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Self-Care Little by Little, Peace by Peace
Shirley Bhutto
46 episodes
4 days ago
Message me and share your thoughts, on this, on life, on anything! On this week’s episode we’re diving into people-pleasing, how it drains your peace, how we’re emotionally and physically exhausting ourselves twisting ourselves into knots trying to keep everyone happy and how to gently shift back into authenticity (especially during the holidays). If you’ve been carrying the emotional weight of trying to be everything to everyone, this episode will help you set yourself free, with compassion,...
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Message me and share your thoughts, on this, on life, on anything! On this week’s episode we’re diving into people-pleasing, how it drains your peace, how we’re emotionally and physically exhausting ourselves twisting ourselves into knots trying to keep everyone happy and how to gently shift back into authenticity (especially during the holidays). If you’ve been carrying the emotional weight of trying to be everything to everyone, this episode will help you set yourself free, with compassion,...
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Mental Health
Education,
Self-Improvement,
Health & Fitness
Episodes (20/46)
Self-Care Little by Little, Peace by Peace
Stop People-Pleasing, Start Choosing Yourself This Holiday Season (And Everyday!)
Message me and share your thoughts, on this, on life, on anything! On this week’s episode we’re diving into people-pleasing, how it drains your peace, how we’re emotionally and physically exhausting ourselves twisting ourselves into knots trying to keep everyone happy and how to gently shift back into authenticity (especially during the holidays). If you’ve been carrying the emotional weight of trying to be everything to everyone, this episode will help you set yourself free, with compassion,...
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4 days ago
20 minutes

Self-Care Little by Little, Peace by Peace
Finding Peace and Self-Care in Detachment
Message me and share your thoughts, on this, on life, on anything! Sometimes what looks like peace is actually resistance in disguise. Detachment and aversion can both look like letting go, but only one frees you. This week we’re exploring how to tell the difference, how to shift from avoiding to allowing, and how that shift creates space for real calm to take root. Listen in and create more peace by not avoiding, but finding power in detaching and allowing. Support the show Tag a friend who ...
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1 week ago
17 minutes

Self-Care Little by Little, Peace by Peace
Self Care and Your Energy, Effort vs Outcome
Message me and share your thoughts, on this, on life, on anything! Are you giving your energy to people, tasks, or projects that truly matter? Sometimes we work hard, care deeply, or show up consistently, but the results don’t match the effort. In this episode we explore how to recognize when your effort is aligned with meaningful outcomes, with your values, but also when it’s time to step back, and how to preserve your energy for what really counts. Listen in and find ways to find more...
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2 weeks ago
17 minutes

Self-Care Little by Little, Peace by Peace
Self-Care by Self-Compassion — How Being Kind to Yourself Changes Your Life
Message me and share your thoughts, on this, on life, on anything! Are you treating yourself as kindly as you treat others? Self-compassion isn’t a luxury and this week we’ll explore the science of self-compassion, practical exercises for daily life, and small ways to respond to yourself with understanding instead of criticism. Whether you’re a caregiver, parent, professional, or just someone ready to be gentler with yourself, this episode offers tools to help you pause, reflect, and act with...
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3 weeks ago
17 minutes

Self-Care Little by Little, Peace by Peace
3 Self-Care Steps to Prevent Burnout And 5 Steps to Recover
Message me and share your thoughts, on this, on life, on anything! Sometimes burnout doesn’t show up as collapse, it shows up as constant tiredness, irritability, or feeling disconnected from what once mattered. This week we’re talking about how to spot the early signs of burnout, how to prevent it before it takes hold, and how to recover if you’re already there, especially when you can’t just step away. Because you deserve to feel calm, capable, and cared for, even when life is demanding. Li...
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1 month ago
16 minutes

Self-Care Little by Little, Peace by Peace
Self-Care Reset Rituals to Transform Your Day
Message me and share your thoughts, on this, on life, on anything! This week’s episode is all about reset rituals, those tiny, intentional pauses that bring you back to center when life starts spinning. They’re simple, free, and powerful. A few seconds of awareness can shift your whole day. You don’t have to wait for a vacation or a big life change to feel grounded again. Tune in to learn how to build your own reset rituals, supported by science and grounded in self-care, because you d...
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1 month ago
16 minutes

Self-Care Little by Little, Peace by Peace
The Pause Button: Learning to Respond, Not React
Message me and share your thoughts, on this, on life, on anything! We all know that moment when emotions take the wheel — the quick text, the sharp reply, the rising heat in your body. Your first reaction is sometimes automatic. But your second reaction is a choice. And that choice is where your peace and power lives. 🌿 Today’s episode is all about the power in the pause — the space between the spark and the flame — where you get to decide how you want to show up. Take a breath, listen in and...
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1 month ago
17 minutes

Self-Care Little by Little, Peace by Peace
Finding Peace in Recovering, Not Just Surviving
Message me and share your thoughts, on this, on life, on anything! There’s a difference between getting through and truly healing. Survival is what keeps you going when everything feels heavy. But recovery… that’s when your body and mind finally start to believe you’re safe again. It’s when you begin to rebuild what fear, pain, or trauma once took from you, to rebuild your peace, your rest, your joy. You don’t have to live in survival mode forever. You deserve to soften, to exhale, to recover...
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1 month ago
18 minutes

