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Shift Your Story, Change Your Life
Ally Rose
37 episodes
5 days ago
Ally is committed to helping you break free from subconscious blocks, self-sabotage, and the stories that are keeping you stuck so you can create lasting success in your life, health, business, and relationships. Each episode features deep dives around habits and thought patterns that may be holding you back, real-time coaching where someone breaks through a subconscious block, and honest conversations that spark real change from the inside out.
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Ally is committed to helping you break free from subconscious blocks, self-sabotage, and the stories that are keeping you stuck so you can create lasting success in your life, health, business, and relationships. Each episode features deep dives around habits and thought patterns that may be holding you back, real-time coaching where someone breaks through a subconscious block, and honest conversations that spark real change from the inside out.
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Shift Your Story, Change Your Life
37 | Why the Same Pattern Keeps Showing Up: Let This Be The Year It Finally Shifts with Amber Annette

This week’s episode is a little different.


Instead of hosting or coaching, I’m on the other side of the mic in a deep, honest conversation with my friend and colleague, Amber Annette, on her podcast The Business Psychic Podcast.


Amber and I have known each other for years, and this conversation feels far less like an interview and much more like two practitioners pulling back the curtain on the patterns we see over and over again in our own lives and in the lives of the people we support.


We talk about why fresh starts so often don’t stick, and why the same patterns can keep resurfacing even after years of personal growth, therapy, strategy, and “doing the work.”


A big theme throughout this episode is reframing self-sabotage. Not as something you’re doing wrong, but as something that once helped you stay safe. We explore how many of the behaviors people want to eliminate, procrastination, overthinking, avoidance, perfectionism, staying small, are actually protective responses rooted in early experiences.


I share my own journey into hypnotherapy, what shifted for me personally after years of traditional talk therapy, and why working at the subconscious level creates change that feels lighter, faster, and more sustainable.


Amber and I also talk about:

  • Why insight and awareness alone don’t always lead to lasting change
  • How beliefs formed early in life quietly shape the way we show up in business and relationships
  • The difference between self-sabotage and self-protection
  • Why trying harder can actually keep you stuck
  • What it looks like when a belief has truly been rewired
  • How nervous system safety creates ease, clarity, and momentum


This conversation is especially for you if you’ve ever thought, “I’ve done so much inner work… why am I still struggling with this same pattern?”

Nothing is wrong with you. You’re just running old programming that hasn’t been updated yet, and that can change.


Resources & Links:

  • Listen to more from Amber: The Business Psychic Podcast
  • Connect with Amber: https://amberannette.com
  • Want to work together 1:1? Click here to schedule your Connection Call
  • Learn more or apply to be coached on the podcast: shiftyourstorypodcast.com
  • Connect with me on Instagram & Facebook


Your Next Steps:

If this episode resonated, I’d love for you to subscribe, rate, and leave a review.


And if someone came to mind while listening, someone who keeps starting over, repeating the same patterns, or wondering why change hasn’t stuck yet, share this episode with them.


Sometimes the most powerful shift is realizing that you’re not doing something wrong. You’ve been protecting yourself, and when safety comes first, real change becomes possible.

🎙️ The Shift Your Story Podcast

© 2025 Ally Rose | All Rights Reserved

💌 Contact: ally@therootedwellnesscollective.com

✨ Want to be coached on the podcast? Apply here

🫶🏾 Let’s connect:

Instagram | Facebook | Website


Disclaimer:

The information shared on this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, or cure any condition, nor does it constitute a therapeutic relationship. All views expressed are my own. You should always consult with your own medical, mental health, legal, and financial professionals before making any decisions.

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1 week ago
41 minutes 31 seconds

Shift Your Story, Change Your Life
36 | Rewind: Hypnosis and Hypnotherapy Q&A: Your Questions Answered Part 2

What is the subconscious, really? What actually happens inside a hypnotherapy session? Can it bring up painful memories? And does it actually work for things like emotional eating, weight loss, or self-sabotage?


This week, we’re rewinding one of the most listened-to episodes from earlier this year.


If you joined us last week for Part 1 of this listener-submitted Q&A series, this episode picks up right where we left off.


In Part 2, my dear friend, author, and Writing Black Joy podcast host Safiya Robinson joins me again for an honest, grounded conversation about what hypnotherapy really looks like beyond the myths, fear, and confusion.


We talk through what happens during a session, how we gently explore root causes without retraumatizing, what people mean when they say they’re “resistant,” and how online hypnosis actually works. We also unpack why the subconscious holds onto patterns like emotional eating, fear of visibility, perfectionism, or harsh self-talk, because that’s how it learned to protect you.


If you’ve been curious but cautious… skeptical but intrigued… or quietly wondering if subconscious work could support you, this episode will offer clarity.


What You’ll Learn:

  • What actually happens during a hypnotherapy session, step by step
  • How past memories and inner child work are approached safely and intentionally
  • Why hypnosis can still work even if you’re skeptical, anxious, or doing it online
  • How subconscious belief shifts support weight loss, emotional eating, and self-sabotage
  • What to know if you’re spiritual or religious and unsure about hypnosis


Resources & Mentions:

  • Want to work together 1:1? Click here to book your Connection Call
  • Apply to be coached on the podcast: shiftyourstorypodcast.com
  • Hang out with me on Instagram and Facebook
  • Click here to download your Safe Place Hypnosis


Your Next Steps:

Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and leave a review for the podcast. And if this episode sparked something in you, share it with a friend who’s ready to rewire the patterns holding them back.

🎙️ The Shift Your Story Podcast

© 2025 Ally Rose | All Rights Reserved

💌 Contact: ally@therootedwellnesscollective.com

✨ Want to be coached on the podcast? Apply here

🫶🏾 Let’s connect:

Instagram | Facebook | Website


Disclaimer:

The information shared on this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, or cure any condition, nor does it constitute a therapeutic relationship. All views expressed are my own. You should always consult with your own medical, mental health, legal, and financial professionals before making any decisions.

