You ever zoom in on something and instantly regret it?That’s how most men judge themselves—by the tiny, imperfect tiles of their worst days.But God isn’t looking at one moment.He’s painting a masterpiece.In today’s video, I’m breaking down the Mosaic Principle:Why you feel stuck, how shame keeps you zoomed in, and how God restores your energy by shifting your focus from self to Christ.We’re talking about:• why missed workouts, snoozed alarms, and bad weeks don’t define you• how eternity reframes your identity• self-focused vs Christ-focused living• how shame, guilt, and condemnation blind you to your calling• the psychology of identity formation (CBT + NLP)• and the 5 Mosaic Questions that will restore your vision and consistencyIf you’re ready to stop judging yourself by your worst moments and start seeing yourself the way God sees you—this message is going to hit home.👉 Apply for Redprint CoachingIf you want clarity, confidence, and consistency in your walk with God, marriage, leadership, and purpose…Apply here: https://forms.gle/egBNW8QuPiQ294iRA👉 Subscribe for weekly Kingdom transformation: @betterthanbestacademy 👉 Grab the P2P Journal: https://www.amazon.com/Principles-Practice-Journal-Scripture-Strategy/dp/B0FTM2Z87W/ref=sr_1_1?crid=24KWHPJ7L0EWA&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.g7DnxTQdKgrgN2QKiRaEPFWRa3mPg8CZch47qaTgD__qRSn3qJwwPpcLuDZ87R_ATqnnDFUIwvzgAH9ggD5PowqUYwa_-whdU9N4lO1keuJWdzJihR0xKsvdxIHfyUJAg2De_LkffozRkomPa_1gdIOcc8iP4XmKFVeiduiv-5wQal6C66ztTlOz-xKGCHKgTGePcFat36_v_FvU4Ica7Fs71mAJUteV4_BBK6q_Yw8.4zcKaH2fbItIEREtlj3DSBLIi3qXZLoKLYUs5f7y4Sg&dib_tag=se&keywords=principle+to+practice+journal&qid=1764865108&sprefix=princple+to+practice+journal%2Caps%2C111&sr=8-1CHAPTERS:00:00 Introduction: The Zoomed-In Perspective00:20 Meet Red Wallace: Your Guide to Rediscovery00:38 The Mosaic of Life: Seeing the Bigger Picture01:04 Personal Struggles: A Year in Review01:40 God's Whisper: Zoom Out01:53 Living Zoomed In vs. God's Zoomed Out View04:50 Christ Focus: Shifting Your Perspective07:33 Practical Steps: Resetting Your Vision08:49 Closing Prayer and Encouragement09:12 Final Words: Join the Red Print Intensive Coaching ProgramYou’re not the tile.You’re the masterpiece.WHO AM IHey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!
You’re anxious — not because you’re weak, but because you’re carrying a weight God never built you to hold.In this video, we break down the real reason you’re anxious…and why the cure Jesus gives is shockingly simple.Most people think anxiety is just emotional.Bonhoeffer said it’s theological.A belief system.A quiet sermon the anxious heart preaches:“God won’t come through for me… so I must save myself.”In this breakdown of Matthew 6, we uncover:🔥 The three battlegrounds every anxious man faces (Survival, Future, Status)🔥 Why self-will is the hidden root beneath anxiety🔥 How “functional unbelief” keeps you stuck🔥 Jesus’ one priority that dissolves worry🔥 How to live a care-free, not careless, Kingdom life🔥 Practical steps to breathe again and release false responsibilityIf you’re tired of being your own provider, protector, and rescuer…this message will set you free.→ Coaching for Christian Men Ready for Breakthrough: https://forms.gle/egBNW8QuPiQ294iRA→ Subscribe for weekly Kingdom transformation: @betterthanbestacademy → Grab the P2P Journal: https://www.amazon.com/Principles-Practice-Journal-Scripture-Strategy/dp/B0FTM2Z87W/ref=sr_1_1?crid=24KWHPJ7L0EWA&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.g7DnxTQdKgrgN2QKiRaEPFWRa3mPg8CZch47qaTgD__qRSn3qJwwPpcLuDZ87R_ATqnnDFUIwvzgAH9ggD5PowqUYwa_-whdU9N4lO1keuJWdzJihR0xKsvdxIHfyUJAg2De_LkffozRkomPa_1gdIOcc8iP4XmKFVeiduiv-5wQal6C66ztTlOz-xKGCHKgTGePcFat36_v_FvU4Ica7Fs71mAJUteV4_BBK6q_Yw8.4zcKaH2fbItIEREtlj3DSBLIi3qXZLoKLYUs5f7y4Sg&dib_tag=se&keywords=principle+to+practice+journal&qid=1764865108&sprefix=princple+to+practice+journal%2Caps%2C111&sr=8-1CHAPTERS:00:00 Introduction: The Root of Anxiety01:38 The Modern Man's Silent Struggle02:12 Jesus' Invitation to Release Burdens02:28 Bonhoeffer's Perspective on Anxiety03:27 Three Battlegrounds of Anxiety04:50 The Freedom of Singleness06:48 Living the Carefree Life07:06 Practical Steps to Overcome Anxiety08:04 Final Thoughts and InvitationWHO AM IHey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!
