My podcast creates a safe, open space for women whose voices are often silenced, dismissed, or ignored. I speak with guests who bring lived experience, honesty, and courage to conversations that matter.
I’m especially interested in speaking with women who:
This podcast aims to amplify stories that are too often kept in the shadows — giving voice to truth-tellers, survivors, and women who have faced backlash for speaking openly.
If your experience touches on these themes and you’re ready for a thoughtful, respectful, and empowering conversation, I’d love to hear from you.
My podcast creates a safe, open space for women whose voices are often silenced, dismissed, or ignored. I speak with guests who bring lived experience, honesty, and courage to conversations that matter.
I’m especially interested in speaking with women who:
This podcast aims to amplify stories that are too often kept in the shadows — giving voice to truth-tellers, survivors, and women who have faced backlash for speaking openly.
If your experience touches on these themes and you’re ready for a thoughtful, respectful, and empowering conversation, I’d love to hear from you.
Where you can find Michael - X https://x.com/Michaelwk20 Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@UCQPu3IG782FM9azIZ26ADsg Summary In this conversation, Michael, a detransitioner from Scotland, shares his journey through transition and the challenges he faced within the medical system. He discusses the mental health struggles, societal pressures, and the complexities of navigating gender identity. Michael emphasizes the need for better support systems for detransitioners and advocates for awareness and understanding of their experiences. He reflects on the impact of hormonal treatments and the importance of community in the journey of self-discovery and acceptance. Takeaways Michael is a 33-year-old detransitioner from Scotland. Transitioning can lead to significant mental health challenges. The medical system often lacks adequate support for detransitioners. Social pressures can heavily influence one's gender identity journey. Workplace dynamics can complicate the experience of transitioning individuals. Accessible spaces are crucial for those navigating gender identity. Hormonal treatments can have unexpected and distressing effects. Detransitioning is a complex decision that requires careful consideration. Legal and medical challenges persist for detransitioners seeking support. Advocacy for detransitioners is essential for raising awareness and improving support systems. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Detransitioning Perspectives 03:00 The Journey of Detransitioning 05:41 Navigating Mental Health and Support Systems 08:30 Experiences in the Workplace and Identity 11:07 The Impact of Social Influences on Gender Identity 13:58 Medical Experiences and Informed Consent 16:47 Long-term Effects of Hormonal Treatment 19:29 Accessible Spaces and Gender Identity 25:21 Navigating Hormone Therapy: A Personal Journey 31:56 The Emotional Rollercoaster of Transitioning 37:12 The Complex Path to Surgery 43:56 Confronting Addiction and Seeking Change 47:42 Reevaluating Identity and Activism 48:19 The Internal Conflicts of the Trans Community 50:34 Navigating Relationships and Personal Struggles 52:44 The Journey of Detransitioning 57:29 Medical Support and the Challenges of Detransitioning 01:03:08 The Need for Advocacy and Support for Detransitioners If this resonates with you, I help women work through these issues in counselling. You can book a free consultation with me at kellyoliverdougall.co.uk
Summary In this conversation, Kelly Oliver Dougall and Una Jane Winfield discuss the ongoing struggles and advocacy efforts of trans widows, highlighting the challenges they face in society and the legal system. They explore the impact of media representation, personal experiences, and the psychological effects of gender identity issues. The discussion emphasizes the importance of community engagement, open dialogue, and continued activism to address these pressing concerns. Takeaways Trans widows feel their voices are often unheard. There is a need for more representation in media. Legal battles in the NHS highlight systemic issues. Personal experiences reveal the psychological impact of gender identity. Activism is crucial for advocating for justice. Community engagement can foster understanding and support. Public meetings often shut down important questions. The ideology surrounding gender identity affects societal norms. Youth are particularly vulnerable to these issues. Support networks are essential for those affected. If this resonates with you, I help women work through these issues in counselling. You can book a free consultation with me at kellyoliverdougall.co.uk
Summary The conversation delves into the tragic events at Bondi Beach, focusing on the experiences of those affected, particularly women. It highlights stories of heroism amidst the chaos, the community's response to grief, and the need to address cultural clashes. The speaker also offers support to women who have faced trauma, emphasizing the importance of collective healing and dialogue. Takeaways The tragedy at Bondi Beach was a targeted attack. Heroic actions emerged from ordinary people during the attack. Community support is vital in times of grief. Cultural clashes can lead to violence and misunderstanding. Women affected by trauma need support and understanding. Collective grief can unite communities. It's important to talk about the issues affecting society. Positive responses can arise from tragic events. Support systems are crucial for healing. Counselling can help those in pain. If this resonates with you, I help women work through these issues in counselling. You can book a free consultation with me at kellyoliverdougall.co.uk