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2 weeks ago
21 minutes 36 seconds

Shift Your Story, Change Your Life
35 | Rewind: Hypnosis and Hypnotherapy Q&A: Your Questions Answered: Part 1

This week, we’re rewinding back to Episode #2: Hypnosis and Hypnotherapy Q&A - Your Questions Answered: Part 1, one of the most downloaded episodes of the entire year. It’s sitting just under 400 listens, which tells me people are far more curious about hypnotherapy than they often admit out loud.


And that’s exactly why I wanted to bring this one back.

There is still so much confusion and fear around hypnosis, mind control myths, stage tricks, “am I going to cluck like a chicken?” (yes, we talk about that).


And demystifying this work matters to me, because so many of the patterns people feel ashamed of, procrastination, money struggles, emotional eating, and perfectionism, are not personal failures. 


They’re subconscious programs, and once you understand that, everything changes.


So if you’re new here, this replay is the perfect introduction to my work. 


If you missed it the first time, here’s your chance to hear it without digging through the archive.


And if you’re thinking about working with me in 2026, this gives you a clear sense of how I approach subconscious change and why it works.


What You'll Learn:

  • The difference between hypnosis and hypnotherapy
  • How hypnosis compares to meditation (and why they serve different purposes)
  • Why hypnosis is NOT mind control, and what really happens in a session
  • When hypnotherapy creates instant shifts vs. when change unfolds over time
  • How hypnotherapy can complement talk therapy and medication (and where the limits are)


Resources & Mentions:

  • Learn more or apply to be coached on the podcast: shiftyourstorypodcast.com
  • Connect with Ally on Instagram & Facebook: @theallyrose


Your Next Steps:

Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and leave a review for the podcast, and share this episode with someone who might be ready to experience a different kind of healing.

🎙️ The Shift Your Story Podcast

© 2025 Ally Rose | All Rights Reserved

💌 Contact: ally@therootedwellnesscollective.com

✨ Want to be coached on the podcast? Apply here

🫶🏾 Let’s connect:

Instagram | Facebook | Website


Disclaimer:

The information shared on this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, or cure any condition, nor does it constitute a therapeutic relationship. All views expressed are my own. You should always consult with your own medical, mental health, legal, and financial professionals before making any decisions.

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3 weeks ago
25 minutes 17 seconds

Shift Your Story, Change Your Life
34 | When Fear of Failure and Fear of Success Collide: A Hypnocoaching Session

This week’s hypnocoaching session is with a woman who has been working hard to grow her business, but nothing is really moving the way she expected. She’s showing up, she’s doing the inner work, she’s trying all the things, and still feeling like something is blocking her, but she can’t quite figure out what it is.


As we talk, it becomes clear she’s caught in a very real, very confusing place: wanting the next level… and feeling scared of it at the same time. Scared of failing, yes… but also unsure of what success might demand from her, change in her life, or reveal about her. It’s a kind of tension that lives quietly under the surface, and most people never say it out loud.


Inside the hypnosis, the part of her that’s been holding everything back finally gets a voice, and by the end of the session, that part of her gets what it never had: safety, clarity, and permission to stop carrying a job it took on a long time ago. And because of that, she gets to walk away with a different sense of herself and her capacity to grow.


What You’ll Hear in This Episode

  • How fear of failure and fear of success often show up at the same time
  • Why you can do “everything right” and still feel stuck
  • The difference between lacking strategy and being subconsciously protected
  • How your body responds when something doesn’t feel safe, even if you logically want it
  • What happens when the part of you that’s been holding you back is finally understood


Resources and Links

  • Want to work together 1:1? Click here to book your Connection Call
  • Apply to be coached on the podcast: shiftyourstorypodcast.com
  • Hang out with me on Instagram and Facebook


Your Next Steps

If this episode resonates, subscribe, rate, and leave a review.


And if someone in your world is working hard but feels blocked in a way they can’t explain, send this episode to them. Sometimes we don’t need motivation… we just need to understand the story underneath the struggle.

🎙️ The Shift Your Story Podcast

© 2025 Ally Rose | All Rights Reserved

💌 Contact: ally@therootedwellnesscollective.com

✨ Want to be coached on the podcast? Apply here

🫶🏾 Let’s connect:

Instagram | Facebook | Website


Disclaimer:

The information shared on this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, or cure any condition, nor does it constitute a therapeutic relationship. All views expressed are my own. You should always consult with your own medical, mental health, legal, and financial professionals before making any decisions.

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1 month ago
38 minutes 21 seconds

Shift Your Story, Change Your Life
33 | Anti-Hustle Healing - Outgrowing the “I’m Not Smart” Story with Shannon Whaley

This week, I sat down with my friend Shannon Whaley to talk about something a lot of us carry without realizing it, the stories we were told when we were young, and how they quietly shape the way we love, work, and trust ourselves as adults.


Shannon grew up hearing a message that followed her well into her 30s: “You’re not smart.”


And even though she went on to get multiple degrees, certifications, and build a successful business, that old story kept showing up in her relationships, her choices, and especially in the moments when she ignored her intuition.


In this episode, we talk about:


  • What it’s like growing up in chaos
  • Why she stayed in relationships she knew weren’t right
  • How addiction and escaping played into the bigger story
  • Getting sober at 34 and rebuilding her entire life
  • The difference between hustle and survival
  • The identity shifts that helped her trust herself again


Shannon also shares the practices that grounded her, journaling, visioning, inner child work, and how she slowly built a life that actually feels like hers, not the one she was programmed to believe she was limited to.


If you've ever carried an old belief about yourself, or felt like you were living out a story someone else wrote, this conversation will hit home.


