In today’s episode, Jonathan and Justin dive into a topic every couple faces but rarely talks about, the mental load behind family photos. From planning the perfect shoot to actually getting everyone in the frame, we uncover why these moments matter and who usually ends up doing the heavy lifting.Joining us is Amanda Williamson, a professional photographer out of Kansas City, Missouri, who shares not just her expertise, but also her personal insights on what makes a family photo more than just a picture. We’re exploring the emotional value these images bring, why it’s crucial for both partners to be involved, and how small changes like picking up your phone more often or letting your kids document their own perspective can transform the way your family story is told.Whether you’re the one behind the camera or the one wrangling everyone into matching outfits, this episode offers practical advice, a few embarrassing photo fails, and heartwarming reminders of what it means to cherish the people you love. Get ready for actionable takeaways and plenty of laughs as we rethink the way families capture and share their memories together.Check out Amanda!Website: https://www.amandawilliamsonphotography.com/aboutInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/amanda.williamson.photography/00:00 "Women Lead Family Photo Planning"09:21 Pre-Session Planning for Photos10:41 "Preserving Memories as Kids Grow"17:22 "Capturing and Sharing Our Memories"25:09 Balancing Presence and Technology34:18 "Focus, Blur, and Lighting Tips"37:20 "Learning to Cherish Deeply"45:04 "The Mental Load of Posting"49:15 Sharing Family Photos Privately55:37 Family Photos Spark Joy01:01:42 "Photography: Capturing Our Story"
In this episode, your hosts Jonathan and Justin sit down with licensed therapist Katie Kirkenmeier to explore the shifting dynamics of gender roles within families. Together, they dive into the evolving balance of work at home and how societal expectations, parental leave, and invisible labor contribute to the mental load we carry as partners and parents.From the realities of postpartum anxiety and mood disorders, which affect both women and men, to the complexities of dividing household tasks, this conversation is packed with insights on how couples can better communicate, support one another, and challenge the stereotypes embedded in our relationships. Whether you’re a new parent figuring out how to split the chores or just seeking to understand unseen burdens in your own partnership, this episode offers actionable advice, heartfelt stories, and expert guidance.Tune in as we uncover what it truly means to “do better” in our most important relationships starting by believing and supporting the ones we love, communicating openly, and embracing change together.Help Us Grow:- Subscribe wherever you listen.- Send this episode to a friend who’s trying to “do better.”- Follow "DoBetterJonathan" on social media for clips and recaps.Thanks so much for joining us on this journey, we’re grateful you’re here!00:00 From Educator to Trauma Therapist09:49 Postpartum Intrusive Thoughts Insight13:57 "Parenting Challenges in Relationships"20:19 Work, Equity, and Relationships24:13 The Mental Load in Relationships28:07 Shared Responsibilities and Effective Planning35:59 Birthday Expectations Misunderstanding42:07 "To-Do Lists and Relationships"43:09 "Collaborative Relationships and Mental Load"51:14 Shifting Focus to Positive Change56:11 "Questions for Deep Connections"01:01:21 Complementary Teamwork in Relationships01:07:55 Redefining Masculinity and Emotions01:10:15 Therapy Insights and Personal Growth
Welcome to the podcast with a therapist and a regular guy that have real conversations about relationships, personal growth, and the challenges couples face. In our very first episode, Jonathan and Justin introduce themselves as two dads and husbands who’ve experienced the ups and downs of partnership and parenting. Jonathan, well-known as DoBetterJonathan on social media, opens up about his personal journey to understanding the mental load his wife carried and how that realization sparked his mission to "do better" and create relatable content for others. Justin, a marriage and family therapist with over 15 years of experience, shares his unique perspective on helping couples grow, communicate, and reconnect; even as he admits he’s still learning himself.Together, they discuss how their backgrounds shaped their views on love, family, and growth, from handing over a “signature” gourd in high school to navigating parenthood and the shifting dynamics it brings to any relationship. Plus, they talk about why bringing women’s voices and professional expertise into the conversation is essential... and share a few laughs along the way.Whether you’re in a relationship, single and thinking about partnership, or just trying to be a better human, you’ll find relatable stories, honest reflections, and practical tools in this episode. So tune in, get to know your hosts, and join us on this journey to doing better in our relationships and in life.Podcast Highlights:- The infamous “gourd” move. Yes, really. Jonathan won over his wife with a fall vegetable. Move over, flowers!- Honest talk about changing dynamics in relationships, especially after kids. Spoiler: it’s not always easy, and it requires vulnerability, patience, and lots of personal growth.- Why we’re committed to amplifying women’s voices and looking forward to future guest experts and female perspectives.- Heartfelt reflections on how family backgrounds shape us, and how intentional love, openness, and “feeling like home” matters as parents and partners.Help Us Grow:- Subscribe wherever you listen.- Send this episode to a friend who’s trying to “do better.”- Follow "DoBetterJonathan" on social media for clips and recaps.Thanks so much for joining us on this journey, we’re grateful you’re here!