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The Designed Life with Hollis M. M.
Hollis M. M.
74 episodes
4 days ago
I'm a designer and holistic life coach who is always seeking for deeper understanding, meaning, and beauty – and I love doing it with other like-minded friends. I created The Designed Life to help you ask the bigger questions, explore the unexamined nooks and crannies of your own habits, behaviors and choices, and inevitably start aligning your daily decisions to create a more empowered and fulfilling life. In every episode you'll find stories, resources, and contemplations, from me and other holistic professionals, curated to help you gracefully navigate a life that comes with no guide book.
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I'm a designer and holistic life coach who is always seeking for deeper understanding, meaning, and beauty – and I love doing it with other like-minded friends. I created The Designed Life to help you ask the bigger questions, explore the unexamined nooks and crannies of your own habits, behaviors and choices, and inevitably start aligning your daily decisions to create a more empowered and fulfilling life. In every episode you'll find stories, resources, and contemplations, from me and other holistic professionals, curated to help you gracefully navigate a life that comes with no guide book.
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The Designed Life with Hollis M. M.
Eps 043: Destigmatizing menopause, your agency in your own health, and body wisdom w. Monica Monfre

Monica Monfre is a long time friend, teacher, dancer, and BRCA1 positive genetic mutation holder. In this episode we talk through how she navigated the loss of her sister to breast cancer, and how that experience has shaped her life since – inevitably discovering her own predisposition to ovarian cancer.

You might hear me learning in real time what some of the terms Monica is uses to describe the experiences of breast and ovarian cancer are, and that's the point of this conversation – to become more familiar with the language of our reproductive health and to reduce the stigmas that go along with things like cancer, menopause, hormone therapy, etc.

Overall this is a conversation about the agency you have over your body and health, the wisdom of our bodies and following our intuition - especially when it comes to preventative care - and the importance of naming your identity, and sharing about your health experiences.


Connect with Monica on Threads / Instagram


Mentioned:

Monica’s interview in The New York Times

The Breasties

The Breast of Us

Eps 042: How to work with all phases of the moon


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4 days ago
1 hour 9 minutes 35 seconds

The Designed Life with Hollis M. M.
Eps 042: How to work with all the phases of the moon

The phases of the moon have been observed in awe and wonder for centuries. In this episode I discuss each of the 8 main phases, and how they're overlayed onto our days, months, years, eras in life, and even in the stages of our gardens (literal and figurative).

This episode also acts as a framework for folks who are interested in working more intuitively with the monthly lunar cycles as a framework for energetic peaks, ebbs and flows.

Book a reading with me to understand your natal moon – $99 through the end of 2025

Corresponding Substack articles:

  • How to Work with Every Moon
  • Know your moon - know your comfort zone (and how to stretch beyond it)


Mysteries of The Dark Moon by Demetra George

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1 week ago
53 minutes 22 seconds

The Designed Life with Hollis M. M.
Lunar Series · November 2025: Taurus Full Moon & Scorpio New Moon

Hello November!! These lunations of this month are fortifying and cathartic.

The Full Moon in Taurus on November 5th is BEAUTIFUL and deeply fulfilling and rejuvenating and it wants you to RECEIVE.

The New Moon in Scorpio on November 20th is conjunct Mercury retrograde and wants us to uncover the deeper narratives that are holding us back from our desired evolutions.

It's a beautiful month of lunations to work with and be fully present to – tune in to learn more about how to work with these energies and how they'll likely be showing up in your own life.


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2 weeks ago
35 minutes 21 seconds

The Designed Life with Hollis M. M.
Solar Series: Scorpio Season 2025

Welcome Scorpio season!

The witchiest season of the year is here friends, and in these new few weeks ahead we have so much planetary support guiding us into flow, release, cathartic clearing, and deep integration and healing. Bc I'm actually very excited about this season, I start the episode describing which area of life Scorpio season will likely be activating for you.

I'm also trying something new and giving a theme to each week:

  • Week 1 (10.22-10.26) – submerging into the waters
  • Week 2 (10.27-11.2) – permission to get big with your weirdness
  • Week 3 (11.3-11.9) – busy getting shit done and loving all of it
  • Week 4 (11.10-11.16) –slow your horses
  • Week 5 (11.17-11.22) – end of year review comes early

Tune in to hear more about how each of these weeks will unfold, and the energy you can tap into to help direct your own creative cycles.

