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Workplace Therapy with Dr. Abby Medcalf
Abby Medcalf
12 episodes
4 days ago

If Adam Grant and Brené Brown had a smart, funny, slightly bossy sister who showed up with her own table, her own chairs, and a slightly inappropriate snack tray, you’d get Dr. Abby Medcalf.

 

Welcome to Workplace Therapy, the podcast where workplace relationships finally get the therapy they’ve always needed. Whether you're burned out from boundary-less coworkers, stuck in a people-pleasing loop with your boss, or dreading yet another “quick” check-in from a micromanaging manager, Abby has the insight and attitude you’ve been craving.

 

With decades of experience as a psychologist, organizational consultant, and no-nonsense New Yorker, Abby delivers research-backed tips and strategies you can use today. No fluff. No vague leadership lingo. Just honest talk about the human side of work and how to finally feel energized and confident in your career again.


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If Adam Grant and Brené Brown had a smart, funny, slightly bossy sister who showed up with her own table, her own chairs, and a slightly inappropriate snack tray, you’d get Dr. Abby Medcalf.

 

Welcome to Workplace Therapy, the podcast where workplace relationships finally get the therapy they’ve always needed. Whether you're burned out from boundary-less coworkers, stuck in a people-pleasing loop with your boss, or dreading yet another “quick” check-in from a micromanaging manager, Abby has the insight and attitude you’ve been craving.

 

With decades of experience as a psychologist, organizational consultant, and no-nonsense New Yorker, Abby delivers research-backed tips and strategies you can use today. No fluff. No vague leadership lingo. Just honest talk about the human side of work and how to finally feel energized and confident in your career again.


Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Business,
Careers,
Health & Fitness,
Mental Health
Episodes (12/12)
Workplace Therapy with Dr. Abby Medcalf
12. Speak Up, Not Over: How to Shine in Your Year-End Review

If you're waiting for your manager to notice all the great things you’ve done this year, you might be waiting a long time. Year-end reviews aren’t just performance check-ins, they’re visibility checks. And if you’re not showing up with receipts, strategy, and confidence, you could be leaving money, respect, and future opportunities on the table. In today’s episode, I’ll show you how to advocate for yourself without sounding like a jerk. You’ll learn how to prepare, what to say, and how to handle pushback like a pro so you can walk into that meeting feeling powerful, not panicked.

 

Full blog and show notes: https://abbymedcalf.com/how-to-self-advocate

 

Your Year-End Review Prep Kit: 5 Steps to Advocate for Yourself. Get the Prep Kit and Walk in with Confidence: https://abbymedcalf.com/review-prep-kit

_________

 

Join my online community, One Love Collective, on Substack: https://abbymedcalf.com/substack

 

You'll get...

✨ Early drops + ad-free podcast episodes

✨ Worksheets, journal prompts, downloads, and guided visualizations

✨ Community chats and live Q&A calls with Abby

_________

 

Subscribe to the Love Letter and get my little messages each week! 

https://abbymedcalf.com/loveletter-opt-in/ 

 

👉 Pick up a copy of my new book, Boundaries Made Easy: Your Roadmap to Connection, Easy and Joy: https://abbymedcalf.com/boundaries

 

👉 Pick up The Workbook: Boundaries Made Easier to use as a companion to the book or as a standalone masterclass: https://abbymedcalf.com/boundaries-workbook

 

👉 Buy my #1 bestselling book on Amazon, Be Happily Married: Even If Your Partner Won’t Do a Thing: https://abbymedcalf.com/book 

____________________________

Looking for past episodes of the Relationships Made Easy Podcast? Head over to https://abbymedcalf.com/podcast-the-archives where you’ll find past episodes.

