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Becoming Secure
Emily Dini
35 episodes
5 days ago
On this episode of Becoming Secure, Emily welcomes anxious attachment coach Valerie Rubin to discuss common mistakes anxious attachers make in dating and relationships and the importance of doing somatic work in healing anxious attachment! Find Valerie's instagram here Valerie's podcast is called: The Anxiety Recovery Podcast. Apply to work with Emily 1-1
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On this episode of Becoming Secure, Emily welcomes anxious attachment coach Valerie Rubin to discuss common mistakes anxious attachers make in dating and relationships and the importance of doing somatic work in healing anxious attachment! Find Valerie's instagram here Valerie's podcast is called: The Anxiety Recovery Podcast. Apply to work with Emily 1-1
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Mental Health
Education,
Self-Improvement,
Health & Fitness
Episodes (20/35)
Becoming Secure
Dating Mistakes Anxious Attachers Make w/ Guest Valerie Rubin
On this episode of Becoming Secure, Emily welcomes anxious attachment coach Valerie Rubin to discuss common mistakes anxious attachers make in dating and relationships and the importance of doing somatic work in healing anxious attachment! Find Valerie's instagram here Valerie's podcast is called: The Anxiety Recovery Podcast. Apply to work with Emily 1-1
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1 week ago
56 minutes

Becoming Secure
Sh*t Women Say to Justify Red Flags
Common things women say when they're trying to justify red flags! Do you ever find yourself doing or saying these things? If you do, don't worry - Emily has been there, too! But it's time to make the decision to walk away and stop settling for red flags! The Art of Secure Dating starts THIS Saturday, December 13th! Read more and register here! Apply to work with Emily 1-1
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3 weeks ago
36 minutes

Becoming Secure
Frustrated that he wasted your time?
If you're frustrated that a guy led you on and wasted your time, this episode is for you! Emily provides a helpful reframe on how to view situations like this with more peace and less frustration! The Art of Secure Dating is currently enrolling now through Dec. 12th! Read more and submit your application here! Apply to work with Emily 1-1
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3 weeks ago
17 minutes

Becoming Secure
Subtle Ways You Self Abandon in Dating
Emily breaks down 9 subtle ways you might be self abandoning in dating in this episode! The Art of Secure Dating is currently enrolling (orientation call Dec. 13th!). Ready to date more securely & attract men who are emotionally available? Read more & apply for TASD here! The Art of Secure Dating is OPEN now!
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3 weeks ago
27 minutes

Becoming Secure
How to Stop Attaching So Quickly
In this episode, Emily invites Ana Eve back on the podcast to talk about why we attach so quickly and common mistakes to avoid that cause you to attach more quickly! They also announce the re-opening of the Art of Secure Dating with Black Friday bonuses! Read more via the link below! Read more and register for the Art of Secure Dating Here Apply for the Art of Secure Dating [Black Friday Bonuses Avail. Thru 11/30] Get the Securely Attached Free Training Here Apply for Attachment Alchemy Here
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1 month ago
34 minutes

Becoming Secure
Your anxiety isn't the problem! (How to Love Your Anxiety)
Do you ever feel like your anxiety is the problem? Like your life would be better if you didn't have it? Believe it or not, this perspective may actually be hindering your healing & making your anxiety worse! In this episode, Emily breaks down what it looks like to learn to work with your anxiety, to stop seeing it as the enemy, and to learn to actually love - yes love - your anxiety. Free training on self soothing here Apply for Attachment Alchemy here Get the Securely Attached Free Trai...
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1 month ago
30 minutes

Becoming Secure
How to tell if it's your anxiety or your intuition
Not sure how to tell if it's your anxiety or your intuition talking when a voice tells you to run, to end the relationship, or that you're going to get hurt? Emily breaks down why this happens and how to tell the difference. Apply for Attachment Alchemy: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14 Apply for Attachment Alchemy: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14
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1 month ago
37 minutes

Becoming Secure
How to stop feeling insecure around guys you like
Do you ever feel like you become a different person around guys you're interested in? Emily unpacks why this happens in this episode of Becoming Secure! Want to work with Emily 1-1? Apply for Attachment Alchemy here: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14 Apply for Attachment Alchemy: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14
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2 months ago
19 minutes