Reminder that Constellations Scorpio Season is $111 through 10.28!! Our first call is on Halloween 10.31, and if you're desiring community, support, and alignment through these murky waters ahead – we got you. Join us!


Key Dates:

  • 10.23 Sun enters Scorpio

  • 10.24 Mercury trine Jupiter & Saturn Rx

  • 10.28 Mars trine Jupiter & Saturn Rx

  • 10.29 Mercury trine Neptune Rx, enters Sagittarius, then opposes Uranus Rx

  • 11.02 Venus square Jupiter

  • 11.04 Mars enters Sagittarius

  • 11.04 Mars trine Neptune Rx, opposes Uranus Rx

  • 11.05 Full Moon - Taurus 13°

  • 11.06 Venus enters Scorpio

  • 11.08 Uranus Rx re-enters Taurus

  • 11.09 Mercury Rx through 11.29

  • 11.11 Jupiter Rx through 03.11.26

  • 11.12 Mercury Rx conjunct Mars

  • 11.17 Sun trine Jupiter & Saturn

  • 11.19 Mercury Rx re-enters Scorpio, trines Neptune, then opposes Uranus Rx

  • 11.20 New Moon - Scorpio 28°, Sun conjunct Mercury Rx (cazimi)

  • 11.21 Sun opposition Uranus

  • 11.22 Mercury Rx trine Saturn Rx & Jupiter Rx

  • 11.22 Sun enters Sagittarius


Mentioned:

Constellations

Uranus in Gemini substack


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3 weeks ago
1 hour 16 minutes 54 seconds

The Designed Life with Hollis M. M.
Eps 041: Blazing a trail for women in business w. Joan Maloney (my mom)

Welcome to a very special episode! My incredible and inspirational mom, Joan Maloney, joins me to share a little of her backstory – the journey it took for her to get from small town book worm, to receptionist/delivery driver, to thriving business woman with a highly successful graphic design studio.

In this episode she shares stories about her resiliency – from navigating sexual harassment, to starting a business in the midst of physical recovery from back to back car accidents, to running a studio while parenting a young daughter.

She was doing it all before we knew how to crawl, and she blazed a trail for all of us to walk down – must more easily that she did.

I hope you enjoy this little window into her life and our relationship, and be sure to check out her forthcoming book!


Mentioned:

  • Studio 318
  • Eps 005: Work-life Balance


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1 month ago
1 hour 2 minutes 53 seconds

The Designed Life with Hollis M. M.
Eps 040: The Pillars of a Designed Life

I’m thrilled to be sharing this episode describing the pillars of what living a Designed Life means - the practices, processes, perspectives, etc. For so many years I’ve been operating with these pillars in my life and they’ve been infused into my work, but only recently did they fully coalesce into these principles.


The main 3 that operate in a cycle are:


  1. ​It starts with you – reclamation
  2. ​Know what you’re choosing – alignment
  3. ​Water what you want to grow – cultivation


This cycle is then supported by 4 secondary pillars, each connected to a different element:


  1. ​ do hard things with great self-care – earth
  2. ​ time is what you make it – air
  3. ​ it’s all beauty – fire
  4. ​ everything has a ripple effect – water


I describe in detail what each of these pillars mean and what they look like in action so you can understand your own life through the lens of Design.


Mentioned

  • ​Svādhyāya
  • ​The Mysteries of the Dark Moon
  • ​Xanthe Appleyard / Leisure Ethic
  • ​Kaitlyn Kessler
  • ​Identity Evolution Workbook
  • ​Jess Ellen Astrology
  • ​On Being interview with Matthew Sanford
  • ​Ep 019: Unity Consciousness
  • ​Jane Goodall’s last words
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1 month ago
51 minutes 12 seconds

The Designed Life with Hollis M. M.
Eps 039: Personal update - how I'm using my time while on a two week personal retreat

How often do we carve out time, to then only use it by succumbing to distraction or squandering it with petty little projects? How often do we arrive at a moment of spaciousness only to then not feel capable of immersing ourselves fully into it?

In this episode I layout my schedule for the two weeks I'll be on a solo self-guided retreat – the projects I plan to work on, the books I plan to read, and the activities I plan to enjoy.