What You’ll Learn


  • How one sentence can shape decades of behavior
  • Why so many of us override our intuition
  • How trauma shows up in high-achievers
  • What it looks like to start over
  • The role of identity work in real healing
  • How Shannon built an anti-hustle, aligned life


Connect with Shannon


  • Download your Anti-Hustle Business Checklist here: https://shannonwhaley.myflodesk.com/checklist
  • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theshannonwhaley/
  • Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/shannonkwhaley/
  • Anti-Hustle Business Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-anti-hustle-business-podcast/id1762374185
  • Website: shannonwhaley.com


Resources & Links


  • Want to work together 1:1? Click here to book your Connection Call
  • Learn more or apply to be a guest or coached on the podcast: shiftyourstorypodcast.com
  • Connect with me on Instagram & Facebook: @theallyrose


Your Next Steps


If this episode resonates, subscribe, rate, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs the reminder that they’re allowed to rewrite their story, too.

🎙️ The Shift Your Story Podcast

© 2025 Ally Rose | All Rights Reserved

💌 Contact: ally@therootedwellnesscollective.com

✨ Want to be coached on the podcast? Apply here

🫶🏾 Let’s connect:

Instagram | Facebook | Website


Disclaimer:

The information shared on this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, or cure any condition, nor does it constitute a therapeutic relationship. All views expressed are my own. You should always consult with your own medical, mental health, legal, and financial professionals before making any decisions.

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1 month ago
47 minutes 46 seconds

Shift Your Story, Change Your Life
32 | How Gratitude Rewires Your Subconscious Mind, Even When You Don't Feel Grateful

In this solo episode, I’m diving into the real side of gratitude.


Not the fluffy “write three things in your journal” version, or the pressure-filled “just be grateful” advice.


But the subconscious, neurological, and deeply human layers of gratitude, especially for those who grew up in chaos, survival mode, or environments where softening never felt safe.


We explore why gratitude often feels fake, irritating, or out of reach, and why your nervous system might actually resist it. You will learn how real gratitude, the kind you feel in your body rather than think in your head, creates micro moments of safety that your subconscious uses to rewire old patterns.


Then we go deeper into future gratitude, the practice of feeling grateful for the life you are creating before it arrives, and why your brain responds to imagined emotions with the same intensity as real ones. This is where identity shifting happens.


What You Will Learn:


  • Why gratitude often feels fake, forced, or unavailable, and why that is normal
  • The subconscious reason your brain resists gratitude when you are in survival mode
  • The difference between present and future gratitude
  • How gratitude regulates the nervous system on a physiological level
  • Why your brain cannot tell the difference between real and imagined emotions
  • Simple ways to start practicing both types of gratitude (present and future) today


Resources and Links


  • Want to work together 1:1? Click here to book your Connection Call
  • Learn more or apply to be coached on the podcast: shiftyourstorypodcast.com
  • Connect with Ally on Instagram & Facebook: @theallyrose


Your Next Steps


If this episode resonated, make sure to subscribe, rate, and leave a review. It helps more people find this work.


And if you know someone who struggles with gratitude, feels guilty for not being “more grateful,” or lives in constant survival mode, send them this episode.


It might help them understand that their struggle with gratitude is a subconscious protection pattern, and like all patterns, it can be rewired.

🎙️ The Shift Your Story Podcast

© 2025 Ally Rose | All Rights Reserved

💌 Contact: ally@therootedwellnesscollective.com

✨ Want to be coached on the podcast? Apply here

🫶🏾 Let’s connect:

Instagram | Facebook | Website


Disclaimer:

The information shared on this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, or cure any condition, nor does it constitute a therapeutic relationship. All views expressed are my own. You should always consult with your own medical, mental health, legal, and financial professionals before making any decisions.

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1 month ago
21 minutes 8 seconds

Shift Your Story, Change Your Life
31 | The Real Reason You Over-Explain and How to Heal It: A Hypnocoaching Session with Nicki

In this week’s hypnocoaching session, you’ll meet Nicki, a kind, self-aware woman who has spent most of her life trying to be understood.

She doesn’t just explain things; she overexplains them. In texts. In conversations. In moments of conflict.


As we go deeper into the session, we discover where this pattern began: a childhood moment when love felt conditional and peace depended on keeping others calm. The part of her that learned to justify everything wasn’t wrong. It was protecting her from being rejected, blamed, or left alone.

But what once kept her safe is now keeping her small, and in this session, that part finally gets to rest.


What You’ll Hear in This Episode

  • The real reason we overexplain and what we’re actually trying to protect
  • How childhood conditioning trains your nervous system to equate safety with control
  • Why some parts of you can’t relax, even when life finally feels calm
  • What it means to give that part a new role rooted in reflection, not justification
  • How to integrate your younger self so you feel whole, grounded, and free


Resources and Links

  • Want to work together 1:1? Click here to book your Connection Call
  • Apply to be coached on the podcast: shiftyourstorypodcast.com
  • Hang out with me on Instagram and Facebook


Your Next Steps

If this episode hit home, subscribe, rate, and leave a review.


And if you know someone who can’t stop explaining themselves, even when they don’t owe anyone an explanation, share this episode with them.


Because sometimes overexplaining isn’t overthinking. It’s overprotecting. A child’s way of saying, “If I can make sense to them, maybe I’ll be safe.”

🎙️ The Shift Your Story Podcast

© 2025 Ally Rose | All Rights Reserved

💌 Contact: ally@therootedwellnesscollective.com

✨ Want to be coached on the podcast? Apply here

🫶🏾 Let’s connect:

Instagram | Facebook | Website


Disclaimer:

The information shared on this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, or cure any condition, nor does it constitute a therapeutic relationship. All views expressed are my own. You should always consult with your own medical, mental health, legal, and financial professionals before making any decisions.

