Been holding on to this one since October, and the time has come. Talking yourself into staying? Ignoring the voice telling you it’s time to go? That heaviness in your gut is the answer. You're settling because it feels safer than facing the unknown, but it's costing you more than you realize. Ready to wake up? Casiah West and I are here to shake you out of it.
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Therapist and bestselling author Kati Morton joins me to unpack why we keep repeating patterns we know aren’t good for us. From people-pleasing and fawning to control and why awareness alone doesn’t create change, this episode is about getting honest with yourself and learning how to actually get unstuck.
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Please Advise is Chloe’s recurring advice segment for life, dating, and when your group chat isn’t enough.
This week’s inbox is a lot. We’re talking dysfunctional families, situationships that refuse to define themselves, love bombing, and men who say all the right things but do none of the right actions. From stolen baby Jesus incidents and holiday family chaos to red flags, gut instincts, and why “closure” is usually a myth.
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Why is EVERYONE going through a breakup right now???? I ditched my planned episode to sit down at home, mic in hand, and talk through the chaos with you. If you're in denial and numb, crashing out, rebounding away, crying in your room, or even secretly still talking to your ex, I got you. These are the rules of a breakup if you want to come out the other side feeling clearer, stronger, and a little more you again.
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Julia’s back, and so is the bowl of lore. From the time I fumbled Nick Jonas in a Studio City café, to carrying a stranger up six flights of stairs four martinis deep, to getting electrocuted in Bali on a brand trip… this episode is pure chaos in the best way.
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There’s a month left in the year. Lock in. This minisode is your five-step reset: money, body, routine, energy, boundaries. Let's get things in alignment before January sneaks up.
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Your body remembers what your mind tries to forget. Best-selling author and Psychotherapist Jessica Baum joins me to talk about attachment styles and how they affect our nervous systems. We get into the wheel of attachment, avoidant protectors, trauma bond vs love, when to stay vs go, and somatic healing.
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What if soulmates aren’t found, but made along the way? Author and podcast host Liz Moody joins me to talk about how to know if they’re your person, why real love looks more like laundry and taxes than fireworks, and what it means to grow with someone instead of chasing “the one.”
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It’s the season for jump scares and bad decisions, so obviously I’m telling scary stories. From the real-life horror that happened to me two weeks ago (I turned into Nancy Drew and got a man arrested) to attic lurkers, smiling strangers, and one possession story that still haunts me. Julia Kelly joins for commentary, chaos, and mezcal. Let's get into itttt.
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A Q&A that has it all: gamifying dating, finsta debriefs, a guy humming an insane song mid-kiss, a French prince reincarnated in Alabama, and the courage to leave the wrong engagement. Buckle uppp!
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Why is it SO hard to let go? Even when we know it’s not the right person, place, or thing for us? This ep was recorded live from my bed (with tea and a hard seltzer), literally an hour before posting. Consider this your late-night voice memo on why we hold on too long, why trusting yourself is the only way forward, and why maybe, just maybe, thank god we don’t always get what we think we want.
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Dating the human hot-and-cold? Avoidant attachment explains a lot. We called on licensed marriage and family therapist Stephanie Michaelian (@losangeles.therapy) to help us understand wtf is going on in the mind of an avoidant. We unpack childhood roots, adult red flags, and how to set requests (and boundaries) without losing yourself.
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BRING BACK CHALANT MEN. RIP to the “wyd?” text at 7pm. We want plans, effort, and a little emotional devastation. This week we unpack the lost art of the courting phase, how media shaped our expectations, and why consistency is the real grand gesture.
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"Do I love them enough? What if I’m making the wrong choice? What if they don't actually love me?" Welcome to the world of Relationship OCD (ROCD). This week, Chloe is joined by therapist + Trust & Thrive podcast host Tara Montazeri to talk about ROCD and the endless loop of doubt it can create. From intrusive thoughts to compulsions, we break down what ROCD looks like, how it impacts love, and tools for riding the wave instead of spiraling.
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Hi guys, it’s Chloe. This my first solo episode ever, with just me, a mic, and an easel to keep me company (yes, I Bob Ross'd my way through this). In this ep, I'm talking about co-dependency. I’ve lost myself trying to keep relationships alive, and this is about what happens when you finally decide to hold onto yourself instead. I’m anxious and in my luteal phase, be nice to me!
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She almost deleted the DM that would land her on Euphoria. In this unfiltered conversation, Chloe Cherry opens up about the truth behind her viral Faye character, the misconceptions about her past, and the love story that healed her. Turns out, being unapologetically yourself can take you places you didn’t even know were on the map.
If you've ever swallowed your discomfort and ignored your boundaries just to keep the peace, pull up a chair. We talk about narcissistic men all the time. What about the friend who constantly blows up on you, yet you're the one left apologizing? The mom who never takes accountability and makes you question your sanity the second you set a boundary? The sister who made everything a competition, then blamed you for the fallout? Therapist Seana Iwanyk joins us to unpack how narcissism shows up in women, and what happens when you finally stop playing along.
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Friends who get weird around guys, never clap when you win, or only hit you up when they need something...yeah, we’ve had them too. Making friends as an adult is weirdly vulnerable and way more complicated than anyone warns you. This week, we’re joined by the wise and wonderful Anastasia Dupee to talk about friendship red flags, low-maintenance lifers, growing out of old dynamics.
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Can understanding the science of heartbreak actually help you heal? Heartbreak feels like you’re dying because your brain literally thinks you are. In this episode, we break down what’s really happening in your body post-breakup. Cortisol spikes, dopamine crashes, withdrawal symptoms, and how love literally mimics addiction in the brain. It’s not just emotional, it’s chemical, and we’re here to help you make it out the other side.
Our frontal lobes are fully cooked, and we’ve got a list. No more situationships, gaslighting, or boyfriends who ruin birthdays. We’re done dating people who “like the idea of us,” done playing therapist for people who won’t get help, and done shrinking to make other people comfortable. This episode is a rapid-fire takedown of everything we’re leaving behind now that our prefrontal cortex finally decided to show up.
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