If you’ve ever felt like dementia caregiving is a chaotic mess of appointments, medications, and unanswered questions—you’re not imagining it. In this powerful episode of Caregiver Secrets, host Reginald Reglus exposes the hard truth: the system is broken, and caregivers are left to pick up the pieces. Backed by fresh data from the Alzheimer’s Association, we break down why 70% of caregivers report care coordination as their top stressor, and what the new Medicare GUIDE model is doing to change that. You’ll learn about global movements toward dementia care navigation, what’s working, and how you can advocate for the help you deserve. This isn’t just another venting session—it’s a roadmap. You’ll walk away with fact-driven tips, trusted resources, and the bold reminder that you are not the problem. In this episode: Why care coordination feels like a second full-time job The shocking statistic about caregiver stress you need to know What the 2024 Medicare GUIDE model offers (and who qualifies) Real-world steps to make the chaos more manageable How The Risen Caregiver AI tool can help you stay sane Resources Mentioned: 🎧 The Get Risen Podcast – Find a related episode using the [Risen Mantra Index] 📘 Grab the book: Get Risen: Unleash the Elevated Caregiver Within 🤖 Tap into 24/7 clarity and comfort with The Risen Caregiver AI Verified Mantra of the Episode:"I don’t need to do it all alone. Help is holy, too." — from Get Risen Feeling overwhelmed by systems that don’t serve you? This episode is your proof that you’re not alone—and your permission slip to demand better. #CaregiverSecrets #DementiaCare #CaregiverSupport #GetRisen #TheRisenCaregiver #GUIDEModel #CareCoordination #YoureNotCrazy #MedicareSupport #DementiaAdvocacy

🎧 How to Face the Loss Everyone Pretends Isn’t Happening Description: What do you do when the person you love is still alive… but slipping away? In this gripping episode of Caregiver Secrets, host Reginald Reglus exposes the hidden grief many dementia caregivers face but rarely name—ambiguous loss and anticipatory grief. Discover the psychology behind why you’re grieving someone who hasn’t passed, the impact this has on your mental health, and science-backed strategies to help you navigate the emotional fog. This is the episode caregivers didn’t know they desperately needed. Whether you’re new to caregiving or deep in the long goodbye, you’ll walk away with clarity, comfort, and concrete tools to process the pain no one prepared you for. In This Episode, You’ll Learn: What ambiguous loss really is—and why it haunts so many dementia caregivers The difference between grief after death and grief during decline Practical ways to cope when your loved one is still physically here but mentally fading How naming your loss can begin your healing Resources Mentioned: 🧠 The Risen Caregiver AI – Your 24/7 support companion for dementia care: https://bit.ly/RisenCaregiverAI📖 Get Risen: Unleash the Elevated Caregiver Within – The book that will strengthen your heart and spirit: https://bit.ly/GetRisen🎙️ Get Risen Podcast – For encouragement rooted in faith and resilience. Start with the episode inspired by the mantra: “You can’t hold someone up if you fall apart inside first.”

Show Notes for Season 6, Episode 20: “Caregiver Toolkit: Your Ultimate Resource Roundup” Feeling overwhelmed by all the little (and big) decisions caregiving demands? This episode of Caregiver Secrets is your guide to building a personal caregiver toolkit—so you’re not scrambling in the chaos, but ready for it. From practical checklists to powerful emotional lifelines, discover how to equip yourself with everything you need to show up strong, steady, and supported. You’ll meet Deborah, a devoted wife-turned-caregiver who turned her binder of survival notes into a beacon of hope for others. Her story will stir your heart and show you how tools aren’t a sign of weakness—they’re the secret to resilience. 🎧 Tune in and learn: What to include in your caregiver toolkit (you may be missing a few game-changers!) Why being prepared helps prevent burnout and restores peace How to use tools to create breathing room—and build moments of connection 🔥 NEW! Meet The Risen Caregiver — your AI-powered companion created just for caregivers. Whether you need real-time encouragement, helpful advice, or a moment of calm, The Risen Caregiver is available 24/7 to support you with wisdom and warmth.Try it here: https://chatgpt.com/g/g-682ce5b7d210819197e95817d849c25e-the-risen-caregiver-by-reginald-d-reglus Love this episode? Dive even deeper into the art of elevated caregiving in Get Risen: Unleash the Elevated Caregiver Within. Grab your copy today and transform your caregiving journey: https://bit.ly/GetRisen