You’ve been grinding. Pushing. Strategizing.But nothing is changing… and it’s starting to mess with your head.Before you double down or burn out, hear this:Sometimes the reason your hustle stops working isn’t because you’re failing... it’s because God is shifting you from striving to being formed.In this video, Red Wallace breaks down why trying harder isn’t helping, why breakthrough often stays hidden underground, and what to do when your effort hits a wall.📘 Start with the Principles-to-Practice Journal Rewire your mind, align with Scripture, and build clarity daily. 👉 https://www.amazon.com/Principles-Practice-Journal-Scripture-Strategy/dp/B0FTM2Z87W/ref=sr_1_1?crid=24KWHPJ7L0EWA&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.g7DnxTQdKgrgN2QKiRaEPJ9YJDDua2HxDEUk6pzi-tNxn2zC0ME8NLHvwwQiGSQ--wjTDVpHMDtqa6Z40eWKBk-XJ8Dw6i3R6KToeG2_tjG2cvvI7qAxPl7BSE0ipC03DBOdIy46-dY_ozDSFev0WtPVQBipODzFlXODuW8YZW5Xz68mmQ8uelxJX4sZlgOEvyl73VrerGDz3p-XXrbz_34fU5SiQ-lX8tW-3mpY33Q.3Rjd4ORNUvJMx_94AACYgOCRRQ_YoqjOoARo0SYwwPY&dib_tag=se&keywords=principle+to+practice+journal&qid=1761849432&sprefix=princple+to+practice+journal%2Caps%2C111&sr=8-1🔥 Apply for coaching (for serious transformation) If you want help navigating calling, clarity, spiritual warfare, or identity— 👉 Apply for coaching here: https://forms.gle/JmzpgrBdXrJjF4ZH9You’ll learn:✅ Why pushing harder leads to spiritual exhaustion✅ How God works in stillness, not just in movement✅ The bamboo principle — slow roots, sudden growth✅ What Brother Lawrence teaches about presence✅ How to find peace before the problem is solvedThis isn’t about quitting.It’s about changing the source of your strength.IN THIS VIDEO:00:00 Finding Peace in Unexpected Places01:05 Introducing Red Wallace01:18 The Discipline of Doing Nothing02:18 A Story of Overwhelm and Stillness02:52 The Bamboo Analogy03:37 Practicing Presence in the Ordinary05:44 A Guided Stillness Exercise09:31 Challenge for the Week12:24 Final Thoughts and Encouragement✅ CALL TO ACTIONComment ROOTED if this hit you. And if you’re tired of forcing what God is forming — apply for coaching and let’s build a life that grows slow, deep, and unshakeable.WHO AM IHey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!
You’re standing at a crossroads.The door in front of you won’t open.But you don’t know if it’s God closing it… or the enemy resisting your calling.In this deep dive, Red Wallace unpacks how to biblically discern the difference between a God-closed door and spiritual warfare — using a framework straight from Scripture, psychology, and the Holy Spirit.If you’ve ever wrestled with: • “Am I supposed to pivot or press forward?” • “Is this God redirecting me?” • “Why does obedience feel harder than disobedience?” • “Is this attack… or training?”This video will give you clarity, confidence, and peace.⛓️💥 In this video you’ll learn:- The Text Test — what Scripture reveals about blocked paths- The Fruit Test — how to discern the spiritual source by outcomes- The Formation Test — how God vs. the enemy shapes your character- The Peace Test that cuts through all confusion📘 Start with the Principles-to-Practice Journal Rewire your mind, align with Scripture, and build clarity daily. 👉 https://www.amazon.com/Principles-Practice-Journal-Scripture-Strategy/dp/B0FTM2Z87W/ref=sr_1_1?crid=24KWHPJ7L0EWA&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.g7DnxTQdKgrgN2QKiRaEPJ9YJDDua2HxDEUk6pzi-tNxn2zC0ME8NLHvwwQiGSQ--wjTDVpHMDtqa6Z40eWKBk-XJ8Dw6i3R6KToeG2_tjG2cvvI7qAxPl7BSE0ipC03DBOdIy46-dY_ozDSFev0WtPVQBipODzFlXODuW8YZW5Xz68mmQ8uelxJX4sZlgOEvyl73VrerGDz3p-XXrbz_34fU5SiQ-lX8tW-3mpY33Q.3Rjd4ORNUvJMx_94AACYgOCRRQ_YoqjOoARo0SYwwPY&dib_tag=se&keywords=principle+to+practice+journal&qid=1761849432&sprefix=princple+to+practice+journal%2Caps%2C111&sr=8-1🔥 Apply for coaching (for serious transformation) If you want help navigating calling, clarity, spiritual warfare, or identity— 👉 Apply for coaching here: https://forms.gle/JmzpgrBdXrJjF4ZH900:00 Introduction: Facing Life's Walls01:06 Personal Testimony: A Leap of Faith03:58 Understanding Closed Doors vs. Spiritual Warfare04:51 The Four-Part Test: Discernment Framework05:00 Test One: The Text Test07:52 Test Two: The Pressure Test09:06 Test Three: The Formation Test10:08 Test Four: The Peace Test11:45 Conclusion: Discern and Act#BetterThanBestAcademy #SpiritualWarfare #Discernment #ChristianMen #FaithNotFearWHO AM IHey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!
