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Get Your Energy Back
Shelby Hansen
156 episodes
2 months ago
Send us a text Let’s be real. I used to hold onto things way longer than I needed to—commitments, beliefs, expectations—just because I felt like I had to follow through. Like I wasn’t allowed to change my mind without being flaky, selfish, or weak. But what I’ve learned through my own healing (and in coaching so many women) is this: Changing your mind is not failure. It’s freedom. In this episode, I’m sharing the nervous-system-informed truth about what makes it feel so hard to pivot, say no...
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Send us a text Let’s be real. I used to hold onto things way longer than I needed to—commitments, beliefs, expectations—just because I felt like I had to follow through. Like I wasn’t allowed to change my mind without being flaky, selfish, or weak. But what I’ve learned through my own healing (and in coaching so many women) is this: Changing your mind is not failure. It’s freedom. In this episode, I’m sharing the nervous-system-informed truth about what makes it feel so hard to pivot, say no...
Show more...
Self-Improvement
Education,
How To,
Health & Fitness,
Mental Health
Episodes (20/156)
Get Your Energy Back
156. How to Change Your Mind: Let Go of What No Longer Serves You—Without Guilt
Send us a text Let’s be real. I used to hold onto things way longer than I needed to—commitments, beliefs, expectations—just because I felt like I had to follow through. Like I wasn’t allowed to change my mind without being flaky, selfish, or weak. But what I’ve learned through my own healing (and in coaching so many women) is this: Changing your mind is not failure. It’s freedom. In this episode, I’m sharing the nervous-system-informed truth about what makes it feel so hard to pivot, say no...
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2 months ago
22 minutes

Get Your Energy Back
155. How to FEEL Truly Confident
Send us a text In today’s episode, I break down why confidence doesn’t come after you get the results you want—it comes before. I teach you how to build true, identity-based confidence even if you’re tired, unsure, or stuck in perfectionism. This is the same process I use with my coaching clients to help them show up with clarity and power, long before everything looks perfect on the outside. You’ll hear real stories from women who stopped waiting to feel ready and started becoming the...
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3 months ago
24 minutes

Get Your Energy Back
154. Fear Not: How to Do It
Send us a text I know I’m not the only one who’s ever heard the phrase “fear not” and thought… okay, but how?? In today’s episode, I’m sharing the real reason why this verse used to feel like pressure instead of peace—and what finally helped me understand what God actually means when He says, “fear not.” I take you back to one of the hardest seasons of my life, when I was in kidney failure and completely overwhelmed, and I show you how my relationship with fear (and faith) changed forever. Yo...
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3 months ago
20 minutes

Get Your Energy Back
152. How to Get Out of a Shame Spiral and Feel Like Yourself Again
Send us a text Ever have one of those days where you feel like everything you do is wrong and you just want to disappear? That’s not a failure—it’s a shame spiral. In this powerful episode, I share a deeply personal story of coaching in front of a group and instantly spiraling into shame. I walk you through how shame shows up in your nervous system, what it does to your thoughts and body, and—most importantly—how to move through it with compassion, safety, and clarity. You’ll learn: The real ...
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3 months ago
21 minutes

Get Your Energy Back
153. Expansion & Contraction: Stop Making the Dip a Problem
Send us a text If you've ever felt like your energy disappears just when things are starting to get good in your life, this episode is for you. I’ll show you why the dip isn’t a setback—it’s a sacred part of your healing rhythm. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why contraction is built into your biology (and your healing)How to stop fighting fatigue and start listening to itSimple tools to move through dips without shame or fearQuotes to remember: “Your contraction isn’t a problem—it’s a rhythm...
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4 months ago
24 minutes

Get Your Energy Back
151. How to Know If You’re Ready for Coaching (And What It’s Like)
Send us a text Are you curious about coaching but not sure if it’s the right time—or the right fit? This episode is for you. If you’ve ever wondered: What actually happens in a coaching sessionWhether your life is “bad enough” to need helpHow to tell if you're ready to commit to changeOr if coaching can really help you feel more energy, peace, and confidence...…you’re going to leave this episode with so much clarity. I break down what coaching is (and what it isn’t), who it’s for, and what it...
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4 months ago
15 minutes

