In this short but impactful conversation, Mellini Monique explains what it truly means to lose your voice and how most people silence themselves long before anyone else does.
She breaks down why your emotional landscape directly shapes the sound, strength, and resonance of your voice and how reconnecting with your internal truth begins with stillness and curiosity.
Mellini also introduces the idea of vocal repertoire, giving you a way to express different parts of yourself without performing or pretending.
This episode is a reminder that your voice is not gone. It is waiting for permission to rise again.
Inside this podcast:- How your vocal repertoire shapes self expression
- Why emotional stillness helps you hear your inner voice
- What to do when you feel muted or misunderstood
- How men can use softness without losing strength
- The two questions that help you speak with clarity
Connect with Mellini:
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LinkedIn → https://bit.ly/3YbKFjh
Connect with Steve:
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Episode Highlights:
00:00 - What vocal repertoire is and why it matters
00:33 - Your voice as a tool for shaping outcomes
01:26 - Why men benefit from tenderness in communication
05:56 - What to do when you lose your internal voice
07:00 - How to let your inner voice grow louder
ABOUT THE PODCAST SHOW
The Noise of Life is a podcast that shares real stories, raw truths, and remarkable growth. Hosted by Steve Hodgson a coach, facilitator, speaker, and Mental Health First Aid Instructor. This podcast dives deep into the “noise” we all face, the distractions, doubts and challenges that can pull us away from who we truly are.
The Final Episode of this year 2025. Our guests speak openly about identity, trauma, purpose, and the moments they realized the life they were living was not truly theirs. We explore what it means to rise beyond limits shaped by culture, childhood, and expectation.
You’ll hear how honesty, courage, and daily practices help rewrite a life from the inside out. This episode invites you to take the pen back and begin shaping your next chapter with intention.
Connect with Steve:
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Podcast → / noiseoflifepodcast
LinkedIn → / stevehodgson
Episode Highlights
00:00 The start of Best Bits of Noise of Life Part 2
00:38 When the world writes your story
03:02 Rising above our limits, the start of change
04:39 Taking the pen back, writing your own story
ABOUT THE PODCAST SHOW
The Noise of Life is a podcast that shares real stories, raw truths, and remarkable growth. Hosted by Steve Hodgson a coach, facilitator, speaker, and Mental Health First Aid Instructor. This podcast dives deep into the “noise” we all face, the distractions, doubts and challenges that can pull us away from who we truly are.
In this mini episode, sat down with Dr Rob Williams for a focused deep dive into cold plunging and why intention, breath and awareness matter more than the minutes you spend in the water. Rob breaks down the science behind the two minute minimum, the dangers of chasing long durations, and why the cold is never a competition but a teacher that reveals how your mind and body are functioning in the moment.
We talked through the role of breath in navigating the cold shock, how to listen to your body, and why seasoned plungers use the cold to sharpen presence and emotional resilience.
This episode is packed with practical advice to make cold exposure safer, more intentional and far more powerful.
Connect with Dr. Rob:
Instagram → /drrobwilliams
Website → https://nordicflow.io & https://thenordicwave.com/
Email → contact@doctorrobwilliams.com
Connect with Steve:
Instagram → /thestevehodgson
LinkedIn → /stevehodgson
Episode Highlights
00:00 - Cold plunging with intention and awareness
00:23 - Preparing the mind and body before entering the cold
01:30 - Creating connection and energy before plunging
02:24 - Why time in the cold is not a competition
03:02 - The scientific minimum for cold exposure benefits
04:12 - Start low, go slow and listen to your body
05:18 - Using breath to move through cold shock into calm
06:31 - Viewing the cold as a teacher and diagnostic tool
07:22 - Cold exposure and somatic trauma release research
09:13 - Brown fat activation and the growth of mitochondrial energy
ABOUT THE PODCAST SHOW
The Noise of Life is a podcast that shares real stories, raw truths, and remarkable growth. Hosted by Steve Hodgson a coach, facilitator, speaker, and Mental Health First Aid Instructor. This podcast dives deep into the “noise” we all face, the distractions, doubts and challenges that can pull us away from who we truly are.
As we close out the year, we’re taking a moment to pause, breathe and reflect. Today is a special day to showcase the Best Bits of Noise of Life Part 1, a curated collection of the most powerful moments from conversations that were raw, vulnerable, inspiring and deeply human.
We begin where every meaningful journey starts. With the noise we all feel. The overwhelm, the confusion, the moments where life gets louder than our clarity. You’ll hear guests speak honestly about the turning points that forced change and how they begin rebuilding from the inside out.
These are the insights that remind us the noise of life is universal, but so is our ability to rise above it.
If something resonates, share it with someone who might need it. And make sure you’re subscribed as we continue going deeper into the conversations that matter.
Connect with Steve:
Instagram → / thestevehodgson
Podcast → / noiseoflifepodcast
LinkedIn → / stevehodgson
Episode Highlights
00:00 This is where we start
00:31 Noise we all feel, the struggles, and the problem
02:03 The turning point, the one decision that changed everything
04:20 The tools and practices that quiet the noise of life
ABOUT THE PODCAST SHOW
The Noise of Life is a podcast that shares real stories, raw truths, and remarkable growth. Hosted by Steve Hodgson a coach, facilitator, speaker and Mental Health First Aid Instructor. This podcast dives deep into the “noise” we all face, the distractions, doubts and challenges that can pull us away from who we truly are.
Episode Introduction
What if the toughest parts of your life aren’t setbacks — but raw materials?
In this reflective Noise of Life medium episode, Steve sits down with Jade Miller to unpack the simple, human framework behind her philosophy of turning lemons into lemonade.
