⚡️ Today I sit down with Rob “Mr. Kingdomfit” — and we go straight into the real stuff: depression, identity, discipline, and what it looks like to rebuild your life from the inside out. ❤️ Rob opens up about losing his mom young, the heaviness that followed, and the moment he hit a wall and realized he couldn’t keep doing life the same way. We talk about what “seek first the Kingdom” actually means in real life — when your mind is tired, your habits are messy, and you’re trying to beco...

⚡️ Today I sit down with my friend Josh Johnson — a husband, father, and personal injury attorney serving Northeast Florida — and we go way deeper than “career success.” ❤️ We talk about the real origin story: growing up in the inner city with five siblings, lights getting shut off, living on tuna + crackers… and still being told, “We live here, but we don’t belong here.” Josh breaks down the exact moments that forged his mindset — including the day his dad told him to call out the bigg...

In this episode I share a quick story about my brother Jeff, a moment on a kitchen floor after heavy drinking, and how it turned into a massive wake-up call—not just for him, but for anyone who’s ready to change. I break down what I call the three levels of change: You don’t even know you need to change. You’re just doing your thing on autopilot.You know you should do something different… but you still react the same way.You hit that same situation again—and this time, you actually choose dif...

⚡️ Today I sit down with my friend, therapist and Gulf War veteran Russell Holloway. ❤️ In this episode I open up about my own past anger and the idea of “moral injury,” and Russell shares how he went from combat to counseling—and why he’s launching Love Rewrites History to push a National Day to “love your enemy.” We get into the survival brain (and why rehearsal changes behavior), simple ways to drop from fight-or-flight to calm, and what forgiveness can look like without abandoning your b...

⚡️ Last episode I was hot—raw and in my feelings about that soccer night. ❤️ In this episode I reflect on what shifted a week later: saying it out loud, being heard (not fixed), and how that alone brought me back to center. In this episode I share the moment I realized I needed a listener, not a solution; how I approached the follow-up conversation; and the simple night routine that helped me wake up calmer. This episode is for you when emotions are running high and you need a grounded ...

⚡️ Ever had someone’s voice get so loud in your head that you stop trusting your own game? ❤️ In this episode, I break down a real moment from a soccer match where a teammate’s constant “No, Wilson… no, Wilson…” slowly tightened me up, killed my confidence, and changed how I played. At the same time, another player had just pulled me aside to tell me how much I’ve leveled up. Two totally different mirrors—same night. I share how I processed that, where I let it get to me, and how I’m learning...

⚡️ Life isn’t one endless fight—it’s rounds. ❤️ In this episode I share a quick perspective shift I had on a hiking trail: stop calling everything a “struggle” and start asking, “What wins this round?” Survive, adjust, throw the right combo—no first-round KO required. This episode is for you when you need something simple and practical to get momentum back in the next 60 seconds—without overthinking. Send us a text It takes time, patience, and practice. Keep going. ⚡️Appreciate the c...

When life feels heavy, I come back to one word: privilege. In this episode, I talk about the practice that keeps me centered—three wins, three gratitudes—and how “privilege” reframes relationships, work, and the days that feel mid. This episode is for you when you need a quiet reset that doesn’t depend on motivation. ⚡️❤️ Send us a text It takes time, patience, and practice. Keep going. ⚡️Appreciate the content? Help Us Grow: $5 | $20 | $49 Venmo ⚡️ Follow us on Instagram: @NCUYD ⚡️ Su...

We grew up together… and we finally said the quiet parts out loud. In this episode, I ask Jon about the years we spent chasing acceptance, the labels that stick (“annoying,” outsider), and the two moments that almost broke our friendship—then what it took to repair it. We get into why we chase certain groups, the identity cost of performing a role that isn’t ours, and how a simple FaceTime at our high-school reunion changed everything. Jon also shares a major life regret (football vs. t...

What does love look like when “help” stops helping? In this episode, I sit with Kay to talk about loving a sister through addiction without enabling, losing her mom, holding the family together while her dad battled staph infections and surgeries, and how faith shifted from religion to a real relationship with God. We also get into the mental load of motherhood, missing grown kids who live far, and the business she wishes she’d started sooner—but started anyway. This episode is for you when y...

