If you’ve found yourself looking back at the holidays thinking,“I shouldn’t have eaten that…”“I thought I would be able to resist that…”or“How could this have happened again...”— this episode is for you.What if your holiday slip-ups weren’t proof that you lack discipline but merely data that points to of what you truly need to succeed next year?Most women over 40 look at holiday eating through the lens of guilt, frustration, and self-criticism. But when we do that, we miss something powerful: holiday slip-ups are incredibly valuable insight.And, when you know what to do with that insight, you can turn what may have felt like failure into forward momentum.   Ready to set yourself up for sustainable weight loss success?  Book a Breakthrough Coaching Session today. We'll identify your most impactful next step and co-create execution strategies that make taking consistent action feasible in the context of your everyday life. Click here to schedule today and use coupon code PODCAST to save $100.   Next Steps: Join the free community. https://concitathomas.com/community Submit a question to be answered on the podcast. https://concitathomas.com/askconcita Want to see what happens behind the scenes? Follow me. https://instagram.com/concita Want to discuss working together? Email me. info@concitathomas.com

We already know that losing weight and keeping it off in our 40s and beyond is more challenging than it was in our 20s. With more responsibilities, hormonal and metabolism changes, and less time that isn't already spoken for, it can feel like our slimmer, fitter days are behind us. However, I've found that with the right strategy, right attitude, and the right tools, staying in shape in your 40s and beyond is not only possible, it's extremely feasible. So, I thought it would be fun to share some of the gifts I'm giving myself that support sustainable weight loss and a higher level of fitness as I approach 50. If you're wondering how you can make it easier to stay consistent, reach, and maintain your weight loss and fitness goals, this episode is for you.   Episode Mentioned: Episode 7: The 5 Tools I Use in My Kitchen Everyday to Make Figure Friendly Eating More Feasible   Ready to set yourself up for sustainable weight loss success?  Book a Breakthrough Coaching Session today. We'll identify your most impactful next step and co-create execution strategies that make taking consistent action feasible in the context of your everyday life. Click here to schedule today and use coupon code PODCAST to save $100.   Next Steps: Join the free community. https://concitathomas.com/community Submit a question to be answered on the podcast. https://concitathomas.com/askconcita Want to see what happens behind the scenes? Follow me. https://instagram.com/concita Want to discuss working together? Email me. info@concitathomas.com

By now, you’ve seen no shortage of strategies to resist Christmas treats, along with endless “healthier” versions of your holiday favorites. It’s as if we’ve been conditioned to believe that holiday treats are the enemy, a guaranteed saboteur of weight loss results.But what if avoiding Christmas treats is actually the problem?And what if allowing them, intentionally and without guilt, supports sustainable weight loss after 40?That’s exactly what we unpack in today’s episode.   Ready to set yourself up for sustainable weight loss success?  Book a Breakthrough Coaching Session today. We'll identify your most impactful next step and co-create execution strategies that make taking consistent action feasible in the context of your everyday life. Click here to schedule today and use coupon code PODCAST to save $100.   Next Steps: Join the free community. https://concitathomas.com/community Submit a question to be answered on the podcast. https://concitathomas.com/askconcita Want to see what happens behind the scenes? Follow me. https://instagram.com/concita Want to discuss working together? Email me. info@concitathomas.com

This is what you have to deeply understand about discouragement on your weight loss journey if you ever hope to reach your weight loss goal, whether it’s for the first or final time.   Discouragement is a signal, but it’s not a stop sign. And knowing what to do in response to that signal makes all the difference.If you don’t understand this, you’ll end up stuck in a counterproductive cycle: starting a promising new approach, feeling deflated when the results don’t match your expectations, and eventually stopping after trying harder doesn’t help.   So today, I’m sharing my 3-part framework for managing discouragement so that it never stops you from reaching your weight loss goal again.   Ready to set yourself up for sustainable weight loss success?  Book a Breakthrough Coaching Session today. We'll identify your most impactful next step and co-create execution strategies that make taking consistent action feasible in the context of your everyday life. Click here to schedule today and use coupon code PODCAST to save $100.   Next Steps: Join the free community. https://concitathomas.com/community Submit a question to be answered on the podcast. https://concitathomas.com/askconcita Want to see what happens behind the scenes? Follow me. https://instagram.com/concita Want to discuss working together? Email me. info@concitathomas.com

