Kindness gets confused with being “nice,” but the Bible paints something deeper: kindness is active goodwill that moves toward others for their good—sometimes gently, sometimes firmly. In this episode, Natasha, Monique, and David unpack kindness as a fruit of the Spirit, why God’s kindness leads to repentance, and how Jesus shows kindness without enabling sin. They also talk about kindness as a single person, boundaries, the “pay-it-forward” guilt trap, and why doing the right thing for the right reason matters.
In this episode of the Route 77 Podcast, Natasha, Monique, and David keep journeying backwards through the fruit of the Spirit and land on one that often feels… underwhelming: goodness. In a world where “good” sounds like the bare minimum—good day, good meal, good enough—they unpack why Scripture treats goodness as something far richer: moral beauty in action, not just avoiding bad behaviour.
The three of them wrestle with big questions: How is the goodness of Jesus different from the “goodness” of the Pharisees? How do we tell the difference between genuine spiritual fruit and a carefully polished image? And what do we do with church hurt, false teachers, and believers who feel blindsided by leaders they trusted?
Natasha also takes us to Acts 9 and the story of Tabitha (Dorcas), a woman whose quiet, faithful goodness made her so deeply loved that her community could hardly imagine life without her. Together, they reflect on legacy, funerals, and what people might honestly say if we were gone tomorrow.
Whether you’re single, married, or somewhere in between, this episode is an invitation to ask: Am I becoming the kind of person whose goodness reflects Christ—and whose absence would be truly felt?
What does faithfulness really look like when you’re single and your heart aches for marriage, security, or a different life than the one you’re living? In this episode of the Route 77 Podcast, Natasha, Monique, and David unpack the Fruit of the Spirit—faithfulness—through the lens of singleness, desire, and idolatry.
Together they explore the Greek idea of pistis (faithfulness as trustworthiness, loyalty, and steadfastness), how God’s unchanging character anchors us, and how even good gifts like marriage, children, career, or comfort can quietly become “God things.” They wrestle with tough questions like: What if marriage never happens? Would losing God hurt more than losing that dream? and How do we surrender both our good desires and our sinful ones to Him?
With real stories, Scripture (Job, Proverbs, Philippians, and more), and a bit of laughter along the way, this conversation invites you to serve one Master, grow in faithfulness right where you are, and press on toward Christ—married or not.
Gentleness isn’t timidity—it’s controlled strength. In this episode, Natasha, Monique, and David dig into gentleness/meekness as a Fruit of the Spirit for singles: why independence can harden us, how unmet expectations turn into cynicism, and how Jesus models power under control (Philippians 4:5; Matthew 11:29; 1 Peter 2:23; Proverbs 15:1).
Takeaways: slow your reactions, practice self-gentleness, seek humility and gratitude, and let God’s nearness shape your tone. Soft strength is anything but weak.
Self-control is the last on Paul’s list of the fruit of the Spirit—but in real life, it often feels like the one we struggle with most. In this episode, Natasha, Monique, and David kick off a backwards walk through the fruit of the Spirit, starting with self-control and how it uniquely shows up in the lives of single Christians.
From sexual temptation and “I deserve this” spending, to doom-scrolling, boredom, and loneliness, they talk honestly about the places where our wills feel weak and our excuses feel strong. Along the way, they unpack why self-control isn’t just willpower or personality—it’s a Spirit-given fruit, grown as we set wise boundaries, notice our triggers, flee what pulls us under, and repent when we fall.
If you’ve ever thought, “I should have more self-control by now,” this conversation is for you. Be encouraged that God hasn’t given you a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control—and that His grace meets you even in the middle of the struggle.
Is singleness a spiritual gift? We say no. In this candid round-table, Natasha, Monique, and David unpack the church cliché and get honest about desire, hormones, and holiness. We dig into 1 Corinthians 7:7–9 (“better to marry than burn”) and show why Paul isn’t offering a lust-management loophole or promising a supernatural removal of sexual desire. Instead, we explore singleness and marriage as good gifts—seasons in which God calls us to devotion and self-control (a fruit of the Spirit, Galatians 5:22–23), not a pass on discipleship. We talk temptation vs. sin (Matthew 5:27–28), why marriage won’t “fix” porn or lust patterns, and practical pathways like fasting for training our desires toward Christ. Plus: a teaser for our upcoming series on the Fruits of the Spirit from a single-life lens.
What if singleness isn’t a waiting room but a calling worth celebrating? Natasha takes us through powerful excerpts from Timothy Keller, David Platt, and Elisabeth Elliot—three influential Christian thinkers who each bring clarity, theology, and comfort to the often-misunderstood topic of singleness. Tune in for a refreshing, gospel-centered look at what it means to live fully devoted to Christ.
It’s Thanksgiving, and Natasha and Monique ask the question: Am I living my singleness so people see Christ in me? We unpack contentment over bitterness, authentic fruit vs. “glued-on apples,” and how daily practices (Scripture, prayer, worship), healthy community, and service make our lives quietly radiant (1 Cor 7:32–35; Matt 5:16). Honest stories, real hope, and a challenge to live different on purpose.
