I love talking with teens about their experience with friends, parents, social media, and school - and generally anything else they find interesting....
In this episode you get to hear from my son about me!
Couple of things....
1. It's a fun interview and I'm proud of how he shows up and shares about life in 8th grade, choosing good friends, and how he's dealing with the death of a friend.
2. We didn't edit much - I want you to see how I talk with, validate, and engage with Everett. Posture as a parent is the key to success in a close relationship. In this interview I want to show you "how" good posture is in conversation.
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This one thing might be undermining your relationship with your teen - and you might not even know you're doing it.
Change this and watch the relationship grow!
If you want to talk about what's been challenging in your relationship with your teen and learn how to fix the major issues that are keeping you from a close & connected relationship visit us at www.presentsolutionforparents.com
In this episode, we get an inside look to what two senior guys are thinking about life after high school, college, what their parents did well, what they wished their parents differently, and what they would tell their freshman themselves if they could go back in time.
If you want to find out how to connect with your teen in meaningful ways, go to www.presentsolutionforparents.com for my free masterclass on how to renew your relationship starting today.
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In today's show I interview a wonderful young man, Eric Ramirez. I've mentored Eric since he was in 7th grade and am very proud of who he is.
Eric shares his perspective on his life as a middle school and high school student - we talk about how his parents disciplined him, guided him, and set standards and expectations for him.
We talk about what he thinks his parents did well, what he wishes they had done different, and what he wishes he had done different to grow closer and more connected with them.
It's a great show! I hope it inspires you!
Check out my PACE Parent Masterclass at www.presentsolutionforparents.com and get access to lots of great resources to help you grow a close, connected relationship with your teen built on love, trust, and respect.
What does my teen really think about me? Why are they being so difficult? What am I doing wrong?
These are questions all parents have, and Maddie gives us her perspective as a teen.
Enjoy the show!
Welcome to Present Solution Podcasts, where we work together to be present as parents while raising our teens with purpose. In this episode, we’ll unpack:
If you’re tired of power struggles, feeling out of control, or losing connection with your teen, this episode will help you shift from enforcing rules to building maturity and independence together.
You’ll walk away with actionable steps to identify your family’s core standards and start creating a plan for growth—because nothing healthy grows by accident.
Ready for more? Check out the free resources at https://presentsolutionforparents.com/home or follow @miketheparentcoach (https://instagram.com/miketheparentcoach) on Instagram for daily support. And if you want personalized guidance, book a free breakthrough call to create your own family roadmap.
Remember: Your teen doesn’t need a perfect parent—they need a present one. You’ve got this!
Time with our teens is precious and fleeting - one minute they're asking for bedtime stories, the next they're asking for car keys. In this episode, Mike The Parent Coach shares five powerful questions that open meaningful conversations with teenagers, developed from coaching hundreds of parents to success. These aren't just any questions - they're carefully crafted conversation starters that actually work.
You'll learn:
• Five specific questions that consistently get teens talking
• The psychology behind why each question works
• How to listen effectively to keep conversations flowing
• Practical tips for creating judgment-free dialogue
• Real strategies for dealing with one-word answers
The Five Questions Revealed:
1. "What's something you've done lately that you're proud of?"
2. "Tell me about a book, movie, or song that's had an impact on you recently?"
3. "What's something you'd like to learn or try in the next year?"
4. "What is one of your best memories from the last few years?"
5. "What can I do to support you right now?"
Key Takeaway:
Building connection with your teen is an investment that requires time and patience, but using the right questions can open doors to meaningful conversations and lasting relationships.
Perfect for parents who:
• Feel disconnected from their teenager
• Want to have deeper conversations
• Struggle with getting more than one-word responses
• Are looking for practical ways to strengthen their relationship
• Want to make the most of their time with their teens before they leave home
Duration: 15 minutes
Description:
Tired of power struggles with your teen? In this episode, Mike The Parent Coach reveals three simple but powerful words that consistently transform parent-teen relationships. Discover why these words create breakthrough moments and learn exactly how to use them to open up meaningful conversations with your teenager.
You'll learn:
• Why common phrases like "because I said so" and "you always..." shut down communication
• The psychology behind why these three magic words works so effectively
• How to deliver these words in a way that encourages real dialogue
• Why understanding doesn't mean agreeing (and why this distinction matters)
• A step-by-step approach to implementing this strategy tonight
Key Takeaway:
Sometimes the smallest changes in how we communicate can make the biggest difference in our relationships with our teens. By showing respect for your teen's perspective and creating space for real dialogue, you can build a foundation for lasting influence and connection.
Perfect for parents who:
• Feel stuck in constant arguments with their teen
• Want to improve communication but don't know where to start
• Are looking for practical, implementable strategies
• Wish their teen would open up more
Duration: 12 minutes
SETTING CLEAR EXPECTATIONS: THE SECRET TO STRONGER TEEN RELATIONSHIPS
In this eye-opening episode, I reveal why teens secretly crave boundaries and how setting clear expectations can transform your relationship. Through a powerful real-world example of Tina and Jake's journey from constant conflict to meaningful connection, you'll learn the exact framework for creating expectations that actually stick.
