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Healthy Mind Healthy Self
Martha Alvarez, LMFT
81 episodes
1 day ago
Trying to figure out whether you need therapy or coaching? This episode breaks down the real difference between the two. It explains how to know if you need healing, change, or both and how to choose the right person for your situation. Learn what psychotherapy actually treats, what coaching transforms, and why so many people stay stuck simply because they don’t know which path fits their needs. Clear, practical guidance to help you move forward with confidence.
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Mental Health
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Alternative Health
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Trying to figure out whether you need therapy or coaching? This episode breaks down the real difference between the two. It explains how to know if you need healing, change, or both and how to choose the right person for your situation. Learn what psychotherapy actually treats, what coaching transforms, and why so many people stay stuck simply because they don’t know which path fits their needs. Clear, practical guidance to help you move forward with confidence.
Show more...
Mental Health
Education,
Self-Improvement,
Health & Fitness,
Alternative Health
Episodes (20/81)
Healthy Mind Healthy Self
Therapy or Coaching? What Do You Really Need?
Trying to figure out whether you need therapy or coaching? This episode breaks down the real difference between the two. It explains how to know if you need healing, change, or both and how to choose the right person for your situation. Learn what psychotherapy actually treats, what coaching transforms, and why so many people stay stuck simply because they don’t know which path fits their needs. Clear, practical guidance to help you move forward with confidence.
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4 weeks ago
18 minutes

Healthy Mind Healthy Self
The Two Skills That Will Change Your Life
When life hits hard, whether it’s a relationship shift, grief, stress, or uncertainty, your nervous system reacts before your mind can catch up. In this episode, you’ll learn the two emotional skills that steady you no matter what you’re facing. Discover how to pause, ground, interrupt old patterns, and rise with clarity instead of panic. These tools change how you respond, recover, and move forward.
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1 month ago
22 minutes

Healthy Mind Healthy Self
How To Stay Calm Around People That Trigger You
Discover how to keep your peace when people push your buttons. This episode explores why certain personalities trigger you and how to regulate your nervous system, set healthy boundaries and stay grounded with family, at work and during the holidays. Listen to an insightful, relatable and empowering go-to guide and reclaim your clarity, calm and emotional freedom.
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1 month ago
16 minutes

Healthy Mind Healthy Self
Your Brain On Stress: Finding The Sweet Spot
Discover how your brain and body respond to stress and how to find the balance between pressure and purpose. Learn the science of stress, the art of flow, and practical coaching tools to rewire your nervous system for calm, focus, and expansion.
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2 months ago
23 minutes

Healthy Mind Healthy Self
The Mental Clutter You Don't Notice, But Feel Every Day
Feeling foggy, restless, or mentally exhausted even on calm days? You might not be overwhelmed by what’s happening; you might just be carrying too much mental clutter. This episode explores why constant thinking doesn’t equal clarity, how mental fatigue turns into overwhelm, and simple ways to clear the noise. Discover mind-body strategies that quiet your inner chaos, restore focus, and bring back a sense of calm—without needing a total life reset.
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2 months ago
19 minutes

Healthy Mind Healthy Self
The Not So Obvious Signs Your Mental Health Might Be Slipping
Ever feel like you’re holding it all together on the outside but quietly unraveling inside? This episode explores the not-so-obvious signs that your mental health might be slipping; the subtle shifts that often go unnoticed: brain fog, irritability, fatigue, emotional flatness, or feeling disconnected from joy and relationships. Learn how your body and nervous system send early signals, what those signals are trying to tell you, and practical ways to reconnect before burnout sets in. ...
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2 months ago
14 minutes

Healthy Mind Healthy Self
The 12 Faces of Intimacy: Beyond Sex and Conversation
Intimacy isn’t just sex or deep talks; it has twelve different faces that shape how connected you feel in your relationship. In this episode, we explore the “house of intimacy,” from emotional and physical closeness to playful, creative, ritual, and spiritual connection. Learn why intimacy fades, how to rebuild it without pressure, and how to discover new doors that bring your relationship back to life.
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3 months ago
18 minutes

Healthy Mind Healthy Self
Escaping The Trigger Cycle
Ever wonder why you sometimes snap, shut down, or spiral before you even know what hit you? In this episode, I unpack triggers; what they are, why they happen, and how to stop letting them run the show. You’ll learn practical steps to pause, separate fact from story, and respond instead of react. Plus, I’ll talk about how to handle your partner’s triggers with care while still taking ownership of your own.
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3 months ago
27 minutes

Healthy Mind Healthy Self
Loving Without Losing Yourself
Discover how to love deeply without losing yourself. In this episode, we explore the beauty of healthy love, what happens when unhealed parts show up, and how to navigate the breaking point without self-abandonment. Learn why love alone isn’t enough and the essential skills of safety, repair, emotional regulation, and boundaries. Gain practical ways to stay rooted, even in conflict, and build a relationship that’s resilient, connected, and truly sustainable.
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3 months ago
29 minutes

Healthy Mind Healthy Self
Stop Getting In Your Own Way
Why do smart, self-aware people get in their own way of creating the life they desire? In this episode, I unpack the real reasons behind self-sabotage; from fear and overthinking to low commitment and unclear desires. You’ll learn how to spot the patterns, reset your mindset, and finally take aligned action. Whether it’s your relationship, career, or self-worth, you’ll walk away with clarity, truth, and tools you can use today.
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3 months ago
15 minutes