Show Notes for Season 6, Episode 19: Late-Stage Love — Choosing Comfort Over Chaos When the final chapter of caregiving begins, the decisions get heavier—but so does the love. In today’s powerful episode of Caregiver Secrets, we explore what it means to show up with compassion, grace, and unwavering presence during late-stage dementia care. Through the heartfelt story of Marcus and Evelyn, you’ll experience the raw truth of shifting from treatment to comfort, from doing to simply being. Whether you’re facing late-stage care now or know it’s on the horizon, this episode is a must-listen. It’s an honest, emotional, and empowering reminder that choosing comfort is not giving up—it’s choosing love in its most selfless form. Discover: What hospice and palliative care really mean for caregivers How to recognize pain and distress when your loved one can’t speak Practical and emotional ways to bring dignity to your loved one’s final days Why presence—not perfection—is your greatest gift in this sacred season This one will stay with you. Love this episode?Dive even deeper into the art of elevated caregiving in Get Risen: Unleash the Elevated Caregiver Within. Grab your copy today and transform your caregiving journey: https://bit.ly/GetRisen

Show Notes: Season 6, Episode 18 – Telehealth 101: Getting the Most from Virtual Doctor Visits What if doctor visits didn’t have to mean rushing, waiting, or rearranging your entire day? In this eye-opening episode of Caregiver Secrets, we explore how telehealth can become a lifeline—not just for your loved one’s medical needs, but for your peace of mind as a caregiver. You’ll hear the emotional story of Nina, a long-distance caregiver struggling to keep up with her father’s health as his dementia progresses. One virtual visit changes everything—giving her back her time, her confidence, and her ability to advocate powerfully for her dad. You’ll walk away with: Real-life inspiration on how telehealth can transform your caregiving Practical tips to prepare, participate, and follow up on virtual visits Encouragement to trust technology as a partner in your caregiving journey If you’ve ever felt rushed, unheard, or overwhelmed at medical appointments, this episode is for you. Caregiving is hard enough—let’s make access to care a little easier. Love this episode? Dive even deeper into the art of elevated caregiving in Get Risen: Unleash the Elevated Caregiver Within. Grab your copy today (while I am still able to offer it for free) and transform your caregiving journey: https://bit.ly/GetRisen

Episode 17: Community Corner – Finding Local Support Groups & Online ForumsSeason 6: The Advocacy Series | Caregiver Secrets Podcast In today’s heartfelt episode, we dive into one of the most powerful but overlooked tools in a caregiver’s survival kit: community. You’ll hear the story of Sandra, a weary caregiver who discovers an unexpected lifeline in a late-night online forum, and Marcus, a stoic veteran who finds strength in brotherhood. Their journeys remind us that support doesn’t always come from those closest to us—but it can come when we’re brave enough to reach out. You’ll learn: How to find local support groups in your area What to look for in online caregiver communities Tips for joining your first group (even if you’re nervous) Why starting your own small circle might be the healing step you’ve been craving If you’ve been feeling alone in your caregiving journey, this episode is for you. Let today be the moment you remember: connection changes everything. Love this episode? Dive even deeper into the art of elevated caregiving in Get Risen: Unleash the Elevated Caregiver Within. Grab your copy today and transform your caregiving journey: https://bit.ly/GetRisen

Show Notes for Season 6, Episode 16: Emotional First Aid—Managing Caregiver Stress & Burnout What happens when the caregiver hits a wall? In this raw and emotional episode of Caregiver Secrets, we explore the silent struggle so many caregivers face: burnout. Through the story of Tara—a devoted daughter and caregiver who nearly lost herself in the process—we shine a light on the hidden toll caregiving can take when we push through without support. You’ll discover how stress shows up quietly… and how unchecked exhaustion can spiral into danger. But most importantly, you’ll hear how small, consistent acts of emotional first aid can be the lifeline you didn’t know you needed. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, numb, or like you're running on empty, this episode is for you. We’ll unpack: The early warning signs of emotional burnout every caregiver should watch for A powerful reminder that your emotions matter—and deserve space What it really looks like to begin healing in the middle of the chaos How one caregiver found her way back to herself—one breath, one boundary, one brave moment at a time Love this episode? Dive even deeper into the art of elevated caregiving in Get Risen: Unleash the Elevated Caregiver Within. Grab your copy today and transform your caregiving journey: https://bit.ly/GetRisen If today feels heavy, take this as your reminder—you are not alone. And your healing matters just as much as your helping.