I recorded this episode at 10pm the night before I flew out because I was having a lot of creative blocks around what I wanted to share this week and it took me awhile to arrive on this topic. But as I was journalling (in an attempt to stay up all night to get to the airport at 4am) the idea of sharing how I'll be using my time during this solo experience felt timely and relevant.

So also please know that it's not the most structured and cohesive eps I've ever recorded!

I'd love to what resonated for you from anything I shared here, and can't wait to update you on how the trip unfolds!


Mentioned:

  • Constellations Scorpio Season
  • The Mysteries of the Dark Moon
  • Essbe Jewelry


Read the connected Substack to this episode


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1 month ago
38 minutes 14 seconds

The Designed Life with Hollis M. M.
Lunar Series · October 2025: Aries Full Moon & Libra New Moon

It may not be eclipse season anymore but these lunations are definitely serving spicy!

The Aries Full Moon on October 6th will bring something fiery to the surface that requires your healing and attention. What in your relationships have you potentially be avoiding? Then the New Moon in Libra on October 21st feels like a day to commit to all the ways you want to show up with love, compassion, and responsible reciprocity. What are you ready to seed with regards to how you give your affection?

Tune in for soooo much energetic guidance, tons of reflections, and lots of suggestions for how to productively and practically apply this energy.

Mentioned:

  • Eps 037: How to Navigate Fear
  • Bonus eps: Autumn Equinox
  • Solar Series Libra Season
  • Learned helplessness
  • Non violent communication practice
  • Eps 002: Self forgiveness
  • Self forgiveness meditation
  • Constellations Scorpio Season


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1 month ago
45 minutes 32 seconds

The Designed Life with Hollis M. M.
Bonus Eps: Autumn Equinox 2025

Today marks the start of Fall here in the northern hemisphere, and in honor of the energetic pivot point, I'm sharing the audio accompaniment to my Autumn Equinox substack post.

You can follow along with the article, and unlock the ritual for the Equinox if you are not a paid subscriber.

Listen/read for insights on the energy of the Equinox, along with the astrology of the moment, and reflection questions for how to explore and root into this energy for yourself.

Wishing you all a beautiful Equinox!


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1 month ago
9 minutes 53 seconds

The Designed Life with Hollis M. M.
Solar Series: Libra Season 2025

We're coming off of eclipse season and yeah - it's time to get organized! If you felt like the last month took everything up in the air, flailed it around, and dropped it in whole new places - don't worry, because this next season is here to help you lean into harmony, justice, balance, coherence, and connections to bring everything back into order.

We have several planets in strong placements this month too, which means that the work and progress we've been striving for is about to get a big boost of momentum.

Overall, I'm excited for this month, and I hope you are too – it'll be packed with great community vibes, really cathartic experiences, lots of focused motivation, and generally some charged energy.


Mentioned:

  • Constellations Scorpio season coming soon
  • Deepening into Spirit w. Lindsay Fauntleroy
  • Diana Rose Harper astrologer
  • Non-Violent Communication Practice


Key dates:

  • 09.22 Mars enters scorpio through Nov. 4th, Sun enters Libra
  • 10.06 Mercury enters Scorpio through Oct 29th, Full Moon - Aries 14°
  • 10.13 Venus enters Libra through Nov 6th, Pluto stations direct 1º Aquarius
  • 10.20 Mercury conjunct Mars in Scorpio 19º
  • 10.21 New Moon - Libra 28°, Mercury enters pre-retrograde shadow
  • 10.22 Neptune Rx re-enters Pisces through Jan 26, Sun enters Scorpio


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2 months ago
1 hour 23 minutes 55 seconds

The Designed Life with Hollis M. M.
Eps 038: Deepening into Spirit w. Lindsay Fauntleroy

It is such an honor to have this chat with my long time friend, teacher and mentor Lindsay Fauntleroy! Lindsay is the founder of The Spirit Seed School, where she brings her knowledge of indigenous healing modalities, alternative medicines, and threads of connecting to spirit all together to support creators and leaders to heal in their own right.

In this episode we talk about her journey to entrepreneurship, the evolutions of her business and how she's traversed them, her mission and vision for why her work in this world of colonialism, patriarchy, sexism, and division is so necessary, and so, so much more.