Jade breaks down the three steps that help anyone move from overwhelm to empowerment: knowing yourself, understanding your relationships, and clarifying your wider context.
She also shares how thinking like an artist — even if you don’t see yourself as one — builds resilience, creativity and emotional freedom.
If you’re stuck, depleted, or wrestling with change, this conversation is a reminder that you have more power, awareness and creative potential than you think.
About Our Guest
Jade Miller is a New Zealand–born artist, author and creative mentor whose work explores emotional resilience, identity and the healing potential of daily creativity. Through her platform Lemonade with Jade, she helps people reconnect with their inner artist through simple practices that promote self-awareness, expression and wellbeing.
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Episode Highlights
00:00 – How do you make your own lemonade? Jade outlines the simple three-step process.
00:07 – Step 1: Understanding yourself — looking in the mirror, owning your patterns, behaviours and emotional responses.
00:28 – Why awareness matters: most people try to change their environment before changing themselves.
00:43 – Step 2: Understanding your relationships — who you give energy to, who drains you, what needs forgiveness, and why releasing bitterness is freedom.
01:29 – “Water off a duck’s back”: learning to let go without excusing others.
02:03 – Step 3: Understanding your context — the systems, constructs and conditioning shaping your world.
02:34 – How knowing the macro helps you navigate your micro.
03:17 – Focusing your energy on what you can control instead of what you can’t.
03:47 – Stress, anxiety and the power of redirecting your energy to aligned action.
04:04 – Daily choices: how small practices counteract the noise of the world.
04:48 – Thinking like an artist: the mindset that helps people in life and business.
05:10 – The five traits artists embody:
• Perceptive awareness
• Social fluency
• Visionary communication
• Creative intelligence
• Resilient self-leadership
06:59 – Why artists are among the most resilient people in the world.
08:11 – Who is an artist? Jade’s answer: everyone.
08:51 – Creativity beyond painting: cooking, gardening, writing, movement, anything with your hands.
09:32 – The “I’m not creative” myth — and why everyone has creative bones.
10:28 – Why creativity is essential for a healthy, whole life.
10:50 – For those afraid to try: why being “not good” doesn’t matter.
11:04 – Good is subjective — a lesson we were taught the opposite of at school.
11:40 – The five-minute challenge: one notebook, one pen, five minutes before bed.
12:10 – “Everyone has five minutes”: replacing screen time with creative time.
12:54 – The quiet nudge inside us — the thing you know you should put energy into.
13:15 – A reminder from the great artists: unfinished, raw work can be iconic.
14:09 – Jade’s favourite Cézanne sketch — why imperfection tells the real story.
In this week’s episode, I had a grounding conversation with Laura Montesanti about why travel can be a practice of healing rather than a form of escape.
Laura shared how the silence of Covid helped her reconnect to purpose which led to creating Synergy The Retreat Show, a trade event designed to change how our industry does business by placing wellbeing, community and experiential practice at the center.
We explored the idea of destination energy, the importance of designing retreats that truly regenerate people and places, and the small accessible practices such as breathwork, smiling and mindful time in nature that can make wellness feel normal and available to everyone.
Laura’s stories from trekking in Nepal to living in Montenegro show what becomes possible when place and human connection align. If you work in travel, hospitality or wellness or if you want a holiday that feels meaningful and restorative this conversation offers a powerful lens for rethinking travel.
Inside this podcast:
The origin story of Synergy and how the quiet of Covid revealed a new purpose. Why retreats can be tools for transformation rather than escape. How community and experiential design create deeper and longer lasting business relationships. Practical and accessible practices that support wellness such as breathwork and mindful time in nature. The role of regenerative travel and authentic local connection in healing both guests and hosts.
Connect with Synergy & Laura:
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LinkedIn → https://bit.ly/4qsz3F1
LinkedIn → https://bit.ly/3KyJDLj
Connect with Steve:
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LinkedIn → https://bit.ly/48sw8Vj
Episode Highlights
00:00 Meeting Laura Montesanti
03:13 Defining the noise of life and how the silence of Covid revealed purpose
04:19 Founding Synergy Retreat Show with a focus on community and healing the industry
09:31 What makes Synergy Retreat Show unique with experiential sessions and structured meetings
11:11 Why traditional trade shows drain people and how to do business more holistically
15:13 Creating retreats that speak to men and shifting the narrative around male vulnerability
17:10 Personal loss and the drive to support mental health within travel
21:31 Destination energy and choosing locations that match inner needs
26:21 Trekking to Kura Lake in Nepal and the power of community on the road
37:16 Wellness as a life necessity and why schools should teach basic practices
42:06 The power of smiling and simple rituals that support wellbeing
43:39 A shift toward regenerative business and more purposeful travel
54:06 Announcing Synergy’s next location in northern Croatia with themes of nature, adventure and freedom
ABOUT THE PODCAST SHOW
The Noise of Life is a podcast that shares real stories, raw truths and remarkable growth. Hosted by Steve Hodgson a coach, facilitator, speaker, and Mental Health First Aid Instructor. This podcast dives deep into the “noise” we all face, the distractions, doubts and challenges that can pull us away from who we truly are.
Nick Bracks on Behaviour Change, Rock Bottom & Rebuilding Your Life One Step at a Time
Episode Introduction
What do you do when life falls apart — and you realise you can’t outrun yourself anymore?
In this grounded and practical Noise of Life medium episode, Steve sits down with Nick Bracks to unpack one of the most universal crossroads:
How do you change your life when you feel stuck, overwhelmed or at rock bottom?
Nick openly shares the steps that helped him climb out of severe depression, addiction and self-destruction — steps anyone can apply. From being dragged to a psychologist by his mum, to vomiting before university presentations, to learning that one small step is the true engine of change, Nick breaks behaviour change into simple, doable actions.