🔥 The Gospel of Comfort Is Quietly Killing DiscipleshipModern Christianity has become fast food for the soul — quick inspiration, no lasting transformation.But Jesus never called us to drive-thru faith… He called us to slow-roasted sanctification.In this video, we’re going after the silent epidemic shaping Christian men today:Comfort without consecration. Inspiration without obedience. Platforms without presence.If you’ve felt spiritually numb… distracted… disengaged… or secretly starving, this teaching is going to hit home.Not to condemn you — but to call you higher.We’ll talk about:— Why modern Christianity feels shallow— Why the enemy uses distraction, not destruction— Bonhoeffer’s warning about cheap grace— Chesterton’s warning about losing wonder— Why self-help has replaced self-denial— How to return to wonder, reverence, and costly grace— How to move from consumption to consecration— What real discipleship looks like in 2025If this message stirs you, drop a comment and tell me:“Where is God calling you out of comfort and into consecration?”Resources:📓 Principles to Practice Journal (Scripture → Strategy) → https://www.amazon.com/Principles-Practice-Journal-Scripture-Strategy/dp/B0FTM2Z87W/ref=sr_1_1?crid=24KWHPJ7L0EWA&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.g7DnxTQdKgrgN2QKiRaEPJ9YJDDua2HxDEUk6pzi-tNxn2zC0ME8NLHvwwQiGSQ--wjTDVpHMDtqa6Z40eWKBk-XJ8Dw6i3R6KToeG2_tjG2cvvI7qAxPl7BSE0ipC03DBOdIy46-dY_ozDSFev0WtPVQBipODzFlXODuW8YZW5Xz68mmQ8uelxJX4sZlgOEvyl73VrerGDz3p-XXrbz_34fU5SiQ-lX8tW-3mpY33Q.3Rjd4ORNUvJMx_94AACYgOCRRQ_YoqjOoARo0SYwwPY&dib_tag=se&keywords=principle+to+practice+journal&qid=1761849432&sprefix=princple+to+practice+journal%2Caps%2C111&sr=8-1 🤝 1:1 Coaching with Coach Red → https://forms.gle/GeAX16nH1rtpBiJr700:00 Introduction: The Fast Food Faith Crisis00:58 The Gospel of Comfort vs. True Discipleship02:13 The Call to Consecration04:07 Cheap Grace vs. Costly Grace06:01 Rediscovering Reverence and Wonder06:28 Practical Steps to True Discipleship08:09 The Importance of Community and Mentorship09:22 Conclusion: Answering the Call🙌 CONNECT WITH RED WALLACEYouTube: @betterthanbestacademy Substack: https://substack.com/@redwallace IG: https://www.instagram.com/coach.redwallace/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@coach.redwallace🔥 Live better than best — and become who Christ designed you to be.WHO AM IHey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!
