In this episode of The Bari Chronicles, we sit down with someone very close to the BSA family — Steve, Tash’s husband — as he opens up about his long, slow, and often frustrating journey toward finally choosing weight loss surgery. Steve’s story is one so many people will relate to:
✓ years of putting it off,
✓ the slow creep of weight gain,
✓ the aches, pains and mobility changes,
✓ the mental battle of “Is it really that bad?”,
✓ and the moment you realise life is getting smaller when you want it to be bigger.
Across this conversation, Steve shares:• what made him finally say “yep, it’s time” • how Crohn’s disease shaped his surgical options and why sleeve was recommended• the hidden ways weight gain shows up — bending over, tying shoes, squatting at work, fatigue• the impact of watching Tash regain her life post-surgery• his fears, hopes and what he’s genuinely excited about• how habits like drinking, eating fast and long-term routines will need to change• the importance of choosing a surgeon you fully trust — not just the first one you see• preparing for surgery close to Christmas (yes, he’s missing the turkey) learning to build new habits around water, vitamins, and pacing food• the optimism and the scepticism that everyone feels before surgery This episode is real, honest, funny in moments, and incredibly relatable. Steve reminds us that weight loss surgery isn’t an “easy way out” — it’s a tool, not a magic wand. And it’s a tool he’s ready to use to rebuild his confidence, mobility and quality of life.🎧 A must-listen for anyone considering surgery, supporting someone through it, or wanting to hear what real lived experience sounds like — nerves, hope, humour and all.
In this powerful episode, Damo sits down with Steve — a lived-experience legend who’s bravely opening up about something many bariatric patients never see coming.
After having gastric bypass surgery, Steve thought he understood his limits with alcohol. But one ordinary dinner out with friends ended with an RBT, a shocking reading, and the devastating moment his licence was taken on the spot.
What followed was months of stress, shame, court dates, financial strain, and the daily challenge of navigating family life without the ability to drive. But Steve owns every part of his story — no excuses, no hiding. Just honesty, accountability, and a determination to make sure others don’t learn the same lesson the hard way.
Together, we talk through:
How bariatric surgery changes the way alcohol is absorbed
Why “just one or two drinks” can put you over the limit
The emotional and practical fallout of losing your licence
The fear, embarrassment, court process and consequences
The reality that nobody plans an accident, but the impact can last a lifetime
Why Uber is cheaper than fines, court, lost independence — or hurting someone
How Steve hopes his story will save others from the same pain
This episode isn’t about judgement. It’s about awareness — and it’s a must-listen heading into the festive season.
⚠️ Trigger Warning:
This episode contains discussion about grief, loss, and the death of a loved one. If this topic is distressing or triggering for you, please take care while listening. You can choose to skip this episode or reach out for professional support if you need it.
🎧 Episode Description:
In this deeply personal episode, Tash and Damo open up about navigating grief after their mum’s passing — and how life after bariatric surgery changes the way we experience emotional pain, comfort, and healing.
They talk about food noise returning under stress, setting healthy emotional boundaries, and learning to find comfort in memories rather than meals.
This conversation reminds us that healing isn’t linear — it’s messy, human, and full of grace.
💬 “Even when the storm is raging, I can now stop. I never had an off button before surgery.”
If you need support in Australia:
💛 Lifeline: 13 11 14 — 24/7 crisis support and suicide prevention
💙 Beyond Blue: 1300 22 4636 — 24/7 mental health support
💚 Griefline: 1300 845 745 — 8am–8pm, 7 days a week (grief counselling and resources)
💜 Butterfly Foundation: 1800 33 4673 — support for eating and body image concerns
🧡 Head to Health: headtohealth.gov.au — connect with free mental health services
Remember: you’re not alone, and help is always available.
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This week, Dr Cheng returns to The Bari Chronicles to unpack the hype around GLP-1 medications like Ozempic, Wegovy, and Mounjaro. Are they miracle fixes or long-term tools? We dive into what makes these medications effective, why short-term use is “just a party trick,” and how combining surgery with medication can lead to the best outcomes.
Tash and Damo share personal stories about sustainable weight loss, muscle preservation, and the mindset shifts that make all the difference.