This episode is your invitation to stop trying to overhaul your whole life… and instead take one honest step forward.
About Our Guest
Nick Bracks is an Australian mental health advocate, speaker and founder of Move Your Mind, a global platform for behaviour change and wellbeing. After overcoming depression and addiction, he now teaches people how to build sustainable habits, lead themselves and create long-term change. He is also the author of Move Your Mind: How to Build a Healthy Mindset for Life.
Episode Highlights
00:00 – Rock bottom: when everything feels impossible.00:38 – The unexpected gift of struggle: empathy.01:13 – The one thing you must not do: nothing.01:20 – Being dragged to a psychologist and discovering he was severely depressed.01:35 – The tiniest step: just putting one foot forward.01:53 – Re-enrolling in university despite feeling lost and unmotivated.02:12 – Vomiting before presentations and shaking through every talk.02:25 – Why being terrible at something builds real confidence.02:46 – Showing up badly is still showing up.03:07 – Letting go of old dreams and finding gratitude for a different path.03:19 – Awareness: the step most people skip.03:34 – How huge to-do lists sabotage change.04:20 – Behaviour change 101: simplify and pick one habit.04:43 – Why five minutes still counts.05:03 – Building identity through small wins.05:45 – Why tiny steps beat motivation and hacks.06:11 – Awareness as a superpower.06:41 – Speaking to yourself with grace.07:01 – Forgiveness as a behaviour tool.07:38 – Missing a day doesn’t matter — quitting does.08:23 – The Move Your Mind approach: sustainable and enjoyable.09:01 – Finding the deeper “why” behind your goals.09:57 – The missing ingredient: self-leadership.10:40 – Australia’s reactive approach to mental health.11:07 – Making wellbeing proactive.11:27 – Change must work for you.12:09 – Environment is everything.12:57 – Nick’s non-negotiables: exercise, meditation, curated circle.13:21 – Removing yourself from toxic environments.14:25 – Why he keeps a small, trusted circle.15:26 – Environments that reinforce the habits you’re trying to avoid.16:09 – The power of run clubs and group fitness.17:04 – You become the product of your five closest people.17:21 – Changing your relationship with alcohol.18:05 – Social pressure and discipline.19:02 – Alcohol in celebration and commiseration — and breaking the loop.20:05 – If you’re at rock bottom: write down everything weighing you down.20:43 – Then narrow it to one thing.21:09 – Tiny steps only — repeated.21:33 – Simplify.21:45 – The biggest lesson: you are enough.22:41 – Nick’s vision: prevention, policy and global impact.24:38 – How to connect with Nick and access his resources.
I sat down with Mellini Monique, a catalyst for connection and creativity through voice. Her approach to voice is unlike anything you’ve heard before. She explains why your voice is not just sound, but a tool of connection, presence, and emotional clarity.
We explore childhood vocal trauma, why so many adults feel unheard, and how to build the confidence to speak from your body instead of your fear.
This conversation is a masterclass in reclaiming your authentic voice in relationships, leadership, and everyday communication.
Inside this podcast:
- Why your voice is a tool for connection and meaning
- How childhood vocal trauma shapes your adult communication
- Why certainty is more powerful than loudness
- How to speak with emotional intelligence and resonance
- How to tune into yourself so others can truly hear you
Connect with Mellini:
Instagram → https://bit.ly/48ntwt0
LinkedIn → https://bit.ly/3YbKFjh
Connect with Steve:
Instagram → https://bit.ly/3KARQhR
LinkedIn → https://bit.ly/48sw8Vj
Episode Highlights
00:00:00 - Episode starts here, Reflection on Noise, Presence and being Heard
00:07:00 - Childhood lessons: the principal story and early listening
00:17:00 - Vocal repertoire: most people use only 30% of their range
00:28:30 - Breath and grounding exercises for public speaking
00:36:30 - Emotional constriction: how shame and stress tighten the voice
00:44:00 - Building rapport and reading the room (thermostat vs thermometer)
00:52:00 - Posture, presence and the limbic response to uprightness
01:00:00 - Relationships and vocal adaptation: choosing the nuance that connects
01:06:00 - Code switching vs vocal repertoire and building vocal bridges
01:18:00 - Reclaiming inner voice, play as practice, closing reflections and links
ABOUT THE PODCAST SHOW
The Noise of Life is a podcast that shares real stories, raw truths, and remarkable growth. Hosted by Steve Hodgson a coach, facilitator, speaker and Mental Health First Aid Instructor. This podcast dives deep into the “noise” we all face, the distractions, doubts and challenges that can pull us away from who we truly are.
Esther Zeledon on the POWER Framework & Finding Alignment in the Chaos
Episode Introduction
What if the metrics you’ve been chasing aren’t the ones that matter?
In this deeply reflective Noise of Life conversation, Steve reconnects with Dr Esther Zeledon - scientist, diplomat, and founder of Be at Change - to explore how we rediscover purpose and power when life takes a different route than planned.
After losing her contracts and rebuilding from the ground up, Esther realised that fulfilment doesn’t come from titles, money or status, but from living in alignment with our values. She unpacks her POWER framework - a simple yet profound guide to finding clarity, purpose, and joy when you feel stuck - and shares practical tools for rewriting your story from within.
This episode is a gentle reminder that the view may change, but sometimes the detour leads to something far better.
About Our Guest
Dr Esther Zeledon is the founder of Be at Change, a global coaching and leadership consultancy helping people lead with purpose and authenticity. A former US diplomat and humanitarian scientist, she holds a PhD in Environmental Science and Policy and has dedicated her career to designing initiatives across Latin America, Africa and the United States that drive inclusion, sustainability and human potential.
