Your Southern Lesbian is a podcast hosted by Ashley Hydrick, a Gen-X lesbian storyteller from the American South currently broadcasting from London.
With humor, heart, and honesty, Ashley explores lesbian dating, queer community, and the realities of midlife love — from navigating relationships and finding confidence again to celebrating the culture, history, and everyday stories that connect us.
Whether you’re single, partnered, or just curious about the lives of queer women, this show offers laughter, reflection, and real talk about what it means to thrive as a lesbian today. Also available on YouTube!
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Your Southern Lesbian is a podcast hosted by Ashley Hydrick, a Gen-X lesbian storyteller from the American South currently broadcasting from London.
With humor, heart, and honesty, Ashley explores lesbian dating, queer community, and the realities of midlife love — from navigating relationships and finding confidence again to celebrating the culture, history, and everyday stories that connect us.
Whether you’re single, partnered, or just curious about the lives of queer women, this show offers laughter, reflection, and real talk about what it means to thrive as a lesbian today. Also available on YouTube!
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
🌈51. Are people really doing the best they can—and if they are, what do we do with the harm they still cause? And is success always growth… or is it sometimes just a distraction from unhealed trauma?
These two questions triggered the bleep out of me this week—and I’m guessing I’m not alone.
In Episode 51 of Your Southern Lesbian, I’m unpacking two ideas that pulled me in opposite directions: one rooted in compassion and boundaries, inspired by Rising Strong by Brené Brown, and another sparked by a quote from coach Brian Yang that seriously challenged how I think about success and trauma.
We talk about:
There’s humor, Southern rambling, British flight stories, Christmas chaos, and some real talk about trauma, growth, and choosing emotional safety without shutting your heart down.
I don’t have neat answers—but I do have lived experience, curiosity, and questions worth sitting with.
💬 I want to hear from you:
Do you think people are doing the best they can?
And how do you define success?
Drop your thoughts in the comments—and help me name my very chic Christmas gift while you’re at it. 😉
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📍 London, UK | Charleston, SC, USA
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This week, Ashley digs into the #1 holiday mistake lesbians make in relationships: expecting your partner to magically know what you need without ever saying it. Silent agreements, childhood patterns, love languages, and holiday pressure all collide this time of year — and it’s easy to project your needs instead of communicating them.
We talk about why mind-reading expectations create resentment, how to actually choose partners aligned with your energy, and what to let go of as we wrap up the final days of 2025’s Year of the Snake.
Short, sharp, and holiday-ready — this episode is your reminder to communicate clearly, give people grace, and stop expecting psychic abilities from your girlfriend.
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Episode 48 of Your Southern Lesbian with Ashley Hydrick explores why letting go of old patterns, old identities, and the wrong versions of love isn’t a loss — it’s an act of faith. Ashley breaks down how clinging to familiar but unhealthy emotional habits can block clarity, connection, and healthier love as we move into 2025–2026.
If you’ve been feeling stuck, repeating cycles, or holding space for someone who can’t meet you where you are, this episode offers grounded, compassionate guidance on releasing what no longer supports the life you want.
Tell me where you’re listening from + if this resonated. I read every message.
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This week on Your Southern Lesbian, host Ashley Hydrick dives deep into one of the biggest myths in breakup recovery: the idea that “time heals all wounds.”
If you’ve been replaying your breakup, obsessing over your ex, or waiting for time to magically do the work… this episode is your turning point.
Ashley breaks down:
• What healing actually is — a shift in perspective, not a countdown
• The truth about your shadow side and how it shapes your relationships
• How to stop attracting wound mates and start attracting alignment
• Why chaos can feel like chemistry (and how to tell the difference)
• How your nervous system signals the truth before your mind does
• Why you can’t manifest new love with yesterday’s energy
• How to understand your patterns, triggers, and inner-child wounds
• And the steps to finally evolve beyond your past relationships
Whether you’re a lesbian healing from a breakup, exploring shadow work, navigating queer dating, or rebuilding your self-worth after a painful relationship — this episode gives you tools, perspective, and the community support you didn’t know you needed.