In this episode, Natasha, Monique, and David tackle the churchy reflex to “qualify” people’s choices—especially when someone says they don’t want marriage or children. We unpack Scripture (yes, be fruitful and he who finds a wife), look at 1 Corinthians 7, and share stories like Jim & Elisabeth Elliot and Amy Carmichael to show that following Jesus can faithfully look different. Instead of pressure or “you’ll change your mind,” we talk about responding with encouragement so people are free to keep listening to God—now and later.
In Part 2 of our series on church hurt in singleness, Natasha, Monique, and David explore the subtle but painful cuts singles experience in the church—those “helpful” comments, lingering expectations, and the silence around what it means to live fully as a single believer. We discuss how these messages can leave singles feeling sidelined, how churches can do better, and how healing can begin when honesty, forgiveness, and discipleship meet.
In Part 1, Natasha, Monique, and David unpack how purity culture shaped expectations about marriage and sex, why so many singles felt sidelined, and how to begin healing without walking away from the Church—or Scripture.
Can a woman (or man) truly live life to the fullest without marriage? In this episode of the Route 77 Podcast, we explore the cultural pressures, biblical perspectives, and personal testimonies surrounding marriage and singleness. From Genesis to 1 Corinthians 7, we’ll unpack whether fullness comes from a spouse—or from Christ Himself. Whether you’re single, married, or somewhere in between, this conversation will encourage you to embrace your season and live abundantly right where you are.
Marriage is a beautiful gift—but it was never meant to be the mission of your life. In this episode, Natasha, Monique, and David unpack the subtle danger of making spouse-hunting your full-time purpose. From church conferences to everyday choices, it’s easy to let the pursuit of “The One” eclipse joy, growth, and God’s greater calling.
Through Scripture (Matthew 6:33), personal reflection, and practical insights, they will explore how to recognize when marriage has become an idol, why that mindset leaves us empty, and how to re-center our lives on God’s kingdom—whether single or married.
Your identity and worth aren’t found in a wedding ring. They’re found in Christ.
What does the Bible actually say about the “right age” to get married? Spoiler: it’s less about a number and more about wisdom, maturity, and God’s timing. In this episode, we unpack common assumptions about marrying young, share biblical examples, and push back against the idea that it’s a more spiritual path. Whether you marry at 20, 40, or not at all—you’re not missing God’s plan. Let’s talk freedom, not pressure.
Love is more than a feeling — it’s a choice, and how we express it matters. In this episode, we explore the 5 Love Languages — words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time, and physical touch — through the lens of Scripture. Discover how each one reflects God’s heart and how you can use them to strengthen your relationships, whether you’re single, dating, or married. Learn to speak love fluently, God’s way.
Saying "I love you" can feel exciting, romantic — and sometimes, dangerous. In this episode of the Route 77 Podcast, Natasha, Monique, and David explore the emotional and spiritual weight behind those three little words.
Why do we say it so soon? What does it actually mean in a dating relationship? And how can premature declarations of love create confusion, pressure, or even manipulation?
From personal stories to biblical wisdom, we unpack how to guard your heart, use your words wisely, and understand what love looks like when it’s grounded in truth — not just emotion.
Whether you're dating now or reflecting on the past, this conversation is for anyone who wants to love well and speak wisely.
What is a red flag in dating—and how do you know it’s not just a one-off mistake? In this week’s episode, Natasha and Monique get real about the warning signs they missed in past relationships and why recognizing red flags early can save you years of heartache. From poor conflict resolution to spiritual immaturity, they unpack personal, relational, and biblical red flags—and how to respond with wisdom, not panic. Whether you’re dating, healing, or supporting a friend through it, this episode offers clarity, conviction, and a bit of laughter along the way.
What happens if you find yourself unequally yoked? Whether you're thinking about dating a non-believer, already in a relationship, engaged, or even married to someone who doesn't share your faith—this episode is for you. We talk honestly about the biblical command not to be unequally yoked, what that really means, and how to navigate the messy, real-life situations many Christians face. We also explore friendships and business partnerships, and why those are a bit different. Join us for a conversation that's compassionate, practical, and rooted in Scripture.
We’ve all heard the verse: “Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers.” Most people think of it only when it comes to marriage. But is that all it applies to? In this episode, we unpack what it really means to be “equally yoked,” why this matters so much in dating, and how it can shape our closest friendships, business partnerships, and everyday decisions. Join us as we share personal stories, biblical insights, and practical advice on choosing relationships that help us walk in step with our faith.
We all know the warning to “wait for marriage,” but too often the conversation stops at sex. What about the emotional, spiritual, and mental intimacy that builds long before? In this episode of the Route 77 Podcast dating series, Natasha, Monique, and David dig into how other forms of closeness can push boundaries, set up unrealistic expectations, and even lead to the very physical temptation you’re trying to avoid.
We’ll share personal stories, practical guardrails, and biblical wisdom like Proverbs 4:23—“Above all else, guard your heart.” If you’re dating, thinking about it, or want to disciple someone who is, join us as we talk about protecting your whole heart in the pursuit of godly love.