 

Ready to dig deeper? Take one of my online courses (some are FREE!) or grab a workbook: https://abbymedcalf.com/shop

 

A great idea to stay motivated and keep your head in a positive direction is to buy some of my fabulous, inspirational merchandise. Get yourself a t-shirt, mug, tote bag or notebook with that daily reminder that you’ve got this! https://abbymedcalf.com/shop

 

Say hello on social:

Substack: https://substack.com/@abbymedcalfphd

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/abbymedcalfthriving

LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/abbymedcalfthriving

YouTube: https://abbymedcalf.com/youtube


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1 day ago
19 minutes 18 seconds

Workplace Therapy with Dr. Abby Medcalf
11. The Great Reset: Don’t Drag This Year’s Work Drama into the Next One

Are you about to drag unresolved drama, resentment, or burnout from this year straight into your fresh new start? Stop right there. Before you haul that baggage into January, I’ve got three powerful questions to help you hit reset, find clarity, and finally break the cycle. This isn’t about pretending everything’s fine; it’s about freeing yourself from the emotional hangover of this past work year. Let’s get you aligned, unburdened, and focused on what you want, not what you’re reacting to. Grab a pen, you’re going to want this.

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Full blog and show notes: https://abbymedcalf.com/the-great-reset

 

Ready to stop recycling workplace drama and start the new year clean? Use this worksheet to reflect, reset, and reclaim your energy: https://abbymedcalf.com/story-lesson-worksheet

 

Join my online community, One Love Collective, on Substack: https://abbymedcalf.com/substack.

 

You'll get...

✨ Early drops + ad-free podcast episodes

✨ Worksheets, journal prompts, downloads, and guided visualizations

✨ Community chats and live Q&A calls with Abby

_________

 

Subscribe to the Love Letter and get my little messages each week! 

https://abbymedcalf.com/loveletter-opt-in/ 

 

👉 Pick up a copy of my new book, Boundaries Made Easy: Your Roadmap to Connection, Easy and Joy: https://abbymedcalf.com/boundaries

 

👉 Pick up The Workbook: Boundaries Made Easier to use as a companion to the book or as a standalone masterclass: https://abbymedcalf.com/boundaries-workbook

 

👉 Buy my #1 bestselling book on Amazon, Be Happily Married: Even If Your Partner Won’t Do a Thing: https://abbymedcalf.com/book 

____________________________

Looking for past episodes of the Relationships Made Easy Podcast? Head over to https://abbymedcalf.com/podcast-the-archives where you’ll find past episodes.


Ready to dig deeper? Take one of my online courses (some are FREE!) or grab a workbook: https://abbymedcalf.com/shop


A great idea to stay motivated and keep your head in a positive direction is to buy some of my fabulous, inspirational merchandise. Get yourself a t-shirt, mug, tote bag or notebook with that daily reminder that you’ve got this! https://abbymedcalf.com/shop


Say hello on social:

Substack: https://substack.com/@abbymedcalfphd

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/abbymedcalfthriving

LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/abbymedcalfthriving

YouTube: https://abbymedcalf.com/youtube


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2 weeks ago
13 minutes 5 seconds

Workplace Therapy with Dr. Abby Medcalf
10. Setting Goals at Work? You’re Skipping the Most Important Step

You’ve probably been told to set SMART goals. Maybe you’ve tried time-blocking, habit stacking, vision boarding... and yet you’re still burned out, overwhelmed, or just plain unmotivated. What if I told you that the most effective way to create goals at work, whether you’re a manager, new hire, or solopreneur, is to start with how you want to feel? That’s right. Before you even write a single to-do, ask: What emotional state do I want to cultivate? Today, I’m teaching you my Feelings-First Framework, and the five research-backed reasons it changes everything.

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Full blog and show notes: https://abbymedcalf.com/why-you-cant-stick-to-your-work-goals

 

Download the 5-Minute Reframe Tool for Shifting Your Thoughts, Regaining Control, and Aligning with How You Want to Feel: https://abbymedcalf.com/work-reframe-tool

 

Join my online community, One Love Collective, on Substack: https://abbymedcalf.com/substack.

 

You'll get...

