To find out about working together: 1. Find us on instagram ( / aston_simmonds OR / adam__simmonds ) 2. DM the word MARRIAGE, and we’ll send you all the details “Can a relationship really last if only one of you is doing the work?” In Episode 18 of the Save My Marriage Podcast, we speak honestly about one of the most painful questions couples carry. The fear of growing alone. The frustration of being the one doing the healing. The quiet question of ...

To find out about working together: 1. Find us on instagram ( https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds OR https://www.instagram.com/adam__simmonds ) 2. DM the word MARRIAGE, and we’ll send you all the details “Christmas was supposed to bring us closer… but it made the distance louder.” In Episode 17, we talk about the part of Christmas no one warns you about: The loneliness that shows up when you’re already disconnected. The pressure to be happy when something feels off. The...

To find out about working together: 1. Find us on instagram ( https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds OR https://www.instagram.com/adam__simmonds ) 2. DM the word MARRIAGE, and we’ll send you all the details “We kept saying we were just too busy… but really, we were avoiding the truth.” In Episode 16, we call out one of the most common lies modern couples tell: “We will work on our relationship when life settles down.” Except life never settles down. In this episode,...

To find out about working together: 1. Find us on instagram ( https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds OR https://www.instagram.com/adam__simmonds ) 2. DM the word MARRIAGE, and we’ll send you all the details “We didn’t realise how disconnected we’d become… until we looked up and saw we were in the exact same place as last year.” In this episode, we talk about the quiet crisis so many couples fall into: The endless cycle. The excuses. The feeling of living toget...

To find out about working together: 1. Find us on instagram ( https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds OR https://www.instagram.com/adam__simmonds ) 2. DM the word MARRIAGE, and we’ll send you all the details “I used to think, ‘If you stopped triggering me, I would be fine.’” In this episode, we flip that belief on its head. We talk about: The real reason you get so activated over the smallest things Why your body reacts before your brain can catch up How triggers are actual...

To find out about working together: 1. Find us on instagram ( https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds OR https://www.instagram.com/adam__simmonds ) 2. DM the word MARRIAGE, and we’ll send you all the details “We feel like room mates… there is just no spark left.” If you have ever thought this about your relationship, Episode 13 is for you. In this episode we talk about what to do when there is: • Zero spark • Zero chemistry • Zero emotional connection …but you still want to feel like l...

“We still loved each other… but we felt more like roommates than lovers.” In this episode, we open up about what really causes couples to lose their spark — and how to get it back. The distance. The resentment. The moment you start living side by side… instead of soul to soul. “It’s not that the love is gone — it’s that polarity is missing. You’ve both just forgotten how to dance between the masculine and feminine.” If you’ve ever looked at your partner and thought, “Where did the passi...

“I used to think putting everyone else first made me a good partner.” I thought love meant giving… Even when I had nothing left to give. Saying yes when my body screamed no. Holding everything together while quietly falling apart. But the truth? Self-sacrifice isn’t love. It’s self-abandonment dressed up as devotion. The moment I stopped betraying myself to keep the peace, everything changed. My energy came back. My desire came back. And so did we. If you’ve been giving until you’re empty… Th...

“If only they would stop blaming me…” In this episode, we go deep into one of the most painful loops couples get stuck in — blame, defense, and disconnection. For years, we both thought the other person was the problem. I wanted Adam to change. He wanted me to stop overreacting. And nothing ever changed. The truth? You cannot make your partner change. But you can influence them — not through criticism or control, but through calm ownership and emotional safety. “When I stopped pointing the fi...

“We thought we just needed to learn more… but the truth is, we had to unlearn.” In this episode, we’re sharing the six patterns that nearly destroyed our marriage — and the ones that saved it when we finally let them go: ❌ Control ≠ Safety ❌ Criticism ≠ Motivation ❌ Vulnerability ≠ Weakness ❌ Marriage ≠ Competition ❌ Resentment ≠ Protection ❌ Withholding the Truth ≠ Keeping the Peace These weren’t quick fixes. They were deeply ingrained stories — beliefs we inherited from childhood, condition...