Most women over 40 already know the basics of weight loss: create a calorie deficit, eat enough protein, and move your body. And yet, so many smart, motivated women still struggle to create the sustainable results they want. So where’s the disconnect? The problem isn’t a lack of knowledge or effort. It’s the presence of silent saboteurs—gaps that quietly derail consistency and stall progress, even during periods when you’re “doing everything right.” In today’s episode, I’m breaking down three gaps that silently sabotage weight loss after 40. These aren’t obvious mistakes, and they’re rarely talked about—but once you see them, you’ll never miss them again. And when you can finally identify what’s been holding you back, you’re positioned to close the gaps and get the results you deserve.   Ready to set yourself up for sustainable weight loss success?  Book a Breakthrough Coaching Session today. We'll identify your most impactful next step and co-create execution strategies that make taking consistent action feasible in the context of your everyday life. Click here to schedule today and use coupon code PODCAST to save $100.   Next Steps: Join the free community. https://concitathomas.com/community Submit a question to be answered on the podcast. https://concitathomas.com/askconcita Want to see what happens behind the scenes? Follow me. https://instagram.com/concita Want to discuss working together? Email me. info@concitathomas.com

If you’re a woman over 40 who wants sustainable weight loss, you’ve probably been told that success depends on more discipline, stricter tracking, better willpower, and squeezing one more thing into an already full life. Maybe you’ve tried to push harder or juggle “self-care” with everyone else’s needshop, ing that if you just do enough, the results will finally stick. But what if everything you think you need…isn’t actually what creates sustainability? What if the real key to transforming your health after 40 isn’t something you buy, download, or add to your task list — but something you give yourself? In this episode, we’re unwrapping a gift that doesn’t cost a dime and yet has the power to change how you care for your health whether you’re starting right now or in the new year. It’s the foundation that turns healthy habits into a lifestyle you can actually enjoy and sustain.   Ready to set yourself up for sustainable weight loss success?  Book a Breakthrough Coaching Session today. We'll identify your most impactful next step and co-create execution strategies that make taking consistent action feasible in the context of your everyday life. Click here to schedule today and use coupon code PODCAST to save $100.   Next Steps: Join the free community. https://concitathomas.com/community Submit a question to be answered on the podcast. https://concitathomas.com/askconcita Want to see what happens behind the scenes? Follow me. https://instagram.com/concita Want to discuss working together? Email me. info@concitathomas.com

If you’ve ever eaten dessert and immediately spiraled into guilt, panic, or “I’ve ruined everything” thinking… you’re not alone. For so many women over 40, sweets aren’t just food—they feel like a threat to weight-loss progress.But what if it’s not the dessert that derails you…What if it’s the story you tell yourself after you eat it?You’ve probably heard that you need to avoid sugar, follow rigid rules, or rely on medication just to keep cravings in check. But the truth is, there’s a single mental shift that can stop the guilt spiral and help you enjoy dessert without undoing your results.In today’s episode, I’ll share the pattern I discovered that consistently separates women who can confidently enjoy dessert and still get results from those who feel like one bite will send them off the rails. Addressing this pattern leads to clearer hunger signals, calmer cravings, and more confidence in every food decision you make.   Ready to set yourself up for sustainable weight loss success?  Book a Breakthrough Coaching Session today. We'll identify your most impactful next step and co-create execution strategies that make taking consistent action feasible in the context of your everyday life. Click here to schedule today and use coupon code PODCAST to save $100.   Next Steps: Join the free community. https://concitathomas.com/community Submit a question to be answered on the podcast. https://concitathomas.com/askconcita Want to see what happens behind the scenes? Follow me. https://instagram.com/concita Want to discuss working together? Email me. info@concitathomas.com