⚡️ I sit down with Kris, a restaurant leader and Army vet who did three tours in Iraq. We talk about the day a parking-lot conversation changed both our moods, why the first 4th of July back nearly broke him, and how he slowly reclaimed driving, crowds, and sleep without letting pills run his life. ❤️ In this episode I share the exact moment I met Kris, the three questions that opened the door, and how he turned hyper-vigilance into a superpower at work—plus a simple practice he uses to...

Some days the loudest voice isn’t the wisest one. In this episode, I talk about becoming the guy people call when it’s time to shift state—the Spiritual Hypeman—and the moment I stopped fighting that role. I share what’s been real at home, why community matters when emotions run high, and how I’m building an MVP space for us to connect. This episode is for you when you’re ready to catch yourself mid-spiral and choose a better prompt. ⚡️❤️ Send us a text It takes time, patience, and prac...

Halloween. Costumes. Sirens. Shotguns pointed at me. In this episode, I tell the truth about the night that could’ve gone a very different way—jealousy, alcohol, control—and the exact choices I changed after. I share what safety looks like now, why I cut substances first, and the one question that finally reset my behavior. This episode is for you when the party’s over and you don’t like who you were last night. ⚡️❤️ Content note: mentions of domestic violence, police interaction, and ...

We’ve been friends since age eight. Today, Jon and I finally say the quiet parts out loud—childhood anxiety, parents’ divorce, being cast as “the quarterback” when your soul wanted to be a wide receiver, and what happens when you spend years performing a role that isn’t yours. In this episode, I ask Jon about living with anxiety/depression, medication (and when it helps), trying ketamine therapy, and learning to advocate for yourself when doctors and systems don’t give clear answers. We...

Letting go is one thing. Living in the unknown is another. In this episode, I continue with Shannel and we get real about their IVF journey — from years of “no” to a single embryo and a 2% chance, to what obedience looked like when clarity didn’t. We also touch the parts most people don’t say out loud: limits on hormones, advocating for your own body, the cost (money and emotion), high-risk pregnancy, NICU days, and the recovery nobody prepares you for. This episode is for you when...

I sit down with my friend Victoria—an energy worker who does quantum energetic healing—to talk about grief, love, and the frequencies we carry. We get into losing family, why some relationships swing between extreme highs and lows, the difference between understanding someone and accepting behavior, and how visualization (done right) can actually shift your field. In this episode, I share how I’ve handled jealousy, past mistakes, and the exact question that flipped my behavior in love. This e...

Locked in a laundry room for hours as a kid. A viral-ad agency scaled to 130 people and a $17M exit. Then the bill came due: stress, illness, and the work of untangling old wiring. In this episode, I sit with Travis Chambers to talk about childhood trauma, forgiveness without denial, and how he rebuilt his life after selling Chamber Media. We get into influencer strategy that actually drives revenue, why boundaries are non-negotiable (even with family and “friends” in business), and what he’s...

What happens when the path you worked so hard to build… stops feeling like yours? In this episode, I sit with my longtime friend Shannel to talk about the deep pause—the identity unraveling—that forced her to confront the cost of chasing what she thought success had to look like. We get into childhood dynamics, corporate burnout, trusting God through silence, and what it really takes to listen when everything in you wants to run. This episode is for you when it feels like you're at the e...

Some mornings you wake up—and you can’t go back to sleep on your life. In this episode, I sit with Vinny Di Palma to talk about the moment everything shifted. From anxiety spirals and childhood trauma to gym therapy and fatherhood, this conversation pulls back the layers on what it means to rebuild—without shame, without hiding, and without delay. We talk grief, boundaries, navigating transitions, and how to keep moving forward even when the old version of you is still trying to hang on. This...

Some seasons demand more of you—business, family, expectations—and it’s easy to forget why you started. In this episode, I sit with my friend John Gilvary to talk about learning focus the hard way: growing a business that actually serves your life, being an empty-nester who still shows up, and the quiet moments that change everything (including the one photo he didn’t take with his dad). We get into influence, tradition, and what it means to build a life your kids remember—without losing your...