Still stuck, even after all the journaling, affirmations, and mindset hacks? You’re not alone — and you’re not crazy.I used to live and breathe self-help.I woke up at 4AM, visualized my dream life, repeated affirmations, lit the candles…And still felt empty.Then God told me something that shattered me — and changed everything:“You’re not broken because you’re not working hard enough. You’re broken because you’re working without Me.”This video is for every Christian caught in the trap of performance, hustle, and spiritual burnout.It’s not about self-improvement. It’s about self-surrender.You’ll learn: - Why the self-help movement leaves you feeling hollow - How Jesus and the gospel completely flip self-help culture upside down - What Dietrich Bonhoeffer saw coming decades ago - Why surrender, not striving, is the key to transformation👇 Drop a 🔥 in the comments if this hits home.Resources:📓 Principles to Practice Journal (Scripture → Strategy) → https://www.amazon.com/Principles-Practice-Journal-Scripture-Strategy/dp/B0FTM2Z87W/ref=sr_1_1?crid=24KWHPJ7L0EWA&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.g7DnxTQdKgrgN2QKiRaEPJ9YJDDua2HxDEUk6pzi-tNxn2zC0ME8NLHvwwQiGSQ--wjTDVpHMDtqa6Z40eWKBk-XJ8Dw6i3R6KToeG2_tjG2cvvI7qAxPl7BSE0ipC03DBOdIy46-dY_ozDSFev0WtPVQBipODzFlXODuW8YZW5Xz68mmQ8uelxJX4sZlgOEvyl73VrerGDz3p-XXrbz_34fU5SiQ-lX8tW-3mpY33Q.3Rjd4ORNUvJMx_94AACYgOCRRQ_YoqjOoARo0SYwwPY&dib_tag=se&keywords=principle+to+practice+journal&qid=1761849432&sprefix=princple+to+practice+journal%2Caps%2C111&sr=8-1 🤝 1:1 Coaching with Coach Red → https://forms.gle/GeAX16nH1rtpBiJr7 🙏 Subscribe for weekly faith + psychology tools to help Christian men win at home and walk in true identity.00:00 Introduction: The Truth About Self-Help00:28 Personal Journey: From Self-Help to Self-Surrender01:19 The Gospel vs. Self-Help Culture03:07 Bonhoeffer's Insights on Self-Surrender04:23 The Power of Grace and Transformation06:11 The Call to Surrender and Spiritual Transformation09:16 Conclusion: Embrace Spiritual TransformationWHO AM IHey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!
When my veneer fell out mid-lunch, I thought it was a dental problem. God used it to expose a deeper one: performance pressure disguised as “being excellent.” This is a message for high-achieving Christian men who lead well in business but feel empty at home. Grace builds what polish breaks.In this video you’ll learn:- The difference between excellence (fruit of grace) and perfectionism (fruit of fear)- Why image-management creates burnout and blocks connection- How God fills the gap (2 Corinthians 12:9) and restores identity and presenceResources: 📓 Principles to Practice Journal (Scripture → Strategy) → https://www.amazon.com/Principles-Practice-Journal-Scripture-Strategy/dp/B0FTM2Z87W/ref=sr_1_1?crid=24KWHPJ7L0EWA&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.g7DnxTQdKgrgN2QKiRaEPJ9YJDDua2HxDEUk6pzi-tNxn2zC0ME8NLHvwwQiGSQ--wjTDVpHMDtqa6Z40eWKBk-XJ8Dw6i3R6KToeG2_tjG2cvvI7qAxPl7BSE0ipC03DBOdIy46-dY_ozDSFev0WtPVQBipODzFlXODuW8YZW5Xz68mmQ8uelxJX4sZlgOEvyl73VrerGDz3p-XXrbz_34fU5SiQ-lX8tW-3mpY33Q.3Rjd4ORNUvJMx_94AACYgOCRRQ_YoqjOoARo0SYwwPY&dib_tag=se&keywords=principle+to+practice+journal&qid=1761849432&sprefix=princple+to+practice+journal%2Caps%2C111&sr=8-1 🤝 1:1 Coaching with Coach Red → https://forms.gle/GeAX16nH1rtpBiJr7 🙏 Subscribe for weekly faith + psychology tools to help Christian men win at home and walk in true identity.Chapters:00:00 A Dental Disaster: When Teeth Fall Out00:46 Reflecting on Insecurities and Past Struggles01:48 The Deeper Meaning Behind the Veneer02:09 Perfectionism vs. Grace03:12 The Trap of Social Media Perfection04:08 Embracing Vulnerability and Authenticity06:34 Practical Steps to Embrace Imperfection08:16 A Challenge to Embrace Imperfection09:06 Final Thoughts and a PrayerWHO AM IHey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!
