In this episode, Annie and Ben compare life in China, the UK, and Spain, exploring how different cultures understand happiness, daily life, and what it means to live well. We discuss lifestyle habits, work–life balance, social values, friendships, family expectations, and how each country shapes people’s sense of comfort and satisfaction. Why do some people feel happier in slower-paced cultures? Why do others prefer the efficiency and convenience of big cities like Beijing? Join us as we shar...
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In this episode, Annie and Ben compare life in China, the UK, and Spain, exploring how different cultures understand happiness, daily life, and what it means to live well. We discuss lifestyle habits, work–life balance, social values, friendships, family expectations, and how each country shapes people’s sense of comfort and satisfaction. Why do some people feel happier in slower-paced cultures? Why do others prefer the efficiency and convenience of big cities like Beijing? Join us as we shar...
In this episode, Annie and Ben compare life in China, the UK, and Spain, exploring how different cultures understand happiness, daily life, and what it means to live well. We discuss lifestyle habits, work–life balance, social values, friendships, family expectations, and how each country shapes people’s sense of comfort and satisfaction. Why do some people feel happier in slower-paced cultures? Why do others prefer the efficiency and convenience of big cities like Beijing? Join us as we shar...
In this special year-end episode, Annie and Kerin look back on 2025 and share our personal growth and the growth of our podcast. We talk about the most memorable moments of the year, the challenges we faced, the changes we experienced, and how this year shaped who we are today. We also share our vision for the future of the podcast — new topics, new formats, and how we hope to connect with more Chinese learners around the world. Thank you for walking with us through this year. This episode is...
Social media has become a huge part of our lives — but is it helping us feel more connected, or is it silently pushing us further apart? In this episode, we explore how platforms like WeChat, Xiaohongshu, Instagram, and TikTok shape our relationships, communication habits, and even our mental health. We also discuss why young people prefer “浅交往” and how online interactions are changing modern friendship. Join us to dive into how social media is reshaping our real-world connections...
In this episode, we explore the rise of new professions in China, from AI system testers and drone flight planners to sleep health managers and rural economy coordinators. As China’s economy transforms and technology develops rapidly, many emerging jobs reflect the changing values and lifestyles of young people — emphasizing creativity, flexibility, and work-life balance. We also discuss what these trends mean for China’s labor market, education, and the younger generation’s career choices. P...
Netflix has changed the way we watch shows and movies worldwide. In this video, we explore why Netflix became so successful and the challenges it may face in the future. From content strategy to global expansion, we break down the secrets behind its growth. Join us to understand the world of streaming entertainment. 奈飞已经改变了全球人观看电视剧和电影的方式。在本期视频中，我们探讨了奈飞为何如此成功，以及它未来可能面临的挑战。从内容策略到全球扩张，我们解析了它增长的秘诀。一起了解流媒体娱乐的世界吧。 🎧 This podcast is part of our Chinese learning series for intermediate and upper-inte...
By avoiding small, impulsive purchases, identity-driven spending, and anxiety-based shopping, you can save more without feeling deprived. Learn 3 simple “don’t buy” rules that turn everyday habits into wealth-building strategies. Start respecting your hard-earned money and watch your savings grow. 通过避免小额冲动消费、身份标签消费和未来焦虑消费，你可以轻松存钱而不感到克制。了解这三个简单的“不买”原则，让日常习惯变成财富积累的工具。开始珍惜你的劳动成果，存款自然增长。 🎧 This podcast is part of our Chinese learning series for intermediate and upper-intermediate learners. 🎧 本播客属...
In this episode, we discuss the rapid rise of medical aesthetics (医美) among China’s younger generation. From subtle cosmetic treatments like fillers, light therapy, and skin rejuvenation, to the growing culture of “anti-aging as self-care,” beauty is no longer just vanity — it’s a lifestyle. 💉✨ We explore why more young people are turning to medical aesthetics, what this trend says about social pressure, self-expression, and confidence, and how China’s beauty industry is expanding from big ci...
Today we’re talking about Zero-Sugar Socialising. “Zero-sugar” means low-sweet, low-sticky relationships — keeping comfortable distance and personal space. Since the pandemic, more people prefer this low-pressure, relaxed way of connecting. Do you prefer intense closeness, or calm companionship with space to breathe? 今天我们聊一聊 零糖社交。 “零糖”就是少甜、少黏的社交方式——保持舒适的距离和独立空间。 疫情之后，越来越多人更喜欢这种低压力、自在的相处模式。 你会选择高甜的亲密，还是更享受零糖的平静陪伴？ 🎧 This podcast is part of our Chinese learning series for intermediate and upper...
In this episode, we talk about the rise of new-style tea drinks (新茶饮) in China — from HeyTea to Mixue Bingcheng, these brands are not only popular among young people but also changing the country’s economy. How does bubble tea connect with rural development, supply chains, and global expansion? And why has milk tea become a symbol of youth culture and emotional comfort in China? Perfect for intermediate and upper-intermediate Chinese learners, this episode helps you understand modern consumer...
In this podcast, we talk about the rise of child influencers in China — kids who appear in livestreams, short videos, or reality shows. Why do so many parents let their children become online stars? What are the benefits and hidden risks behind fame at such a young age? We explore this issue from the perspectives of education, family, social values, and mental health. Perfect for intermediate and upper-intermediate Chinese learners, this episode helps you learn natural Chinese while under...