If you’ve been feeling out of control with food lately — eating more than you planned, fighting cravings, or feeling like your hunger has a mind of its own — you’re not alone. This is one of the most common struggles women over 40 face, especially during the holidays. You may have heard that the solution is to cut out entire food groups, follow rigid meal plans, or even consider medication just to get a handle on cravings. But the truth is there may be a simple shift you can start today that doesn’t require a prescription or overhauling your daily meals forever... and it won’t keep you from enjoying holiday food and fun. In today’s episode, I’m sharing a surprising pattern I’ve seen over and over again while coaching women and why that pattern holds the key to finally understanding your hunger, quieting cravings, and creating sustainable weight loss without constant willpower. If you want sustainable weight loss after 40, this episode will help you stay the course.   Ready to set yourself up for sustainable weight loss success?  Book a Breakthrough Coaching Session today. We'll identify your most impactful next step and co-create execution strategies that make taking consistent action feasible in the context of your everyday life. Click here to schedule today and use coupon code PODCAST to save $100.   Next Steps: Join the free community. https://concitathomas.com/community Submit a question to be answered on the podcast. https://concitathomas.com/askconcita Want to see what happens behind the scenes? Follow me. https://instagram.com/concita Want to discuss working together? Email me. info@concitathomas.com    

The first wave of holiday celebrations has passed. Thanksgiving is behind you, but Christmas parties, travel, and end-of-year chaos are just getting started. This is the point where most women quietly give up, tell themselves they’ll “start fresh in January,” and spend the next five weeks undoing progress they’ve already earned.But not you, not this time.In today’s episode, I’m breaking down mid-holiday strategies women over 40 can use to stay consistent, protect momentum, and enjoy the season without slipping into that all-or-nothing spiral. You’ll walk away with simple adjustments, not restrictions, that help you stay aligned with your long-term goals while still participating in the fun, food, and memories happening around you.If you want sustainable weight loss after 40, this episode will help you stay the course.   Ready to set yourself up for sustainable weight loss success?  Book a Breakthrough Coaching Session today. We'll identify your most impactful next step and co-create execution strategies that make taking consistent action feasible in the context of your everyday life. Click here to schedule today and use coupon code PODCAST to save $100.   Next Steps: Join the free community. https://concitathomas.com/community Submit a question to be answered on the podcast. https://concitathomas.com/askconcita Want to see what happens behind the scenes? Follow me. https://instagram.com/concita Want to discuss working together? Email me. info@concitathomas.com

Most women over 40 don't need more meal strategies to avoid holiday weight gain. Strategies are helpful, but how many of us know all of the strategies yet still to lose find it challenging to enjoy the holiday season without sabotaging our weight loss progress? Too many!That's because the secret sauce to sustainable weight loss lies just outside of the strategies. It's the strategies combined with a particular mindset related to your weight loss that make the winning combination. In today's episode, I'm sharing two small mindset shifts that make the strategies you already know that much more powerfull, powerful enough to finally empower you to enjoy your holiday meals and keep the weight off at the same time.   Ready to set yourself up for sustainable weight loss success?  Book a Breakthrough Coaching Session today. We'll identify your most impactful next step and co-create execution strategies that make taking consistent action feasible in the context of your everyday life. Click here to schedule today and use coupon code PODCAST to save $100.   Next Steps: Join the free community. https://concitathomas.com/community Submit a question to be answered on the podcast. https://concitathomas.com/askconcita Want to see what happens behind the scenes? Follow me. https://instagram.com/concita Want to discuss working together? Email me. info@concitathomas.com

I've talked to so many women over 40 who tell me, "I feel so out of control during the holidays." They head into Thanksgiving and Christmas with the best intentions and high hopes — especially around healthy eating and weight loss — but one choice snowballs into weeks of overeating, cravings, and holiday weight gain.Then January rolls around, and they're starting over… again.If you've ever felt this way, you're not alone. Holiday eating is harder after 40, but it doesn't have to lead to weight gain or self-sabotage.In this episode, I'm sharing three simple meal strategies that help women over 40 stay in control around food, feel satisfied, and protect their weight loss progress — even during the holidays.No restriction, no rigid rules, no “start again in January” thinking.It's an episode you can't afford to miss.   Mentioned in This Episode:Episode 118: How to Lose Weight without Giving Up Sugar Episode 184: Feeling Out of Control with Sweets? Use This Strategy to Regain Balance (and Lose Weight) Without Giving Up Sugar   Ready to set yourself up for sustainable weight loss success?  Book a Breakthrough Coaching Session today. We'll identify your most impactful next step and co-create execution strategies that make taking consistent action feasible in the context of your everyday life. Click here to schedule today and use coupon code PODCAST to save $100.   Next Steps: Join the free community. https://concitathomas.com/community Submit a question to be answered on the podcast. https://concitathomas.com/askconcita Want to see what happens behind the scenes? Follow me. https://instagram.com/concita Want to discuss working together? Email me. info@concitathomas.com