🦋 Are you in a season where it feels like God is silent, slow, or absent? You're not stuck—you’re still becoming.In this week’s video, I walk you through the 4 sacred stages of transformation using the life cycle of a butterfly. From hidden beginnings to breakthrough purpose, you’ll see how God shapes your identity in secret, not shame.00:00 Introduction: Embracing the Silence00:48 Meet Red Wallace: Your Guide to Spiritual Growth01:19 Stage 1: The Egg - Hidden Beginnings03:20 Stage 2: The Caterpillar - Growth Through Consumption04:43 Stage 3: The Pupa - Transformation in Stillness09:15 Stage 4: The Butterfly - Emerging to Fly11:23 Special Announcement: P2P Journal Launch12:15 Conclusion: Reflect and EngageWhether you’re in a waiting season, a shedding season, or a silent one—this is for you.💥 Ready to embrace your process? Drop a 🦋 in the comments and let us know which stage you’re in.📔 Get the P2P Journal: Principles to Practice for Men Who Lead Not a diary. A discipline. 👉 Grab your copy on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FTM2Z87W— 🎯 More resources to grow your faith + leadership: 👉 Redprint Coaching Framework → [link to your coaching/website if available]📩 Join my newsletter for more teachings like this → https://coach-redwallace.kit.com/waitinglist🎧 Listen on the go: https://open.spotify.com/show/5tWDNsFMgKSYjzIrNzQRfT?si=5FlclD2FRXOYSjgmVNsCsA— 🙌 Scriptures Mentioned: Jeremiah 1:5 Romans 12:2 John 12:24 Isaiah 40:31 Luke 1:75–78#ChristianMotivation #SpiritualGrowth #ButterflyMetaphor #FaithTransformationWHO AM IHey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!
What if your self-help habits are actually making you less like Jesus?You read the books. You try the morning routines. You feel productive… but deep down, you’re still anxious, disconnected, or stuck.Today, we're diving into the Dunning-Kruger effect and why self-help without Christ can lead to pride, burnout, or even spiritual emptiness.I’ll walk you through:00:00 Introduction: The Hidden Dangers of Self-Help01:12 The Dunning-Kruger Effect: Confidence vs. Competence01:56 Mount Stupid: The Perils of Overconfidence02:46 Valley of Despair: Overcoming Shame and Failure03:19 Slope of Enlightenment: Knowledge vs. Intimacy04:04 Plateau of Wisdom: True Maturity in Christ05:29 Self-Check Moments: Reflect and Grow06:57 Exciting Announcement: P2P Journal Launch08:22 Final Thoughts: Walking with Jesus and CommunityThis is not a shame video—it's an invitation to grow with God, not just for Him.📔 Get the P2P Journal: Principles to Practice for Men Who Lead Not a diary. A discipline. 👉 Grab your copy on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FTM2Z87W📍 COMMENT BELOW: Which stage are you currently in? Let’s walk this out together.WHO AM IHey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!
Are you saying “yes” to every opportunity... yet feeling spiritually dry, drained, and directionless?📔 Get the P2P Journal: Principles to Practice for Men Who Lead Not a diary. A discipline. 👉 Grab your copy on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FTM2Z87WIn this message, Coach Red Wallace breaks down the raw truth behind Obedience vs Opportunity — and why too many Christian men are mistaking busyness for faithfulness.This isn’t just a talk about time management — it’s a call to spiritual realignment.Because the question isn’t “Can I do this?” — it’s “Did God ask me to?”If you’ve ever felt:- Overwhelmed by busyness and burnout- Confused about your calling and purpose- Distant from God even while doing “all the right things”- Then this word is for you.Coach Red shares personal stories, biblical insight from Luke 10 (Martha & Mary) and 1 Samuel 15 (Saul’s partial obedience), and a practical framework to help you:✅ Slow down.✅ Discern God’s voice.✅ Choose effectiveness over efficiency and obedience over opportunity.✝️ In This Video You’ll Learn:00:00 Introduction: The Pursuit of Happiness00:23 Happiness vs. Joy: Understanding the Difference00:36 Opportunities vs. Obedience: Making the Right Choice01:11 The Dangers of Overcommitment01:24 Meet Red Wallace: Your Guide to True Leadership01:54 The Trap of Productivity Without Purpose03:25 Biblical Examples of Obedience04:08 Practical Steps to Align with God's Will06:43 The Importance of Rest and Obedience07:57 Conclusion: Embrace Obedience for True Joy👊 Drop this in the comments:What are YOU saying “no” to in this season so you can finally say “yes” to God?🔔 Subscribe for more videos that help Christian men rediscover identity, purpose, and legacy leadership in Christ.WHO AM IHey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!
Husbands — is your tone tearing down the very people you’re called to love?
It’s not just what you say — it’s how you say it. In this video, I’m sharing the 5 tone shifts that changed everything for me: the way I talk to my wife, the atmosphere in my home, and the way I lead as a man of God.
I used to snap out of exhaustion, not anger — but my tone was still lethal. Maybe you’ve been there: your wife or kids flinch at your words, even when you didn’t mean harm. That’s when I realized: your tone sets the temperature of your home.
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Not a diary. A discipline.
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These 5 shifts are rooted in Scripture + psychology and will help you:
Pause before you pounce (STOPP method)
Reframe negative thoughts before they poison your marriage
Step into your wife’s shoes to unlock empathy
Anchor calm when emotions run high
Speak truth in love — so it builds, not breaks
👉 Your tone sets the temperature of your home. Change your tone, and you’ll shift your legacy.