Summary The conversation delves into the controversial case of Sandie Peggie, a nurse who faced discrimination for her gender critical beliefs in the context of a tribunal ruling regarding her employer, NHS Fife. The discussion highlights the complexities of gender identity, the implications of the tribunal's judgment, and the broader societal impact on women's rights. Legal experts weigh in on the compatibility of the ruling with existing laws, while reactions from unions and advocates underscore the ongoing debate surrounding gender and sex in public spaces. Takeaways Sandie Peggie's case highlights the tension between gender identity and women's rights. The tribunal's judgment has been criticized for its implications on women's safety. Legal experts argue that the ruling contradicts previous Supreme Court decisions. The concept of gender identity remains contentious and poorly defined in legal contexts. There is a growing concern about the impact of transgender ideology on women's rights. The ruling suggests new criteria for access to female-only spaces based on appearance and transition status. Many believe that the judgment places the burden of objection on women in compromising situations. The conversation reflects a broader societal debate about sex, gender, and rights. Support for Sandie Peggie is strong among various unions and advocates for women's rights. The discussion calls for more awareness and dialogue about the implications of transgender policies. If this resonates with you, I help women work through these issues in counselling. You can book a free consultation with me at kellyoliverdougall.co.uk
Summary The conversation delves into the Peggy vs NHS case, exploring the tribunal's findings, public reactions, and the broader implications for women's rights and healthcare. It highlights the contentious nature of the case, the financial burden on NHS Fife, and the cultural impact of the ruling on women's rights Takeaways The tribunal upheld four of Peggy's claims against NHS. The ruling suggests a balance of rights between trans women and biological women. NHS Fife has spent significant public funds on the case. Public opinion is deeply divided on the issue. The case has broader implications for gender rights in the UK. Critics argue the ruling is muddled and unclear. The cultural impact of the case is significant and ongoing. There are calls for clearer guidance from Westminster. The case has become a focal point for discussions on women's rights. The conversation reflects a growing tension in society regarding gender identity.
summary In this conversation, Amita Sharma discusses the often-overlooked topic of hormonal transitions in women, particularly focusing on menopause and perimenopause. She highlights the lack of understanding and resources available for women experiencing these changes and emphasizes the importance of diet and lifestyle in managing symptoms. Amita introduces her app, Nourish Talk, designed to provide holistic wellness support for women navigating these transitions, and advocates for better education and awareness around women's health issues. Takeaways Most women are unaware of the symptoms of menopause. Chronic conditions are prevalent among women over 60. Diet and lifestyle changes can mitigate menopause symptoms. Personal experiences with perimenopause are often shocking. Women need better resources for hormonal transitions. Menopause education is lacking in medical training. Women can still contribute significantly in their 40s and beyond. The stigma around menopause needs to be addressed. Holistic approaches to health are essential for women. Women should have access to credible health information. If this resonates with you, I help women work through these issues in counselling. You can book a free consultation with me at kellyoliverdougall.co.uk
Featuring @UteHeggenTranswidowHeals Originally posted on 6th August 2025 - this version is less edited as feedback was that the original was "jumpy". Takeaways Ute Heggen shares her experience as a trans widow. The psychological impact of cross-dressing on relationships is profound. Therapists often affirm gender identity without addressing underlying issues. Childhood trauma can significantly influence gender identity. Custody battles can be complicated by a partner's gender transition. Post-traumatic stress can arise from relationship challenges. Social contagion plays a role in the rise of gender identity issues. Cognitive behavioural therapy can help in managing negative thought patterns. The ethics of gender affirmation in therapy is a contentious issue. Nature and gardening can be therapeutic for mental health. Children are burdened by societal lies. Physical activity can aid mental health. Healing requires addressing trauma. Family relationships are impacted by social dynamics. Self-protection is essential in changing times. Nature can provide solace and joy. Education plays a crucial role in development. Motherhood is a complex journey. Family dynamics can be complicated. Finding joy in community is vital. Summary In this conversation, Ute Heggen shares her journey as a trans widow, discussing the profound psychological impact of her ex-husband's cross-dressing on their relationship. She explores the role of therapy in gender identity, the influence of childhood trauma, and the complexities of custody battles. Ute emphasizes the importance of cognitive behavioural therapy and the healing power of nature and gardening, while also addressing the ethical considerations surrounding gender affirmation in therapy. In this conversation, Ute Heggen and Kelly Oliver Dougall explore the complexities of parenting, trauma, and the impact of societal changes on family dynamics. They discuss the burden of lies that children face, the importance of physical and mental well-being, and the strategies for healing from trauma. The dialogue emphasizes the significance of self-protection, the joy found in nature and community, and the role of education in child development. Ute shares personal anecdotes about motherhood, the challenges of family relationships, and the journey of self-discovery and acceptance. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Ute Heggen and Her Journey 02:06 The Impact of Cross-Dressing on Relationships 05:16 Exploring the Role of Therapists in Gender Identity 09:28 Childhood Trauma and Its Effects on Gender Ideation 13:34 Navigating Custody Battles and Parenting Challenges 18:08 The Development of PTSD and Healing Journey 24:59 The Role of Nature in Healing and Recovery 28:23 Challenges in Mental Health and Therapy Practices 35:49 Understanding Biological Sex and Gender Identity 38:04 Navigating Professional Challenges and Activism 41:13 Mental Health and the Impact of Detransitioning 45:40 The Role of Therapy and Support for Trans Widows 49:15 Finding Balance Through Nature and Wellness 54:14 The Burden of Lies and Family Dynamics 58:29 Physical Health and Mental Well-being 01:02:28 Coping with Trauma and Building Resilience 01:08:58 Navigating Family Dynamics in a Changing World 01:11:44 The Impact of Social Media and Online Trolls 01:14:58 Protecting Oneself: Legal and Emotional Strategies 01:17:43 Finding Community and Normalcy 01:18:33 Child Development and Gender Identity 01:23:59 Reflections on Parenting and Life Lessons 01:29:19 The Importance of Sharing Stories and Experiences 01:42:49 May 2025 YouTube Intro m.mp4 Work with me - If you have an experience that you would like some help with, I am a counsellor and I would love to support you. You can book a free no obligation consultation here - kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/counselling
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Find Nonika here - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095728833512
Summary
The conversation explores the true essence of feminism, challenging traditional perceptions that equate it with weakness. Nonika emphasizes the strength inherent in femininity, highlighting the resilience women display in their daily lives, particularly in the face of physical challenges like menstruation. The discussion aims to redefine feminism as a powerful force rather than a gentle one.
Takeaways
Feminism is often misunderstood as weakness.
True femininity encompasses strength and resilience.
Women endure significant challenges daily without recognition.
The conversation challenges stereotypes about femininity.
Feminism should be seen as a powerful force.
Experiencing pain does not equate to weakness.
Strength can be found in vulnerability.
Redefining feminism can empower women.
Acknowledging women's struggles is crucial for equality.
Feminism is about embracing all aspects of womanhood.
If this resonates with you, I help women work through these issues in counselling.
You can book a free consultation with me at kellyoliverdougall.co.uk
Summary
In this conversation, the speaker delves into the complexities of truth and perception, emphasizing how our understanding is often clouded by our emotions and reflections of one another. The discussion highlights the transient nature of truth and the challenges in truly seeing and understanding each other.
Takeaways
The truth is elusive and constantly changing.
Our feelings are often tied to moments that have already passed.
We judge each other based on our limited perceptions.
True understanding requires deeper connection beyond surface reflections.
Emotions can cloud our perception of reality.
Human connections are often based on reflections of ourselves.
Seeing someone truly involves more than just visual perception.
The concept of truth is subjective and personal.
Loss can create a lingering sense of absence in our lives.
Understanding each other requires empathy and openness.
Summary
In this conversation, Shari Rash and Kelly Oliver Dougall delve into the emotional aspects of money management, exploring how childhood experiences shape financial attitudes. They discuss the limitations of traditional budgeting, the importance of understanding needs versus wants, and the necessity of compromise in financial discussions, especially in relationships. The conversation also highlights gender differences in financial perspectives and offers practical strategies for effective money management.
Takeaways
The emotional side of money is often more challenging than the technical aspects.
Childhood money memories significantly influence adult financial behaviour.
Budgeting fails for a large percentage of people because it doesn't account for life's randomness.
Creating a spending strategy that includes needs, wants, and savings is crucial.
Compromise in financial discussions can lead to healthier relationships.
Women often make most household purchasing decisions, yet their financial needs are overlooked.
It's important to teach children about budgeting and money management from a young age.
Automating savings can help ensure financial security for the future.
