In this episode, the girls kick things off with the big news: the Two Cents Live Show is officially happening in Hamburg on 13 December 2025—Christmas vibes, Glühwein, snacks, banter, and maybe even a ticket giveaway.
Then Rufaro dives into the TikTok drama that’s taken over her week: a harmless story about explaining where Zimbabwe is turned into a full-on South African comment-section war. We unpack the misunderstanding, the accent debate, why some people think all Africans know each other’s politics, and the chaotic insults flying in multiple languages.
The conversation shifts into diaspora identity, end-of-year burnout, Christmas markets in Germany, American consumerism, and why German gifts are always so practical. We wrap up with the viral Vogue topic: is having a boyfriend now embarrassing?—and share our honest take on dating culture in 2025.
A funny, fast-paced episode filled with cultural hot takes, online madness, and December energy.
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In this hilarious and bonus episode, Mariam and Rufaro unpack a listener’s dilemma about friendship boundaries, jealousy, and whether you can really be too trusting.
They dive into:
💬 When to draw the line between “friendly” and “too friendly”
💭 How to trust your gut without being paranoid
😂 Personal stories about overthinking, sleep habits, and Christmas obsession
👀 Why “different types” don’t always keep people safe from attraction
If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Am I being naive or just chill?” — this one’s for you.
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It’s giving sultry nighttime radio meets real talk therapy. In this chaos-but-make-it-fun episode of Two Sense Podcast, Mariam and Rufaro take you from Riverside tech fails to major manifestation wins — including a huge brand collab possibly in the works 👀.
They unpack:
🎤 The struggle of remote recording (and why Riverside “owes” them money)
💭 Manifesting goals, creative burnout, and bouncing back after a hiatus
🎟️ Behind-the-scenes prep for their Live Show in Germany — and why everyone needs to “buy your tickets, please!”
💎 The viral Louvre Heist that had the internet laughing (because not a single person was harmed)
📱 The content creation dilemma — editing on phone vs laptop, CapCut woes, and why Mariam might secretly be a boomer
🙏 A deep dive into religion, faith, and feminism — from prosperity gospel scams to finding your own truth and tackling “low spiritual self-esteem”
💬 Plus: rants, laughter, and honest moments about boundaries, burnout, and building something meaningful.
If you came for vibes, stay for the vulnerability.
This episode is unfiltered, unhinged, and unapologetically grown.
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This week’s episode is a bit of a random one — but in true Two Sense style, it gets real quite fast.
Mariam opens up about a situation at her son’s kindergarten that might have some subtle (or not-so-subtle) racial undertones.
The conversation dives into how racism isn’t something kids are born with — it’s something they learn from the adults around them. Mariam shares how they’re helping their son navigate kindergarten with kids of different ages, and how she’s learned to confront uncomfortable situations head-on instead of brushing them off.
It’s an honest, thoughtful chat about parenting, identity, and the quiet ways bias shows up in everyday spaces.
We’d love to hear your own experiences with this, feel free to write to us using the Google form
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This episode is all about celebrating Mariam’s birthday (21 October) — Two Sense style. The girls take a trip down memory lane, reflecting on milestone ages, lessons learned, and all the chaos in between.
But of course, it wouldn’t be Two Sense without a few detours. Between laughs and nostalgia, the convo somehow shifts (as it always does) to politics — including Friedrich Merz’s “Stadtbild” take — as well as an honest discussion about the so-called ho phase and how society seems to believe that it is essential for personal growth.
It’s a mix of reflection, real talk, and a little bit of recklessness — exactly what birthdays are made for.
As always your takes are always welcome, be sure to send us your messages through our DMs or the google form https://bit.ly/two-sense-pod
In this laughter-filled and brutally honest episode of Two Sense Podcast, Mariam and co-host Rufaro dive headfirst into the wild world of third trimester motherhood — swollen ankles, iron supplements, hospital decisions, and the eternal question: why is my baby kicking my bladder like it’s a drumline?
But before the belly talk begins, the duo catch up on self-care rituals, winter blues prevention, and the chaotic joy of planning their first live show (with AI-generated promo pictures that look nothing like them — hence, “Who’s that girl in brown?”). Expect real talk on body changes, blood sugar spikes, and the surprising science behind why African babies are usually bigger than average.