00:00 Introduction: The Power of Tone in Relationships
01:12 Understanding the Root of Emotional Mismanagement
02:07 Shift 1: Pause Before You Pounce
04:24 Shift 2: Reframe the Negativity
05:25 Shift 3: Step Into Her Shoes
06:25 Exciting News: P2P Principles to Practice Journal
07:49 Shift 4: Anchor a Calmer You
08:53 Shift 5: Speak the Truth in Love
09:49 Conclusion: Building a Legacy of Trust
11:26 Final Challenge and Call to Action
Drop a 🙏 in the comments if you’re committing to one shift this week.
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Could it be that the harder you try to “fix” your wife, the more cracks you’re putting in your marriage, your peace, and her trust?I know—it sounds backwards. But here’s the truth every Christian husband has to wrestle with: you don’t transform your wife by force. You transform your marriage by surrender. By walking with God. By leading from a place of example, not control.In this video, I’m breaking it down:🔨 Why spiritual leadership isn’t control—it’s covering (Ephesians 6) 🔥 What happens when you lead without protection 👀 The power of example vs. the pain of dragging 📖 How to grow your own walk with the 5-5-5 method 💡 What to do when your wife isn’t spiritually engaged ❤️ And how my own marriage shifted the moment I stopped pushing and started trusting God00:00 Introduction: The Paradox of Fixing Problems00:33 Personal Journey: Striving and Struggling01:49 The Firefighter Analogy: Protecting Your Marriage03:17 Focus on Your Walk: Spiritual Discipline03:56 Exciting News: New Journal Launch05:22 Lead by Example: Guiding, Not Dragging06:56 Trusting God: Patience and Humility11:43 Challenge: Daily Declarations and Reflections12:31 Conclusion: Sharpening Each Other📔 Get the P2P Journal – Principles to Practice for Men Who Lead Not a diary. A discipline. 👉 Grab your copy on Amazon: [link in description]📌 Join the 7-Day Challenge: Declare it out loud: “This week I will not defend my pride. I will defend the peace in my home.”Then reflect each evening:- What tested me today?- Did I react or respond?- What did I learn about myself and God?Drop your reflections in the comments. Let’s hold each other accountable.WHO AM IHey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!
Do you feel like life is hitting harder the closer you walk with God? Good. That’s not punishment—it’s proof.In this message, I’m unpacking why the pressure, the pain, and the problems you face are often confirmation that you’re moving in obedience. Obedience always attracts opposition—but it also unlocks destiny.🛑 Stop mistaking resistance for failure.🛠 Start seeing it as evidence that God is building something in you.⚡ Ready to level up your leadership and legacy? 👉 Book your complimentary call: https://calendly.com/coachredwallace/let-s-talk-about-itJoin the waiting list: https://coach-redwallace.kit.com/waitinglistInside this video, we’ll cover:00:00 Introduction: Embracing the Struggle01:13 Understanding the Weight of Obedience02:09 Personal Testimony: Red's Journey03:35 Stories of Faith and Resilience04:49 Biblical Examples of Disruption08:58 Practical Steps to Overcome Opposition11:41 Conclusion: Keep Walking in Faith💥 If you’re a husband, a father, a leader—or simply trying to follow Jesus and feel like hell broke loose—this is for YOU.🔔 Subscribe and join the Better Than Best movement.#Faith #ChristianMen #LegacyLeadership #SpiritualWarfare #BiblicalTruthWHO AM IHey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!
From drug dealing and jail time to building a thriving RV rental franchise, Garr Russell's testimony is one of radical transformation, relentless faith, and restored purpose. In this raw and powerful interview, Garr shares how he went from the pit to God’s promise, how entrepreneurship became a tool for redemption, and how you can bounce back from even the worst of seasons.
🙏 If you’ve ever felt too far gone or wondered if your mess could become your ministry — this episode is for you.
Connect with Garr Russell here: https://garrrussell.com/
🎧 We dive deep into:
- Garr’s dark past and the moment Jesus changed everything
- How he rebuilt after bankruptcy in 2008
- Turning pain into purpose through business
- Lessons for Christian entrepreneurs facing fear and failure
- How to hear from God and walk in obedience
- And why surrender is the real key to success
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00:00 A Radical Transformation
00:33 Introduction to the Podcast
01:13 Garr Russell's Early Life and Struggles
02:29 Finding Faith and Redemption
05:20 The Power of Forgiveness
10:28 Entrepreneurial Journey and Challenges
13:00 Losing Everything in 2008
15:09 Lessons from Failure and Restoration
19:35 Encouragement for Struggling Entrepreneurs
22:54 The Importance of Perseverance
25:22 Myron's Impactful Quote
26:06 Trusting God's Plan
27:30 Turning Pain into Purpose
30:16 The Power of Hope and Faith
32:59 Resilience Through Challenges
37:04 Renewing the Mind
41:17 Practical Steps for Overcoming Doubt
47:03 The Importance of Community
48:39 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
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WHO AM I
Hey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!