Understanding the difference between needs and wants can improve financial decision-making.
Money conversations should be more open and frequent to reduce stigma and misunderstanding.
If this resonates with you, I help women work through these issues in counselling.
You can book a free consultation with me at kellyoliverdougall.co.uk
If this resonates with you, I help women work through these issues in counselling.
You can book a free consultation with me at kellyoliverdougall.co.uk
If you would like to support Janet to raise money so she can publish her book, Please Don't Share My Name you can donate here - https://buymeacoffee.com/janetmurray
Summary
In this conversation, Janet Murray shares her personal journey through the challenges of cancel culture, including her experiences with breast cancer and the impact of speaking out on women's rights. She discusses the dynamics of the creative industry, the difficulty of changing minds, and the role of media in shaping narratives. Janet also talks about her plans to write a book to share untold stories of women affected by these issues, emphasizing the importance of women's spaces and the need for evidence in discussions about gender ideology.
Takeaways
Janet discusses her journey through cancellation and personal challenges.
The impact of cancel culture on women's voices is significant.
Creative industries often face backlash for differing opinions.
Navigating professional backlash can be daunting for many.
Changing minds is difficult, especially in polarized discussions.
Evidence and personal experiences shape beliefs over time.
Personal experiences with gender ideology can be eye-opening.
The consequences of speaking out can be severe for women.
Media plays a crucial role in shaping public narratives.
Writing a book can be a way to share untold stories.
If this resonates with you, I help women work through these issues in counselling.
You can book a free consultation with me at kellyoliverdougall.co.uk
You can find Angeline here https://letsbreakthesilence.com/unlockevent?fbclid=IwY2xjawNkR0RleHRuA2FlbQIxMABicmlkETF6dEc1S1pEb0NkVEd1bVZBAR5U54MWgvL6
Summary
In this conversation, Angeline Constantinou shares her personal journey through a marriage that initially seemed perfect but soon revealed underlying issues of jealousy and emotional abuse. She reflects on the signs she overlooked and the decisions she made, leading to her eventual self-discovery and growth.
Takeaways
I used to be married to whom I thought was the love of my life.
He earned six-figure income in New York City.
You wouldn't think that didn't see any signs of abuse.
I made a decision because I thought there was a lot there.
He started to exhibit jealousy, resentment.
In this conversation, Angie Jones, a prominent gender critical feminist, discusses her experiences and activism surrounding women's rights in Australia. She reflects on the Melbourne event, the challenges faced by activists, and the impact of media representation on public perception. Angie emphasizes the importance of grassroots activism, citizen journalism, and community support in the fight for women's rights. The conversation also touches on cultural and social issues, mental health, and the ongoing political challenges faced by activists in Australia.
Takeaways
Angie Jones is a prominent gender critical feminist known for her activism on Twitter.
The Melbourne event highlighted the clash between women's rights activists and trans activists.
Grassroots activism is essential for raising awareness about women's rights issues.
Media representation often mischaracterizes the intentions of women's rights activists.
The aftermath of the Melbourne event had significant personal impacts on the activists involved.
Citizen journalism plays a crucial role in countering mainstream media narratives.
The current political climate presents challenges for women's rights activists in Australia.
Cultural and social issues, including immigration, are affecting public sentiment in Australia.
Mental health is a significant concern for activists facing public backlash.
Community building and support networks are vital for sustaining activism.
https://x.com/angijones
In this conversation, Kelly Oliver Dougall interviews Emily Brearley, a development economist with extensive experience in the global South. They discuss Emily's new book, which critiques the failures of international aid and the World Bank, while also addressing the impact of gender ideology on development work. Emily emphasizes the need for humility and realistic approaches in aid, advocating for empowerment and local expertise over paternalistic interventions. The conversation also touches on class issues, the importance of education, and the challenges of speaking out against prevailing ideologies.
You can buy Emily's book here - https://amzn.eu/d/70ZDjjl
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In this conversation, Lisa Morgan shares her journey as a feminist, hypnotist, and political activist. She discusses her early experiences in the feminist movement, her insights into hypnosis and its influence on politics, and her reactions to contemporary gender ideology. Lisa reflects on the backlash she faced for her views, the importance of community support, and her perspectives on the future of society. The conversation delves into the themes of identity, propaganda, and the need for a return to local communities as a means of fostering change.