Books mentioned (Amazon affiliate links-I may earn a small commission at zero added cost to you!):
Greenlights – Matthew McConaughey: https://amzn.to/3XzRJpX
Untamed – Glennon Doyle: https://amzn.to/4rk1juA
Will – Will Smith: https://amzn.to/4ry9L9M
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Ep. 2 WHERE DID ALL THE LESBIANS GO?
"In the early aughts, we had five lesbian bars to hit a week. Where did all the lesbians go now?"
Hey y'all, welcome to the second episode of "Your Southern Lesbian" podcast! In this lively and candid episode, Ashley, a proud Gen X lesbian, dives into the question that has been on everyone's mind: "Where Did All The Lesbians Go?" She reflects on the disappearing lesbian spaces of the early 2000s and discusses the current challenges of dating as a mature lesbian. Ashley explores the decline of lesbian bars, the role of dating apps, and the importance of community-building among lesbians of all ages. This episode is full of humor, nostalgia, and real talk about the ever-changing lesbian culture, with shoutouts to iconic lesbian events like Dinah Shore and thoughts on modern LGBTQIA+ dynamics.
Tune in for laughter, stories, and a passionate call to connect, share, and build community, no matter where you are in life.
Timestamps:
[00:00] - Intro & Welcome to the Podcast
[01:45] - Nostalgia: Lesbian Bars and the Early 2000s Scene
[05:30] - Where Did All the Lesbians Go?
[08:15] - Dating Challenges for Mature Lesbians
[12:00] - Exploring the Apps: Hinge, Match, and More
[17:45] - Chelsea Handler, Straight Women, and Lesbian Porn?
[21:00] - Dinah Shore: The Ultimate Lesbian Spring Break
[25:30] - Building Community & Supporting Each Other
[30:00] - Lesbian Inclusivity: Navigating Trans and LGBTQIA+ Discussions
[35:15] - The Importance of Creating Spaces for Connection
[40:00] - Wrap-Up: Building Community in a Changing World
Key Topics Covered:
Lesbian culture and disappearing social spaces
Dating as a mature lesbian
Use of dating apps for lesbians: the pros and cons
Nostalgia for the vibrant lesbian bar scene of the early 2000s
The importance of community, especially in uncertain times
Inclusivity within the LGBTQIA+ community
How to meet other lesbians outside of bars and apps
Subscribe, like, and comment below! Join the conversation by sharing your thoughts on where all the lesbians have gone, the best dating apps, and how to build stronger lesbian communities.
Feel free to suggest topics for upcoming episodes—this is an interactive podcast, and your voice matters!
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Ep.1 Introducing Your Southern Lesbian Channel, Podcast, and Community. This is meant to be a FUN way to connect to other lesbians both in your own backyard and around the world. We have the technology--why not?? :)
It's also meant to to be a resource for lesbians, their allies, and those questioning, or anyone who feels drawn here.
And Les be real...making and maintaining lesbian friendships and your sense of community gets tougher as we mature and grow wiser (I'm not sayin' older! ;) But what a cool thing to be able to chat in the comments with others like you, with similar interests, but I'd also LOVE for us to do some live zooms together with our #globallesbiancommunity as we gain enough interest and toss out all kinds of topics that are fun and meaningful.
#yallconnect
Fantastic toolkit to get you started setting up a Gay-Straight alliance chapter at your or your kid’s school:
GLSEN:
https://www.glsen.org/support-student-gsas
Link to LGBTQIA mental health resources about coming out or being outed at school:
The Trevor Project:
https://www.thetrevorproject.org/resources/article/creating-safer-spaces-in-schools-for-lgbtq-youth/
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Main Topics:
Love Lies Bleeding Review:
Directed by Rose Glass.
Stars Kristen Stewart, Katy O'Brien, Ed Harris, and Dave Franco.
Similar vibe to "Bound" with campy macabre and great character building.
Kristen Stewart's performance and the film's representation of lesbians.
Community Feedback
Gratitude for audience engagement and responses.
How do y'all feel about the word "lesbian?"
Personal anecdote about reclaiming the term "lesbian" and its impact.
Lesbian Relationships:
Discussion on femme-femme relationships and societal perceptions.
The issue of lesbian couples being mistaken for sisters.
Challenges faced by femme couples even in LGBTQ+ spaces.
The phenomenon of lesbian couples withdrawing from social circles.
Importance of trust and communication in relationships.
