In Emotional Blackmail, therapist and bestselling author Dr Susan Forward breaks down a manipulative tactic that often flies under the radar, using guilt, fear, and obligation to control others. Whether it’s a partner threatening to leave, a parent saying “after all I’ve done for you,” or a friend who turns every no into a betrayal, emotional blackmail can leave us feeling trapped, anxious, and responsible for someone else’s happiness.
This episode explores the six key signs of emotional blackmail, the roles of the blackmailer and the victim, and the deep psychological hooks—like FOG (Fear, Obligation, and Guilt), that keep us stuck. We’ll also dive into practical strategies for setting boundaries, reclaiming your sense of self, and breaking the cycle without unnecessary conflict or guilt.
If you've ever felt like you're walking on eggshells in a relationship, or that saying no feels impossible, this episode will help you name the pattern and take your power back.
In Without Conscience, renowned psychologist Dr Robert Hare explores the chilling world of psychopathy, those individuals who lack empathy, guilt, or remorse, and who manipulate, deceive, and exploit others without a second thought. Drawing on decades of clinical research and real-world case studies, Hare outlines how to identify psychopaths in everyday life, not just in prisons, but in boardrooms, relationships, and positions of power.
This episode unpacks the traits that define psychopathy, why these individuals can be so dangerous, and how they often fly under the radar. We’ll explore how their charm masks a deep emotional void, the neurological differences that drive their behaviour, and why traditional methods of rehabilitation often fail. Most importantly, we’ll learn how to protect ourselves from being drawn in, used, or harmed by someone without a conscience.
If you've ever been manipulated, gaslit, or left wondering how someone could be so cold, this episode may finally give you the language for it. Listen in to understand how to spot danger hiding behind a smile.
In Sheep’s Clothing by Dr. George K. Simon is a psychological deep-dive into the subtle, sneaky tactics of covert aggression, manipulation that’s hidden behind charm, guilt-tripping, and passive-aggressiveness. Unlike overt bullies, these individuals operate in the shadows, controlling others while pretending to be innocent or misunderstood. Dr. Simon outlines the patterns and behaviours of manipulative personalities, including tactics like playing the victim, evading responsibility, and twisting words to gain power.
This episode breaks down how to recognise when you're being manipulated, how to stop second-guessing your instincts, and how to stand firm without being drawn into the game. If you've ever walked away from a conversation feeling confused, guilty, or exhausted, this one's for you.
You’ll leave this episode with practical strategies for setting boundaries, reclaiming control, and trusting your gut around even the most cunning personalities.
Written by former FBI profiler Joe Navarro, Dangerous Personalities is a chilling yet essential guide to recognising the warning signs of harmful individuals, before it’s too late. Navarro categorises dangerous personalities into four types: narcissistic, emotionally unstable, paranoid, and predator. Each chapter includes psychological insights, behavioural red flags, and real-world case studies that show how these traits play out in everyday life. Most importantly, it arms readers with self-protection checklists and practical tools to safeguard themselves and loved ones from manipulation, abuse, or worse.
Whether you’re navigating a toxic relationship, managing workplace dynamics, or just want to trust your gut more, this episode will change how you see people, and protect your peace.
In The Yes Brain, Dr. Daniel Siegel and Dr. Tina Payne Bryson offer a powerful shift in how we approach parenting. Instead of focusing on discipline and control, they invite us to help children develop a "Yes Brain", a mindset that’s open, curious, and resilient.
Drawing from neuroscience, the book explains how to cultivate four key traits in children: Balance, resilience, insight, and empathy. Through real-life examples and practical strategies, the authors show how to support kids in navigating big emotions and difficult situations without shutting down.
If you're looking for a science-backed, compassionate way to raise confident and adaptable kids, this episode is a must-listen.
In Nothing to Prove, Jennie Allen invites us to stop striving and start trusting. This episode explores how grace transforms our deepest insecurities into freedom and peace.
In The Art of Work, Jeff Goins challenges the myth of sudden passion. This episode explores how calling unfolds gradually, through listening, learning, and embracing detours.
From late-night texts to overthinking everything, breakups are brutal. This episode explores how to stop chasing closure and start choosing peace.
Ever wondered how geniuses get things done? Daily Rituals offers a peek into the quirky, disciplined, and often bizarre routines of the world’s most creative minds.
Tired of chasing happiness? This episode explores how Stoic principles like negative visualisation and voluntary discomfort can help you build resilience and peace of mind.
In Drawing on the Right Side of the Brain, Betty Edwards shows that drawing isn’t about talent, it’s about learning to see in a new way. This episode explores how shifting perception unlocks creative ability.
This isn’t philosophy for the faint of heart. But if you’ve ever questioned the nature of time, purpose, or your place in the world, Being and Time offers a powerful lens.
Whether you're a writer, painter, or just trying to create something real, this episode digs into the emotional resistance that comes with every blank page.
From IQ tests to brain scans, this episode explores what intelligence really means, and how it influences everything from education to longevity.
What if being quiet was your greatest strength? Quiet by Susan Cain uncovers the underestimated power of introverts, and how society misses out when it fails to listen.
Radical Candor is what happens when you care personally and challenge directly. In this episode, we unpack Kim Scott’s framework for honest leadership without being a jerk.
Raw, compassionate, and unfiltered - Cheryl Strayed’s advice column-turned-book reveals the wisdom we need when life falls apart.
What if the key to sleep, focus, immunity, and even facial structure was… your breath? This episode explores how to unlock peak health with every inhale.
From validating your idea to avoiding rookie mistakes, this is the startup manual you wish you had before quitting your job.
Great culture isn’t an accident. Daniel Coyle breaks down the three key skills behind strong teams: Safety, vulnerability, and purpose.