✨ Early drops + ad-free podcast episodes

✨ Worksheets, journal prompts, downloads, and guided visualizations

✨ Community chats and live Q&A calls with Abby

_________

 

Subscribe to the Love Letter and get my little messages each week! 

https://abbymedcalf.com/loveletter-opt-in/ 

 

👉 Pick up a copy of my new book, Boundaries Made Easy: Your Roadmap to Connection, Easy and Joy: https://abbymedcalf.com/boundaries

 

👉 Pick up The Workbook: Boundaries Made Easier to use as a companion to the book or as a standalone masterclass: https://abbymedcalf.com/boundaries-workbook

 

👉 Buy my #1 bestselling book on Amazon, Be Happily Married: Even If Your Partner Won’t Do a Thing: https://abbymedcalf.com/book 

____________________________

Looking for past episodes of the Relationships Made Easy Podcast? Head over to https://abbymedcalf.com/podcast-the-archives where you’ll find past episodes.


Ready to dig deeper? Take one of my online courses (some are FREE!) or grab a workbook: https://abbymedcalf.com/shop


A great idea to stay motivated and keep your head in a positive direction is to buy some of my fabulous, inspirational merchandise. Get yourself a t-shirt, mug, tote bag or notebook with that daily reminder that you’ve got this! https://abbymedcalf.com/shop


Say hello on social:

Substack: https://substack.com/@abbymedcalfphd

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/abbymedcalfthriving

LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/abbymedcalfthriving

YouTube: https://abbymedcalf.com/youtube


Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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3 weeks ago
14 minutes 54 seconds

Workplace Therapy with Dr. Abby Medcalf
9. Are You Over-Apologizing at Work? Here’s How to Stop Without Seeming Rude

Are you constantly saying “sorry” at work even when you haven’t done anything wrong? You apologize for speaking up in meetings, for sending a second email, or for simply existing in someone’s path. What feels like being polite or humble might actually be undermining your authority, confidence, and even career growth. Today, we’re digging into why over-apologizing happens (especially for women and people socialized to keep the peace), what the research says, and exactly what to say instead so you sound confident and kind, not cold or arrogant.

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Full blog and show notes: https://abbymedcalf.com/why-you-apologize-too-much-at-work

 

Download The Apology Detox Toolkit: 10 Phrases to Use Instead of ‘Sorry’ at Work: https://abbymedcalf.com/apology-detox-toolkit

 

Join my online community, One Love Collective, on Substack: https://abbymedcalf.com/substack.

 

You'll get...

✨ Early drops + ad-free podcast episodes

✨ Worksheets, journal prompts, downloads, and guided visualizations

✨ Community chats and live Q&A calls with Abby

_________

 

Subscribe to the Love Letter and get my little messages each week! 

https://abbymedcalf.com/loveletter-opt-in/ 

 

👉 Pick up a copy of my new book, Boundaries Made Easy: Your Roadmap to Connection, Easy and Joy: https://abbymedcalf.com/boundaries

 

👉 Pick up The Workbook: Boundaries Made Easier to use as a companion to the book or as a standalone masterclass: https://abbymedcalf.com/boundaries-workbook

 

👉 Buy my #1 bestselling book on Amazon, Be Happily Married: Even If Your Partner Won’t Do a Thing: https://abbymedcalf.com/book 

____________________________

Looking for past episodes of the Relationships Made Easy Podcast? Head over to https://abbymedcalf.com/podcast-the-archives where you’ll find past episodes.


A great idea to stay motivated and keep your head in a positive direction is to buy some of my fabulous, inspirational merchandise. Get yourself a t-shirt, mug, tote bag or notebook with that daily reminder that you’ve got this! https://abbymedcalf.com/shop


Say hello on social:

Substack: https://substack.com/@abbymedcalfphd

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/abbymedcalfthriving

LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/abbymedcalfthriving

YouTube: https://abbymedcalf.com/youtube


Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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4 weeks ago
14 minutes 59 seconds

Workplace Therapy with Dr. Abby Medcalf
8. A Thanksgiving Pep Talk: 5 Things to Be Grateful for (Even If Work Feels Like a Dumpster Fire)

Welcome to a special bonus episode of Workplace Therapy. Whether you're listening while roasting a turkey or hiding in the bathroom from your in-laws, I’ve got a short and sweet Thanksgiving pep talk to help you find some peace (and maybe even a little joy) this week. Because even if your job feels like a soul-sucking vortex, there are still good things to hold onto. Let’s get into it.