Personal Growth and Therapy:
The host's journey through therapy and self-improvement.
Addressing complex PTSD and the importance of processing feelings.
Resources for listeners who might be going through similar experiences.
Community Events:
Positive experiences at lesbian meet-ups.
Encouraging listeners to join local meet-ups for community and support.
Lesbian Representation in Media:
Critique of lesbian characters and storylines in movies and TV shows.
Desire for positive and sane lesbian characters with happy endings.
Inviting listeners to share their favorite or least favorite representations.
Call to Action:
Engage with the community by commenting on topics discussed.
Share your thoughts on the term "lesbian" and how you prefer to be identified.
Provide feedback on femme-femme relationships and social dynamics.
Recommend books and resources for personal growth and therapy.
Participate in local lesbian meet-ups and share your experiences.
Thank you guys for all your support and engagement!!! We all need it!
Let's keep it going in future episodes! :)
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* Special Thanks:
* Public thank you to Dena Paduano, my co-host of our "Life in the New Normal" podcast, for her support and encouragement.
Main Topic:
* Disturbing Meetup Story of the Week:
* Ashley recounts a disastrous experience at a London Lesbian Meetup for a screening of "Amy”, the Amy Winehouse film.
* Describes feeling ill after eating questionable popcorn, ultimately leading to passing out and vomiting in the theater.
* Emphasizes the importance of attending Meetups despite potential awkwardness, sharing that she still returned and interacted with the group.
Encouragement for Single Mature Lesbians:
* Overcoming Meetup Anxiety:
* Encouragement for viewers to attend Meetups and not let fear hold them back.
* Assurance that everyone experiences awkward moments and that it's part of life.
* Personal Reflections:
* Ashley shares her journey from a party lifestyle to a healthier, more mindful existence.
* Emphasizes personal growth and the importance of aligning actions with values, such as her veganism and ethical choices.
* Interactive Segment:
* Ashley Invites viewers to share their most horrifying Meetup or first date stories.
* Encourages open discussion and connection within the community.
Discussion Topic: Femme and Butch Dynamics:
* Viewer-Suggested Topic:
* Exploration of whether feminine lesbians feel the need to present more masculine to attract partners.
* Questions the dynamics of femme-femme relationships and whether one partner tends to adopt a more masculine role.
Support for Mature Lesbians:
* Community Building:
* Ashley acknowledges the unique challenges faced by single mature lesbians and aims to provide support and encouragement.
* Invites viewers to share their thoughts and experiences to foster a supportive community.
* Final Thoughts:
* Emphasizes the importance of resilience and continuing to engage in social activities despite fears or past negative experiences.
* Encourages ongoing viewer interaction and topic suggestions.
Call to Action:
* Ashley Invites viewers to comment below or send messages with their thoughts, stories, and topic ideas.
* Promises to keep episodes relevant and engaging based on viewer feedback.
Connect with Ashley:
* Subscribe: Don’t forget to subscribe to the channel for more insights and personal stories!
* Follow on Social Media:
* Instagram: @ahydrick
* Tik Tok Interactive Community: @your.southern.lesbian
Thank you for watching! If you enjoyed this episode, please like, comment, and share with your friends. See you in the next episode!
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(Thank You! Heartfelt thanks to all listeners for your beautiful comments and engagement. It keeps me coming back and fuels our community spirit.)
Our little TikTok Lesbian community is blowing up with amazing interactions. If you haven't checked it out yet, head over there! The community is engaging and supportive. :)
TikTok: @your.southern.lesbian
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In this episode, your favorite southern lesbian, Ashley Hydrick, broadcasts live from a kitchen in Windsor, UK. Despite the occasional loud plane flying overhead, she delivers another engaging episode filled with her unique wit, warmth, and southern charm. She kicks off the show by discussing the amazing support and engagement from the community, especially on TikTok. She praises the younger generation's involvement, tech savviness, and emotional maturity.
BBC's "I Kissed a Girl": A shout-out to the newest lesbian-centered BBC show, sparking conversation about how today's young lesbians are navigating relationships.
She also dives into her love of lesbian romance novels, discussing her favorites like Jericho by Anne McMan and The Soho Loft Series by Melissa Brayden. She invites listeners to share their favorite lesbian romance books as well.