Most women over 40 don’t need another meal plan, detox, or complicated habit tracker. They need clarity on what actually moves the needle. If you're already eating mostly whole foods, paying attention to calories (even loosely), and getting in some movement, you’re not missing education — you’re missing precision. In this episode, you'll learn the two often overlooked skills that separate women who “try hard” from women who consistently lose weight — even during busy seasons, travel, holidays, or stress. Once you understand them , everything becomes easier. If you've been doing “all the right things,” but your progress doesn’t match the effort, this conversation will finally give you the missing link.   Ready to set yourself up for sustainable weight loss success?  Book a Breakthrough Coaching Session today. We'll identify your most impactful next step and co-create execution strategies that make taking consistent action feasible in the context of your everyday life. Click here to schedule today and use coupon code PODCAST to save $100.   Next Steps: Join the free community. https://concitathomas.com/community Submit a question to be answered on the podcast. https://concitathomas.com/askconcita Want to see what happens behind the scenes? Follow me. https://instagram.com/concita Want to discuss working together? Email me. info@concitathomas.com

Most women over 40 already know what to do to lose weight: eat enough protein, move your body, get your steps, sleep, manage stress, and keep calories in check.So why doesn’t that knowledge translate into consistent, sustainable results?In today’s episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on one habit every successful client of mine develops — no matter their schedule, personality, fitness level, or starting point. This habit isn’t flashy. It’s not complicated. And it has nothing to do with restriction, perfection, or white-knuckled discipline.But it is the difference between another season of stopping and starting… and finally getting results that last.Whether you’re just getting started or ready to stop repeating the same weight loss cycle, this one habit can be the turning point. And, it's holiday season friendly.   Ready to set yourself up for sustainable weight loss success?  Book a Breakthrough Coaching Session today. We'll identify your most impactful next step and co-create execution strategies that make taking consistent action feasible in the context of your everyday life. Click here to schedule today and use coupon code PODCAST to save $100.   Next Steps: Join the free community. https://concitathomas.com/community Submit a question to be answered on the podcast. https://concitathomas.com/askconcita Want to discuss working together? Email me. info@concitathomas.com

If you’ve been trying to lose weight after 40 and feel stuck in the frustrating loop of knowing what to do but not doing it, you’re not alone. The truth? You don’t need more information; you need better self-conversation.In this episode, I’m sharing three powerful questions to help you uncover what’s really keeping you from consistent follow-through. These are the questions I ask my clients to help them uncover and overcome the hidden friction in their lives that blocks consistent follow-through.   If you’ve ever said felt frustrated by the discepancy between what you knew and what you did, this episode will help you understand what's really at play and create lasting momentum without waiting for more willpower or the perfect moment.   Ready to set yourself up for sustainable weight loss success?  Book a Breakthrough Coaching Session today. We'll identify your most impactful next step and co-create execution strategies that make taking consistent action feasible in the context of your everyday life. Click here to schedule today and use coupon code PODCAST to save $100 and also receive a complimentary bonus follow up call (when booked before September 1st).   Next Steps: Join the free community. https://concitathomas.com/community Submit a question to be answered on the podcast. https://concitathomas.com/askconcita Want to discuss working together? Email me. info@concitathomas.com

