In this conversation, Monica and Christy Cole delve into the intricacies of Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), exploring its foundational principles, the societal implications of over-control, and the importance of emotional regulation. They discuss the differences between healthy emotional responses and toxic positivity, the three states of mind, and the role of distress tolerance in managing self-destructive behaviors. The conversation also highlights the intersection of DBT with the Life Model, emphasizing how these frameworks can enhance therapeutic practices and foster authentic connections in relationships.
In this episode, Alyssa and Monica dive deep into one of the most transformative concepts in the Life Model: relational circuits. Understanding this brain-based framework will completely change how you intervene in difficult moments with clients—and in your own life.In this episode, you'll learn:- What relational circuits are and the neuroscience behind them- How to recognize when relational circuits are offline (in yourself and your clients)- The 6-point relational circuits checklist you can use immediately- Why we act opposite of our true identity when relational circuits are off- The four indicators that relational circuits are ON (curiosity, appreciation, kindness, engagement)- What causes relational circuits to shut down (fatigue, hunger, attachment pain, trauma)- Practical tools to help clients get their relational circuits back online- Why quieting and appreciation are essential interventions in every session- How to stay relationally present with clients even when their story triggers you
In this conversation, Jessica Waters discusses the importance of understanding a child's true identity when addressing difficult behaviors. She emphasizes that such behaviors often stem from emotional wounds and that correction should come from a place of love and affirmation of the child's worth. This approach fosters a healthier self-identity and emotional well-being in children
In this conversation, Kimberly discusses her unique approach to healing that combines indigenous wisdom, spirituality, and modern psychological techniques. She emphasizes the importance of a holistic view of the individual, integrating practices like the medicine wheel, Internal Family Systems (IFS), breath work, and EMDR to promote balance and wholeness in mental health.
In this conversation, Alyssa and Monica explore the complex emotions surrounding loneliness during the holiday season. They discuss the societal expectations of joy and the reality of many individuals feeling isolated and disconnected. The discussion delves into different types of loneliness, the impact of grief, and the importance of therapists being present and empathetic with their clients. They emphasize the need for connection, joy, and identity in overcoming loneliness, and how therapists can help clients navigate these feelings during the holidays.
In this conversation, Alyssa Kyle and Monica explore the complex emotions surrounding loneliness during the holiday season. They discuss the societal expectations of joy and the reality of many individuals feeling isolated and disconnected. The discussion delves into different types of loneliness, the impact of grief, and the importance of therapists being present and empathetic with their clients. They emphasize the need for connection, joy, and identity in overcoming loneliness, and how therapists can help clients navigate these feelings during the holidays.
Monica Mouer, Geoff Holsclaw, and Cyd Holsclaw explore the intersection of healing, neurotheology, and the life model. They discuss the importance of secure attachment with God, the integration of psychology and theology, and the urgent need for healing within the church. The dialogue emphasizes the role of compassion, maturity, and community in the healing process, while also highlighting upcoming events that aim to foster these discussions further.
In this episode, Angie Richey, Monica Mouer and Alyssa Voglewede engage in a deep conversation w about the Life Model and its transformative impact on therapy and education. They explore the importance of attunement, the role of trauma in personal development, and how the Life Model provides a framework for healing and connection. Angie shares her journey as a therapist and educator, emphasizing the need for understanding human development and the power of Immanuel encounters in therapy.The discussion highlights the significance of integrating the Life Model into professional practice to foster personal growth and community healing.
In this conversation, Jesse Gill and Monica Mouer explore the integration of attachment theory with Christian faith, discussing its implications for marriage therapy, pastoral care, and personal flourishing. They emphasize the importance of secure attachments and the role of community in supporting mental health and emotional well-being. The discussion also highlights the work of Dr. Jim Wilder and Life Model Works, providing insights into how these concepts can be applied in therapeutic settings.
In this conversation, Gracy Bondy and Monica Mouer explore the intersection of therapy, art, and community healing through the lens of the Life Model. Gracy shares her journey from the mission field to becoming an art therapist, highlighting the transformative power of the Life Model principles in her personal and professional life. They discuss the importance of community, relational skills, and the Immanuel approach in fostering healing and transformation.
In this conversation, Michele Hardy and Monica Mouer, explore the principles of the Joy Center, a therapeutic practice rooted in the Life Model. They discuss the importance of personal healing in professional practice, the concept of attunement in therapy, and the significance of following one's heart in the journey of emotional wellness. The dialogue emphasizes the integration of personal experiences into therapeutic approaches and offers advice for aspiring therapists seeking to grow in their practice.
In this podcast episode, Alyssa Voglewede and Monica Mouer dive into how Life Model-informed therapy uniquely addresses key challenges in mental health care.This conversation sheds light on how a brain-based, relational approach can help both therapists and clients navigate trauma, maturity development, and emotional healing in a deeply integrated and transformative way.