Experience a moving emotional story of change and personal development. Witness how one individual's heartfelt stories of overcoming feeling overwhelmed can inspire you to make a difference in your own life. It's a reminder that even in the darkest times, transformation is possible.
At 21, Jason Pollock was living in a friend’s basement, lost, broken, and searching for purpose. Then—one encounter changed everything.In this raw and powerful conversation, Jason shares how a stranger’s question about prayer began a 30-year journey of redemption, spiritual growth, and deep faith. From battling head trauma and daily migraines, to overcoming shame, addiction, and self-doubt—this is a testimony of God's grace in the darkest moments.If you’ve ever wondered if you’re too far gone, if God's grace could ever reach someone like you—this episode is for you.Connect with Jasen here: https://www.facebook.com/jasen.pollock🙏 Let this be your moment to come back to the Father.Chapters: 00:00 Intro 01:23 Living in a Basement, Hopeless at 21 04:10 The Stranger Who Asked Me to Pray 06:50 One Prayer That Changed My Life 11:42 Fighting the Lies of the Enemy 15:05 Overcoming 15 Years of Pain from a Brain Injury 21:30 How God Uses Pain to Shape Purpose 29:00 Service Brings Healing 35:10 To the One Who Feels Unworthy... 42:00 What I’d Tell My 24-Year-Old Self 50:15 Final Encouragement & Prayer👇 If this blessed you, share it with a friend and drop a comment below.🔔 Subscribe for more powerful testimonies and real conversations about faith.⚡ Ready to level up your leadership and legacy? 👉 Book your complimentary call: https://calendly.com/coachredwallace/let-s-talk-about-itJoin the waiting list: https://coach-redwallace.kit.com/waitinglist#faith #testimony #christianpodcast #jesus #healing #depression #redemption #miracle #christianinterviewWHO AM IHey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!
The Secret Battle Most Men Are Losing (But Can’t Afford To)Most men aren’t falling in public—they’re falling in private.In this powerful and deeply personal video, Red Wallace—Legacy Identity Coach and founder of the Better Than Best Academy—reveals how a quiet lack of self-control is silently sabotaging men’s leadership, marriages, and fatherhood.Through vulnerable stories and biblical truth, Red shows why true strength isn’t loud—it’s restrained, and why mastering your emotions isn’t optional if you want to build a legacy that lasts.🔹 Learn the spiritual foundations of emotional discipline🔹 Discover practical strategies to reclaim your mornings, mindset, and habits🔹 Understand how accountability and routine lead to quiet strengthIf you’re ready to stop reacting—and start leading with integrity—this message is your next step.⏱️ Timestamps 00:00 Introduction: The Silent Struggle of Men 00:31 A Personal Story of Overwhelm 01:10 The Importance of Self-Control 02:22 Understanding True Strength 03:02 Biblical Insights on Self-Control 05:56 Practical Steps to Build Self-Control 07:58 The Role of Leadership and Accountability 08:56 The Power of Spiritual Discipline 11:25 Final Thoughts and Call to Action⚡ Ready to level up your leadership and legacy? 👉 Book your complimentary call: https://calendly.com/coachredwallace/let-s-talk-about-itJoin the waitinglist: https://coach-redwallace.kit.com/waitinglist📲 Subscribe for more faith-based leadership, identity, and growth content.#SelfControl #MensMinistry #ChristianLeadership #LegacyBuilding #FaithAndFatherhoodWHO AM IHey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!
What if everything you’ve been taught about anger and respect is backwards?You grew up thinking anger made you strong—but it’s been slowly burning down your influence. Your wife feels crushed, not covered. Your kids see a short fuse, not a strong father.But there’s a better way. A biblical way. A powerful way.In this video, I’ll walk you through the G.E.N.T.L.E. Method—a practical and Spirit-filled framework to help you trade harsh reactions for holy responses. You’ll discover that gentleness isn’t weakness—it’s Christ-like strength under control.We’ll unpack:✅ Why anger is a symptom, not the root✅ How pride and insecurity fuel outbursts✅ Biblical insight from Jesus, Paul, and Proverbs✅ A real-life roleplay of gentleness in action✅ A challenge to practice one part of the GENTLE method this week00:00 Introduction: The Power of Gentleness00:17 Understanding Anger and Its Roots00:58 The Biblical Perspective on Gentleness02:00 The Impact of Anger on Relationships04:04 Practical Steps to Cultivate Gentleness09:35 The GENTLE Method Framework12:06 Applying Gentleness in Real Life13:43 Conclusion and Weekly Challenge👊 Let’s flip the script and build homes, marriages, and legacies that don’t burn down—but stand firm in Christ.👇 Drop a comment: Who in your life is waiting on a gentler version of you?📌 Watch next: Fruit of the Spirit Series → https://youtu.be/cp9ZoR_Zc8k?si=rRh8wfT7HvIJnK0A📍 Apply for The Redprint Coaching Intensive: https://forms.gle/xMqF5dD8M29t8nhq7🔔 Subscribe & Turn On Notifications for more faith-based content that changes lives.WHO AM IHey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!