It’s equal parts hilarious and heartfelt — perfect for expecting mamas in Germany, women juggling careers and motherhood, and anyone who’s ever screamed at an AI for giving them the wrong torso.💬 Don’t forget to share your thoughts, questions, or experiences in the comments or on social media or send them our way anonymously through our Google form: https://bit.ly/two-sense-pod, subscribe on Spotify and YouTube—it’s the easiest way to support us and help and support us. Thank you for being part of this incredible journey.
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Mariam and Rufaro kick off a hilariously real chat about identity, culture, and connection—from being “from another planet” to unpacking diaspora wars between Africans and Black Americans. The duo dive into Tiwa Savage’s viral Breakfast Club moment, the complexity of words like colored and Akata, and why some conversations just need context. There’s laughter, side rants, German jokes, and candid talk about belonging abroad and building community in Europe.
If you’ve ever felt caught between worlds—or just love unfiltered conversations about culture, race, and womanhood—this one’s for you.
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We’re back with a fresh new name — Two Sense Podcast 🎉 (still getting used to saying that 👀). In this episode, we unpack cultural quirks and why, in so many African spaces, anything “white” seems to be put on a pedestal.
Rufaro calls out Zimbabwean wedding fashion (and yes, she feels some kinda way about it😅), while Mariam reflects on China’s growing economic footprint and the push for Mandarin in schools.
We also dig into Operation Dudula in South Africa and how it exposes the hidden anti-Blackness woven into certain agendas across the continent.
PS: This convo was pre-recorded, so if it feels like we’re a bit late to the party — now you know why. 😉
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It’s official — we’ve hit 50 episodes and we’re stepping into a new chapter. Formerly known as The She Sessions, we are now the Two Sense Podcast!
Why the change? Because this is a new era. With two co-hosts sharing their two sense on everything from culture shocks to personal growth, relationships, and navigating life abroad, the name just fits. We want everyone—women, men, friends, family—to feel welcome in our growing community of listeners.
In this milestone episode, we reflect on our journey so far, why we rebranded, and what’s coming next. We also revisit one of our most popular themes: moving to Germany as young Africans, from language struggles to weather shocks, German etiquette, bureaucracy, and everything in between. Whether you’re considering a move abroad, curious about cultural transitions, or just here for real talk and laughter, this episode has something for you.
✨ What to expect in this episode:
The story behind our name change from The She Sessions to Two Sense
Honest reflections on hitting 50 episodes and building a podcast from scratch
Real-life experiences of moving to Germany: language, weather, paperwork, and cultural adjustments
The highs, lows, and laughs of finding balance in a new country
Thank you to every listener who’s been part of this journey so far. Your support has taken us from “nobodies on the internet” to a podcast with a growing, loyal community. Here’s to the next 50 and beyond!
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In this episode, Mariam and Rufaro continue their pregnancy series with an honest, funny, and insightful dive into the second trimester. From essential prenatal tests like the NIPT and glucose screening to navigating cravings, wardrobe changes, and workplace conversations, they share what expecting moms can truly anticipate.
The hosts also discuss the importance of finding a midwife in Germany, preparing for maternity leave, and staying active while balancing rest. Plus, they reflect on community support, listener mail, and even tease their first-ever live show in Hamburg.
If you’re an expecting mom, parent-to-be, or simply curious about pregnancy in Germany, this episode is packed with relatable stories, practical advice, and plenty of laughter.
👉 Tune in to learn:
What really happens in the second trimester
Key tests every mom should know about
How to balance health, work, and family
Why pregnancy is never “one size fits all”
💬 Don’t forget to share your thoughts, questions, or experiences in the comments or on social media with #theshesessions #shesquad or send them our way anonymously through our Google form: https://bit.ly/theshesessionspod. Don’t forget to like, rate, and subscribe on Spotify and YouTube—it’s the easiest way to support us and help our She Squad grow. Thank you for being part of this incredible journey.
It’s a Bonus Episode!!!!🥳🥳🥳
In this episode Mariam and Rufaro take you on a ride — literally and figuratively. We kick things off with Mariam’s startup journey in Nigeria, which sparks a bigger conversation about transportation systems across Africa and what innovation on the continent could look like.
Then we pivot to the U.S., unpacking the recent Charlie Kirk shooting and sharing some real skepticism about how the story is being told.
And finally, wedding bells are ringing — well for the billionaires and millionaires. From Jeff Bezos’ flashy celebration to Beca Bloom, Davido, and Mr Eazi tying the knot, we talk about how the 1% does matrimony and why these weddings feel more like global events than personal milestones.