_________

 

Full blog and show notes: https://abbymedcalf.com/a-thanksgiving-pep-talk

 

Join my online community, One Love Collective, on Substack: https://abbymedcalf.com/substack.

 

You'll get...

✨ Early drops + ad-free podcast episodes

✨ Worksheets, journal prompts, downloads, and guided visualizations

✨ Community chats and live Q&A calls with Abby

_________

 Subscribe to the Love Letter and get my little messages each week! https://abbymedcalf.com/loveletter-opt-in/ 

 

👉 Pick up a copy of my new book, Boundaries Made Easy: Your Roadmap to Connection, Easy and Joy: https://abbymedcalf.com/boundaries

 

👉 Pick up The Workbook: Boundaries Made Easier to use as a companion to the book or as a standalone masterclass: https://abbymedcalf.com/boundaries-workbook

 

👉 Buy my #1 bestselling book on Amazon, Be Happily Married: Even If Your Partner Won’t Do a Thing: https://abbymedcalf.com/book 

____________________________

Looking for past episodes of the Relationships Made Easy Podcast? Head over to https://abbymedcalf.com/podcast-the-archives where you’ll find past episodes.

 

Ready to dig deeper? Take one of my online courses (some are FREE!) or grab a workbook: https://abbymedcalf.com/shop

 

A great idea to stay motivated and keep your head in a positive direction is to buy some of my fabulous, inspirational merchandise. Get yourself a t-shirt, mug, tote bag or

notebook with that daily reminder that you’ve got this! https://abbymedcalf.com/shop

 

Say hello on social:

Substack: https://substack.com/@abbymedcalfphd

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/abbymedcalfthriving

LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/abbymedcalfthriving

YouTube: https://abbymedcalf.com/youtube


Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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1 month ago
6 minutes 36 seconds

Workplace Therapy with Dr. Abby Medcalf
7. 5 Communication Skills Every Professional Needs to Succeed

If I told you there was one skill that could help you get promoted faster, reduce conflict at work, build stronger relationships with your boss, your team, and your clients (and make you look like an absolute rock star in meetings), you’d want in, right? That skill is communication. But here’s the truth: most people think they’re better communicators than they are. Today, I’m giving you my top five workplace communication tools, distilled from more than three decades of working with organizations, leaders, and teams. These aren’t fluffy tips you’ve heard a million times. They’re evidence-based strategies that will help you connect, collaborate, and get results without the drama.

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Full blog and show notes: https://abbymedcalf.com/top-5-communication-skills-that-will-boost-your-career

 

Grab Your Prep Card - The Workplace Conversation Prep Card: https://abbymedcalf.com/convo-prep-card

 

Join my online community, One Love Collective, on Substack: https://abbymedcalf.com/substack.

 

You'll get...

✨ Early drops + ad-free podcast episodes

✨ Worksheets, journal prompts, downloads, and guided visualizations

✨ Community chats and live Q&A calls with Abby

_________

 

Subscribe to the Love Letter and get my little messages each week! 

https://abbymedcalf.com/loveletter-opt-in/ 

 

👉 Pick up a copy of my new book, Boundaries Made Easy: Your Roadmap to Connection, Easy and Joy: https://abbymedcalf.com/boundaries

 

👉 Pick up The Workbook: Boundaries Made Easier to use as a companion to the book or as a standalone masterclass: https://abbymedcalf.com/boundaries-workbook

 

👉 Buy my #1 bestselling book on Amazon, Be Happily Married: Even If Your Partner Won’t Do a Thing: https://abbymedcalf.com/book 

____________________________

Looking for past episodes of the Relationships Made Easy Podcast? Head over to https://abbymedcalf.com/podcast-the-archives where you’ll find past episodes.