She is also the author of Creating a Limitless Life: How to Discover Your Purpose, Redefine Success, and Build a Life You Love.
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Website: https://www.beatchange.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/beatchange
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/estherzeledon
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Episode Highlights
00:00 – The view changes — and sometimes it’s better than you imagined.
00:36 – Esther on rediscovering gratitude and impact after hitting rock bottom.
01:15 – The uncomfortable chase between ambition and alignment.
02:10 – Steve shares how The Noise of Life name came to him — and why it resonates so deeply.
03:20 – When you haven’t had enough “noise” yet to understand life’s lessons.
03:50 – The truth about resilience: why impact matters more than image.
04:05 – Introducing the POWER framework: Peace, Purpose, Organisational Flow, Work–life Integration, Enjoyment, and Resilience.
04:20 – Writing your “living obituary” — a transformative exercise to realign your life.
05:00 – Why legacy constantly evolves — and how to identify the gap between who you are and who you want to be.
06:10 – How to visualise your ideal day to uncover your truest purpose.
07:00 – The $40 billion question: what global problem would you solve, and how?
08:00 – Discovering your superpower — and how you uniquely solve problems.
09:30 – Steve’s revelation: helping people remove roadblocks is his true gift.
10:30 – How to turn your lifelong patterns into a roadmap for purpose.
11:40 – The importance of knowing your values — and living them daily.
13:00 – Meaningful work, contribution and why “alignment” is non-negotiable.
14:20 – Resilience as a daily practice — not a comeback story.
15:00 – The “love calendar” ritual: reminding yourself of your impact each morning.
I am with Dr Rob Williams for one of the most expansive conversations I have had on breath, resilience and what it means to be human in a world that moves faster than we can process. Rob shared his journey from near-death experiences to long distance running to teaching breath mastery and the cold as a teacher, and each moment revealed something powerful about how we reconnect to our bodies.
He walked me through the ways breath shapes our nervous system, the role of cold exposure in building resilience and why slowing down is the doorway back to ourselves. What struck me most was how he frames breathing as both a biological superpower and a spiritual practice that brings us into harmony with life.
This episode left me inspired to breathe with more intention, move with more awareness and stay curious about the flow that is always available when we tune in.
Inside this podcast:
- How breath connects the body and nervous system
- Why the cold can build resilience and mental clarity
- How voluntary stress strengthens mind and spirit
- The science behind nasal breathing and heart coherence
- How flow states emerge from conscious presence
Connect with Dr. Rob:
Instagram → /drrobwilliams
Website → https://nordicflow.io & https://thenordicwave.com/
Email → contact@doctorrobwilliams.comConnect with Steve:
Instagram → /thestevehodgson
LinkedIn → /stevehodgson
Episode Highlights
00:00 - Introducing Dr Rob Williams
01:46 - How breath shapes human experience
07:41 - Breath as a human superpower
10:46 - The deeper meaning of inspiration
14:23 - Heart coherence and emotional flow
19:53 - The biology of stress and fear
23:09 - Voluntary stress and resilience
25:12 - Cold plunging as a resilience tool
33:39 - Trauma held in the body and cold release
52:23 - Foundational breath practices for daily life
ABOUT THE PODCAST SHOW
The Noise of Life is a podcast that shares real stories, raw truths, and remarkable growth. Hosted by Steve Hodgson a coach, facilitator, speaker, and Mental Health First Aid Instructor. This podcast dives deep into the “noise” we all face, the distractions, doubts and challenges that can pull us away from who we truly are.
Jade Miller on Creativity, Comparison & Turning Life’s Lemons into Art
Episode Introduction
What if the thing you’ve struggled with your whole life is actually the source of your creativity?
In this warm Noise of Life episode, Steve sits down with Jade Miller — artist, author and creative guide — to explore neurodivergence, comparison, overwhelm and how creativity helps us regulate and reconnect.
From a late autism diagnosis to chronic illness to raising teens while rebuilding her identity, Jade shares how she turned breakdowns into breakthroughs. She shows how simple acts — journaling, scribbling, painting, gardening, cooking — can calm the nervous system, rebuild confidence and help us feel more like ourselves.
If you’ve ever felt stuck, overstimulated or unsure where to begin, this conversation is a gentle reminder that you are more creative than you think.
About Our Guest
Jade Miller is a New Zealand–born artist, writer and creative mentor. Her upcoming book blends memoir with practical tools that help people use creativity for clarity, resilience and emotional healing. She shares daily art and reflection at Lemonade with Jade.