Most women over 40 assume that the holidays are a lost cause for weight loss — that the only realistic approach is to “be mindful” and try again in January.But what if this season — the busy one, the messy one, the full one — is actually the most strategic time to build the habits that make sustainable weight loss possible?If you’ve ever felt like you know what to do, but life keeps getting in the way, this conversation will shift how you approach the season and your success.   DOORS CLOSING MONDAY: Want to end the year strong—and step into January feeling ahead of the game?I’m curating a small group of women over 40 who want exactly that. If today’s episode helped you spot a few silent signals that resonate with you and you want to stop the slip before it turns into a slide, this may be for you. I’m looking for women who: Want to lose 6–15 pounds before Christmas Have solid nutrition knowledge but want a simpler, doable plan Thrive with accountability and real support Want to enjoy the holidays guilt-free (cocktails, cake, Thanksgiving dinner) while staying on track Are tired of stalled progress and want this year to be different Are willing to take simple, consistent action to get results If you saw yourself in at least half that list, DM me on Instagram @concitathomas or email info@concitathomas.com with the words “I’M IN.” I’ll reply with a few quick questions and the details. Together, we’ll decide if this is the right fit for you.   Next Steps: Join the free community. https://concitathomas.com/community Submit a question to be answered on the podcast. https://concitathomas.com/askconcita Want to discuss working together? Email me. info@concitathomas.com

Every year, millions of women head into the holidays on guard — determined not to repeat the weight gain of years past. They plan to “be good,” limit the sweets and snacks, and maybe even strategize around the big meals.But the surprising truth? It’s rarely the sweets, treats, and meals themselves that derail progress.There’s something else happening under the surface, something that makes weight maintenance nearly impossible for women who are trying to stay on track.And that’s exactly what we’re getting into in today’s episode.   DOORS CLOSING MONDAY: Want to end the year strong—and step into January feeling ahead of the game?I’m curating a small group of women over 40 who want exactly that. If today’s episode helped you spot a few silent signals that resonate with you and you want to stop the slip before it turns into a slide, this may be for you. I’m looking for women who: Want to lose 6–15 pounds before Christmas Have solid nutrition knowledge but want a simpler, doable plan Thrive with accountability and real support Want to enjoy the holidays guilt-free (cocktails, cake, Thanksgiving dinner) while staying on track Are tired of stalled progress and want this year to be different Are willing to take simple, consistent action to get results If you saw yourself in at least half that list, DM me on Instagram @concitathomas or email info@concitathomas.com with the words “I’M IN.” I’ll reply with a few quick questions and the details. Together, we’ll decide if this is the right fit for you.   Next Steps: Join the free community. https://concitathomas.com/community Submit a question to be answered on the podcast. https://concitathomas.com/askconcita Want to discuss working together? Email me. info@concitathomas.com

Every year, women over 40 watch their progress slip as the season gets busier, and they assume it’s just what happens. But for a select few, this season looks completely different.While most people are waiting for January to “get back on track,” these women are quietly creating an advantage that makes staying on track easier, not harder, when the new year hits.In this episode, I’m revealing what sets them apart, how they’re approaching their goals differently, and what you can start doing right now to experience the same edge — even in the busiest season of the year.   Want to end the year strong—and step into January feeling ahead of the game?I’m curating a small group of women over 40 who want exactly that. If today’s episode helped you spot a few silent signals that resonate with you and you want to stop the slip before it turns into a slide, this may be for you. I’m looking for women who: Want to lose 6–15 pounds before Christmas Have solid nutrition knowledge but want a simpler, doable plan Thrive with accountability and real support Want to enjoy the holidays guilt-free (cocktails, cake, Thanksgiving dinner) while staying on track Are tired of stalled progress and want this year to be different Are willing to take simple, consistent action to get results If you saw yourself in at least half that list, DM me on Instagram @concitathomas or email info@concitathomas.com with the words “I’M IN.” I’ll reply with a few quick questions and the details. Together, we’ll decide if this is the right fit for you.   Next Steps: Join the free community. https://concitathomas.com/community Submit a question to be answered on the podcast. https://concitathomas.com/askconcita Want to discuss working together? Email me. info@concitathomas.com