It's almost Pride Season! While it's a time for celebration with friends and public parades, let's not forget the historical significance.
Quick history: Homosexuality was considered a mental disorder until 1973, changed due to protests post-Stonewall riots.
Pride began as a riot, a reminder of our journey and a chance to desensitize the world to our presence and rights.
Safety Tips: Be aware of your surroundings, know where officers are, and watch out for pickpockets. Enjoy, but stay safe!
From heartfelt reflections on Pride to humorous musings on TikTok trends, lesbian dating apps, and romance novels, this episode has something for everyone.
Fun fact: I often find myself deep-diving into comment sections late at night to see who's who! (Maybe also doin’ a little wife-searchin’!)
Timestamps:
0:00 - 2:00: Introduction and shoutout to listeners
2:01 - 8:45: TikTok lesbian community, tech challenges, and TikTok trends
8:46 - 12:35: Pride reflections, history, and safety tips for Pride events
12:36 - 18:00: Review of the BBC show I Kissed a Girl
18:01 - 22:00: Lesbian romance novels discussion and recommendations
22:01 - 24:30: Wrap-up and shoutouts to listeners
LESBIAN BOOKS MENTIONED:
Jericho by Anne McMan
The Soho Loft Series by Melissa Brayden
Born Out of Wedlock by Lynn Gardner
Behind the Green Curtain by Riley LaChe
Waiting in the Wings by Melissa Brayden
Turbulence by E.J. Noyes
(Special shoutout to Abby Craden, a fantastic narrator in the genre!)
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Ep 6: Embracing the Fear: Finding Love and Connection as Mature Lesbians with Solange Pollack, LMFT
Welcome back, y'all! In this heartfelt episode of "Your Southern Lesbian," host Ashley Hydrick reconnects with her longtime friend and licensed marriage family therapist, Solange Pollack, LMFT. Together, they dive deep into the unique challenges and opportunities faced by mature lesbians as they navigate relationships, community, and self-growth. Solange shares her expert insights on overcoming fear, understanding trauma, and practicing mindfulness to foster healthier connections. Tune in for an empowering conversation about embracing your past, owning your present, and looking forward to a brighter future.
Book a therapy session with Solange:
Available both in-person (Los Angeles) and online
(424) 401-2364
Fee schedule & email:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/solange-pollack-therapy--los-angeles-ca/1062833
Follow Solange on Instagram: solangepollacktherapy
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In Episode 8, Ashley takes you to a Southern back porch—birdsong, sweat, and all—to talk about what’s new in the lesbian world and what’s stirring in our hearts. From Maren Morris stepping into her queer truth to Meryl Streep’s daughter Louisa Jacobson coming out, Ashley shares the joy of “new and notable lesbians” making headlines.
She also dives into a listener question on sapiosexuality, breaking down what it really means to be attracted to intelligence—and how that plays out in lesbian dating. Ashley gets real about the challenges of finding community in the South, facing fears of putting yourself out there, and why sometimes the bravest thing is simply showing up.
Finally, she opens up about navigating old family triggers, healing childhood wounds, and learning how to regulate your nervous system in tough moments. Through humor, honesty, and a little sweat, Ashley reminds us that we can rewrite old patterns with compassion—and that community, love, and hope are always worth the effort.
✨ Highlights:
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Hey y'all! It's your Southern Lesbian, Ashley Hydrick, coming to you from my car in the parking lot of Goodwill. Desperate times call for desperate measures, but I just had to check in with you all.
In this special Pride Month episode, I share a bit about my recent family vacation in the South (and the challenges of finding a quiet spot to record!)
We dive into some of the exciting things happening in lesbian pop culture right now, with shoutouts to amazing artists like Billie Eilish, Chappell Roan, Fletcher, Renee Rapp, Kehlani (who was pointed out after publish date!) and the much-missed King Princess.
We'll also chat about the hilarious show Hacks and its fantastic representation of the lesbian community. Plus, I’ll share some tips on finding and building community, whether you're in a bustling city or a small town.
And for my solo travelers out there, I encourage you to take the plunge and enjoy the empowering experience of a solo vacation. Whether you're dining alone, visiting a museum, or exploring a new city, there’s so much to gain from stepping out of your comfort zone.