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Episode Highlights
00:00 – Late autism diagnosis; understanding her “spicy brain.”00:28 – Introducing Jade: artist, author, creative thinker.00:50 – Creativity as emotional processing.01:13 – Why “good” in art is subjective.01:23 – What “noise” means to Jade.02:12 – Overstimulation, data overload, neurodivergence.03:14 – Rural NZ childhood and early imagination.04:12 – Art as comfort and escape.05:18 – Journaling as emotional release.06:04 – Colour, movement and visual journaling.06:36 – How school teaches comparison.08:05 – The clay elephant story.09:35 – Self-doubt and rebuilding worth.10:38 – “We’re all valuable in different ways.”11:04 – Creativity that dies because we don’t try.12:02 – Writing her book: answering the call.12:53 – Chronic pain and Chiari malformation.13:52 – Pouring thousands of raw words onto the page.14:20 – Working with editor Liane Hughes.15:12 – Shaping emotion into meaning.15:53 – Her lemon → lemonade framework: self, relationships, context.16:48 – Awareness as the first step.17:14 – Boundaries, relationships and forgiveness.18:19 – Understanding systems and conditioning.19:03 – Returning to what you can control.20:34 – Daily choices that reduce noise.20:56 – Thinking like an artist in life and work.21:29 – Five artist traits: awareness, social fluency, communication, creative intelligence, resilience.23:42 – Why artists are resilient.24:01 – “Everyone is an artist.”25:17 – Cooking, gardening, sketching as creative expression.26:04 – The myth of “I’m not creative.”26:50 – Five-minute rule for starting.27:56 – Choosing creativity over screen time.29:21 – Half-finished Cézanne sketch and the beauty of imperfection.30:38 – A day in the life: teens, wellness, art.31:30 – Showing up even when it’s messy.32:56 – Daily practice dissolves comparison.33:21 – Art as meditation.34:40 – Flow through movement and gardening.36:11 – Ideas arriving when we step out of our heads.36:28 – Tools for overwhelm.37:52 – What recovery after dysregulation really looks like.38:42 – Listening to what you actually need.39:40 – Lemons as growth.41:05 – Feel emotions; don’t stay stuck.41:20 – Creativity as processing.41:28 – Life-as-art metaphor: chaos + calm.42:47 – The role of contrast.43:04 – Noise she’s living with: autism.44:18 – Noise she’s letting go: past judgement.45:04 – Lemon she’s grateful for: clarity from diagnosis.46:17 – Thinking like an artist: curiosity + openness.46:31 – How to connect with Jade.
Matt Formston on Facing Fear, Redefining Limits, & Riding Giants
Episode Introduction
What does it feel like to stare down a five-story wave you cannot see? How do you quiet the noise of global doubt telling you "the blind guy is going to die"? In this powerful and condensed episode, Steve delves into the mindset of Matt Formston—world champion adaptive surfer, Paralympian, and Guinness World Record holder.
Matt opens up about the two distinct fights of his life: first, the desperate struggle to prove he wasn't disabled, and second, the purposeful fight to become the best version of himself. He shares profound insights on overcoming self-doubt, the practical process for tackling any fear, and why becoming a father changed his relationship with risk forever. This is a masterclass in resilience, presence, and turning perceived limitations into unparalleled strength.
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About Our Guest
Matt Formston is an Order of Australia member, a multiple-time world champion in surfing and cycling, and holds the Guinness World Record for the largest wave surfed by a vision-impaired athlete. His incredible journey is documented in the film The Blind Side.
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Episode Highlights
00:00 - The daunting global noise: "They're going to kill the blind guy."00:16 - The two types of fear: physical recklessness vs. the fear of being seen as "different."01:01 - The two fights of Matt's life: Proving he wasn't disabled vs. fighting for his best self.01:20 - Refusing to learn Braille and tackling the biggest kid to prove he was "normal."02:34 - The shift: Accepting his disability and starting the internal fight for self-mastery.03:59 - Steve's reflection: If a blind man can surf giants, what's stopping me?04:13 - The household rule: You were not allowed to use the word "can't."05:36 - Learning to surf blind, starting on a bodyboard to "feel" the wave at age five.07:41 - The documentary The Blind Side and surfing a record 51ft wave at Nazaré.08:15 - How you train for the "non-surfing" part of a giant wave: strength and breath capacity.09:48 - The crucial role of his support team and family.11:18 - The moment after a brutal wipeout when the safety team said, "No more."12:29 - Matt's 3-column framework for anyone scared to attempt something big.13:32 - How becoming a father introduced a new kind of fear and responsibility.15:02 - Battling the global media narrative and the doubt it creates.
Nick Bracks on Identity, Recovery & Taking Responsibility for Your Life
Episode Introduction
What do you do when you’ve spent your life living in someone else’s shadow — and finally realise it’s time to step into your own?
In this raw and powerful episode, Steve sits down with Nick Bracks, mental health advocate, speaker, and founder of Move Your Mind, to explore identity, addiction, and the lifelong process of rebuilding from rock bottom.
From being known as the son of a Premier to becoming one of Australia’s most recognised voices in mental health, Nick shares the painful truths behind his public fall — the car crash that changed everything — and the long climb back to self-worth, purpose, and personal accountability.
Through brutal honesty and hard-won wisdom, Nick reveals how true change starts with one small step, radical ownership, and the courage to forgive yourself and begin again.
About Our Guest
Nick Bracks is an Australian mental health advocate, speaker, and entrepreneur dedicated to helping people implement practical change through Move Your Mind — a global mental health and wellbeing platform.
After overcoming addiction and depression, Nick has shared his story with thousands across schools, companies and media platforms worldwide. A former actor and model, he now uses his experiences to promote proactive wellbeing, behavioural change, and self-leadership.
He is also the host of the Move Your Mind podcast and author of Move Your Mind: How to Build a Healthy Mindset for Life.
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Website: https://www.nickbracks.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nickbracks
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nickbracks
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Show Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sharewithsteve
Episode Highlights
00:00 – “The Noise of Life” — acceptance, self-awareness, and learning to live with the chaos.
02:10 – Why we waste so much energy on what we can’t control.
03:30 – The danger of division and cancel culture: rediscovering empathy and dialogue.
08:10 – Growing up as the son of a Premier and the battle to find his own identity.
09:30 – The pressure to prove himself: obsession, insecurity, and burnout.
11:20 – Depression, addiction, and the double life of validation and self-hate.
12:30 – Dancing with the Stars, fame, and the illusion of confidence.
13:50 – The moment he hit rock bottom — and the car crash that changed his life.
19:00 – Surviving the media storm and facing himself for the first time.
22:10 – The turning point: asking for help, starting therapy, and rebuilding step by step.
23:30 – The power of small wins and the courage to fail forward.
25:40 – How behaviour change really happens — and why simplicity wins.
28:00 – Forgiveness as a form of discipline and growth.