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1 month ago
33 minutes 25 seconds

Shift Your Story, Change Your Life
30 | The Subconscious Roots of People-Pleasing: Why Saying “Yes” Feels Safer Than Being Yourself

In this episode, Safiya and I unpack one of the most exhausting and misunderstood patterns so many of us carry: the deep, subconscious pull to keep everyone else comfortable, even when it costs us our own peace.


We explore how people-pleasing isn’t really about being nice, it’s about safety. When your nervous system learns that harmony equals survival, saying “yes” becomes a reflex, not a choice.


Together, we talk about the childhood experiences, family dynamics, and cultural conditioning that train us to equate approval with worth and rejection with danger. We also explore how this pattern becomes part of our identity, the helper, the fixer, the easygoing one, and what it actually looks like to heal without swinging to the other extreme of being detached or cold.


From the physical exhaustion that comes from managing everyone’s emotions, to the quiet resentment that builds when you abandon your own needs, this conversation will help you understand why people-pleasing runs so deep, and how to start finding safety in simply being yourself.


What You’ll Learn

  • Why people-pleasing is less about kindness and more about safety
  • How early family and cultural dynamics shape approval-seeking behavior
  • The difference between genuine generosity and self-abandonment
  • How your subconscious links safety to control and emotional regulation
  • What it means to care without losing yourself in the process
  • Small, practical ways to start feeling safe saying “no”


Resources & Links

  • Want to work together 1:1? Click here to book your Connection Call
  • Learn more or apply to be coached on the podcast: shiftyourstorypodcast.com
  • Connect with Ally on Instagram & Facebook: @theallyrose


Your Next Steps

If this episode resonated, subscribe, rate, and leave a review.


And if you know someone who feels like they’re carrying the weight of everyone else’s emotions, send them this episode. It might help them see that their people-pleasing isn’t who they are, it’s just a safety story. And that story can be rewritten.

🎙️ The Shift Your Story Podcast

© 2025 Ally Rose | All Rights Reserved

💌 Contact: ally@therootedwellnesscollective.com

✨ Want to be coached on the podcast? Apply here

🫶🏾 Let’s connect:

Instagram | Facebook | Website


Disclaimer:

The information shared on this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, or cure any condition, nor does it constitute a therapeutic relationship. All views expressed are my own. You should always consult with your own medical, mental health, legal, and financial professionals before making any decisions.

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1 month ago
39 minutes 26 seconds

Shift Your Story, Change Your Life
29 | The Superhero Identity Shift: Why Mindset Beats Motivation with Greg Fearon

What if transformation wasn’t about pushing harder, but about becoming the person who no longer needs to?


In this week’s episode, I sit down with Greg Fearon, creator of The Million Dollar Body Method, to explore how identity, not discipline, shapes every result we create in health, business, and life.


Greg shares what it was like growing up in London as the child of Jamaican immigrants, and how stories about money, success, and worth shaped his path long before he became a personal trainer and nutrition coach. We talk about the subconscious stories women carry about rest, responsibility, and deservingness, and why so many of us mistake exhaustion for achievement.


Greg’s work is rooted in what he calls The Superhero Identity Method, helping women build a vision of who they want to become, then align their daily choices with that future self. Because lasting change doesn’t come from more willpower. It comes from rewriting the story of who you believe yourself to be.


What You’ll Learn


  • Why information and discipline alone don’t create transformation
  • How identity shapes your health, energy, and self-worth
  • The hidden story behind “I don’t have time”
  • Why rest is a leadership skill, not a luxury
  • How to align your daily habits with your future self


Connect with Greg


  • Grab Greg's 7-Day Meal Guide: https://bit.ly/7Daymealguide
  • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/greg_fearon/
  • Website: https://www.gregfearon.co.uk/


Resources & Links


  • Want to work together 1:1? Click here to book your Connection Call
  • Learn more or apply to be a guest or coached on the podcast: shiftyourstorypodcast.com
  • Connect with me on Instagram & Facebook: @theallyrose


Your Next Steps


If this episode speaks to you, take a moment to check in with your body today.

Not with judgment, with curiosity.


Ask yourself: What version of me would make this next choice?

Would she rest? Move? Nourish? Breathe?


Because every workout, every meal, every breath is a conversation between who you’ve been and who you’re becoming.


If this conversation helped you rethink your approach to health, subscribe, rate, and leave a review, and share it with someone ready to build strength from the inside out.

🎙️ The Shift Your Story Podcast

© 2025 Ally Rose | All Rights Reserved

💌 Contact: ally@therootedwellnesscollective.com

✨ Want to be coached on the podcast? Apply here

🫶🏾 Let’s connect:

Instagram | Facebook | Website


Disclaimer:

The information shared on this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, or cure any condition, nor does it constitute a therapeutic relationship. All views expressed are my own. You should always consult with your own medical, mental health, legal, and financial professionals before making any decisions.

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2 months ago
40 minutes 50 seconds

Shift Your Story, Change Your Life
28 | How ‘Good Girl’ Conditioning Keeps You from Creating the Impact and Income You Desire: A Hypnocoaching Session with Yvette

In this week’s hypnocoaching session, you’ll meet Yvette, a money mindset coach who helps women shift their beliefs around wealth, except when it comes to her own business.


Money flows to her easily in every other area of life, yet in business, it feels like a grind. No matter what she tries, something invisible seems to block the flow.


As we go deeper into the session, we discover where that block began: a childhood moment that taught her success and being “too much” could make her unlovable. The same part of her that’s been protecting her from disappointment has also been protecting her from ease.


This session isn’t about forcing abundance; it’s about making safety the foundation of success. Because once your nervous system feels safe receiving, ease becomes the new normal.