Ready to dig deeper? Take one of my online courses (some are FREE!) or grab a workbook: https://abbymedcalf.com/shop


Say hello on social:

Substack: https://substack.com/@abbymedcalfphd

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/abbymedcalfthriving

LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/abbymedcalfthriving

YouTube: https://abbymedcalf.com/youtube


Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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1 month ago
13 minutes 59 seconds

Workplace Therapy with Dr. Abby Medcalf
6. Office Holiday Parties: How to Avoid Awkward, Drunk, or Career-Limiting Moves

It’s supposed to be the most wonderful time of the year. So why does your office holiday party feel like a social trap wrapped in sparkly paper? One too many drinks, a conversation that goes sideways, or a bad exit strategy, and suddenly you are known as “that person” until the next fiscal year. Today, I am giving you a research-based survival guide to handle your office holiday party like a boss. No shame spirals. No awkward Monday morning flashbacks. Just clear, confident steps to help you make a good impression while staying true to yourself.

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Full blog and show notes: https://abbymedcalf.com/office-holiday-parties

 

Download my free Holiday Party Prep Sheet: https://abbymedcalf.com/party-prep-sheet

 

Join my online community, One Love Collective, on Substack: https://abbymedcalf.com/substack.

 

You'll get...

✨ Early drops + ad-free podcast episodes

✨ Worksheets, journal prompts, downloads, and guided visualizations

✨ Community chats and live Q&A calls with Abby

_________

 

Subscribe to the Love Letter and get my little messages each week! 

https://abbymedcalf.com/loveletter-opt-in/ 

 

👉 Pick up a copy of my new book, Boundaries Made Easy: Your Roadmap to Connection, Easy and Joy: https://abbymedcalf.com/boundaries

 

👉 Pick up The Workbook: Boundaries Made Easier to use as a companion to the book or as a standalone masterclass: https://abbymedcalf.com/boundaries-workbook

 

👉 Buy my #1 bestselling book on Amazon, Be Happily Married: Even If Your Partner Won’t Do a Thing: https://abbymedcalf.com/book 

____________________________

Looking for past episodes of the Relationships Made Easy Podcast? Head over to https://abbymedcalf.com/podcast-the-archives where you’ll find past episodes.

 

Ready to dig deeper? Take one of my online courses (some are FREE!) or grab a workbook: https://abbymedcalf.com/shop

 

A great idea to stay motivated and keep your head in a positive direction is to buy some of my fabulous, inspirational merchandise. Get yourself a t-shirt, mug, tote bag or notebook with that daily reminder that you’ve got this! https://abbymedcalf.com/shop

 

Say hello on social:

Substack: https://substack.com/@abbymedcalfphd

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/abbymedcalfthriving

LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/abbymedcalfthriving

YouTube: https://abbymedcalf.com/youtube


Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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1 month ago
22 minutes 16 seconds

Workplace Therapy with Dr. Abby Medcalf
5. Is Your Work Anxiety Helping You or Slowly Destroying You?

Anxiety at work is practically a badge of honor in many high-achieving environments. You’re praised for staying up late to “double check” the deck or constantly monitoring your inbox “just in case.” But here’s the truth: while some anxiety can help you perform better, too much of it will wreck your productivity, your confidence, and your health. So how do you know when your anxiety is helpful and when it’s just running you ragged? Today we’ll break down the difference, the psychology behind it, and a simple five-step strategy to get back in the driver’s seat when anxiety shows up at work.

 

Full blog and show notes: https://abbymedcalf.com/anxiety-at-work

 

Get the Workday Grounding Toolkit: https://abbymedcalf.com/grounding-toolkit

 

Join my online community, One Love Collective, on Substack: https://abbymedcalf.com/substack.

 

You'll get...

✨ Early drops + ad-free podcast episodes

✨ Worksheets, journal prompts, downloads, and guided visualizations

✨ Community chats and live Q&A calls with Abby

_________

 

Subscribe to the Love Letter and get my little messages each week! 

https://abbymedcalf.com/loveletter-opt-in/ 

 

👉 Pick up a copy of my new book, Boundaries Made Easy: Your Roadmap to Connection, Easy and Joy: https://abbymedcalf.com/boundaries

 

👉 Pick up The Workbook: Boundaries Made Easier to use as a companion to the book or as a standalone masterclass: https://abbymedcalf.com/boundaries-workbook

 

👉 Buy my #1 bestselling book on Amazon, Be Happily Married: Even If Your Partner Won’t Do a Thing: https://abbymedcalf.com/book 

____________________________

Looking for past episodes of the Relationships Made Easy Podcast? Head over to https://abbymedcalf.com/podcast-the-archives where you’ll find past episodes.