Happy Pride Month to all my friends in London and around the world! Let's celebrate our beautiful community and continue to support and uplift each other. Thank you for your wonderful comments and messages—they mean the world to me.
Stay brave, stay proud, and I'll see y'all next time!
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Welcome back, y’all! In Episode 13 of Your Southern Lesbian, Ashley talks about the film Driveaway Dolls (no, not Driveway Dolls as she hilariously mentioned last week) and gives her take on this quirky dark comedy with some lesbian action. Directed by Ethan Coen and co-written by wife (and lesbian!) Tricia Cooke, Ashley dives into the representation (or lack thereof) of lesbians in film today and why it's so important to have real lesbian voices both in front of and behind the camera.
She also throws out the idea of doing a watch party for the film and seeks your input on how to make it happen—because community is key, y’all! Plus, she gets real about feeling out of control in life, sharing some personal experiences and offering advice on how to reclaim your own sense of direction.
This week’s deep dive includes some powerful thoughts on staying positive in tough times and embracing the uncomfortable, with tips on tapping into what lights you up. Ashley reminds us all to plan for joy and shares how we can take control by making small, intentional moves toward what we truly want.
Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share your thoughts in the comments—Ashley loves hearing from you all!
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In Episode 14, host Ashley Hydrick dives deep into the complexities of dating as a mature lesbian, focusing on emotional availability and intentionality. Ashley shares candid stories from her own dating life, emphasizing the importance of not settling—even when the dating pool offers attractive, but emotionally unavailable partners. She reflects on her personal growth, six years of therapy, and how meditation helped her release emotional baggage from past relationships.
Ashley also discusses the significance of creating a realistic "partner list"—qualities you're looking for in a partner—without being overly picky, and how to handle the allure of emotionally unavailable women (especially if they're great kissers!). She talks about how alcohol and casual dating shaped earlier years, contrasting that with her current, more intentional approach to love.
Ashley’s honesty about her journey offers guidance for those who are re-entering the dating scene, particularly in midlife, and encourages viewers to be brave enough to choose partners that align with their values and emotional needs.
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In Episode 15, Ashley explores the world of lesbian meetups, pride events, and LGBTQ+ spaces—whether you’re in a big city like London or tucked away in a smaller, conservative town. She shares personal stories from both the South and London, plus practical tips on how to find your people.
✨ Highlights:
October’s theme is all about finding your people—so if you’re looking for love, friendship, or community, this one’s for you. 🌈
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In this episode of Your Southern Lesbian, Ashley Hydrick dives back into the exciting world of lesbian dating and how to meet women in all kinds of places. Picking up from last week, Ashley gives you 10 more ways to find love (or at least a fun date)! From LGBTQ cruises to book clubs, drag theater, pottery classes, and even spiritual communities, there's something here for everyone. Of course there's a bit of her signature humor, chat of her "woo woo witchy" side, and encourages you to get brave, be curious, and dive into new experiences. Whether you're looking to expand your social circle or find that special someone to snuggle with this fall, you're covered!
Get ready to take notes and manifest your perfect meet-cute moment! Don’t miss this hilarious and heartfelt episode that’s packed with practical tips, a touch of spirituality, and a whole lot of love for the LGBTQ community.
Timestamps:
00:00 – Welcome back and recap of last week
02:30 – Tip #11: LGBTQ cruises (Olivia Cruises, anyone?)
https://www.olivia.com
06:15 – Tip #12: Attending drag shows and LGBTQ theater
https://www.outfest.org/
11:00 – Tip #13: Crafting classes for hands-on connections
13:50 – Tip #14: Lesbian book clubs – real or virtual
https://www.gaystheword.co.uk/
18:40 – Tip #15: Finding LGBTQ-friendly spiritual communities
https://agapelive.com/
A google search of "gay-friendly church or spiritual center" pulls up so many options!
23:10 – Tip #16: Hiking and outdoor adventures with MeetUp
27:45 – Tip #17: LGBTQ film festivals and screenings
https://www.outfest.org/
33:00 – Tip #18: Lesbian sporting events – soccer, softball, and basketball
38:40 – Tip #19: Embracing social media (Lesbian TikTok, anyone?)