Show Notes for Episode 15 – One Wrong Move: The Caregiver Mistake That Sends Too Many to the ER When it comes to caregiving, one of the most overlooked dangers is the everyday act of helping a loved one move. Whether it’s getting out of bed, transferring to a wheelchair, or walking to the bathroom in the middle of the night—one wrong move can lead to serious injury for them and for you. In this powerful episode of Caregiver Secrets, we unpack the critical importance of safe transfer and mobility techniques. You’ll hear the emotional story of Miguel and his mom, Teresa, whose lives were forever changed by a single misstep—and how they found healing through knowledge, teamwork, and dignity. We’ll also break down practical, real-world steps caregivers can take to protect themselves and their loved ones, including: Why waiting until something goes wrong is too late How to use verbal cues and body positioning for safer transfers Why proper tools like transfer belts aren’t a weakness—they’re a sign of wisdom The mindset shift from “doing it all” to “doing it right” If you’ve ever felt nervous lifting your loved one or unsure if you’re doing it safely, this episode will give you the insight and confidence you need to move forward smarter—not just stronger. Love this episode? Dive even deeper into the art of elevated caregiving in Get Risen: Unleash the Elevated Caregiver Within. Grab your copy today and transform your caregiving journey: https://bit.ly/GetRisen Disclaimer: This episode is based on personal experiences and research. It is not medical, health, legal, or professional advice. Always consult the appropriate professionals for guidance on your unique situation.

Show Notes for Season 6, Episode 14: Wandering & Safety Alarms—Keeping Them Close Without Clipping Wings What do you do when your loved one with dementia slips out the front door—barefoot, confused, and convinced they’re late for work? In today’s powerful episode of Caregiver Secrets, we dive deep into one of the most frightening and emotionally complex challenges caregivers face: wandering. You’ll hear the heart-wrenching and inspiring story of Karen, a daughter and caregiver, who discovered her father blocks away from home after a sudden wandering episode. From fear and frustration to insight and grace, her journey uncovers what’s really behind the urge to wander—and how caregivers can respond with both love and strategy. This episode offers practical, compassionate guidance on: Understanding the emotional triggers behind wandering Setting up safety alarms and GPS tools that don’t feel like a prison Creating routines that redirect energy and reduce risk Approaching safety with dignity, empathy, and calm Finding peace in the tension between freedom and protection Whether this is your first wandering scare or it’s become part of your daily reality, this episode will remind you: you're not alone, and you’re doing an extraordinary job in the most sacred of roles. Love this episode? Dive even deeper into the art of elevated caregiving in Get Risen: Unleash the Elevated Caregiver Within. Grab your copy today and transform your caregiving journey: https://bit.ly/GetRisen Caregiver Secrets is based on lived experience and research. This episode does not constitute medical, legal, or professional advice. Always consult qualified professionals for guidance on your unique caregiving situation.

Episode 13: Tech to the Rescue – Apps & Devices That Lighten Your Load What if the cavalry showed up not in scrubs—but in your smartphone? In this powerful episode of Caregiver Secrets, we follow Carla, a devoted caregiver whose world spirals when her mom with dementia goes missing. After a terrifying close call, Carla discovers something that changes everything: technology doesn’t just assist—it rescues. From GPS-enabled watches and door alarms to smart displays and caregiver journaling apps, this episode is packed with emotionally rich storytelling and real-world insights that will open your eyes to the game-changing tools available right at your fingertips. You’ll learn: How to use simple tech to prevent wandering and missed medications The power of digital routines to soothe confusion and reduce repetitive questions How apps can help you track patterns, release guilt, and stay grounded Why using technology isn’t weakness—it’s wisdom If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, overextended, or one emergency away from burnout, this episode will remind you: you don’t have to do it all alone. Love this episode?Dive even deeper into the art of elevated caregiving in Get Risen: Unleash the Elevated Caregiver Within. Grab your copy today and transform your caregiving journey: https://bit.ly/GetRisen

