You’ve done the work. You’ve been open. You’ve let people in.
But what happens when all that vulnerability starts to feel… exhausting?
In this episode of Kickin’ It: Conversations with Krys, we explore the emotional toll of constantly showing up with an open heart—only to be met with silence, inconsistency, or dismissal. It’s not that you’re closed off—it’s that you’re tired of being the only one emotionally present.
Through real talk, tender reflection, and a dash of humor, Krys breaks down vulnerability fatigue: where it comes from, how it shows up, and what to do when your softness starts to feel like a burden.
🛋️ Topics include:
• What it costs to be the “emotionally available one”
• Why you might be choosing emotional safety over connection
• How to honor your openness without overextending it
• Setting boundaries without building walls
💭 Journal Prompt: What does it cost you to keep showing up open—and how can you care for that part of yourself?
✨ Share your thoughts on IG @kickitwithkrys — your stories might just show up in the next episode.
You say you want real love—soft, secure, healing. But when it shows up, why does it feel so hard to accept?
In this episode of Kickin’ It: Conversations with Krys, we dive into what might be standing between you and the love you claim to want. Through anonymous listener confessions and personal reflection, Krys explores the quiet ways we dodge intimacy—rescue fantasies, emotional withdrawal, fear of being truly seen, and mistaking endurance for love.
🛋️ Topics include:
• The desire to be rescued vs. building healthy partnership
• Pulling away at the first sign of conflict
• Ghosting before you’re ghosted
• Learning that boundaries are a form of love, too
It’s honest. It’s funny. And it’s a gentle nudge toward emotional clarity.
💭 Journal Prompt: If safe, stable love walked in today—would you actually know how to receive it?
✨ Share your thoughts on IG @kickitwithkrys — the DMs are always open.
In this episode, Krys explores how our earliest lessons on love - from home, school, church, and childhood friendships - still shape how we show up in relationships today. From abandonment wounds to performance-based worth, we unpack the quiet messages we’ve carried for years - and how to start unlearning them.
Journal Prompt:
Who taught you to love?
And what are you unlearning… so you can love better now?
Tag @kickitwithkrys & use #WhoTaughtYouToLove to share your thoughts.
What happens when your hopes for love come from a place you’ve never seen? In this solo episode, Krys reflects on how growing up without a father and never witnessing her mother in a romantic relationship shaped—but never diminished—her desire for deep, joyful partnership.
From honoring inherited silence to reclaiming personal dreams, this episode explores the subtle ways our past shapes what we hope for in the future—and how to tell if those hopes are really ours.
Whether you’re sorting out your own desires or simply curious about how love can bloom in unfamiliar soil, this one’s for you.
In this episode, Krys continues her conversation with Cass as they discuss McKinley “Mac” Phipps, Jr, Gunna’s plea, and the use of lyrics in the courtroom.Leave Your Comments:IG: @KickItWithKrys
In these next two episodes , Krys is joined by Cass and they discuss romanticized violence, "gangster rap", success after death, and the use of rap lyrics in the courtroom.