You can find Lisa and her book "The Big Lie" here https://www.lisa-morgan.co.uk/
First released on 24th October 2024
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Summary
In this conversation, Risa Selph shares her harrowing experience as a mother advocating for her son’s health after a misdiagnosis led to severe medical complications. She discusses the importance of trusting one's instincts in healthcare, the challenges of navigating the medical system, and the ongoing fight for accountability and legislative change. Risa emphasizes the need for parents to be proactive advocates for their children’s health and the long-term impacts of medical negligence.
Takeaways
Advocacy in healthcare is crucial for families.
Trust your instincts when it comes to your child's health.
Medical negligence can have severe long-term consequences.
Legal battles can be necessary to seek justice.
Parents should ask questions and demand answers from healthcare providers.
The healthcare system often protects its own, making accountability difficult.
Empowering other parents is a key part of the healing process.
Legislative change is needed to improve patient rights.
Mom guilt can be overwhelming but should not deter advocacy.
Building a support network can help navigate healthcare challenges.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Advocacy in Healthcare
02:33 A Mother's Journey Through Medical Crisis
05:06 The Impact of Medical Negligence
07:29 Fighting for Accountability and Change
10:23 Navigating the Aftermath of a Health Crisis
12:40 Lessons Learned and Advice for Other Parents
15:17 The Ongoing Legal Battle
18:13 Conclusion and Future Aspirations
Joy shares her journey as a trans widow, reflecting on the challenges and emotional turmoil she faced. From the initial shock to navigating societal perceptions, Joy opens up about her experiences, the impact on her family, and the importance of speaking out. Join Joy and Kelly Oliver Dougall as they delve into the complexities of identity, relationships, and resilience.
I am very excited to welcome @KellieJayKeen onto my channel, a year on from starting my podcast. From attending my first Let Women Speak event in January 2023 to running as a candidate in the General election for Party of Women, it was quite wonderful to welcome KJK - the woman who made all of that happen.
Join Kellie-Jay and Kelly Oliver Dougall as they dive into a compelling conversation about women's rights, activism, and personal experiences. Discover the stories behind the Let Women Speak movement and the Party of Women, and explore the challenges and triumphs faced by women advocating for change. This episode is a must-watch for anyone interested in understanding the dynamics of modern activism and the power of women's voices. Don't miss out on this insightful discussion!
In this conversation, Michaela Cox shares her profound journey through life, marked by personal challenges including legal blindness, a divorce, and the unexpected loss of her husband. She discusses the complexities of navigating disability, the importance of self-advocacy, and the impact of grief on her life. Michaela emphasizes the significance of choices in overcoming adversity and highlights her writing journey, which serves as a means of empowerment and healing. Through her experiences, she aims to inspire others to find grace in their struggles and to advocate for themselves.
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In this conversation, Kelly Oliver Dougall speaks with Jennifer Kimmel, a trans widow, who shares her personal experiences and insights regarding the complexities of gender identity, abuse, and the societal implications surrounding these issues. Jennifer discusses the emotional and legal challenges she faced, the impact on her children, and the importance of community and activism in navigating her situation. She emphasizes the need for women to trust their instincts and protect themselves while advocating for recognition and support for those in similar circumstances.
Takeaways
Jennifer is a trans widow, sharing her unique perspective.
She highlights the manipulative tactics used by some men in relationships.
The conversation addresses the emotional and legal challenges faced by trans widows.
Jennifer emphasizes the importance of community support and activism.
She discusses the impact of her ex-husband's actions on their children.
The need for women to trust their instincts is a recurring theme.
Jennifer reflects on her personal growth and resilience throughout her experiences.
She advocates for the recognition of women's voices in discussions about gender identity.
The conversation sheds light on the societal implications of gender identity issues.
Jennifer encourages women to protect themselves and seek help when needed.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Trans Widowhood
02:51 Understanding the Motivations Behind Transitioning
05:23 Personal Experiences of a Trans Widow
08:17 Legal and Social Implications of Transitioning
10:47 Impact on Children and Family Dynamics
13:45 Navigating Support Systems and Mental Health
16:19 The Struggle for Women's Voices
19:04 Confronting Societal Norms and Expectations
21:35 Reflections on Healing and Community Support
29:11 The Dynamics of Local Narratives
32:40 Community Reactions and Pride Parades
35:23 The Struggle for Understanding and Acceptance
37:53 Navigating Relationships and Boundaries
41:26 The Role of Activism and Public Speaking
45:03 The Complexity of Gender and Violence
48:25 Finding Support and Community
51:51 The Importance of Speaking Out
55:44 august 2025 YouTube Intro.mp4
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