She ends with a pledge that is a prayer for all of us, that had me in tears as we wrapped up our convo.

I'm so thrilled to be offering this conversation to you, and I hope you gain so much wisdom from this chat :)

You can find Lindsay at:

  • The Spirit Seed School
  • Her book: In Our Element
  • In Our Element Course
  • Her Instagram

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2 months ago
1 hour 4 minutes 4 seconds

The Designed Life with Hollis M. M.
Eps 037: How to navigate fear when in transition

Everyday fear (not the kind of fear that arises when we're actually physically in danger) can sometimes operate under the surface – informing our decisions, directing our responses, and moving us in specific directions with us really knowing it.

Especially when we're in the middle of big life transitions and transformations, fear of not knowing what's ahead is naturally likely to crop up.

In this episode I dissect the physical, mental, and energetic components of fear, so that when it arises for you, you can more easily turn your awareness towards it, and know how to manage it.

Note: this episode is not for anyone who is experiencing immediate or literal danger, or is struggling with phobia. Please seek profession support in both instances.


Mentioned:

Lunar series episode September 2025


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2 months ago
29 minutes 37 seconds

The Designed Life with Hollis M. M.
Lunar Series · September 2025: Pisces Lunar Eclipse & Virgo Solar Eclipse

It's officially eclipse season friends!

This last eclipse series of 2025 harkens us back to Spring of 2025 and Fall of 2024 – there's a theme of growth and unravelling in a part of your life and it's getting a boost of stimulation this coming month.

The Pisces eclipse at the North Node on September 7th ushers in a new layer of connectivity, openness to possibility, and dissolving of boundaries that have kept us from the unification we're naturally born to desire. This moment might have you feel like you're spiraling a bit, but you can trust that after the dizzy spell dies down, you'll be on the path you need to now walk.

This eclipse connects back to the eclipse in Pisces on Sept 18, 2024 and will connect to the eclipse on Aug 28, 2026.

The Virgo eclipse at the South Node on September 21st as for us to continue a similar theme – of consciously (or unconsciously) shaking up the systems and structures and compartmentalized parts of our lives that have been holding us back from deeper connection, unification, understanding and fairness. This will likely be represented in the collective, but also within yourself. What defense mechanisms supported you and created safety for you in the past, but are no longer helping your energy now?

This eclipse story connects back to the eclipse in Virgo on March 14, 2025, and will connect to the upcoming eclipses in Virgo on March 3, 2026 and Feb 20, 2027.


Mentioned:

  • ⁠⁠Constellations⁠⁠ with ⁠⁠Jess Ellen Astrology⁠⁠

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2 months ago
42 minutes 39 seconds

The Designed Life with Hollis M. M.
Solar Series: Virgo Season 2025

Welcome Virgo Season/ eclipse season!

This month I have a very special cohost and fellow astrologer, life coach, yoga teacher, Jess, with me to explore and translate the very full energy of Virgo season - because everything is better with friends!

This new season begins officially on August 22nd, but the Virgo New Moon on August 23rd fully initiates us into the tone shift. From there we have multiple planets changing signs, Uranus stationing retrograde, and (perhaps the most important of all) two eclipses!

What does this all mean?

This month is a turbulent, friends. Everything is going to be getting shaken up. But if I had to sum it up into a few main themes I mention – unboundaried compassion, experimentation and play in relationship, undoing patterns and wounds of perfectionism, affirming ways to embody heart-centered energy, and major beginnings and endings. Everything is on deck.

Don't want to navigate Virgo season alone?

Join Constellations for a communal exploration of every single transit – so you can land with the energy as it's unfolding in the sky, and in your life (relationships, work, family, resources, etc) and now how to work with it in real time.

The more resourced and supported you are for the rollercoaster energy of this month, the more you'll step out of Virgo season with hair do in tact, sunglasses still on, and a bounce in your step even after the wild ride.