Episode Title: Guiltless Breaks Save LivesPodcast: Caregiver Secrets – Season 6, Day 12 Show Notes: Have you ever felt like stepping away for even an hour means you're letting your loved one down? That the only way to show love is to be everything, all the time? In today’s episode of Caregiver Secrets, we’re getting real about the crushing guilt caregivers feel around taking breaks—and why that guilt might be costing more than you think. You’ll hear the raw, emotional story of Lena, a daughter brought to her knees by exhaustion, and the turning point that helped her understand: respite isn't a luxury. It's a lifeline. Whether you're caregiving alone or juggling a full household, this episode will speak directly to the invisible weight you carry every day. You’ll be reminded that your worth is not tied to your stamina—and that taking a break isn’t giving up. It’s choosing to keep going. Love this episode? Dive even deeper into the art of elevated caregiving in Get Risen: Unleash the Elevated Caregiver Within. Grab your copy today and transform your caregiving journey: https://bit.ly/GetRisen Disclaimer: This podcast is not medical, legal, or professional advice. It is based on personal experience and research. Please consult with your own professionals for decisions regarding your unique situation.

Show Notes – Season 6, Episode 11: Legal & Financial Basics: Power of Attorney, Advance Directives & Benefits When crisis strikes, the last thing you want is to feel helpless in a hospital hallway, wondering what your loved one would have wanted—and whether anyone will listen to you. In this deeply emotional episode of Caregiver Secrets, we explore the often-overlooked but absolutely critical legal and financial basics every caregiver needs to understand before the emergency hits. Through the powerful story of Tanya—a devoted daughter caught off guard when her father’s condition suddenly worsened—you’ll be drawn into the reality that too many caregivers face when vital documents aren’t in place. Power of attorney. Advance directives. Essential benefits. These aren’t just legal terms. They’re lifelines. This episode doesn’t hold back. It’s honest. It’s emotional. And it might just be the nudge you didn’t know you needed. If caregiving has left you feeling like you're always one step behind, you’re not alone. And you don’t have to stay stuck there. Dive even deeper into the art of elevated caregiving in Get Risen: Unleash the Elevated Caregiver Within. Grab your copy today and transform your caregiving journey: https://bit.ly/GetRisen This podcast is based on personal experience and research and is not intended as legal, medical, or financial advice. Always consult professionals regarding your unique situation.

Season 6, Episode 10: Building Your A‑Team: Finding & Managing Paid Caregivers In this powerful episode, you’ll discover how to assemble a compassionate caregiving squad so you can reclaim moments of peace without guilt. You’ll journey alongside Maya—a devoted daughter balancing work, family, and her father’s Alzheimer’s care—as she transforms from overwhelmed to empowered by building an A‑Team of paid caregivers. You’ll learn how to: • Pinpoint the exact tasks that drain you most and turn them into clear job descriptions• Craft a heartfelt recruitment message that attracts candidates who truly “get” your loved one• Interview with empathy by focusing on values and real‑life caregiving stories• Onboard new caregivers effectively—sharing schedules, household quirks, and emergency plans so they feel confident from day one• Foster open communication through weekly check‑ins that refine care strategies and deepen trust• Fuel caregiver morale with genuine appreciation and self‑care support that keeps your team strong By the end of this episode, you’ll see how an intentional A‑Team doesn’t replace your love—it amplifies it. You’ll walk away with the confidence to ask for help, the tools to manage your caregivers like a pro, and the freedom to be present for the moments that matter most. And if you’ve ever wondered where to find more encouragement and practical guidance, grab your free copy of Get Risen: Unleash the Elevated Caregiver Within at https://bit.ly/GetRisen. Peace of mind—and a nourishing meal—are closer than you think.

Nutrition That Nurtures: Quick, Caregiver‑Friendly Meal Ideas – Season 6, Episode 9 Ever feel torn between finding the time to cook and keeping your loved one nourished? In this emotionally charged episode, Reginald dives into simple meal strategies that honor both the caregiver’s schedule and the care recipient’s appetite. You’ll discover how to transform basic ingredients into vibrant, easy‑to‑serve dishes that spark joy and connection at every bite. In this episode you’ll learn: • How batch‑prep shortcuts can save hours in the kitchen without sacrificing nutrition• The magic of single‑serve muffins, parfaits, and snack boards to tempt even the smallest appetites• Creative hydration ideas that go beyond plain water to keep your loved one energized• Adaptive tools and flavor hacks that turn mealtime frustration into moments of independence• Real stories of breakthrough moments—like Maria’s parfait that unlocked laughter over breakfast If you’re ready to turn mealtime into a source of strength and shared memories, this episode is for you. And if you’ve ever wondered where to find more encouragement and practical guidance, grab your free copy of Get Risen: Unleash the Elevated Caregiver Within at https://bit.ly/GetRisen. Peace of mind—and a nourishing meal—are closer than you think.