Procrastination isn’t a productivity problem — it’s a faithfulness problem.In this video, Coach Red Wallace unpacks the true cost of delay — not just to your schedule, but to your marriage, your kids, and your calling. With raw stories, biblical insight, and practical tools, you’ll discover:Why “I’ll do it later” is slow-motion disobedienceHow procrastination disconnects you from your purpose4 actionable steps to live with unshakable faithfulnessIf you’re tired of spinning your wheels, doubting your direction, or postponing what God’s called you to — this message is your wake-up call.🔥 DM me “FAITHFUL” on Instagram to join The Redprint Intensive📲 https://www.instagram.com/coach.redwallace/👇 Drop “NO MORE DELAY” in the comments if you’re starting today.🙌 And don’t forget to encourage someone else while you’re there.—📍 Chapters00:00 Overcoming Procrastination with Radical Faithfulness00:47 Introduction to Better Than Best Academy01:08 The Truth About Procrastination01:18 A Personal Story of Radical Obedience03:13 The Cost of Procrastination03:59 Identifying and Overcoming Delays05:20 Faithfulness in Different Roles09:45 Practical Steps to Destroy Procrastination13:22 Final Encouragement and Call to ActionWHO AM IHey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!
What does it really mean to be a good man? Spoiler: it’s not about being nice—it’s about living with conviction, integrity, and compassion.In this episode of the Fruit of the Spirit series, mindset coach and worship drummer Red Wallace breaks down the power of GOODNESS—not as a personality trait, but as a calling for godly men.You’ll learn:* The difference between kindness and goodness* How to lead your family with quiet strength* What to do when your actions don’t match your words* 4 practical ways to live a life of goodness, starting today▶ Download the FREE Goodness Action Sheet:https://coach-redwallace.kit.com/goodness💬 Take the 7-Day Goodness Challenge!Drop “Day 1 ✅” in the comments and let’s grow together.🔔 Subscribe for more weekly messages on leadership, legacy, and faithWATCH the rest of the fruit series: https://youtu.be/cp9ZoR_Zc8k?si=qJSCvchVriC1xwsB📌 Next Week: “FAITHFULNESS – The Strength to Stay When It’s Hard”00:00 Introduction: The Essence of Goodness01:16 Defining Goodness: Beyond Morality02:02 Cultural vs. Godly Goodness02:52 Personal Anecdote: Living Out Goodness04:09 Goodness in Family Life07:26 Practical Steps to Cultivate Goodness12:49 Seven-Day Goodness Challenge14:02 Conclusion: The Strength of Goodness#ManOfGod #ChristianMen #FruitOfTheSpirit #GodlyLeadership #BetterThanBest #RedWallace #GoodnessChallengeWHO AM IHey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!
Are you holding your family together but feel like you're falling apart inside?In today’s video, we're diving deep into why kindness isn’t weakness—it's a spiritual superpower. Especially for Christian men leading their homes, kindness is how we set the atmosphere, heal wounds, and reflect the heart of Christ.🛠️ You'll discover:- The difference between being "nice" and being truly kind- How to correct with compassion, not control- The 3 practical steps to live out godly kindness in your home- Real talk on tone, parenting, and leadership under pressureWhether you're a husband, father, or leader — this message will hit home.🔔 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and turn on the bell to follow the entire Fruit of the Spirit series. See the rest of this series here: https://youtu.be/VV_vdJ2bNLI?si=nXp7E8dnY8dxjPqp👉 Join the Better Than Best Academy newsletter for weekly encouragement and Download your complimentary gift for Christian men and leaders: https://coach-redwallace.kit.com/legacyletter📲 Follow me on social media: IG & TT: @coach.redwallace👇 Drop a comment: What act of kindness are YOU going to commit to this week?00:00 Introduction: The Weight of Responsibility00:30 Personal Struggles and Realizations01:03 The Power of Kindness02:33 Redefining Leadership Through Kindness04:18 God's Kindness and Our Response08:33 Practical Steps to Live Out Kindness10:28 Parenting with Kindness11:58 Final Thoughts and ChallengeWHO AM IHey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!