What You’ll Hear in This Episode

  • How “good girl” conditioning shapes your relationship with money
  • Why ease can feel unsafe when struggle once meant safety
  • The deeper fear behind charging for your gifts
  • What happens when guilt and worthiness get tangled
  • How to rewire your subconscious to allow both impact and income


Resources & Links

  • Want to work together 1:1? Click here to book your Connection Call
  • Apply to be coached on the podcast: shiftyourstorypodcast.com
  • Hang out with me on Instagram and Facebook


Your Next Steps

If this episode resonated, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review.


And if you know someone who keeps giving, grinding, and overdelivering, yet still struggles to receive, share this episode with them.


Because sometimes the struggle isn’t self-sabotage. It’s a subconscious promise you made long ago, to stay small so you’d stay safe.

🎙️ The Shift Your Story Podcast

© 2025 Ally Rose | All Rights Reserved

💌 Contact: ally@therootedwellnesscollective.com

✨ Want to be coached on the podcast? Apply here

🫶🏾 Let’s connect:

Instagram | Facebook | Website


Disclaimer:

The information shared on this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, or cure any condition, nor does it constitute a therapeutic relationship. All views expressed are my own. You should always consult with your own medical, mental health, legal, and financial professionals before making any decisions.

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2 months ago
32 minutes 54 seconds

Shift Your Story, Change Your Life
27 | The Subconscious Roots of Perfectionism: When High Achievement Is Just Hidden Fear

In this episode, Safiya and I dive into one of the most misunderstood patterns in high achievers: the subconscious drive to get it “just right” as a way to feel in control, worthy, and safe.


We explore how perfectionism isn’t really about doing things perfectly. It’s about protection. When you grow up learning that love or stability depended on being good, quiet, or high-performing, your subconscious mind learns to equate “getting it right” with survival.


Together, we unpack how perfectionism can look like strength, ambition, or discipline on the surface, while underneath it’s fueled by fear of rejection, failure, or disappointing others.


From family dynamics and cultural conditioning to the nervous system’s response to mistakes, this conversation shines light on how deeply perfectionism is wired into our stories and how to begin rewriting it so you can rest, release control, and live with more ease.


What You’ll Learn

  • Why perfectionism is more about safety than high standards
  • How early family and cultural messages shape perfectionistic behavior
  • The connection between control, chaos, and childhood survival strategies
  • The link between perfectionism, burnout, and nervous system dysregulation
  • How perfectionism hides behind “high achievement” in business and relationships
  • What it takes to feel safe enough to let go of control and still trust yourself


Resources & Links

  • Want to work together 1:1? Click here to book your Connection Call
  • Learn more or apply to be coached on the podcast: shiftyourstorypodcast.com
  • Connect with Ally on Instagram & Facebook: @theallyrose


Your Next Steps


If this episode resonated with you, make sure to subscribe, rate, and leave a review.


And if you know someone who’s stuck in the endless loop of “never enough,” send them this episode. It might help them see that their perfectionism is an old safety story, and that story can be rewritten.

🎙️ The Shift Your Story Podcast

© 2025 Ally Rose | All Rights Reserved

💌 Contact: ally@therootedwellnesscollective.com

✨ Want to be coached on the podcast? Apply here

🫶🏾 Let’s connect:

Instagram | Facebook | Website


Disclaimer:

The information shared on this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, or cure any condition, nor does it constitute a therapeutic relationship. All views expressed are my own. You should always consult with your own medical, mental health, legal, and financial professionals before making any decisions.

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2 months ago
35 minutes 34 seconds

Shift Your Story, Change Your Life
26 | What Your Fear of Being Seen Is Trying to Teach You: A Hypnocoaching Session with Jagoda

In this week’s hypnocoaching session, you’ll meet Jagoda, a coach who’s built her business on helping others heal, but finds herself stuck when it comes to showing up online. She writes posts, rewrites them five times, and then never hits publish.


On the surface, it looks like procrastination. But underneath is something much deeper: a part of her that’s terrified of being fully seen.


As we go under hypnosis, we uncover where that fear began. This session isn’t about pushing past fear. It’s about understanding its purpose.


Because sometimes the part that keeps you hidden isn’t trying to sabotage your success, it’s trying to keep you safe until you trust yourself enough to step forward again.


And that’s the moment everything shifts.


What You’ll Hear in This Episode


  • How childhood shame can evolve into visibility blocks
  • The real reason fear of judgment keeps us silent
  • What your inner protector is trying to teach you
  • Why strategy won’t help until self-trust feels safe
  • How to start showing up from authenticity, not armor


Resources & Links


  • Want to work together 1:1? Click here to book your Connection Call
  • Apply to be coached on the podcast: shiftyourstorypodcast.com
  • Hang out with me on Instagram and Facebook


Your Next Steps


If this episode resonated, subscribe, rate, and leave a review.


And if you know someone who keeps holding back, rewriting, hesitating, hiding, share this with them.


Sometimes the fear isn’t the problem. It’s the message you’ve been missing underneath it.

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© 2025 Ally Rose | All Rights Reserved

💌 Contact: ally@therootedwellnesscollective.com

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Disclaimer:

The information shared on this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, or cure any condition, nor does it constitute a therapeutic relationship. All views expressed are my own. You should always consult with your own medical, mental health, legal, and financial professionals before making any decisions.

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2 months ago
36 minutes 15 seconds

Shift Your Story, Change Your Life
25 | How Small Steps and Big Questions Can Shift Your Story with Safiya Robinson

What if the questions you ask yourself matter more than the answers you chase?


In this week’s episode, I sit down with my co-host and friend, Safiya Robinson, to explore how curiosity and small steps can shift the deepest stories we carry.


Safiya shares what it was like growing up in Barbados, the beauty, the bonds, and the silent beliefs she didn’t even know she was carrying. From feeling like she didn’t fit in, to questioning whether people truly cared for her, to realizing later in life that many of those stories weren’t true at all.


Along the way, Safiya discovered the power of asking different questions and taking small, doable steps. Questions like: What if I was wrong about myself? What else could be possible? And steps like finishing a blog post, writing a book, or daring to send an email that opened a door.