Season 6, Episode 8 – Medication Mastery—Organizing, Tracking & Preventing Errors In this powerful episode, you’ll discover:• How a simple checklist transformed Maria’s pre-dawn panic into confident, error‑free medication routines• The surprising relief of color‑coding doses and tracking symptoms in a daily journal• Practical hacks for building a travel med‑pack to keep pills on schedule—no matter where life takes you• Proven strategies for communicating your system to every caregiver on your team• Ways to use technology wisely—pill dispensers, reminder apps and auto‑refills—without introducing new risks If you’ve ever felt the crushing guilt of a missed dose or the paralyzing fear of mixing up pills, this episode will bring you hope and actionable steps you can start tonight. You’re not just managing medications—you’re protecting the moments and memories that matter most. Take your caregiving journey to the next level with my book Get Risen: Unleash the Elevated Caregiver Within. Dive into deeper stories, practical tools, and life‑changing affirmations designed to lift you up when you need it most. Grab your copy now at https://bit.ly/GetRisen and keep rising above the challenges.

Endless Arguments? Try This to Flip the ScriptSeason 6, Episode 7 In this heart‑wrenching, real‑life‑inspired episode of Caregiver Secrets, we tackle those moments when every interaction feels like a no‑win argument. You’ll discover why surface fights over tea, TV remotes, or misplaced keys are often hiding deeper fears and frustrations—and learn simple yet powerful techniques to reconnect and calm the storm before it erupts . What You’ll Learn: How a 10‑second breathing pause can reset your stress response before words are even spoken Why naming emotions (“I see you’re upset”) dissolves defensiveness faster than arguing facts The art of gentle redirection—using memories, music, or a change of scenery to shift focus When and how to call a compassionate “time‑out” and revisit the conversation once both hearts are quieter Practical tips for rehearsing these strategies ahead of crisis moments so they become second nature Who Should Listen:Whether you’re a daughter facing 3 am tea debates with Dad, a spouse navigating medication disputes, or a professional caregiver handling repeated questions, this episode will give you tools to transform conflict into connection. Episode Highlights:• Discover the hidden needs driving “no‑win” arguments and how empathy dismantles them• Real caregiver stories that show these techniques in action—turning fear and anger into relief• Quick‑reference cues you can jot on sticky notes near commonly contested items Keep the Momentum GoingLoved today’s conversation? Bring its lessons into every heated moment by revisiting the grounding exercises and scripts in the show notes. Love this episode? Dive even deeper into the art of elevated caregiving in Get Risen: Unleash the Elevated Caregiver Within. Grab your copy today and transform your caregiving journey: https://bit.ly/GetRisen Disclaimer: This episode is based on personal experience and research. It’s not medical, legal, or professional advice. Please seek qualified guidance for your unique situation.

Episode Title: Truth vs. Tenderness: Winning the Battle of False Beliefs Episode Description:In this emotionally charged episode of Caregiver Secrets, we dive into the heart of dementia’s most disorienting challenges—false beliefs and repetitive questions—and reveal how a gentle, creative approach can transform moments of confusion into powerful opportunities for connection. Through vivid, real‑life stories, you’ll discover how to honor your loved one’s feelings without getting trapped in endless debates, and instead guide them back to peace and purpose with compassion and ingenuity. What You’ll Learn: Why Logic Fails: Understand the emotional roots of false beliefs and why straightforward corrections often backfire. Validation Over Correction: Learn the art of entering your loved one’s reality and validating their feelings to build trust and calm. Creative Redirection Techniques: Discover simple yet effective rituals—like meaningful activities, sensory prompts, and storytelling—that snap loved ones out of repetitive loops. Protecting Your Emotional Well‑Being: Gain strategies for self‑care and emotional resilience so you can care from a place of strength and love. Real‑World Success Stories: Hear how Julia and Carlos used empathy and creativity to restore peace in their homes and reclaim moments of joy with their parents. Why You Can’t Miss This:Every question repeated, every false belief offered, is an invitation to connect at a deeper level. In this episode, you’ll learn to harness the radical power of tenderness over truth—turning confusion into compassion, frustration into freedom. Love this episode? Dive even deeper into the art of elevated caregiving in Get Risen: Unleash the Elevated Caregiver Within. Grab your copy today and transform your caregiving journey: https://bit.ly/GetRisen