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Reflux can be uncomfortable, frustrating — and for many bariatric patients, life-changing. In this episode of The Bari Chronicles, Damo speaks with leading upper GI surgeon Dr Craig Taylor to unpack why reflux happens after weight loss surgery, why medication isn’t always enough, and what treatment options and tests can actually make a difference.
From understanding structural causes like hiatal hernias to knowing when revision surgery might help, this conversation empowers patients with knowledge to better advocate for their health. Whether you’ve had a sleeve, bypass, or are just considering surgery, this is an essential listen.
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In this episode of The Barry Chronicles, Dr. Terry Lin discusses the critical role of supplementation after bariatric surgery, focusing on the importance of individualized approaches to multivitamins. The conversation highlights the risks associated with excessive vitamin B6 intake, the necessity of regular blood tests, and the regulatory challenges surrounding dietary supplements. Dr. Lin emphasizes the need for informed decision-making and the role of dietitians in managing supplementation for optimal health outcomes.
What if your weight isn’t telling the whole story?
In this episode, Damo visits Jennifer, a Dietitian at Melbourne Weight Loss Solutions, to explore the power of body composition scanning and what those deeper measurements reveal about your health after bariatric surgery.
From understanding the balance between fat mass and muscle mass to learning how hydration, medication, and lifestyle all play a role, this conversation challenges the idea that progress is defined by the number on the scale.
Whether you’re just starting your journey or years post-op, this episode will shift how you see your body and remind you that strength, recovery, and resilience can’t always be measured in kilograms.
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Presented by Bariatric Support Australia
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In this conversation, Damo and Tash from Bariatric Support Australia engage with Dr. Rachel Gold, a clinical psychologist specializing in eating disorders and body image. They discuss the importance of mindset in relation to body image, the impact of weight stigma, and the challenges faced by individuals post-bariatric surgery, including body dysmorphia and disordered eating. The conversation emphasizes the need for self-compassion, understanding neurodivergence, and creating supportive environments for those undergoing weight loss journeys. Dr. Gold also shares resources aimed at helping individuals navigate their relationships with food and their bodies.
This conversation delves into the complexities of bariatric surgery, exploring the psychological and physiological aspects of comfort eating, the transformative potential of surgical interventions, and the importance of a multidisciplinary approach to weight management. The discussion highlights the evolution of surgical techniques, the significance of pre- and post-operative care, and the need to address biases in medical treatment. The speakers emphasize the importance of patient-centered care and the various options available for individuals struggling with obesity.
In this episode of The Bari Chronicles, we sit down with Dr Craig Taylor — one of Australia’s most experienced bariatric surgeons — to unpack the realities of weight loss surgery, aftercare, and the myths that hold people back.
From why losing just the first third of your excess weight can transform your health, to the difference between fat loss and muscle loss, Dr Taylor shares decades of expertise with honesty and compassion.
We dive deep into:
Why more men are seeking bariatric surgery than ever before
The risks of focusing only on the number on the scales
Why aftercare and multidisciplinary support are just as important as surgery
The truth about GLP-1 medications like Ozempic and Wegovy
The role of psychology and peer support in long-term success
Whether you’re considering surgery, already on your journey, or supporting a loved one, this episode is packed with insight, reassurance, and practical wisdom.
Join us for an engaging Zoom session with Dr. George Balalis as he answers pressing questions from the community about weight loss surgeries. In this episode, we spotlight the comparison between gastric bypass and sleeve gastrectomy, exploring their weight loss outcomes, benefits, and potential challenges. Dr. George provides expert insights and addresses real-time queries, helping you navigate the complexities of these surgical options. Whether you're considering surgery or seeking knowledge, this interactive session offers valuable perspectives to guide your weight loss journey.
In this episode of the Bari Chronicles podcast, hosts Tash and Damo share personal updates, discuss the challenges of navigating health issues, and emphasize the importance of lived experiences in the bariatric community. They explore the unique anxieties faced by those who have undergone bariatric surgery, the significance of finding the right support, and reflect on personal growth and kindness throughout their journeys. The conversation invites listeners to share their own experiences and insights, fostering a sense of community and understanding.