29:40 – Building sustainable change with Move Your Mind: accountability, awareness, and consistency.
33:40 – The environments and habits that shaped his recovery: exercise, meditation, and relationships.
37:20 – Redefining your relationship with alcohol — and why discipline is freedom.
40:20 – For anyone at rock bottom: start with one small step.
43:00 – What his mental health journey has taught him most: you are enough.
44:00 – The next decade of Move Your Mind: advocacy, prevention, and systemic change.
Join us for a deeply empowering conversation with Sheila Vijeyarasa, spiritual teacher, intuitive coach, and author of Brave: Courageously Live Your Truth. Sheila shares how she broke through self-doubt, emotional trauma, and societal expectations to create a life led by purpose, inner power, and spiritual alignment.
In this episode, Sheila opens up about healing the wounds of the past, building unshakable self-worth, and how visioning and self-responsibility became her path to transformation. Her message is clear: you can reclaim your truth, but it starts with one brave step today.
Watch the full episode to discover how healing your story, trusting your intuition, and choosing growth over fear can radically change your life.
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Sheila Vijeyarasa is a spiritual teacher, author, and transformational mentor known for blending intuitive wisdom with grounded leadership. After building a high-powered corporate career in finance, Sheila experienced a profound awakening that led her to study mediumship, shadow work, and trauma-informed coaching. Through her book Brave and her deeply healing programs, she guides women to awaken their spiritual gifts, own their worth, and step into their highest calling. Her work has been featured on SBS, The Australian, and Body+Soul, and she is a leading voice in spiritual empowerment and conscious living.
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Episode Highlights:
00:00 - Episode Trailer
00:45 - Why Sheila resets her life vision every month
01:24 - Vision boards, clarity, and calling in your future
02:14 - Creating from healing: short-term visions for growth
03:00 - Deserving your dreams and overcoming self-hate
03:49 - Childhood wounds and the origin of self-worth beliefs
04:30 - The power of journaling and emotional reflection
05:08 - Intergenerational trauma and inner child healing
05:58 - Psychedelics, shamans, and a deeper healing path
06:30 - Self-responsibility as the root of all healing
06:48 - Releasing the victim mindset and owning your future
07:03 - What brave action can you take today?
07:44 - Small steps that shift your life’s direction
08:19 - You don’t need a shaman — find what works for you
08:48 - The myth of “I can’t meditate” and what’s really blocking you
09:05 - When life hits the wall: pain or empowerment as your fuel
Esther Zeledon on Purpose, Power & Redefining the American Dream
Episode Introduction
What happens when you realise the American Dream isn’t your dream?
In this deeply inspiring episode, Steve sits down with Dr Esther Zeledon - scientist, diplomat, coach, author, and founder of Be at Change - to unpack her remarkable journey from chasing external success to creating a life of true alignment, service, and purpose.
Born into an immigrant family, Esther carried generations of sacrifice and expectation — only to discover that fulfilment doesn’t come from titles, homes, or accolades, but from courageously choosing your own definition of success.
From losing $400,000 in contracts overnight to rebuilding her mission-driven enterprise from the ground up, Esther shares raw lessons on resilience, identity, and the quiet power of listening to your inner voice amidst the noise of the world.
This episode is a masterclass in reclaiming purpose, building community, and learning that every detour, no matter how painful, can lead to deeper impact.
About Our Guest
Dr Esther Zeledon is the founder of Be at Change, a social enterprise empowering individuals and organisations to lead with purpose and authenticity.
A former US diplomat and humanitarian leader, Esther holds a PhD in Environmental Science and Policy and has spent her career designing programmes across Latin America, Africa and the United States to drive inclusion, sustainability and human potential.
She is also the author of Creating a Limitless Life: How to Discover Your Purpose, Redefine Success, and Build a Life You Love, blending science, personal transformation and global insight to help people step into their power.
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Episode Highlights
00:00 – From losing $400,000 in contracts to hitting rock bottom — and rebuilding from service.
00:44 – Meet Esther Zeledon: scientist, diplomat, coach and founder of Be at Change.
02:00 – What “the noise of life” means: choosing which inner frequency to turn up.
03:00 – Growing up in an immigrant family and inheriting generational sacrifice.
05:00 – Gratitude and release: how Esther reframed the “noise” that shaped her.
08:00 – The moment she realised the American Dream wasn’t her dream.
10:00 – Carrying the double burden of being an immigrant and a survivor.
12:00 – Climbing every ladder of success — and still feeling empty.
13:30 – The breaking point: “This is not my legacy.”
15:00 – Blowing up her life: leaving the six-bedroom house, the staff and the safety net.
17:00 – Redefining freedom: minimalism, simplicity and conscious design.
19:00 – Building a positive-only community and rejecting comparison culture.
22:00 – Isolation, identity loss and the courage to start over.
25:00 – Finding a global sisterhood and rediscovering purpose through service.
29:00 – The 2024 collapse: losing all her contracts and being told to “get a job.”
32:00 – Reconnecting to her mission: “I am of service.”
34:00 – Turning loss into light: rebuilding through workshops and coaching around the world.
36:00 – Ambition vs purpose: choosing alignment over metrics and ego.
40:00 – Legacy through impact: stories of transformation and ripple effects.
43:00 – Why every detour leads you closer to your truth.
46:00 – Esther’s POWER framework for rediscovering purpose.
48:00 – Writing your living obituary: what story are people telling about you?
50:00 – The “$40 billion question”: how to reveal your unique way of solving problems.
55:00 – The real measure of success: love, service and alignment.