Mentioned:

  • ⁠Constellations⁠ with ⁠Jess Ellen Astrology⁠


Key dates:

  • 08.22 Sun enters Virgo
  • 08.23 New Moon - Virgo 0°
  • 08.25 Venus enters Leo (through 9.20)
  • 08.27 Venus in Leo opposes Pluto Rx in Aquarius
  • 09.01 Saturn Rx re-enters Pisces (through 2.13.26)
  • 09.02 Mercury enters Virgo (through 9.18)
  • 09.06 Uranus stations Rx (through 02.04.26)
  • 09.07 Full Moon Lunar Eclipse Total - Pisces 15°
  • 09.13 Sun conjunct Mercury in Virgo
  • 09.17 Mercury in Virgo opposes Saturn Rx in Pisces
  • 09.18 Mercury enters Libra (through 10.6)
  • 09.19 Venus enters Virgo (through 10.14)
  • 09.21 New Moon Solar Eclipse Partial - Virgo 28° opposition Saturn Rx in Pisces
  • 09.22 Monday Sun enters Libra
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2 months ago
1 hour 42 minutes 38 seconds

The Designed Life with Hollis M. M.
Eps 036: 5 weeks without instagram and how my life looks different, plus a rallying cry for our 3rd spaces

It’s been 5 weeks since I’ve been on IG, and here’s what I’ve learned:

  • My brain craves stimulation and will reach for it every opportunity it gets.
  • Not every thought that becomes conscious in my mind is mine to own (or share).
  • Habits require conscious interruptions if they’re ever going to change.
  • Third spaces are our keys to creating social resilience.
  • We have to spend time with people that we didn’t choose to necessarily be with if we’re ever going to save society.


In this episode I chat through all the ways I’m witnessing my brain change in real time as I spend more and more time away from this platform. And how in the “de-conditioning”, I’m discovering all the value I’ve been craving – via other outlets of connection, and self-expression.

At the end of this episode I leave you with the question:

  • What are you unconsciously choosing (that’s actually not in alignment for you) and that has you too scared to go against the grain?


Mentioned:

  • Leaving IG Substack pt. 1
  • Leaving IG Substack pt. 2
  • Constellations September
  • Constellations August (free)
  • My chat with Jess on her podcast about making choices aligned with your values


Connect with me:

⁠ASTROLOGY READINGS⁠

⁠LIFE COACHING⁠

⁠SUBSTACK⁠

⁠⁠PINTEREST⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠

⁠THREADS⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠

⁠WEBSITE⁠

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3 months ago
59 minutes 49 seconds

The Designed Life with Hollis M. M.
Ep 035: How I've been navigating the massive planet shifts, and how you can too

Now that I'm officially off of IG for the foreseeable future, I'm bringing some of my personal like updates to the pod!

After a month of hosting friends and family, throwing big gatherings at the house, and generally being way more social that usual, I'm digesting everything that's been shifting in my day to day life, my sense of identity, and my understanding of my roles in community online and IRL.

I chat the energetic influence of Uranus in Gemini, the Saturn-Neptune conjunct in Aries, and Pluto in Aquarius and how these major planetary placements are impacting me, my clients, and also you – and most importantly how we can work with them so they don't work us.

Comment and let me know if you've also been feeling the big shifts in your own life, and be sure to check out Constellations for astro support through August and beyond.

Mentioned:

  • Uranus in Gemini substack article
  • Uncategory by Xanthe Appleyard & Lois Mac
  • Social Change Ecosystem Map
  • Constellations
  • Freedom eps


Connect with me on:

ASTROLOGY READINGS

LIFE COACHING

SUBSTACK

⁠PINTEREST⁠ ⁠

THREADS⁠ ⁠

WEBSITE

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3 months ago
1 hour 5 minutes 32 seconds

The Designed Life with Hollis M. M.
Ep 034: Giving Yourself Permission, Letting Yourself Be Seen, & Major Identity Shifts w. Kaitlyn Kessler

I have the pleasure of hosting the incredible Kaitlyn Kessler!

Being in Kaitlyn’s orbit has been so inspiring simply because she exudes this level of alignment in all of her work and communication. It's alignment that’s not just beautiful, but it's also subtly ultra bold and very brave.  

We recorded this episode a few months ago before she made the massive move to Spain from Charlotte, SC. It’s so fun to listen back and hear her declarations of what she was anticipating her life to look like once she landed in Europe, and to now be witnessing all of that unfolding for her in real time. 

We talk a lot in this episode about the power of telling your own story, and we go back and forth between the benefits of being seen in public and also how scary it is to put yourself out there, and  be seen.  