Get Your Energy Back
150. The Cost of Hustle — What I Gave Up to Get My Life Back
Send us a text Do you ever feel like no matter how much you do, it’s never enough? Like you're running on empty but still pushing through? In this powerful episode, I share my story of living under the weight of hustle culture: the constant pressure to achieve, perform, support everyone else, and never complain. I talk about what that looked like as a young mom, a military spouse, and a woman trying to do everything right — until my body forced me to stop. This isn’t just a story about burnou...
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4 months ago
22 minutes

Get Your Energy Back
149. You’re Ready (Even If You Don’t Feel Like It)
Send us a text This episode is your reminder that you don’t have to feel ready to move forward. I share a story I’ve never told on the podcast before—what it felt like to decide to go back to work after 10 years of being a stay-at-home mom, after kidney failure, after thinking I’d never have the capacity to work again. I kept telling myself I needed to feel ready. But the feeling never came. What came instead was a quiet nudge: You get to choose. If you’ve been waiting for the fear to go away...
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5 months ago
15 minutes

Get Your Energy Back
148. The Secret Rulebook That’s Draining Your Energy
Send us a text Ever find yourself thinking, “They should know better” or *“I shouldn’t still be dealing with this”? That’s not just frustration — that’s your manual talking. In this episode, I’m breaking down the invisible rulebooks we carry for other people and ourselves — and how those silent expectations are draining your energy, stressing your body, and keeping you stuck in survival mode. You’ll learn: What a manual is (and how to spot one)How your nervous system reacts when others don’t...
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5 months ago
19 minutes

Get Your Energy Back
147. Release to Receive
Send us a text What if the very thing you’re trying to force is the thing you actually need to release? In today’s episode, I share the story of how releasing control—during one of the hardest times of my life—opened the door for the miracle I had been waiting for. I walk you through how our nervous systems respond to control and fear, and why releasing is not giving up… it’s making space to receive something greater. Whether you’re trying to heal, feel better in your body, call in more suppo...
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5 months ago
12 minutes

Get Your Energy Back
146. People Pleasing and Boundaries
✨ Episode Summary: If you’ve ever said yes when you meant no, felt responsible for keeping everyone happy, or wondered why you’re so tired all the time—this episode is for you. Today, Shelby dives into why people pleasing is more than a bad habit—it’s a nervous system pattern that drains your energy and keeps you stuck in exhaustion. Learn how boundaries aren’t about pushing others away—they’re about protecting your peace, reclaiming your energy, and reconnecting with yourself. You’ll hear pe...
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6 months ago
9 minutes

Get Your Energy Back
145: Why You Feel Stuck (and Why That’s Actually a Good Sign)
Are you ambitious—but constantly feeling like you're stuck, tired, or circling the same patterns again and again? This episode is going to change the way you look at progress. We’re breaking down the myth that success has to look like a straight, upward line—and what’s really going on when old habits, thoughts, or emotions resurface (even after all the “work” you’ve done). Spoiler: it doesn’t mean you’re failing. It means you’re leveling up. You’ll hear: Why growth happens in spirals—and how ...
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7 months ago
19 minutes

Get Your Energy Back
144. The Truth About Clean Eating, Stress, and Chronic Fatigue
If you’ve been obsessing over clean eating but still feel exhausted, this episode is for you. Today I’m sharing how stress, shame, and perfectionism around food can actually worsen your symptoms—even when you’re eating all the “right” things. You’ll learn why it’s not about what you eat, but how you eat—and what state your nervous system is in while you do it. We’ll explore: How food shame dysregulates your bodyThe role of your nervous system in digestion and energyDr. Howard Schubiner’s rese...
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7 months ago
10 minutes