This conversation is a reminder that change doesn’t come from knowing all the answers. It comes from staying curious, asking expansive questions, and taking one small step at a time.


What You’ll Learn

  • How small experiments build self-trust
  • Why asking different questions can unlock new possibilities
  • The hidden weight of childhood beliefs (and how to release them)
  • Why there’s no such thing as a “proper adult”


Connect with Safiya


Website: www.writingblackjoy.com


The Writing Black Joy Podcast: 

  • Apple Podcasts
  • Spotify
  • YouTube


Resources & Links

  • Want to work together 1:1? Click here to book your Connection Call
  • Learn more or apply to be a guest or coached on the podcast: shiftyourstorypodcast.com
  • Connect with me on Instagram & Facebook: @theallyrose


Your Next Steps

If this episode resonates with you, subscribe, rate, and leave a review.


And if you know someone who feels stuck in old stories or unsure of their next steps, share this episode with them.


Sometimes one honest story is all it takes to shift your own.

🎙️ The Shift Your Story Podcast

© 2025 Ally Rose | All Rights Reserved

💌 Contact: ally@therootedwellnesscollective.com

✨ Want to be coached on the podcast? Apply here

🫶🏾 Let’s connect:

Instagram | Facebook | Website


Disclaimer:

The information shared on this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, or cure any condition, nor does it constitute a therapeutic relationship. All views expressed are my own. You should always consult with your own medical, mental health, legal, and financial professionals before making any decisions.

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3 months ago
49 minutes 29 seconds

Shift Your Story, Change Your Life
24 | When Connection Feels Unsafe: A Hypnocoaching Session on Rewriting Childhood Rules

What if the reason you keep pulling back isn’t because you’re inconsistent, but because a part of you learned that connection wasn’t safe?


In this week’s hypnocoaching session, you’ll hear from someone who’s been caught in the push-pull of showing up and then shutting down. She’d pour her heart into creating, sharing, giving… only to retreat when it all felt too exposing.


On the outside, it looked like a lack of follow-through. But underneath was a little girl who once got told, “Don’t get too big for your boots.” A child who learned that shining too brightly came with ridicule, and that the safest way to protect herself was to hold back.


This session isn’t about forcing consistency or hustling harder. It’s about seeing the truth: the parts of us that block connection aren’t trying to sabotage us. They’re trying to protect us.


And when we finally understand what they’ve been guarding us from, connection stops feeling dangerous and starts feeling possible.


What You’ll Hear in This Episode


  • The childhood moment that shaped a lifelong pattern of pulling back


  • Why disconnection can feel safer than being seen


  • How overgiving and self-sacrifice masquerade as love


  • What shifts when you listen to your patterns instead of fighting them


Resources & Links


  • Want to work together 1:1? Click here to book your Connection Call


  • Apply to be coached on the podcast: shiftyourstorypodcast.com


  • Hang out with me on Instagram & Facebook: @theallyrose


Your Next Steps


If this episode resonates, subscribe, rate, and leave a review.


And if you know someone who’s been wrestling with that push-pull between wanting to connect and feeling safer alone, share this with them.


Sometimes the shift begins when you hear someone else put words to what you’ve been carrying.


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© 2025 Ally Rose | All Rights Reserved

💌 Contact: ally@therootedwellnesscollective.com

✨ Want to be coached on the podcast? Apply here

🫶🏾 Let’s connect:

Instagram | Facebook | Website


Disclaimer:

The information shared on this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, or cure any condition, nor does it constitute a therapeutic relationship. All views expressed are my own. You should always consult with your own medical, mental health, legal, and financial professionals before making any decisions.

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3 months ago
45 minutes 4 seconds

Shift Your Story, Change Your Life
23 | Self-Sabotage in Life and Business: Why Success Doesn’t Feel Safe with Rachel Feldman

This week, I’m bringing you something a little different. Instead of me hosting, I’m on the other side of the mic with wellness business coach and Healthy Hustle Podcast host, Rachel Feldman.


Rachel and I have known each other for nearly a decade, so this conversation feels less like an interview and more like pulling back the curtain on the real patterns that keep showing up for entrepreneurs in their lives and businesses.


We talk about self-sabotage, not just the obvious forms like procrastination or perfectionism, but the deeper wounds that make visibility feel unsafe, or charging for your services feel like betrayal.


I share parts of my own story, the beliefs I’ve had to rewire around being seen, and how nervous system safety always has to come before strategy if you want your business to be sustainable.


You’ll hear how childhood stories quietly shape the way we show up in business, why success can feel terrifying even when we want it, and how to start building the capacity to let yourself be fully seen.


If you’ve ever felt like you’re the one standing in your own way, this conversation will help you see there's nothing wrong with you; you’re just running old programming that can be rewritten.


Resources & Links:


  • Listen to more from Rachel: Healthy Hustle Podcast
  • Connect with Rachel: https://rachelafeldman.com/
  • Want to work together 1:1? Click here to schedule your Connection Call
  • Learn more or apply to be coached on the podcast: shiftyourstorypodcast.com
  • Connect with me on Instagram & Facebook


Your Next Steps:


If this episode resonated, I’d love for you to subscribe, rate, and leave a review.


And if you know someone who keeps sabotaging themselves by hiding, overworking, or downplaying their worth, share this episode with them.


Sometimes the most powerful shift is realizing: you’re not lazy or flawed, you just need to feel safe enough to step into the success you desire.


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© 2025 Ally Rose | All Rights Reserved

💌 Contact: ally@therootedwellnesscollective.com

✨ Want to be coached on the podcast? Apply here

🫶🏾 Let’s connect:

Instagram | Facebook | Website


Disclaimer:

The information shared on this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, or cure any condition, nor does it constitute a therapeutic relationship. All views expressed are my own. You should always consult with your own medical, mental health, legal, and financial professionals before making any decisions.