You can find Kaitlyn on her:

Website

Instagram

Substack

Spacious Podcast

Wanting in Public Podcast


Thanks for tuning in!

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3 months ago
54 minutes 33 seconds

The Designed Life with Hollis M. M.
Lunar Series · August 2025: Aquarius Full Moon & Virgo New Moon

This month we're invited to explore the intersection of leadership, community, and responsibility.

With Mercury still retrograde in Leo and Saturn in Aries influencing the Full Moon in Aquarius, the first half of the month invites you to examine your long-term plans, structural power dynamics, and your role as a leader, particularly within community contexts.

This Full Moon wants to ask you: How do we balance personal authority with collective responsibility?

The New Moon in Virgo continues this theme by offering a potent time to reflect on how you communicate, express your ideas, and lead with integrity.

Virgo’s earthy practicality supports grounding these ideas into real, tangible practices — but with Uranus squaring the lunation, you’re also invited to be bold and visionary, shake up stale narratives, and ditch perfectionism in favor of purpose-driven presence.


Key Dates:

  • 08.09 Full Moon in Aquarius
  • 08.23 New Moon in Virgo
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3 months ago
27 minutes 53 seconds

The Designed Life with Hollis M. M.
Solar Series: Leo Season 2025

Welcome Leo Season!

Officially beginning July 22nd, this month includes a Mercury RX, along with several planet ingresses (sign changes) – many of which activate the Saturn–Neptune conjunction in Aries.

What does this all mean?

We’re going be reviewing a lot of the ways in which we do things, the ways in which we show up and demonstrate leadership, how we express ourselves and find harmony in our relationships, and what we want to uphold in our ever evolving identities.

And, if that doesn’t sound like enough fun, there’s also going to be even more erosion of systems and structures that used to make sense, but are in the process of being released for new things to be built.


Mentioned:

  • Astrology readings with me
  • Constellations with Jess Ellen Astrology


Key dates:

  • 07.22 Sun enters Leo
  • 07.23 Sun sextiles Uranus
  • 07.24 New Moon - Leo 2° trine Saturn RX & Neptune RX and opposing Pluto
  • 07.31 Mercury RX conjunct the Sun in Leo & Venus enters Cancer (through aug 25)
  • 08.01 Venus squares Saturn RX & Neptune RX
  • 08.06 Mars enters Libra (through sept 22)
  • 08.08 Mars trine Uranus
  • 08.09 - 08.10 Full Moon - Aquarius 16° & Mars opposes Saturn RX & Neptune RX trine Pluto
  • 08.11 Mercury stations direct 4° Leo opposing Pluto and trine Saturn rx and Neptune rx
  • 08.12 Venus conjunct Jupiter in Cancer 14º
  • 08.14 & 8.18 Mercury sextile Mars
  • 08.22 Sun enters Virgo
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4 months ago
46 minutes 52 seconds

The Designed Life with Hollis M. M.
Ep 033: Inner Excavation, Trusting Your Curiosity, and Leading by Demonstration w. Kristina Bleiler

Today I'm joined by fellow designer, creative, artist, and curiosity-follower Kristina Bleiler of Gem Creative Co. Kristina has been such an inspiration – since the moment I started following her I knew she brought a special playfulness, depth, and inquiry to the creative work she does.

In our conversation we talk about the power of community - online and in person, her experience of growing up in the church, and how moving away from that foundation, and into a life emboldened by her own curiosity, guided her to be an entrepreneur and leader with integrity and openness.

Kristina was such a joy to chat with, and I hope you get as many gold nuggets out of this episode as I did!

You can find Kristina via:

Website

Instagram

Substack

Threads


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4 months ago
54 minutes 47 seconds

The Designed Life with Hollis M. M.
I'm a designer and holistic life coach who is always seeking for deeper understanding, meaning, and beauty – and I love doing it with other like-minded friends. I created The Designed Life to help you ask the bigger questions, explore the unexamined nooks and crannies of your own habits, behaviors and choices, and inevitably start aligning your daily decisions to create a more empowered and fulfilling life. In every episode you'll find stories, resources, and contemplations, from me and other holistic professionals, curated to help you gracefully navigate a life that comes with no guide book.