thing to level, time to GO PROIt's Not That Deep is powered by: putoutcontent.comThis episode was filmed at THE ZONE podcast studio in Medellin, Colombia. Head over to https://thezonepodcast.com/ and tell them Deep Sent you for 20% offFor more episodes, or to learn how you can put out content yourself, head over to https://stan.store/deepaksharma
This week I sit down with Jamey Lee, creative strategist, content architect, and the co-founder of Deep Social Brands.
Before helping creators and entrepreneurs build powerful online presence, Jamey was burned out, disconnected, and stuck in a version of life that looked good on the outside but felt completely wrong on the inside. He was following the playbook, climbing the ladder, and slowly losing himself.
In this episode we unpack the hardest year of his life, and how everything started to shift the moment he stopped performing and started listening. Jamey opens up about the collapse that forced him to confront his identity, his mental health, his faith, and the question we all avoid—what if success isn’t what I thought it was?
We talk about hitting rock bottom with your eyes wide open, walking away from what no longer fits, and how slowing down became the unexpected key to building a more aligned and meaningful life. We explore the ego deaths, the healing work, and the beauty of starting over when it would be easier to just keep going.
Jamey’s story is a reminder that the breakdown isn’t the end. It’s often the beginning. If you’ve ever felt like you were living someone else’s dream, this one’s for you.
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This week I sit down with Eric Brown, community builder, creative force, and the man behind one of Miami’s most unexpected movements: Coffee & Chill.
Before the sold-out events, the sunrise cold plunges, and the 1,000-person Sundays without a single drop of alcohol, Eric was sleeping in his car, wrestling with faith, identity, and the pressure to become someone he no longer recognized.
In this episode we dive deep into the journey that led him from burnout and anxiety to purpose and presence. He opens up about the moment he chose surrender over control, how one quiet “yes” turned into a movement, and why real connection is the most healing drug we’re all missing.
We talk about what it means to build community from the ground up—not as a strategy, but as a survival instinct. We unpack faith, masculine vulnerability, the loneliness epidemic, and the courage it takes to build something you can’t fully explain but feel with every fiber of your being.
Eric’s story is a reminder that you don’t need a blueprint to create something meaningful. You just need to start. If you’ve ever felt like you’re meant for more, like something in you is waking up, this one’s for you.
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This week, I sit down with Eli Ankou, 9-year NFL veteran who went from being undrafted out of UCLA to carving out nearly a decade in the league—proving that sometimes the biggest chip on your shoulder becomes your greatest fuel. In this episode, Eli takes us through his real journey from Ottawa to the NFL, sharing how draft day disappointment became the foundation for a relentless work ethic that kept him in the game longer than most first-round picks. We dive deep into what it really takes to survive in the NFL when you're not the chosen one, why being undrafted taught him lessons that no college program ever could, and how he learned to find his identity beyond the helmet. He opens up about the brotherhood behind the scenes, the mental battles that don't show up on highlight reels, and that moment when you realize football was just the beginning—not the destination. Eli also reveals how his journey from knockdowns to building something lasting taught him that grit, gratitude, and staying true to your roots matter more than any draft position ever will.
This conversation will shift your perspective on what it means to be "built different" and why the longest careers aren't always built by the most talented—they're built by the most determined.
If you're on your own journey of proving the doubters wrong and building something that lasts, check out Put Out Content—my high-level coaching and content strategy program designed to help creators, founders, and entrepreneurs realize their potential through powerful storytelling and systems.
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After over a month living in Medellin, Colombia, I can confidently say this is the best decision I could have possibly made at this stage of my life and this video dives into why that is.I dive into the 4 primary areas of my life that have improved drastically with even a very short time hereAnd if you're ready to document your own journey, build your brand, and finally start putting out content, head over to: https://stan.store/deepaksharma
This week, I chat with Kenny Crosby, CEO and founder of Home Nerds, who's spent 18 years mastering the art of door-to-door sales and is now building a tech product to disrupt the entire home services industry. In this episode, Kenny shares how a single $180 cable sale after three weeks of straight rejection hooked him on sales for life-leading him from knocking doors in high school to training hundreds of salespeople and generating millions in revenue. We dive deep into what separates the top 1% of salespeople from everyone else, why Kenny would take someone with 10 years of door-to-door experience over an Ivy League graduate, and how he learned to see himself as a "servant" rather than a salesperson. He opens up about losing nearly $2 million and an entire sales team, the spiritual journey that followed (including Friday nights with mushrooms and Grateful Dead albums), and why he believes every entrepreneur gets "shaken to their core" right before they're about to level up. Kenny also reveals how he's building a fully integrated marketplace for home services that could compete with Angie and HomeAdvisor, and shares his counterintuitive approach to business growth—selling first, then figuring out how to deliver. This conversation will challenge everything you think you know about sales, rejection, and what it really takes to build something that lasts. If you’re on your own journey of breaking free from the 9–5 and building something real, check out Put Out Content — my high-level coaching and content strategy program designed to help creators, founders, and entrepreneurs realize their potential through powerful storytelling and systems. 🎯 Access the tools, offers, and ways to work with me: https://stan.store/deepaksharma 📲 Enjoyed the episode? Share it and tag me on IG: @deepaksharma.co Thanks for tuning in. And just remember... It’s Not That Deep.