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3 months ago
34 minutes 41 seconds

Shift Your Story, Change Your Life
22 | From Scarcity to Feeling Safe with Money: A Hypnocoaching Session with Felicia

What if the reason you can’t hold onto money wasn’t irresponsibility, but a part of you trying to keep you safe?


In this week’s session, I sit down with Felicia, who has carried a scarcity mindset for most of her life.

It showed up in the money she saved, only to spend it all at once.

It showed up in the way she never quite felt secure, even when the bills were paid.

And it showed up in the quiet belief that having money wasn’t safe.


On the outside, Felicia has always been the dependable one, the one who works hard, pays everything on time, and makes sure the essentials are covered.


But underneath was a constant loop: If I hold onto money, it could be taken. If I stay in scarcity, at least I’m safe.


In our session, Felicia meets the part of herself that created this story.

The part that thought it was protecting her from loss, betrayal, and judgment.

This conversation is a reminder that the patterns we struggle with are rarely here to punish us. 

They started as protectors, and when we meet them with compassion, we finally create the space to let them go.


What You’ll Learn

  • How childhood moments can shape lifelong money patterns
  • Why scarcity can feel safer than abundance
  • The hidden ways sabotage shows up as protection
  • What shifts when you listen to your patterns instead of fighting them


Resources & Links

  • Want to work together 1:1? Click here to book your Connection Call
  • Learn more or apply to be coached on the podcast: shiftyourstorypodcast.com
  • Connect with me on Instagram & Facebook: @theallyrose


Your Next Steps

If this episode resonates with you, subscribe, rate, and leave a review.


And if you know someone who’s been caught in the same money patterns, share this with them. 


Sometimes one story is all it takes to remind us we’re not alone.


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🎙️ The Shift Your Story Podcast

© 2025 Ally Rose | All Rights Reserved

💌 Contact: ally@therootedwellnesscollective.com

✨ Want to be coached on the podcast? Apply here

🫶🏾 Let’s connect:

Instagram | Facebook | Website


Disclaimer:

The information shared on this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, or cure any condition, nor does it constitute a therapeutic relationship. All views expressed are my own. You should always consult with your own medical, mental health, legal, and financial professionals before making any decisions.

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3 months ago
39 minutes 37 seconds

Shift Your Story, Change Your Life
21 | Radical Honesty Will Set You Free

This week, I’m bringing you something a little different. Instead of me hosting, I’m on the other side of the mic, as I sit down with Sovereign Magazine's Editor-In-Chief, Nicole George.


We talk about what it really means to practice radical honesty, not the watered-down version where you tell a half-truth to keep the peace, but the kind that asks you to peel back the layers of fear, guilt, and shame so you can finally see yourself clearly.


So many of us were conditioned to keep others comfortable, to please, to stay safe. That’s why being radically honest can feel terrifying. But it’s also the doorway to freedom. In this episode, I share how honesty shows up with my clients, how it connects to subconscious safety, and why it matters more than willpower when it comes to breaking patterns.


You’ll also get to experience a live meditation where I guide you into connecting with the part of yourself that hasn’t felt safe to be fully true. Listeners of the Sovereign community said it was powerful, and I think you’ll feel that too.


If you’ve ever wondered who you are when the noise dies down and no one is telling you who to be… this conversation is for you.


Resources & Links:


  • Click here to grab your Radical Honesty Reflection Guide


  • Want to work together 1:1? Click here to book your Connection Call


  • Learn more or apply to be coached on the podcast: shiftyourstorypodcast.com


  • Connect with Ally on Instagram & Facebook: @theallyrose


  • Sovereign Magazine


  • Sovereign Magazine Podcast


Your Next Steps:


If this episode resonated with something deep within you, I’d love for you to subscribe, rate, and leave a review.


And if someone you care about keeps layering on more “shoulds” and strategies but still feels that inner tension, share this episode with them.


It might help them see they’re not doing life wrong, they just need to feel safe enough to be honest with themselves before anything else can shift.

🎙️ The Shift Your Story Podcast

© 2025 Ally Rose | All Rights Reserved

💌 Contact: ally@therootedwellnesscollective.com

✨ Want to be coached on the podcast? Apply here

🫶🏾 Let’s connect:

Instagram | Facebook | Website


Disclaimer:

The information shared on this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, or cure any condition, nor does it constitute a therapeutic relationship. All views expressed are my own. You should always consult with your own medical, mental health, legal, and financial professionals before making any decisions.

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4 months ago
19 minutes 57 seconds

Shift Your Story, Change Your Life
20 | Breaking Free from the Fear of Failure: A Hypnocoaching Session with Lou

What if your fear of failure wasn’t weakness, but a part of you trying to keep you safe?


In this week’s session, I sit down with Lou, who has carried fear of failure for most of her life.

It showed up in the jobs she didn’t apply for, the house she didn’t buy, even the day her first website went live, when she completely shut down because the thought of being seen felt unbearable.


On the outside, Lou has always been the responsible one, the strong one, the one who makes things happen.

But underneath was a constant loop: If they see me, they’ll judge me. And if they judge me, I’ll fail.


In our session, Lou meets the part of herself that created this fear.


The part that thought it was protecting her from pain, rejection, and shame.


What she discovered is that this fear wasn’t here to punish her. It was here to love her, to protect her, even though it kept her small.


This conversation is a reminder that the fears that hold us back often started as protectors. And when you meet them with compassion, you create the space to let them go.


What You’ll Learn

  • How fear of failure can weave itself into every area of life: work, money, family, self-worth
  • Why being visible can feel dangerous, even when you want to be seen
  • How childhood memories (even fuzzy ones) can write stories we keep living
  • What happens when you meet fear not with force, but with understanding


Resources & Links

  • Want to work together 1:1? Click here to book your Connection Call
  • Learn more or apply to be coached on the podcast: shiftyourstorypodcast.com
  • Connect with me on Instagram & Facebook: @theallyrose


Your Next Steps

If this episode resonates with you, subscribe, rate, and leave a review.