In this podcast episode, Alyssa Voglewede and Monica Mouer discuss the importance of recognizing and addressing minority mental health issues, particularly focusing on the signs of mistreatment and abuse that clients may experience. They explore the role of therapists in identifying these issues, the impact of codependency, and the significance of validation in therapy. The conversation emphasizes the need for therapists to be aware of systemic harm and to help clients navigate their identities and realities in a supportive environment.
In this conversation (we) delve into the complexities of minority mental health, exploring themes of acceptance, rejection, and the importance of empathy in therapy. We share some personal stories and insights on how societal discrimination impacts mental health, emphasizing the need for a supportive community and the power of unconditional love. We discuss the role of therapists in validating experiences of mistreatment and fostering a sense of belonging, while also addressing the challenges of confronting discrimination and gaslighting. The conversation highlights the significance of building connections and understanding in creating a more inclusive society. We hope you enjoy.
In this conversation, trauma therapists Monica Mouer and Alyssa Voglewede discuss the significance of PTSD Awareness Month, exploring the complexities of PTSD, its impact on veterans and first responders, and the broader implications for various professions. They delve into the effects of PTSD on relationships, the importance of understanding and addressing the condition, and the various treatment modalities available. The conversation emphasizes hope and the potential for recovery, encouraging those affected by PTSD to seek help and support.
In this conversation, trauma therapists Monica Mouer and Alyssa Voglewede discuss the complexities of PTSD, the various types of trauma, and the critical role therapists play in supporting individuals through their healing journeys. They emphasize the importance of self-care for therapists and the need for connection and community in the therapeutic process.
In this conversation, we (Monica Mouer and Alyssa Voglewede) discuss the significance of PTSD Awareness Month, exploring the complexities of PTSD, its impact on veterans and first responders, and the broader implications for various professions. We delve into the effects of PTSD on relationships, the importance of understanding and addressing the condition, and the various treatment modalities available.
🎧LISTEN NOW! In this newest episode, we explore how planting seeds of joy can cultivate deep, lasting healing through the lens of the Life Model—featuring our newest colleague at the Center for Family Transformation, Alex Popa.This conversation is a powerful reminder that joy isn't a byproduct of healing—it’s the starting point. Whether you’re a clinician, caregiver, or simply someone on a healing journey, Alex brings a fresh and compassionate voice to what it means to grow from trauma toward transformation.ALEX & LMITAlex joined the Center for Family Transformation with a deeply rooted passion for counseling and a long-standing connection to the Life Model. In fact, his introduction to the model came during his college years—when none other than Dr. Karen Struble (featured in our last episode) served as one of his professors and mentors.Alex’s experience is both broad and personal. After graduating with a double major in Psychology and Human Services from Montreat College, he and his wife spent over a decade at Wears Valley Ranch—a Christ-centered home and school for children from crisis situations. From live-in mentoring to leading the New Life Counseling Center, Alex’s heart for helping children, families, and individuals walk through trauma into hope has been evident every step of the way.At CFT, Alex provides care for children, teens, adults, couples, and families facing a variety of challenges—from anxiety and attachment to family conflict and spiritual growth. His integrative, holistic approach draws from several therapeutic models, always centered on each person’s unique story and intrinsic value.Through this episode, you’ll hear how Alex applies the Life Model in real-life counseling work—and how joy, even in the smallest moments, can spark remarkable transformation.-------------------------------------------------------Don't miss out on this journey to enhance your practice and impact lives. 📍 Start YOUR journey HERE ➡️ https://www.cftinstitute.com/the-life... FREE CE TRAINING + CREDITS ➡️ https://www.cftinstitute.com/training/Join the NETWORK 📧 & be the first to receive updates on our new tools, podcast episodes, concepts, & professional trainings ➡️ https://mailchi.mp/familytransformati...We look forward to growing with you!
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In this powerful episode, we sit down with Dr. Karen Struble, a clinical psychologist whose work with children, families, and the Life Model spans decades. With dual degrees in psychology and theology from Fuller Seminary and five years of training under Dr. Jim Wilder at Shepherd’s House Counseling Center, Dr. Struble brings a rare depth of insight to the intersection of emotional healing, relational health, and spiritual formation.
She’s not only been part of the Life Model since its inception—working alongside Dr. Wilder before Life Model Works was even founded—but has also witnessed firsthand how its principles radically transform both children and adults.
Karen has also served as a scholarly consultant to our team in the creation of LMIT, offering invaluable guidance in reviewing our Life Model Informed Therapy curriculum on behalf of Life Model Works. Whether you’re a clinician, a parent, or someone interested in relational neuroscience and healing, Karen’s wisdom and warmth will leave you inspired and informed.
This week’s episode is special—my friend and colleague Sharon DeVries joins me, someone I’ve known since 2006 when she and her husband served in youth ministry at our church. Years later, she pursued a second career in therapy, and I knew she’d be an incredible asset to our team.
In this conversation, Sharon shares how we can heal the brain after trauma, activate the joy center, and reconnect with who we truly are through the Life Model. It’s honest, hopeful, and packed with insight.
You won’t want to miss this conversation! Watch or listen to the new episode—out now!