Healthy Mind Healthy Self
The 3 Minute Relationship Reset
Feeling the heat with your partner? This episode offers a relationship reset for moments of tension—money fights, chore wars, jealousy, time pressure, and parenting stress. You’ll learn why conflicts escalate and what helps you shift back to connection quickly, with clear language and practical scripts for real-life scenarios. Calm the storm, reduce misunderstandings, and repair without sweeping issues under the rug. Listen now to argue less, feel closer, and get back on the same team.
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3 months ago
20 minutes

Healthy Mind Healthy Self
How To Make Confident Decisions
Struggling to make a decision because you’re afraid of what might happen next? In this episode, we unpack decision fatigue, inner conflict, and why wanting two things at once isn’t a flaw. Learn a simple 5-step framework to find clarity, create emotional anchors, and make confident choices, even when the outcome depends on someone else.
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4 months ago
19 minutes

Healthy Mind Healthy Self
How to Recognize and Rewire the Patterns That Shape Your Life
Are you choosing your life—or just repeating it? In this episode, we explore the difference between habits and deeper emotional patterns, how they shape your identity and relationships, and how to start shifting the ones keeping you stuck. Discover the micro-shifts that interrupt autopilot, the roles you didn’t know you were playing, and the first step to living with more intention and ease.
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6 months ago
14 minutes

Healthy Mind Healthy Self
The Quiet Betrayal: Self Abandonment
Feeling disconnected, even when life looks “fine”? In this episode, we explore the subtle ways women betray themselves—by dimming their needs, silencing their truth, and losing touch with who they are. Whether you're caregiving, achieving, or just holding it all together, this is your invitation to return to yourself. Discover why honoring your soul isn’t selfish—it’s necessary.
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7 months ago
11 minutes

Healthy Mind Healthy Self
Strong But Drained: The Hidden Cost of Carrying It All
Feeling mentally exhausted even when you're doing "all the right things"? In this episode of Healthy Mind, Healthy Self, we explore what happens when your brain is tired of holding it all—alone. Learn the real signs of emotional and mental fatigue, why strength doesn’t mean carrying everything forever, and how to start releasing the invisible load you’ve been carrying. A must-listen if you’ve been the strong one for too long and you’re ready for real, sustainable relief.
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8 months ago
11 minutes

Healthy Mind Healthy Self
The Truth about Mental Wellness
Feeling tired in a way that rest can’t fix? This episode unpacks what mental wellness really means—beyond self-care checklists and good vibes. Learn how to recognize emotional overload, reframe your mindset, and build a healthier relationship with your thoughts. Whether you’re high-functioning but secretly exhausted or just craving deeper peace, this conversation will help you shift from surviving to truly supporting yourself—from the inside out.
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8 months ago
16 minutes

Healthy Mind Healthy Self
How to Handle Blame and Inspire Accountability in Your Relationship
In this episode, we explore how to handle blame and inspire accountability in your relationship. Learn how setting healthy boundaries can help you regain emotional control, foster respect, and encourage both partners to take responsibility. Tune in for practical tips on nurturing your relationship and breaking the cycle of blame to build a stronger, more balanced connection.
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9 months ago
18 minutes

Healthy Mind Healthy Self
The Rabbit Hole: How to Stop Spiraling Thoughts Before They Take Over
Ever find yourself spiraling into overthinking, anxiety, or worst-case scenarios? Like Alice in Alice in Wonderland, one thought can send you tumbling down a mental rabbit hole. But what if you could stop the fall? In this episode, learn why you spiral, how to press pause, and practical steps to regain control. Listen now and take back control of your thoughts!
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9 months ago
16 minutes

Healthy Mind Healthy Self
Emotional Hoarding: When the Fear of Scarcity and Loss Blocks Love
Do you or your partner hold back emotions out of fear of getting hurt or feeling drained? This episode unpacks emotional hoarding—when love is rationed like a limited resource, creating distance instead of connection. Learn how fear of scarcity and loss fuels emotional avoidance, why anxious and avoidant partners get stuck in a push-pull cycle, and how to shift from emotional scarcity to abundance. Listen now to break free from fear and build deeper, more secure love!
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10 months ago
15 minutes

Healthy Mind Healthy Self
Breaking Free from Lack Mentality
Do you ever feel like you’re settling in your relationships, career, or personal growth? Maybe you tell yourself “this is good enough” when deep down, you want more—but guilt, fear, or self-doubt hold you back. In this episode, we break down why you settle (hint: it’s not just fear of failure) and how to shift into an abundance mindset so you can finally stop playing small. It’s time to step into a mindset where you trust that more is possible for you. Listen now and start shifting into...
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10 months ago
18 minutes

Healthy Mind Healthy Self
Trying to figure out whether you need therapy or coaching? This episode breaks down the real difference between the two. It explains how to know if you need healing, change, or both and how to choose the right person for your situation. Learn what psychotherapy actually treats, what coaching transforms, and why so many people stay stuck simply because they don’t know which path fits their needs. Clear, practical guidance to help you move forward with confidence.