This week, I chat with Paul Hutchinson, former private equity founder who managed billions in assets and left the finance world to go undercover and rescue trafficked children around the world.
In this episode, Paul shares how a single phone call from the Attorney General changed everything—leading him to pose as a wealthy investor to infiltrate trafficking rings and rescue 54 kids in one mission alone. We dive deep into the dark reality of how trafficking actually works, why most perpetrators were victims themselves, and how Paul discovered that rescues alone aren't enough. He opens up about hitting rock bottom despite managing billions in assets, finding his true purpose through plant medicine healing retreats, and why he believes the only sustainable solution is healing humanity at its core. Paul also reveals the real story behind Hollywood's 5-year resistance to releasing "Sound of Freedom" (which he executive produced), and shares his counterintuitive approach to scaling from 10x to 1000x success through divine co-creation and deep listening. This conversation will challenge everything you think you know about success, purpose, and what it really takes to create lasting change in the world.
If you’re on your own journey of breaking free from the 9–5 and building something real, check out Put Out Content — my high-level coaching and content strategy program designed to help creators, founders, and entrepreneurs realize their potential through powerful storytelling and systems. 🎯 Access the tools, offers, and ways to work with me:
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This week, I chat with my good friend Estrella Tiroz, co-founder of Last Farewells, an end-of-life planning platform designed to help individuals leave no words unspoken.In this episode, Estrella shares her deeply personal journey from tragedy to purpose-driven entrepreneurship. After her father was deported to Nicaragua when she was 17 and died alone in a hospital just one year later, Estrella discovered three voicemails he had left her just days before his death - messages she had declined to answer because she was angry with him. These last words became the catalyst for everything that followed: her transformation from a shy teenager to a life enthusiast who traveled to 40 countries, her unlikely partnership with CEO Troy who became her co-founder, and ultimately the creation of Last Farewells, a platform that allows people to record and schedule messages for delivery after they pass away. We dive deep into how death taught her to live fully, the $189 billion end-of-life industry that nobody talks about, why she believes in "emotional life insurance," and how losing everything led her to find her true purpose. Estrella also opens up about navigating grief, conscious uncoupling from a four-year relationship, and why she threw herself a sunrise birthday party that was actually her own celebration of life. This conversation will change how you think about death, relationships, and living life on your own terms.If you’re on your own journey of breaking free from the 9–5 and building something real, check out Put Out Content — my high-level coaching and content strategy program designed to help creators, founders, and entrepreneurs realize their potential through powerful storytelling and systems. 🎯 Access the tools, offers, and ways to work with me: https://stan.store/deepaksharma 📲 Enjoyed the episode? Share it and tag me on IG: @deepaksharma.co Thanks for tuning in. And just remember... It’s Not That Deep.
This week, I chat with a young legend in the game, Luke Del Priori — a 20-year-old entrepreneur who's building a multi-million dollar agency with his brother and shaking up the whole online business space.In this episode, we dive deep into what it really takes to build a 7-figure agency in your early 20s. Luke shares how he dropped out of high school, worked 12-hour days at local restaurants, and used his first few thousand dollars to launch a content business with his brother. From there, they pivoted into a fully digital agency model — now serving over 150 wedding venues across the U.S. and pulling in over $2.5M a year.We also talk about the dark side of agency life: loneliness, losing friends, and why having a mission (and a solid business partner) keeps you grounded. Luke holds nothing back — this episode is raw, real, and filled with battle-tested advice for anyone who wants to build something meaningful, especially if you're starting from scratch.If you’re on your own journey of breaking free from the 9–5 and building something real, check out Put Out Content — my high-level coaching and content strategy program designed to help creators, founders, and entrepreneurs realize their potential through powerful storytelling and systems. 🎯 Access the tools, offers, and ways to work with me: https://stan.store/deepaksharma 📲 Enjoyed the episode? Share it and tag me on IG: @deepaksharma.co Thanks for tuning in. And just remember... It’s Not That Deep.