Business, politics, and big-money love stories — all wrapped up in classic The She Sessions energy.
As always share your opinions with us in the comment section or through our Google form in the description💌
In this episode, Mariam and Rufaro step into their “gossip auntie but not really” era. The girls chat about a trending German influencer who took her followers on her whole fairytale marriage journey — only for it to end almost as quickly as it began.
The girls also talk about how the social media space is more ‘stingy’ when it comes to black creators.
Using the story as a springboard, they dive into why you can’t take everything you see on social media at face value, and the risks of putting your entire life (and love life!) on the internet for strangers to consume.
It’s part tea, part real talk, and classic The She Sessions energy.
As always, share your thoughts with us on this episode in the comments or using the google form 💌 https://bit.ly/theshesessionspod it’s completely anonymous.
In this episode of the She Sessions pod, Mariam gets real about the ups and downs of the first trimester of pregnancy—from the must-have prenatal vitamins to navigating maternity leave in Germany. But the heart of this chat? Her not-so-great experience with a gynecologist during her first pregnancy, and the lessons learned about why finding the right doctor (one who actually listens and communicates!) is so important for every mama-to-be.
Expect unfiltered mom talk, laughter, and practical advice on:
How to pick a gynecologist you can trust (especially if you prefer English in Germany)
Why you shouldn’t fall for “cryptic pregnancy” myths
Real tips for handling nausea, heartburn, fatigue & all the glamorous first-trimester symptoms
Sorting through overwhelming pregnancy advice online
If you’re expecting, planning to be, or just love real motherhood conversations, this one’s for you.
Got ideas for topics, guests, or even your own stories to share? Share them in the comments or on social media with #theshesessions #shesquad or send them our way anonymously through our Google form: https://bit.ly/theshesessionspod. Don’t forget to like, rate, and subscribe on Spotify and YouTube—it’s the easiest way to support us and help our She Squad grow. Thank you for being part of this incredible journey.
This is a follow-up to our earlier friendship episode—only now we’re sharing what’s changed. We revisit “cut-them-off” energy and land in a more nuanced middle: giving grace when life is life-ing, naming the hurt, and choosing boundaries that protect your peace.
Co-hosts Mariam and Rufaro unpack ghosting vs. slow replies, mental-health dips that make the phone feel like an enemy, and why “I was busy with work” isn’t enough without real context. There’s also a month-long repair conversation that shows how speaking up can be clarity—not conflict.
Plus, unlearning people-pleasing, showing up without overextending, and taking a lighter approach to adult friendships. (With a quick Love Is Blind/Perfect Match detour—because balance. 😅)
You’ll hear about: friendship breakups, forgiveness after an apology, boundaries, confrontation as self-respect, ghosting vs. MIA, mental health & communication, people-pleasing, and evolving expectations in adult friendships.
If you missed the first conversation, go back to our earlier friendship episode EP29. My friend hurt me but I forgave her then press play on this update.
Got ideas for topics, guests, or even your own stories to share? Share them in the comments or on social media with #theshesessions #shesquad or send them our way anonymously through our Google form: https://bit.ly/theshesessionspod. Don’t forget to like, rate, and subscribe on Spotify and YouTube—it’s the easiest way to support us and help our She Squad grow. Thank you for being part of this incredible journey.
⚠️ Trigger Warning: Suicide
This episode contains open and honest conversations about suicide, grief, and mental health. Please listen with care, and if you or someone you know is struggling, reach out to a helpline in your area.
In this deeply personal episode, Mariam and Rufaro tackle a heavy but necessary topic — the rising rates of suicide among young people. They share that they’ll be hosting a Facebook Live with Blessed Getaways Australia to continue this important discussion. Mariam opens up about the recent passing of a loved one — and why she can’t find herself grieving like any other person would.
From there, the girls wade into the messy waters of daddy issues, while Rufaro candidly shares her thoughts on why she doesn’t fully buy into modern-day therapy.
It’s raw, heartfelt, and unapologetically honest — the kind of conversation that reminds you you’re not alone in facing life’s hardest realities.
Do share your own stories with us, we love hearing from you.
This week, Mariam and Rufaro kick things off with a deep dive into one of their shared obsessions: Game of Thrones. Spoiler alert — if you haven’t watched it yet, you might want to skip ahead before we accidentally ruin a major plot twist (or ten).