Fighting about money is rarely just about dollars. It’s about power, trust, values, and the deeper emotional stories money represents in your relationship. In this episode, we pull back the curtain on what’s really going on when couples clash over finances: Why money fights are often about safety, control, or feeling undervalued — not the budget itselfThe hidden money stories that drive resentment, blame, and avoidanceHow to turn “money talks” from battles into powerful conversati...

Feeling unsafe in your marriage does not always mean physical harm. Most often it is about emotional disconnection, not being heard, or feeling dismissed. In this episode we reveal the truth about safety in marriage: Why “I don’t feel safe” is really about trust and emotional connectionHow dismissing your partner’s feelings creates deeper disconnectionThe shift that turns conflict into closeness and reassurance“Safety is not about fixing all the problems. It is about creating a s...

Control and criticism aren’t about tearing you down. They’re about protecting what feels unsafe inside. In this episode we reveal the truth about control and criticism: Why criticism is actually a cry for safety and certainty What’s really underneath the controlling patterns — fear, overwhelm, and not feeling supported The shift that transforms control into connection and teamwork “Control isn’t proof she doesn’t love you. It’s proof she doesn’t feel safe to let go. When you respond ...

Defensiveness isn’t proof your partner doesn’t care. It’s a sign they don’t feel safe. In this episode we reveal the truth about defensiveness: Why defensiveness is really about protection, not rejection How shame, fear, and not feeling enough fuel the walls in your relationship The exact steps we used to break the cycle and finally open up honest conversations “Defensiveness isn’t the problem. Disconnection is. When you meet the defense with compassion instead of fighting it, everythin...

“Resentment isn’t about your partner at all” In this episode we reveal the truth about resentment: Why resentment is really grief, sadness, and unmet needsHow unspoken needs become premeditated resentmentThe exact steps to shift from resentment into appreciation “Resentment isn’t an excuse. It’s the reason. And when you feel it instead of fighting it, you can finally be free.” If you have ever thought: I’m doing everything on my ownMy partner should just know what I needThings will get...

“Most marriages do not fail because of a lack of love” In this episode we reveal the real reason relationships break down: The lies couples believe The hidden patterns that keep them stuck The truth that can save your marriage starting today “It only takes one of you to change the entire direction of your marriage. The right time is not later. The right time is now” If you have ever thought: We will reconnect when life slows down It is just a stage it will pass We tried therapy it did no...

“We sat in therapy week after week… and nothing changed.” In this episode we open up about: The sessions that left us more frustrated The missing piece no one told us about The shift that finally brought us back together “It wasn’t more talking or analysing the past. It was learning how to truly connect, in the moments that mattered most.” If you have ever felt like therapy did not work for you… this episode is for you. Save this for when you feel stuck. Share it with someone who needs t...

“We were so close to giving up on our marriage…” In our very first episode, we open up about the raw truth behind our relationship: The near-divorce. The breakdowns. The moment everything almost ended. “It wasn’t therapy or some big breakthrough. It was one small, uncomfortable decision, over and over, that changed everything.” If you’ve ever been on the edge, wondering if the love is still there… You are not alone. And this episode is for you. ❤️‍🩹 Save this for when it gets hard...

Goodbye for now beautiful…I started the Worthy Woman podcast a little over 2 years ago now because women just like you were asking me to and ever since I made that courageous decision I have loved every minute of it. This episode will be the last for a little while as I’m currently working on some incredibly exciting plans behind the scenes for the podcast in 2024. Before I share all the details I wanted to say a huge thank you to you all. Thank you for listening to the podcast and thank you ...

Unveiling Our First-Ever Recreate Your Relationship Retreat in Perth, Western Australia! 🌟In this episode, we're thrilled to unveil our FIRST-EVER 1-Day Relationship Retreat in the Perth, Western Australia. And because it's our inaugural retreat, brace yourselves for a mind-blowing 78% OFF! Yes, you heard it right!Imagine spending just 5 hours discovering the exact steps to release the past, grow together, and finally create the relationship you've been yearning for. Picture leaving the retre...