 

Ready to dig deeper? Take one of my online courses (some are FREE!) or grab a workbook: https://abbymedcalf.com/shop

 

A great idea to stay motivated and keep your head in a positive direction is to buy some of my fabulous, inspirational merchandise. Get yourself a t-shirt, mug, tote bag or notebook with that daily reminder that you’ve got this! https://abbymedcalf.com/shop

 

Say hello on social:

Substack: https://substack.com/@abbymedcalfphd

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/abbymedcalfthriving

LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/abbymedcalfthriving

YouTube: https://abbymedcalf.com/youtube

 


Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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1 month ago
19 minutes 55 seconds

Workplace Therapy with Dr. Abby Medcalf
4. Why You’re Burnt Out and Ready to Quit, and How to Get Your Sanity Back Instead

If you’re dragging yourself out of bed every morning, fantasizing about quitting your job on the spot, or feeling like you’re failing at work and at life, this episode is for you. Burnout isn’t just about being tired. It’s about the creeping sense that no matter what you do, it’s never enough.

 

Today, we’re breaking down exactly why you’re so burnt out (not just the symptoms, but the hidden causes that keep fueling the fire). You’ll learn how to spot the early warning signs before they explode into full-blown exhaustion, the neuroscience behind burnout and motivation, and the one mindset shift that can help you stop spinning your wheels and start feeling human again.

 

As always, I’ll walk you through a clear, research-backed action plan so you don’t just survive until January, you recalibrate, recharge, and reclaim your energy before the new year even starts.

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 Full blog and show notes: https://abbymedcalf.com/why-youre-burnt-out-at-work

 

Take the quiz: What Type of Burnout Are You? https://abbymedcalf.comburnout-quiz

 

Join my online community, One Love Collective, on Substack: https://abbymedcalf.com/substack.

 

You'll get...

✨ Early drops + ad-free podcast episodes

✨ Worksheets, journal prompts, downloads, and guided visualizations

✨ Community chats and live Q&A calls with Abby

_________

 

 👉 Pick up a copy of my new book, Boundaries Made Easy: Your Roadmap to Connection, Easy and Joy: https://abbymedcalf.com/boundaries

 

👉 Pick up The Workbook: Boundaries Made Easier to use as a companion to the book or as a standalone masterclass: https://abbymedcalf.com/boundaries-workbook

 

👉 Buy my #1 bestselling book on Amazon, Be Happily Married: Even If Your Partner Won’t Do a Thing: https://abbymedcalf.com/book 

____________________________

Looking for past episodes of the Relationships Made Easy Podcast? Head over to https://abbymedcalf.com/podcast-the-archives where you’ll find past episodes.

Ready to dig deeper? Take one of my online courses (some are FREE!) or grab a workbook: https://abbymedcalf.com/shop

 

Say hello on social:

Substack: https://substack.com/@abbymedcalfphd

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/abbymedcalfthriving

LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/abbymedcalfthriving

YouTube: https://abbymedcalf.com/youtube


Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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2 months ago
12 minutes

Workplace Therapy with Dr. Abby Medcalf
3. Why No One Respects Your Work Boundaries (and How to Change That)

We’ve all been told to “set better boundaries” like it’s some magical fix for burnout or bad bosses. But here’s the truth: most people think they’re setting boundaries when they’re really just stating wishes or venting frustrations. Saying “I don’t like being interrupted” isn’t a boundary; it’s a feeling. A real boundary has a clear action and consequence: “If I keep getting interrupted, I’ll leave the meeting and follow up in writing.”

 

In today’s episode, I’m breaking down what a boundary actually is, why yours aren’t working, and exactly what to say so people take you seriously. If you’ve ever felt invisible, overextended, or quietly resentful at work, this one’s for you.

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Full blog and show notes: https://abbymedcalf.com/workplace-boundaries-that-stick

 

Train Your Team to Respect Your Boundaries. Grab my free BRAVE Boundary Toolkit: https://abbymedcalf.com/brave-toolkit


Join my online community, One Love Collective, on Substack: https://abbymedcalf.com/substack.