From Westeros we somehow end up in the hair discussion…AGAIN! We’re talking hair politics and the latest viral clip from the show ‘My Style Rocks’. If you missed it: a white contestant wore an Afro, a Black woman almost broke down in tears explain the complexities of this decision, and the judges… decided to berate her. We unpack the messy double standards between Black women wearing straight hair versus white women wearing Afro styles, and where the conversation about cultural respect really needs to go.
We also get into keratin treatments on Black hair and the importance of Black spaces, and why they’re still so needed in 2025.
And finally, we shout out and celebrate PY for the grand opening of Podhaus in Hamburg.
Be sure to listen to listen to Episode 10 of the podcast where we unpacked the conversation about hair as well.
As always feel free to share your own opinions in the comment section and our google form in the description if you’d rather remain anonymous.
Until next time:)
What to expect when expecting, the series continues.
In this episode, Mariam and Rufaro catch up on life, chaos, and questionable hobbies. Mariam kicks things off with a story of her attempt at “white people stuff” — skiing. Let’s just say it was her own version of skiing.
But the episode takes a more serious turn as Mariam continues with the long awaited series: What to Expect When You’re Expecting.
⛔️ Trigger warning ⛔️: This conversation includes themes of miscarriage and pregnancy complications.
Mariam opens up about a recent pregnancy-loss scare, a medical procedure she had to go through mid-pregnancy, and why — in her honest opinion — pregnancy absolutely sucks.
Rufaro holds it down with empathy, humor, and — of course — a few hot takes. Including one that might spark debate: she’s not here for male gynecologists. At all. Should men really be the experts on VJJs? We go there.
It’s one of those episodes that has everything: laughter, truth bombs, medical drama, and a little bit of “did she just say that?” energy.
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In this brutally honest and hilariously relatable episode, Mariam and Rufaro dive deep into the expat experience in Germany — from birthday carrot cakes and toddler celebrations to language wars at the Ausländerbehörde. They explore the everyday joys and frustrations of immigrant life, share stories from small towns to big cities, and unpack the awkward middle-ground of “feeling grateful but treated like a third-class citizen.” Whether you’re a newbie in Germany or a seasoned expat, this episode will have you nodding (and laughing) in solidarity.Got ideas for topics, guests, or even your own stories to share? Share them in the comments or on social media with #theshesessions #shesquad or send them our way anonymously through our Google form: https://bit.ly/theshesessionspod. Don’t forget to like, rate, and subscribe on Spotify and YouTube—it’s the easiest way to support us and help our She Squad grow. Thank you for being part of this incredible journey.
In this episode, we dive into the wild world of aesthetic obsession—where curated mood boards dictate toddler wardrobes, and perfume influencers fill rooms with fragrances. Rufaro opens up about her mission to deinfluence in a world addicted to curated perfection, while we explore how lifestyle choices are increasingly shaped by online trends. Are we truly living for ourselves, or just performing for the algorithm?Got ideas for topics, guests, or even your own stories to share? Share them in the comments or on social media with #theshesessions #shesquad or send them our way anonymously through our Google form: https://bit.ly/theshesessionspod. Don’t forget to like, rate, and subscribe on Spotify and YouTube—it’s the easiest way to support us and help our She Squad grow. Thank you for being part of this incredible journey.
Breast pumps, baby blues, and bouncing back. This week, Mariam keeps it real about round two of motherhood. From surprise C-sections to ditching designer baby gear, she spills all the tea on what actually changes the second time around as her and co-host Rufaro talk about what to expect when you're expecting.
👶 Why breastfeeding came easy this time — and pumping went in the bin
👕 The no-hand-me-downs rule that didn’t last
🍼 Designer baby gear vs. Primark supremacy
🧠 Mental prep, mommy brain, and the magic of knowing what’s coming
🤱 How having help (or not) totally shapes your postpartum story
Whether you're a first-time mom, planning round two, or just here for the laughs — this one’s for you.
Got ideas for topics, guests, or even your own stories to share? Share them in the comments or on social media with #theshesessions #shesquad or send them our way anonymously through our Google form: https://bit.ly/theshesessionspod. Don’t forget to like, rate, and subscribe on Spotify and YouTube—it’s the easiest way to support us and help our She Squad grow. Thank you for being part of this incredible journey.