Join us for a soul-stirring conversation with Damian Chaparro, co-founder of Aro Hā Wellness Retreats, as he shares the story of building one of the world’s most transformative wellness sanctuaries. From the fast-paced world of tech to the stillness of meditation and sustainable retreat design, Damian’s journey is a testament to the power of inner clarity, conscious risk, and deep listening.
In this episode, Damian opens up about the highs and lows of creating a retreat space from scratch in a foreign country, the true meaning behind Aro Hā, and how discomfort and uncertainty shaped his most meaningful growth. His insights are both grounding and expansive perfect for anyone seeking deeper purpose, inner alignment, and holistic success.
Watch the full episode to hear Damian’s inspiring lessons on wellbeing, entrepreneurship, and the art of building something that truly matters.
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Damian Chaparro is the visionary co-founder of Aro Hā Wellness Retreats, a globally acclaimed retreat center nestled in the Southern Alps of New Zealand. With a background in business and early tech, Damian made a radical shift into wellness after experiencing his own personal awakening. Today, Aro Hā integrates regenerative design, sustainability, mindfulness, and peak wellbeing practices and has become one of the world’s most respected destinations for personal transformation. Damian’s mission is to help people reconnect to themselves, the planet, and the deeper rhythms of life.
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Episode Highlights:
00:00 - Episode Trailer
00:30 - Discovering true wellness for the first time
01:20 - Why real transformation begins on the inside
02:14 - Letting go of expectations and learning to flow
03:32 - From tech to yoga: Damian’s radical life pivot
04:20 - A retreat experience that changed everything
05:02 - Selling everything to build Aro Hā from scratch
06:07 - Living in discomfort to pursue a higher vision
06:51 - Why your first retreat might not be the right one
08:00 - Building a retreat experience that resonates globally
09:17 - How Aro Hā blends personal health with planetary health
10:22 - Permaculture, sustainability, and regenerative design
11:01 - Building something that had never been done before
12:14 - Guests feel the difference even if they can’t explain it
12:42 - Challenges of starting a business in a foreign land
13:51 - Grief, family, and maintaining presence through pain
15:23 - Making decisions from stress vs. trust
16:10 - Facing doubt and inexperience in the early years
17:13 - The mindset shift that helped Damian move forward
17:42 - Entrepreneurship as the ultimate growth journey
18:05 - Navigating cultural learning with respect in New Zealand
19:06 - The deeper meaning behind the name Aro Hā
20:36 - Gratitude for the land, people, and cultural legacy
Matt Formston on Resilience, Trust, & Surfing Life’s Biggest Waves
Episode Introduction
What does it take to ride a four-story wave you can't see? How do you turn a diagnosis of blindness into a world championship mindset? In this profoundly powerful episode, Steve sits down with Matt Formston, a world champion adaptive surfer, Paralympian cyclist, and Guinness World Record holder.
Blind since the age of five, Matt shares his journey from facing extreme bullying and violence in his youth to finding his strength in adversity. He opens up about the pivotal role his parents played in shielding him from limiting beliefs, his struggle to prove he "wasn't disabled," and his ultimate breakthrough to accepting and maximizing his true self.
This is a raw conversation about the power of family, the non-negotiable nature of trust, and the relentless pursuit of becoming the best version of yourself.
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About Our Guest
Matt Formston is an Order of Australia member, multiple-time world champion in both surfing and cycling, and the Guinness World Record holder for surfing the largest wave ever ridden by a vision-impaired athlete at Nazaré, Portugal.
Beyond his athletic accolades, Matt is a businessman, a passionate advocate for disability inclusion, and a father dedicated to instilling core values in his children. His story is captured in the acclaimed documentary, The Blind Side.
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Episode Highlights
00:00 - The "Blind Surfer" is introduced: "They're going to kill the blind guy."
01:44 - Steve welcomes world champion and Paralympian, Matt Formston.
02:43 - How Matt defines the "noise" of life.
03:40 - Matt's story: From blindness and bullying to world titles.
07:12 - The extreme bullying that led to a cycle of violence.
09:25 - The pivotal moment his parents hid a grim diagnosis from him.
13:59 - The shift from fighting to prove himself to fighting for his best self.
17:45 - The household rule: The word "can't" was banned.
21:13 - Preparing to surf a 51ft wave at Nazaré you can't see.
25:27 - Matt's 3-step framework for attempting anything you're scared of.
26:30 - Facing fear and self-doubt as a father.
30:46 - The powerful values mantra Matt teaches his kids every night.
32:47 - The unexpected advantage of blindness: Radical presence.
35:39 - Why his disability is not a "superpower."
39:24 - Simple fixes for inclusion that make people feel seen.
46:05 - Matt's #1 non-negotiable in life and business: Trust.
51:23 - The one piece of advice for anyone feeling limited.
55:07 - What's next: Boards, a book, a new film, and freediving.
57:50 - How to connect with Matt.
Join us for an unforgettable conversation with Julian Mather, a former army sniper turned magician, turned successful entrepreneur and keynote speaker. In this raw and captivating episode, Julian shares the story of how he overcame a stutter, self-doubt, and career dead-ends to find clarity, purpose, and the courage to speak on stage with nothing to hide behind.
From failing school to becoming a sought-after global speaker, Julian’s journey proves that reinvention is possible at any stage of life. Whether you're feeling stuck, uninspired, or just ready for your next chapter, Julian delivers a powerful reminder that self-belief, curiosity, and the willingness to step into discomfort are the keys to real transformation.
Watch the full episode to hear how to turn failure into fuel, setbacks into breakthroughs, and why the best time to start something new is now.
About our guest:
Julian Mather has lived a life of extraordinary transitions from army sniper to globe-trotting TV cameraman with ABC and National Geographic, to YouTube magician with 30 million views, to now a professional speaker and mentor helping others find their voice. He is the founder of multiple successful online ventures including the Kids Entertainer Academy, and today he works with business leaders, educators, and professionals who want to become confident on camera and on stage. Julian's story is proof that reinvention isn't just possible it's a decision.