Season 6, Episode 5: Home Sweet Safe Home In this deeply personal and emotion‑evoking episode, Reginald shares a story of a fictionalized caregiving situation as well as his own journey transforming his mother’s house into a true sanctuary of safety and dignity. From grab bars and motion‑sensor nightlights to childproof knobs and step guards, discover how simple, budget‑friendly tweaks can ripple through every corner of your loved one’s world—bringing peace of mind for both of you. What You’ll Hear A vivid, heart‑wrenching story of one caregiver’s wake‑up call after a fall, and the promise she made to protect her loved-ones body and spirit. Practical, room‑by‑room audit tips you can do today—no worksheets required—to spot hidden hazards and restore confidence in everyday movements. The power of reframing safety modifications as gifts of beauty and care, preserving dignity while preventing injury. How thinking like a parent guarding a toddler can unlock new solutions for dementia‑related risks—and why it’s okay to “infantilize” when it keeps your loved one safe. A simple ritual for regular safety check‑ups that adapts as needs evolve, so your home remains a true haven. Key Takeaways Small Details, Big Impact: One grab bar, a single motion‑sensor light, or a non‑slip mat can dramatically reduce accidents and build confidence. Dignity First: Present modifications as thoughtful gifts—new colors, cozy textures, or elegant finishes—to honor your loved one’s identity. Collaborative Care: Invite your loved one into every decision. Their feedback turns you into partners, not just protectors. Courage As Things Change: Realize when your loved-one can not longer participate in the decision-making and when you have to take charge. Ongoing Process: Home safety isn’t a one‑time project. Schedule regular walk‑throughs to catch new hazards before they cause harm. Resources Mentioned Get Risen: Unleash the Elevated Caregiver Within by Reginald Reglus– Claim your free copy at https://bit.ly/GetRisen– Filled with transformative thoughts, faith‑infused mantras, and proven practices to help caregivers overcome depression, stress, and negativity—and avoid the chronic health risks so many face. Thank you for listening. If this episode moved you, please share it with another caregiver who needs to know they’re not alone—and that safety, love, and dignity can thrive under the same roof.        

When You Stay Silent, They Suffer: Speak Their Truth Episode SummaryIn this heart‑wrenching episode, we follow Maria as she navigates the chaos of the hospital corridors to become her father’s fiercest advocate. When Carlos lies tangled in tubes and confusion, every moment of silence risks his well‑being. Maria discovers that preparation, presence, and persistence can transform her fear into power—and change the course of her father’s care. You’ll feel her frustration, her hope, and the raw relief of speaking the words that save a life. What You’ll Discover• Why staying silent in a medical setting can cost more than just peace of mind• Simple steps to prepare your questions and review records before rounds• How to use presence—eye contact, calm tone, firm wording—to be heard• The art of gentle persistence: following up until you get clear answers• Strategies for advocating beyond doctors and nurses—liaising with specialists, case managers, and billing teams• Real examples of small interventions that protect dignity and comfort Why This MattersYour voice isn’t just noise—it’s a lifeline. Family caregivers hold vital knowledge about medication reactions, daily routines, and emotional shifts that no chart can capture. When you speak up, you ensure safety, maintain dignity, and remind medical teams that healing is a human endeavor. Key Moments• Maria’s first failed attempt and the turning point when she read her father’s lab results aloud• The quiet power of requesting a warmer blanket to ease fear and tremors• Bringing in a neurologist to untangle nighttime confusion• Turning a rush‑through bandage change into a moment of comfort and collaboration Take ActionNext time you stand at the threshold of a hospital room, remember Maria’s journey. Arm yourself with a list of questions, enlist a trusted ally for support, and remind yourself: “If I don’t speak up, who will?” Your loved one depends on you to translate fear into action—and your voice matters more than you know.