 

You'll get...

✨ Early drops + ad-free podcast episodes

✨ Worksheets, journal prompts, downloads, and guided visualizations

✨ Community chats and live Q&A calls with Abby

_________

 

Subscribe to the Love Letter and get my little messages each week! 

https://abbymedcalf.com/loveletter-opt-in/ 

 

👉 Pick up a copy of my new book, Boundaries Made Easy: Your Roadmap to Connection, Easy and Joy: https://abbymedcalf.com/boundaries

 

👉 Pick up The Workbook: Boundaries Made Easier to use as a companion to the book or as a standalone masterclass: https://abbymedcalf.com/boundaries-workbook

 

👉 Buy my #1 bestselling book on Amazon, Be Happily Married: Even If Your Partner Won’t Do a Thing: https://abbymedcalf.com/book 

____________________________

Looking for past episodes of the Relationships Made Easy Podcast? Head over to https://abbymedcalf.com/podcast-the-archives where you’ll find past episodes.


Ready to dig deeper? Take one of my online courses (some are FREE!) or grab a workbook: https://abbymedcalf.com/shop


Say hello on social:

Substack: https://substack.com/@abbymedcalfphd

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2 months ago
18 minutes 4 seconds

Workplace Therapy with Dr. Abby Medcalf
2. Are You Being Micro-Gaslit at Work? Here’s How to Spot It and Stand Your Ground

Have you ever walked away from a meeting feeling disrespected, but you couldn’t quite explain why? Maybe someone “joked” at your expense, downplayed your concerns, or told you to “relax” when you were being perfectly reasonable. That’s not a personality clash. It might be micro-gaslighting. The research shows that even subtle forms of gaslighting at work can lead to burnout, self-doubt, and a drop in performance and job satisfaction. But the worst part? It makes you question your own reality. In today’s episode of Workplace Therapy, I’ll teach you how to spot micro-gaslighting in real time, what to say when it happens, and how to stay grounded so you don’t hand over your power.

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2 months ago
13 minutes 42 seconds

Workplace Therapy with Dr. Abby Medcalf
1. They’re Not Just Annoying, They’re Undermining You: How to Handle Difficult Coworkers Without Losing It

You’re not imagining it — your coworker is difficult. In this episode, Dr. Abby Medcalf breaks down the psychology behind toxic workplace behavior and shares 5 research-backed steps to protect your peace, hold boundaries, and stay focused (without losing your mind or your job).

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Full blog and show notes: https://abbymedcalf.com/how-to-deal-with-difficult-people-at-work

 

Ready to handle difficult coworkers without losing your cool? Download The Difficult People Survival Guide, your quick-reference tool with scripts, grounding exercises, and strategies you can use today: https://abbymedcalf.com/difficult-people-guide

 

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👉 Pick up a copy of my new book, Boundaries Made Easy: Your Roadmap to Connection, Easy and Joy: https://abbymedcalf.com/boundaries

 

👉 Pick up The Workbook: Boundaries Made Easier to use as a companion to the book or as a standalone masterclass: https://abbymedcalf.com/boundaries-workbook

 

👉 Buy my #1 bestselling book on Amazon, Be Happily Married: Even If Your Partner Won’t Do a Thing: https://abbymedcalf.com/book 

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2 months ago
19 minutes 16 seconds

Workplace Therapy with Dr. Abby Medcalf

If Adam Grant and Brené Brown had a smart, funny, slightly bossy sister who showed up with her own table, her own chairs, and a slightly inappropriate snack tray, you’d get Dr. Abby Medcalf.

 

Welcome to Workplace Therapy, the podcast where workplace relationships finally get the therapy they’ve always needed. Whether you're burned out from boundary-less coworkers, stuck in a people-pleasing loop with your boss, or dreading yet another “quick” check-in from a micromanaging manager, Abby has the insight and attitude you’ve been craving.

 

With decades of experience as a psychologist, organizational consultant, and no-nonsense New Yorker, Abby delivers research-backed tips and strategies you can use today. No fluff. No vague leadership lingo. Just honest talk about the human side of work and how to finally feel energized and confident in your career again.


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