News about Barbie Hsu’s passing has sparked talks about inheritance and wills. 💰 Many avoid this topic, but without a will, family disputes can happen. 📜 Is writing a will really necessary? Let’s talk about why it matters for everyone. 👇 大S（徐熙媛）去世的消息引发了关于遗产和遗嘱的讨论。💰 很多人避讳这个话题，但没有遗嘱容易引发家庭纠纷。📜 立遗嘱真的有必要吗？ 我们一起来聊聊为什么每个人都该重视它。👇 Love my content? Buy me a coffee and help me create more! ☕https://buymeacoffee.com/annieandkerin https://www.buzzsprout.com/2448476/su....
In this episode, we discuss emotional spending. What is it, and why are people willing to spend money to improve their mood or relieve stress? From massages, spa sessions, concerts, movies, to buying small items that make you happy — these are all examples of emotional spending. We explore the psychology behind it and compare attitudes toward emotional spending between Chinese and Western cultures. 在这一期《天涯北京姑娘闲聊》中，我们聊聊“情绪消费”。什么是情绪消费？为什么人们愿意花钱来改善自己的心情或缓解压力？无论是去做按摩、SPA、听演唱会、看电影，还是买一些小东西让自己开心，这些...
In this episode , we dive into the rising trend of “buddy culture” in China. From gym buddies to lunch buddies to even parenting buddies – more and more people are choosing companionship without commitment. Is this a smart and efficient way to deal with loneliness, or does it lead to shallow relationships and emotional detachment? We share personal stories, pros and cons, and ask: Do you really need a “buddy”… or are you actually looking for a real friend? 在这期《听俩北京姑娘闲聊》中，我们聊聊当下年轻人中流行的“搭子文化”。什...
In this episode, we dive into the hot topic of Xibei restaurants and pre-packaged food in China. We discuss why pre-packaged meals have sparked controversy domestically, while comparing how similar products are received in Western markets. By exploring cultural habits, convenience, and taste preferences, we aim to uncover the differences in attitudes between Chinese and Western consumers. 在本期节目中，我们深入聊了最近国内引发热议的西贝餐厅事件以及预制菜的话题。我们讨论了为什么预制菜在国内引起争议，同时对比了欧美市场对类似食品的接受度。通过文化、便利性和口味偏好的分析，我们尝试揭示背后中西方消费...
📌 English Description In this special episode, we answer questions from our listeners about the podcast itself: Why did we choose this name? What kind of content can you expect here? What style and atmosphere do we want to create? Most importantly: How can you use our podcast to improve your Chinese? We share the story behind the podcast, our vision, and practical tips on how to listen, take notes, and reflect so that each episode becomes a tool for better language learning. 🎧 Perfect fo...
In Chinese culture, saying “no” directly can be seen as rude or impolite. People often choose to be vague or give indirect responses, even when they want to decline. In this video, I’ll explore the cultural reasons why many Chinese people find it hard to say "no," and how this differs from Western communication styles — especially in the UK and the US. This is a key part of understanding cross-cultural communication! 在中国文化中，“拒绝别人”常常被视为不礼貌、不近人情，很多人即使不愿意，也会勉强答应。这种“委婉”、“含蓄”的表达方式，和西方文化中直接说“不”的方式形...
Some people insist on making life harder than it needs to be — whether to save money, out of habit, or because of deep-rooted beliefs — even when modern technology could make life much easier. In this episode, we discuss: What does “无苦硬吃” (enduring unnecessary hardship) mean? Why do some people refuse to make life easier? How modern tools and technology can improve quality of life Balancing hard work and enjoying life Would you spend extra money for convenience, or stick to doing things ...
In this podcast, Kerin and I talk about our summer trips — I traveled to Africa, and she went to Dubai. We share our stories and reflections, and also discuss: Why do we travel? What does travel really mean in our lives? How does travel change our perspective of the world and ourselves? Is it about “seeing sights” or “experiencing life”? 🎧 Perfect for intermediate to advanced Chinese learners. Improve your Chinese listening while exploring the deeper meaning of travel with us. 这一次，我和 Ke...
AI can now write stories, create art, and even become a companion for your emotions. In this episode, we explore: How can AI provide emotional support to humans? Why are more young people in China turning to AI chatbots for comfort? The benefits and risks of emotional AI companionship Could human–AI relationships ever become “real” love? 🎧 This podcast is designed for intermediate to advanced Chinese learners. Improve your listening skills while reflecting on how technology is changing t...
Should we enjoy life now or save it for the future? In this episode, we explore one of the biggest dilemmas of modern life — Delayed Gratification vs Instant Enjoyment. What does "delayed gratification" really mean? Why are more and more young people choosing to enjoy the present? What are the psychological and cultural differences behind these choices? 🎧 This podcast is designed for intermediate to advanced Chinese learners. Improve your listening skills while reflecting on your own life...
In this episode, Annie and Ben compare life in China, the UK, and Spain, exploring how different cultures understand happiness, daily life, and what it means to live well. We discuss lifestyle habits, work–life balance, social values, friendships, family expectations, and how each country shapes people’s sense of comfort and satisfaction. Why do some people feel happier in slower-paced cultures? Why do others prefer the efficiency and convenience of big cities like Beijing? Join us as we shar...