Most women go into the holiday season bracing for damage control. They tell themselves they’ll “just enjoy” and start again in January, but there’s a small group of women quietly doing the opposite.They’re enjoying the parties, the cocktails, the travel and making progress with their weight loss goals. How? In this episode, we’re breaking down the little-known habits of women over 40 who lose weight during the holidays — the small, strategic things they do differently that make all the difference.If you’ve ever wondered how to enjoy the season and still feel proud of your choices come January, this one’s for you.   Want to end the year strong—and step into January feeling ahead of the game?I’m curating a small group of women over 40 who want exactly that. If today’s episode helped you spot a few silent signals that resonate with you and you want to stop the slip before it turns into a slide, this may be for you. I’m looking for women who: Want to lose 6–15 pounds before Christmas Have solid nutrition knowledge but want a simpler, doable plan Thrive with accountability and real support Want to enjoy the holidays guilt-free (cocktails, cake, Thanksgiving dinner) while staying on track Are tired of stalled progress and want this year to be different Are willing to take simple, consistent action to get results If you saw yourself in at least half that list, DM me on Instagram @concitathomas or email info@concitathomas.com with the words “I’M IN.” I’ll reply with a few quick questions and the details. Together, we’ll decide if this is the right fit for you.   Next Steps: Join the free community. https://concitathomas.com/community Submit a question to be answered on the podcast. https://concitathomas.com/askconcita Want to discuss working together? Email me. info@concitathomas.com

Most women over 40 think that putting their weight loss goals on hold just means waiting a little longer to feel better in their bodies. But the truth? What’s at stake is much bigger than that.Every time we hit pause on our goals, the stakes rise, not in ways that are dramatic or even obvious at first, but in ways that matter more than we realizeIn this episode, we’ll unpack what’s really happening behind the scenes when you put your goals on pause and how to make sure this “off season” doesn’t turn into another setback.   Want to end the year strong—and step into January feeling ahead of the game?I’m curating a small group of women over 40 who want exactly that. If today’s episode helped you spot a few silent signals that resonate with you and you want to stop the slip before it turns into a slide, this may be for you. I’m looking for women who: Want to lose 6–15 pounds before Christmas Have solid nutrition knowledge but want a simpler, doable plan Thrive with accountability and real support Want to enjoy the holidays guilt-free (cocktails, cake, Thanksgiving dinner) while staying on track Are tired of stalled progress and want this year to be different Are willing to take simple, consistent action to get results If you saw yourself in at least half that list, DM me on Instagram @concitathomas or email info@concitathomas.com with the words “I’M IN.” I’ll reply with a few quick questions and the details. Together, we’ll decide if this is the right fit for you.   Next Steps: Join the free community. https://concitathomas.com/community Submit a question to be answered on the podcast. https://concitathomas.com/askconcita Want to discuss working together? Email me. info@concitathomas.com

While most women are mentally checking out on their weight loss until January, a quiet few are doing something completely different.They aren’t chasing perfection or overhauling their lives. But what they are doing is setting themselves up for sustainable weight loss success.They’re mastering an important part of the process that most people skip. The part that will give them a powerful advantage heading into the holidays.In this episode, I’m unpacking what makes their approach work and how you can start building the same edge,  even in the busiest season of the year.   Want to end the year strong—and step into January feeling ahead of the game?I’m curating a small group of women over 40 who want exactly that. If today’s episode helped you spot a few silent signals that resonate with you and you want to stop the slip before it turns into a slide, this may be for you. I’m looking for women who: Want to lose 6–15 pounds before Christmas Have solid nutrition knowledge but want a simpler, doable plan Thrive with accountability and real support Want to enjoy the holidays guilt-free (cocktails, cake, Thanksgiving dinner) while staying on track Are tired of stalled progress and want this year to be different Are willing to take simple, consistent action to get results If you saw yourself in at least half that list, DM me on Instagram @concitathomas or email info@concitathomas.com with the words “I’M IN.” I’ll reply with a few quick questions and the details. Together, we’ll decide if this is the right fit for you.   Next Steps: Join the free community. https://concitathomas.com/community Submit a question to be answered on the podcast. https://concitathomas.com/askconcita Want to discuss working together? Email me. info@concitathomas.com