Becoming Secure
What to do when he moves on quickly
Apply for Attachment Alchemy: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14
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3 months ago
39 minutes

Becoming Secure
Early Signs He's Emotionally Unavailable Part 2
***Additional Notes/Correction*** Around 16 minutes, Emily says that dismissive avoidants don't trigger as much of the *anxious* side of a fearful avoidant's attachment, but she meant to say they don't tigger the *avoidant* side as much because there's not as much emotional closeness. When fearful avoidants, who have both an anxious and avoidant side to their attachment, date a dismissive avoidant, they will often present more anxious in their relationship and even believe they are anxiously ...
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3 months ago
31 minutes

Becoming Secure
Why your friendships are unreciprocated
Apply for Attachment Alchemy: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14 Apply for Attachment Alchemy: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14
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3 months ago
16 minutes

Becoming Secure
How to ask "what are you looking for" without sounding too intense
Apply for Attachment Alchemy: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14 Apply for Attachment Alchemy: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14
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3 months ago
27 minutes

Becoming Secure
Why wouldn't he fight for the relationship? (dismissive avoidants)
Free Training to help you process: https://www.loom.com/share/08f10458dcd04e3d9061f952413ae2ba?sid=b8e3533b-f9bd-4aca-b79a-bd0eef55e4bd Apply for Attachment Alchemy: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14 Free Masterclass: How to Attract Emotionally Available Men
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4 months ago
22 minutes

Becoming Secure
Rachel's Story [1-1 Client Interview]
Attachment Alchemy is now Open for Enrollment. Read more and apply here: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14 Free Masterclass: How to Attract Emotionally Available Men
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4 months ago
42 minutes

Becoming Secure
How to Let Go of Someone Who's Almost the One
Read More & Apply for Attachment Alchemy: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14 Free Masterclass: How to Attract Emotionally Available Men
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4 months ago
24 minutes

Becoming Secure
Why You Miss Lovebombing
Have you ever completely missed it when someone lovebombed you? Today, Emily is talking about why this happens & how to catch it in the future! Apply for the Art of Secure Dating Get me free masterclass How to Attract Emotionally Available Men Free Masterclass: How to Attract Emotionally Available Men
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5 months ago
16 minutes

Becoming Secure
Are You Vetting Wrong? 4 Mistakes That Keep You Attracting Unavailable Men
Keep attracting emotionally unavailable men? Here are some common mistakes when it comes to *how* you date that lead to attracting emotionally unavailable men! Ready to Attract Emotionally Available Men? The Art of Secure Dating starts soon! Read more and register here! Free Masterclass: How to Attract Emotionally Available Men
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6 months ago
29 minutes

Becoming Secure
Why Finding Emotionally Available Men Is NOT a Numbers Game
Free Masterclass on How to Attract Emotionally Available Men Ready to Attract Emotionally Available Men? The Art of Secure Dating starts soon! Read more and register here! Free Masterclass: How to Attract Emotionally Available Men
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6 months ago
15 minutes

Becoming Secure
Why You're Self Aware But Still Attract Emotionally Unavailable Men
You've done therapy or counseling or coaching - you're super self aware...and yet you're still attracting emotionally unavailable men...In this episode Emily unpacks why that is and what the key is to shifting it! Links mentioned in podcast: Free Masterclass: How to Attract Emotionally Available Men Read all the details & register for The Art of Secure Dating Free Masterclass: How to Attract Emotionally Available Men
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6 months ago
19 minutes

Becoming Secure
Where Are All the Good Men?
Emily and Ana talk about where the good men are and how you can find one in this episode of Becoming Secure! Want to learn to attract an emotionally available man? Come to our free masterclass on May 31st at 2pm US Eastern Time! If you came from Emily's audience, register for the masterclass here. If you found the podcast through Ana, register for the masterclass here. Register the free masterclass on May 31st: How to Attract Emotionally Available Men!
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7 months ago
29 minutes

Becoming Secure
On this episode of Becoming Secure, Emily welcomes anxious attachment coach Valerie Rubin to discuss common mistakes anxious attachers make in dating and relationships and the importance of doing somatic work in healing anxious attachment! Find Valerie's instagram here Valerie's podcast is called: The Anxiety Recovery Podcast. Apply to work with Emily 1-1