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Episode Highlights:
00:00 - Episode Trailer
00:31 - Julian’s surprising YouTube success with a magic channel
01:02 - Building the first online academy for children’s entertainers
01:50 - How a single email changed the course of Julian’s life
02:37 - Filming troubled schools and the power of storytelling
03:28 - Witnessing one man stop a drug crisis with only words
04:46 - Realizing his purpose: to stand in front of people and effect change
05:15 - Lessons from filming philanthropy and trying to teach it in schools
06:24 - Why good ideas fail without a “starving crowd”
07:07 - Reinventing himself as a magician to pay the rent
07:49 - Overcoming crippling stage fright as a performer
08:17 - Julian’s journey into content creation and online business
09:13 - Discovering his niche through listening to the audience
10:01 - Finding his business soulmate and building a global brand
10:33 - Selling a business and returning to his true calling
10:53 - The truth behind Julian’s career changes — and what he was hiding from
11:24 - Why confidence doesn’t come from being perfect
11:49 - From sniper scope to stage: learning to speak without barriers
12:06 - Julian’s mission as a keynote speaker today
Sheila Vijeyarasa on Courage, Alignment & Stepping Through the Fear
Episode Introduction
What happens when your life falls apart and that breakdown becomes your greatest breakthrough? In this empowering episode, Steve sits down with Sheila Vijeyarasa, a spiritual teacher, leadership coach, and author of Brave: Courageously Live Your Truth, to explore what it really means to find alignment, rebuild after loss, and live from intuition rather than fear.
Sheila shares her raw story of walking away from corporate success to embrace a higher calling, navigating her own dark nights of the soul, and building a life of authenticity, purpose, and power. Together, Steve and Sheila unpack what bravery looks like in real life — and how every challenge can be the doorway to transformation.
About Our Guest
Sheila Vijeyarasa is a globally recognised intuitive business coach, speaker, and author of Brave: Courageously Live Your Truth. Combining spirituality with high-performance leadership, Sheila helps women and professionals reclaim their confidence, develop intuition, and create a life of aligned purpose. Her work has been featured in Forbes, Sydney Morning Herald, and CEO Magazine, and she continues to inspire thousands through her keynotes, retreats, and coaching programs.
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Episode Highlights
00:00 - Episode Trailer
00:35 - Meet Sheila Vijeyarasa: from corporate executive to spiritual coach
02:30 - The internal and external noise that shapes our lives
05:40 - How losing everything became Sheila’s awakening
08:20 - Turning breakdowns into breakthroughs
11:45 - The power of curiosity and self-awareness
14:25 - Finding courage to walk through the unknown
16:02 - Quieting the inner critic and trusting your growth
19:20 - Facing fear and building the muscle of bravery
22:10 - Why courage is cultivated through small daily acts
24:35 - Speaking your truth and showing up with authenticity
26:45 - Handling criticism and connecting with the one person who needs your message
29:45 - Steve’s story of facing his biggest fear and the freedom beyond it
33:20 - Sheila’s practices for calming the noise and embracing discomfort
37:22 - Checking in on your goals and staying in alignment with your values
40:10 - Believing that you deserve everything you dream of
41:50 - Journaling as a mirror for your emotions and growth
44:15 - A message from Sheila to those standing at the edge of change
47:04 - What’s next: global speaking, new book, and brave new beginnings
50:30 - Why even the brave still face imposter syndrome
52:00 - Closing reflections and where to connect with Sheila
Join us for an inspiring and practical conversation with Dr. Tim Sharp widely known as Dr. Happy as he unpacks the real science of happiness and how we can apply it to our daily lives. As a clinical psychologist, author, and founder of The Happiness Institute, Tim shares decades of research and experience on what truly makes us thrive.
In this episode, you’ll learn why money doesn’t guarantee happiness, how to get a better “return on investment” from the way you spend, and the surprisingly simple but powerful habits that build lasting wellbeing. Tim also reveals why connection, gratitude, and purpose are at the heart of a fulfilling life and why fun, laughter, and giving back matter more than we think.
About our guest:
Dr. Tim Sharp is a renowned clinical psychologist, author, speaker, and founder of The Happiness Institute. Affectionately known as Dr. Happy, he has dedicated his career to exploring the psychology of happiness and helping individuals and organizations apply positive psychology to achieve greater wellbeing and success. With multiple books, a thriving practice, and a global following, Tim is a leading voice in making happiness practical, accessible, and sustainable.
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Episode Highlights:
00:00 - Episode Trailer
00:25 - Why financial stress impacts happiness
00:45 - How spending on experiences brings more joy than possessions
01:10 - The science of giving: why helping others boosts happiness
02:19 - Daily and weekly habits that enhance wellbeing
03:17 - The role of meaningful goals in creating purpose
04:02 - Exercise, sleep, and nutrition as foundations of happiness
04:24 - Building optimism and gratitude as “muscles”
05:03 - Why relationships and connection matter most
05:37 - The importance of play, fun, and laughter in life
06:15 - Awareness and reframing emotions through action
07:15 - Why it’s okay not to be okay — and how to bounce back faster
08:07 - Simple strategies to shift mood and break negative patterns
08:41 - Dr. Tim’s surprising lessons on happiness over his career
09:22 - Why happiness is a skill that can be learned and practiced
10:02 - The psychological benefits of exercise, sleep, and connection
10:42 - Making time for friendships as life gets busier
11:18 - Moving into generativity: mentoring and giving back
12:12 - Why mentoring and social good have become Tim’s focus