In this episode of the Bari Chronicles, hosts Tash and Damo dive into the personal journeys and health challenges faced post-bariatric surgery. From unexpected health scares to the ongoing importance of medical check-ups, they share candid insights into life after weight loss surgery. Tune in to hear how these experiences have shaped their perspectives and the gratitude they feel for the choices made years ago. Join us for an honest conversation about the realities of living with the long-term effects of bariatric surgery. #BariatricSurgery #HealthJourney #BarriChronicles
In this episode of The Bari Chronicles, Damo and Tash sit down with bariatric dietitian Jane Stoltze to unpack the emotional and practical realities of post-op nutrition. From navigating the puree phase to embracing lifelong habit changes, Jane shares her personal journey into bariatric dietetics and offers invaluable advice for patients learning to listen to their bodies. Together, they explore the importance of compassionate support, realistic expectations, and why this journey is anything but a quick fix.
In this conversation, Dr. Rachel Gold, Tash and Damo explore the complexities of psychology, particularly in relation to eating disorders, body image, and mental health. They discuss the role of psychologists in helping individuals make sense of their experiences, the challenges of navigating health and weight management, and the importance of building a positive relationship with one's body. The conversation emphasizes the journey of self-acceptance and the need for resilience in the face of societal pressures and personal struggles.
In this episode of The Bari Chronicles, Damo and Tash delve into the complex relationship between body image and weight loss surgery. They discuss the often-unrealistic expectations surrounding post-surgery body image, the psychological challenges that accompany significant weight loss, and the importance of self-acceptance. The conversation highlights the struggles with excess skin, societal stigma, and the need for psychological support throughout the journey. Ultimately, they emphasize that feeling conflicted about body image is a common human experience, and encourage listeners to seek help and share their stories.
In this episode, Dr Lucy opens up about her own experiences with dieting, body image, and metabolic health. She highlights the importance of uncovering the "why" behind eating habits and how mindfulness can support long-term change. The discussion explores the challenges of behaviour change, the powerful influence of food marketing, and the role self-compassion plays in building a healthier relationship with food. Dr Lucy also stresses the value of personalised approaches and reminds us that consistency—not perfection—is the key to lasting success.
Connect with Dr Lucy:
🌐 Website: rlmedicine.com
📸 Instagram: @real_life_medicine
In this conversation, Tash, Damo and The amazing Plastic Surgeon Mr Ian Holton discuss the complexities of plastic surgery following bariatric surgery, emphasising the psychological and physical transformations patients undergo. They explore the importance of experienced surgeons, the necessity of aftercare, and the impact of nutrition on recovery. The discussion also touches on cultural perceptions of pain, the significance of smoking cessation, and the evolving field of fat transfer in cosmetic procedures. Ultimately, they highlight the profound changes that surgery can bring to patients' lives, both physically and emotionally.
In this conversation, A/Professor Michael discusses his journey into bariatrics, the evolution of surgical techniques, and the impact of weight loss surgery on patients' lives. He emphasizes the importance of understanding the outcomes of procedures like sleeve gastrectomy and the common challenges such as reflux. The discussion also covers the necessity of ongoing management post-surgery, the role of non-surgical therapies, and the significance of a strong patient-surgeon relationship for long-term success in weight management.
The puree stage after bariatric surgery can feel a bit daunting—especially when you're trying to figure out what to eat, how much, and how to make it enjoyable. That’s why we’re excited to share insights from Jane Stoltze, an experienced Bariatric Dietitian and member of ANZMOSS and ASMBS, in her latest video dedicated to this critical stage of the journey.
In this video, Jane breaks down:
What the puree stage actually involves
Why it's important for your recovery and long-term success
Texture tips and food ideas to keep meals safe and satisfying
How to listen to your body and avoid common mistakes
Her go-to suggestions for getting enough protein while still being gentle on the stomach
With over 30 years of experience in nutrition and a passion for supporting bariatric patients, Jane delivers practical advice with warmth and clarity. Whether you're about to start the puree stage or currently navigating it, this video is a must-watch.