And if you know someone who’s been holding themselves back because of fear of failure, share this with them. Sometimes one story is all it takes to remind us we’re not alone.

🎙️ The Shift Your Story Podcast

© 2025 Ally Rose | All Rights Reserved

💌 Contact: ally@therootedwellnesscollective.com

✨ Want to be coached on the podcast? Apply here

🫶🏾 Let’s connect:

Instagram | Facebook | Website


Disclaimer:

The information shared on this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, or cure any condition, nor does it constitute a therapeutic relationship. All views expressed are my own. You should always consult with your own medical, mental health, legal, and financial professionals before making any decisions.

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4 months ago
31 minutes 31 seconds

Shift Your Story, Change Your Life
19 | The Subconscious Fear of Being Seen - Why Showing Up Feels Unsafe

What if your visibility struggles weren’t about confidence, but about the subconscious belief that being seen isn’t safe?

In this episode, Sophia and I dive into one of the most common and often hidden blocks I see in high-achievers: the subconscious fear of being seen.


We explore how this fear is rarely about stage fright or social media nerves. At its root, it’s about safety. Your subconscious mind has learned to equate visibility with risk, risk of judgment, rejection, or shame, and so it quietly protects you by keeping you small, quiet, or endlessly “perfecting” instead of showing up.


This conversation uncovers how visibility fears show up in business, relationships, and everyday life, why your nervous system resists being seen even when your conscious mind wants it, and how to begin shifting that pattern so visibility feels safe, not threatening.


What You’ll Learn:

  • How fear of being seen shows up in subtle, everyday ways
  • Why visibility blocks are really about safety, not confidence
  • The role childhood experiences play in shaping your visibility story
  • How your body signals you when a protective part is triggered
  • What it takes to create safety so you can stop hiding and start showing up


Resources & Links:

  • Take the quiz: What's Your Biggest Subconscious Business Block? You’ll also get a personalized blueprint to help you shift it, step by step.
  • Want to work together 1:1? Click here to book your Connection Call
  • Learn more or apply to be coached on the podcast: shiftyourstorypodcast.com
  • Connect with Ally on Instagram & Facebook: @theallyrose


Your Next Steps:

If this episode resonated with you, I’d love for you to subscribe, rate, and leave a review.


And if you know someone who keeps shrinking back when it’s time to show up, send them this episode.


It might help them realize they’re not lacking confidence, they’re just carrying an old story about safety. And that story can be rewritten.

🎙️ The Shift Your Story Podcast

© 2025 Ally Rose | All Rights Reserved

💌 Contact: ally@therootedwellnesscollective.com

✨ Want to be coached on the podcast? Apply here

🫶🏾 Let’s connect:

Instagram | Facebook | Website


Disclaimer:

The information shared on this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, or cure any condition, nor does it constitute a therapeutic relationship. All views expressed are my own. You should always consult with your own medical, mental health, legal, and financial professionals before making any decisions.

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4 months ago
36 minutes 42 seconds

Shift Your Story, Change Your Life
18 | The Lie That You Have to Suffer to Succeed and How to Release It: A Hypnocoaching Session

What if your belief that you have to suffer and struggle to succeed wasn’t about discipline or ambition, but about protection?


In this powerful hypnocoaching session, I work with a caller who came in feeling frustrated, guilty, and worn down from years of trying to grow her business without the financial success she expected.


On the surface, she’s deeply committed, passionate about her work, and has spent decades trusting the universe. But underneath it all, there’s a quiet, persistent belief: I have to suffer more before I can succeed.


As we go deeper, we uncover where this pattern began, a moment from early childhood when her deep sensitivity felt like “too much” for others to see. From that point on, a part of her worked to protect her by toughening her up, hiding her vulnerability, and keeping her joy and spirituality out of sight.


Together, we meet that part with understanding. Because when you see how a part of you believes struggle is safety, you can start to let it go and choose a different path.


This session is a reminder that the very part of you keeping success out of reach may have once been trying to keep you safe. And when you meet it with compassion, you create space for ease.


What You’ll Learn


  • How early experiences can create a lifelong belief that success must be earned through suffering
  • The connection between hiding vulnerability and blocking success
  • Why “protector parts” resist letting go, even when they’re no longer helping
  • How to start building safety around success without struggle


Resources & Links


  • Want to work together 1:1? Click here to book your Connection Call
  • Learn more or apply to be coached on the podcast: shiftyourstorypodcast.com
  • Connect with me on Instagram & Facebook: @theallyrose


Your Next Steps


If this episode resonated with something deep within you, subscribe, rate, and leave a review.


And if someone you know feels like they always have to struggle or “pay their dues” before they deserve success, send them this episode. It might be exactly what they need.


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🎙️ The Shift Your Story Podcast

© 2025 Ally Rose | All Rights Reserved

💌 Contact: ally@therootedwellnesscollective.com

✨ Want to be coached on the podcast? Apply here

🫶🏾 Let’s connect:

Instagram | Facebook | Website


Disclaimer:

The information shared on this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, or cure any condition, nor does it constitute a therapeutic relationship. All views expressed are my own. You should always consult with your own medical, mental health, legal, and financial professionals before making any decisions.

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4 months ago
38 minutes 45 seconds

Shift Your Story, Change Your Life
Ally is committed to helping you break free from subconscious blocks, self-sabotage, and the stories that are keeping you stuck so you can create lasting success in your life, health, business, and relationships. Each episode features deep dives around habits and thought patterns that may be holding you back, real-time coaching where someone breaks through a subconscious block, and honest conversations that spark real change from the inside out.