44:10 – Closing thoughts and encouragement
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🌈 Dear Aubrey, for Christmas I would like… a wife. Gorgeous, funny, kind, witty, healthy, and moving at my pace, please and thank you.
In this episode of Your Southern Lesbian, Ashley sits down with LA-based Intuitive Coach, spiritual guide, and quantum life mentor Aubrey Kapree (@its.your.universe) to talk about what it really takes to call in healthy love – and why so many of us keep attracting the same woman in a different outfit.
From quantum mechanics to childhood trauma, from triggers to twin flames, this one goes full woo-woo in the best possible way.
You’ll hear us get into:
Aubrey also shares her own journey with spiritual awakenings, all the clairs, and how doing deep inner work actually amplified her gifts instead of numbing them out.
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Aubrey is offering 50% off a first-time one-on-one session for Your Southern Lesbian listeners.
In your session, she can help you:
To book:
Whether you’re in London, Los Angeles, Charleston, or somewhere in between, this one’s especially for the femmes, the soft studs, the U-Haul romantics, and every Gen-X lesbian who’s ready to stop repeating the same old story and start manifesting a healthier Mrs Right.
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Welcome back, y'all! I'm Ashley, Your Southern Lesbian, and I’m thrilled to have you here for yet another fun episode. This week, we continue our journey of discovering places to meet other women-loving-women. In the last two episodes, we gave y'all a bunch of suggestions, and today, we're bringing you ten more! From the infamous Dinah Shore Weekend in Palm Springs to quirky speed dating stories and lesbian supper clubs, there's something for everyone.
Here's a sneak peek of today's topics:
Dinah Shore Weekend: Lesbians, pool parties, and debauchery in the desert!
https://thedinah.com
Brandi Carlile's Girls Just Wanna Weekend: Music, beach vibes, and community in Mexico.
https://www.girlsjustwannaweekend.com
Lesbian Speed Dating: Hilarious stories from my own awkward experience.
LGBTQ Choirs & Karaoke Nights: Sing your way into someone’s heart!
Mature Lesbian Retreats: Finding community at all stages of life.
Lesbian Supper Clubs & Vegan Cooking Classes: Bond over food and laughter.
Whether you're ready to explore your local lesbian scene or looking for fun travel ideas, today’s episode is packed with tips and stories to inspire you to get out there and meet your people.
And don’t forget—head over to our TikTok page, Your Southern Lesbian, where we’ve got a lively community in the comments section!
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Happy Halloween, y'all! We're in our final week of our October theme of 40 Ways to meet other lesbians.
This week's list includes:
Gaming groups: Lesbian gaming communities and online platforms.
Dance classes: Salsa, ballroom, and other dance classes.
Networking events: LGBTQ+ business networking.
Gardening groups: Queer women's gardening groups and community gardens.
Political activism: Getting involved in LGBTQ+ causes and campaigns.
Comedy nights: Attending LGBTQ+ comedy shows and events.
Adult education courses: Taking classes and workshops.
Photography groups: Joining nature or architecture photography groups.
Dog walking: Meeting other lesbians at dog parks and walking groups.
Horseback riding: Participating in horseback riding lessons or trail rides.
Game nights: Hosting or attending lesbian game nights.
Ashley mentions Esther Perel’s conversation starter card game “Where Should We Begin?”:
https://www.amazon.com/ESTHER-PEREL-Where-Should-Stories/dp/B0BSFVNHQW/ref=asc_df_B0BSFVNHQW/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=693445938638&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=7490866596980110532&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=1015254&hvtargid=pla-1989460012994&psc=1&mcid=90bf14cf03973cb786d80559d3e5cd62
Halloween parties: Attending LGBTQ+ Halloween events and parties.
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In Episode 19, host Ashley Hydrick returns to talk about the real challenges of lesbian dating, sharing lessons learned and practical advice on overcoming fear, building courage, and recognizing red flags. After hearing from the community, Ashley dives into the hurdles many face in dating due to the fear of getting hurt and how her personal growth journey has transformed her dating life. She reflects on the concept that "like attracts like," and shares how self-work, setting boundaries, and stepping out of her comfort zone helped her attract healthier relationships. Tune in for a blend of humor, wisdom, and that Southern charm as Ashley breaks down how self-love and courage are keys to finding genuine connection.
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