Get Your Energy Back
143: Why Putting Your Health First is Non-Negotiable (and How to Do It with a Chronic Condition)
Do you ever feel like you’re doing everything right—eating clean, taking supplements, going to functional medicine—but still running on empty? In this episode of Get Your Energy Back, we’re talking about something that hits deep for women living with chronic conditions: putting your health first—not after the dishes are done, not after the kids are settled, not after everything else is handled. Because here’s the truth: 👉 You can’t do anything if you don’t have your health. 👉 And ...
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7 months ago
17 minutes

Get Your Energy Back
142. Breaking Free from Feeling Selfish
Do you ever feel guilty for taking time for yourself? If so, you’re not alone. Many women, especially those stuck in the fawn response, have been conditioned to believe that self-care is selfish. But what if that belief is actually keeping you exhausted, resentful, and disconnected from your true self? In this episode, I break down: Why women are taught that self-sacrifice equals goodnessHow overgiving impacts your body, mind, and nervous system (with research-backed stats)Insights from some ...
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8 months ago
14 minutes

Get Your Energy Back
141. The Fear-Fatigue Loop: Breaking the Cycle
Ever feel like no matter how much you rest, you still wake up tired? 😴 You’re not lazy. You’re not broken. Your nervous system is stuck in survival mode. In this episode, we’re breaking down: 🔥 Why fear keeps your body locked in exhaustion 💡 How hidden stress patterns keep you depleted 🧘‍♀️ Simple shifts to calm your nervous system & restore energy If you’re ready to stop running on empty and finally feel alive again, this one’s for you. Hit play now! 🎧👇 ✨ Want to go deeper? Book a free c...
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8 months ago
19 minutes

Get Your Energy Back
140. The Best of Both Worlds: Integrating Surgery, Western Medicine, and Mind-Body Healing
If you’ve ever felt stuck between following doctor’s orders and trusting your body’s natural ability to heal, this episode is for you. Too often, we’re told we have to choose—Western medicine or holistic healing. But what if true healing comes from integrating both? In this episode, I share my personal experiences with major medical procedures and the unexpected shift that changed everything. We’ll explore what might be keeping you from fully recovering and how to tap into the energy you alre...
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9 months ago
28 minutes

Get Your Energy Back
139.  Break Free of the Burnout Pattern
Ever feel like you're caught in an endless cycle of exhaustion? You push through, keep going, and then suddenly—you're running on empty. Again. But what if you could interrupt this pattern before burnout takes over? In today’s episode, we’re diving into the hidden cycle keeping you stuck in fatigue—and how to break free. I’ll share a powerful shift that changes everything and helps you create lasting energy without constantly overdoing it. If you're ready to stop running on fumes and start fe...
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9 months ago
12 minutes

Get Your Energy Back
138. The Difference Between Rest and Being Lazy
Being lazy sure gets a bad rap. If you struggle from chronic fatigue, chances are you probably get down on yourself. You might even call yourself lazy. But the reality is that what you are calling lazy is usually anything but that. In this episode, I share with you the exact reason why "being lazy" doesn't actually help you get more energy. I also share the secrets to tapping into true rest so that you can successfully replenish your energy in the best way that serves you. Want to learn more?...
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9 months ago
18 minutes

Get Your Energy Back
137. What to do when life feels Overwhelming
In this episode of the Get Your Energy Back podcast, I delve into the common feeling of overwhelm that many of us experience, especially during busy times. I share personal insights and introduce a simple, four-step method to help manage these feelings effectively. Tune in to discover practical strategies that can help you navigate life's challenges with more ease and clarity. Book a personal call with Shelby here: https://calendly.com/shelbykhansen/45min
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10 months ago
15 minutes

Get Your Energy Back
Send us a text Let’s be real. I used to hold onto things way longer than I needed to—commitments, beliefs, expectations—just because I felt like I had to follow through. Like I wasn’t allowed to change my mind without being flaky, selfish, or weak. But what I’ve learned through my own healing (and in coaching so many women) is this: Changing your mind is not failure. It’s freedom. In this episode, I’m sharing the nervous-system-informed truth about what makes it feel so hard to pivot, say no...