Drawing parallels from "The Karate Kid," Mike breaks down the difference between expectations and boundaries, showing how Mr. Miyagi's "wax on, wax off" approach demonstrates the power of clear guidance and trusted structure. You'll discover the three-step process for setting expectations that create buy-in instead of pushback, plus practical scripts you can use immediately.
KEY TAKEAWAYS:
• How to have boundary-setting conversations that don't end in arguments
• The secret to creating consequences that actually work
• Why timing matters when setting expectations
• Practical examples for common teen issues like curfew and phone use
• How to build trust while maintaining authority
Perfect for parents struggling with power struggles, communication breakdown, or feeling like their boundaries aren't working. Whether you're dealing with screen time battles, curfew conflicts, or academic challenges, this episode provides the roadmap to move from constant conflict to genuine connection.
EPISODE 5: FROM PEOPLE-PLEASING TO PURPOSEFUL PARENTING
Breaking Free from the "Keep the Peace" Trap
EPISODE DESCRIPTION:
Are you walking on eggshells with your teenager? Saying "yes" to avoid conflict? Compromising your boundaries to keep the peace? In this powerful episode, we expose how people-pleasing parenting silently erodes your relationship with your teen and provides actionable steps to reclaim your parental authority without damaging your connection.
KEY INSIGHTS:
• Why avoiding conflict actually creates more problems
• The hidden costs of being a "peace at all costs" parent
• How people-pleasing undermines your teen's emotional development
• The difference between being present and being pleasing
• Practical strategies to break the people-pleasing cycle
WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:
✓ Signs you're falling into the people-pleasing parent trap
✓ The long-term impact on your teen's development
✓ The "Loving No" formula for setting boundaries
✓ How to rebuild respect while maintaining connection
✓ Practical steps to shift from reactive to purposeful parenting
FEATURED STORY:
Follow Sarah's journey from constant compromise to confident parenting, and see how this transformation strengthened her relationship with her teenage daughter.
"Your teen doesn't need another friend. They need a parent who loves them enough to be unpopular sometimes."
"Your teen's temporary happiness is less important than their long-term growth."
PERFECT FOR PARENTS WHO:
• Struggle with setting and maintaining boundaries
• Feel guilty about saying "no"
• Want to build genuine respect with their teens
• Find themselves compromising their values to avoid conflict
• Are exhausted from trying to keep everyone happy
CONNECT WITH US:
On social media @MikeTheParentCoach
www.PresentSolutionForParents.com/home
THE "I CAN" METHOD: TRANSFORMING TEEN DISAPPOINTMENT INTO RESILIENCE
In this powerful episode, we dive deep into one of parenting's most challenging moments: helping our teenagers navigate disappointment without letting it crush their spirit. Through a personal story about my son's basketball team rejection, I introduce the game-changing "I CAN Method" - a four-step framework that transforms how teens process setbacks and build resilience.
WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:
• Why traditional comfort phrases like "there's always next time" might be undermining your teen's growth
• The science behind teen disappointment and how it affects brain development
• A practical, easy-to-remember framework for turning disappointments into growth opportunities
• Real-world examples and specific phrases to use in tough moments
• How to balance celebrating success while processing failure
• The surprising role of gratitude in building resilience
KEY TAKEAWAYS:
🎯 The I CAN Method Breakdown:
PERFECT FOR PARENTS WHO:
• Have teens struggling with self-esteem
• Want to build stronger emotional connections with their teenagers
• Need practical tools for difficult conversations
• Are looking for ways to foster resilience and grit
• Want to move beyond surface-level comfort to meaningful support
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
• Free Breakthrough Call at presentsolutionforparents.com
• Instagram: Miketheparentcoach
QUOTABLE MOMENTS:
"Self-esteem isn't built on endless praise; it's built on the balanced ability to recognize both our successes and areas for growth."
"Your teen's disappointments aren't failures - they're opportunities for connection and growth."
CONNECT WITH US:
What does my teen really think about me? Why are they being so difficult? What did I do wrong?
These are questions ALL parents of teens ask at one point or another - and in this series of interviews with teens we dig into what's going on, what they would do different, and what they really need and want from their parents.
Enjoy the show!
For more support and resources visit www.presentsolutionforparents.com and follow on social media @MikeTheParentCoach
Get an inside look into what a high school senior on the verge of college thinks about his time in High School, what his parents did well, what he wishes his mom and dad knew four years ago, and the mistakes he made.
Aiden and I have known each other since he was in 8th grade. I've coached Aiden in leadership and relationships with his parents - he is giving you a look into the world of teens with honesty and openness, you don't want to miss this!
What does my teen really think about me? Why are they being so difficult? What did I do wrong?
These are questions ALL parents of teens ask at one point or another - and in this series of interviews with teens we dig into what's going on, what they would do different, and what they really need and want from their parents.
Enjoy the show!
For more support and resources visit www.presentsolutionforparents.com and follow on social media @MikeTheParentCoach