Self-Care Little by Little, Peace by Peace
Mindfully Rebuilding and Remolding Your Life
Message me and share your thoughts, on this, on life, on anything! Life has a way of molding us into forms that don’t always fit. Expectations. Labels. Roles we never chose. But you can always rework the clay. You can soften what’s hardened. You can begin again. Becoming who you are isn’t always about adding more, maybe it’s about remembering what’s real, what’s inside, and letting the rest fall away, it’s remolding the clay of your life and knowing you are the artist with the power to ...
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2 months ago
18 minutes

Self-Care Little by Little, Peace by Peace
Edit Your Life...Crop, Filter & Enhance It!
Message me and share your thoughts, on this, on life, on anything! We crop distractions out of photos, add filters to bring out beauty, and enhance the details to make an image pop. But what if we did the same with our lives? 🌿 Crop out negativity and the things that drain you. 💛 Filter your perspective through gratitude, humor, and compassion. ✨ Enhance your everyday with small, intentional choices that help you shine. Your life doesn’t need to be picture-perfect—it just needs to...
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2 months ago
15 minutes

Self-Care Little by Little, Peace by Peace
Moving Forward in Life from the Messy Middle
Message me and share your thoughts, on this, on life, on anything! We love the fresh start. We love the finish line. But the middle? The part where progress feels slow, habits get hard, and you’re tempted to quit—that’s where the real transformation happens. The messy middle isn’t proof you’re failing. It’s proof you’re moving. It’s where resilience is built, patience is practiced, and who you’re becoming starts to take shape. So if you’re stuck between who you were and who you’re becoming, t...
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2 months ago
17 minutes

Self-Care Little by Little, Peace by Peace
5 Reasons We Don’t Ask for Help, and 5 Steps to Change
Message me and share your thoughts, on this, on life, on anything! So many of us carry heavy loads in silence—not because we have to, but because we’re afraid to ask for help. We fear being judged, rejected, or becoming a burden. But the truth is that asking for help isn’t weakness, it’s wisdom. It’s how we build trust, deepen connection, and remind ourselves that we were never meant to do life alone. 💛 ✨ This week’s episode is all about the opposite of last week’s, of learned helplessness an...
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2 months ago
17 minutes

Self-Care Little by Little, Peace by Peace
10 Ways to Love and Support Others, Not Rescue Them
Message me and share your thoughts, on this, on life, on anything! This week’s episode is all about finding the balance between helping and enabling, and how to give others the confidence to say “I can.” Support builds strength, rescue builds dependence so let’s discover 10 ways help them without holding them back. Sometimes the most loving thing we can do isn’t fixing, rescuing, or carrying someone—it’s stepping back just enough to let them wobble, try, and grow their own wings. Let’s help t...
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2 months ago
19 minutes

Self-Care Little by Little, Peace by Peace
Braver. Stronger. Smarter. Loved.
Message me and share your thoughts, on this, on life, on anything! This week’s episode is all about breaking down this timeless quote: “You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, smarter than you think, and loved more than you know.” 💛 We’ll talk about -Bravery doesn’t always look like climbing mountains—it can be saying “I need help.” -Strength isn’t always loud—it can be getting out of bed on a heavy day. -Intelligence isn’t just book smarts—it’s problem-solving,...
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3 months ago
16 minutes

Self-Care Little by Little, Peace by Peace
Happy Anniversary to Us - Let's Keep Growing!
Message me and share your thoughts, on this, on life, on anything! One year ago, I pressed record with just a hope—that sharing small steps toward peace might help someone else keep going. Today, we celebrate a year of reminders that change doesn’t have to be drastic to be powerful. Let's take a moment to remind ourselves how to let go, how to create our safe space, how to reconnect with others, and find your why. Remind ourselves of our power and our worthiness. Here’s to another year ...
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3 months ago
16 minutes

Self-Care Little by Little, Peace by Peace
Fog is Feedback – 5 Simple Steps to Find Your Focus
Message me and share your thoughts, on this, on life, on anything! Ever feel like your brain is moving through mud? Forgetting simple things, losing focus, or just feeling “off”? That’s mental fog, and it’s more common than you think. In this episode, we’re unpacking why it happens, how it shows up at different stages of life, and the small steps you can take to lift the fog and find clarity again. 💡 Takeaways: • Stop judging yourself—fog is feedback, not failure. • Simple shifts ...
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3 months ago
16 minutes

Self-Care Little by Little, Peace by Peace
Make Peace with Your Body & Find Your Voice
Message me and share your thoughts, on this, on life, on anything! Your body has carried you through every single chapter of your life — the heartbreaks, the sleepless nights, the laughter, the milestones. And yet, so often, we treat it like it’s never enough. Today’s episode is about laying down the sword, stopping the battle with ourselves, and choosing acceptance, gratitude, and grace instead. 🎯 Your Takeaways Today: Do one small act to show your body appreciation — rest, move, or nourish ...
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3 months ago
15 minutes

Self-Care Little by Little, Peace by Peace
3 Ways to Deal with Conflicting Emotions
Message me and share your thoughts, on this, on life, on anything! Feeling two things at once? That doesn’t mean you’re broken, or weird, it means you’re human. In today’s episode, we’re talking about emotional duality—those moments where joy and sadness, love and anger, peace and frustration all show up together. 🎯In this episode, we explore: Why it’s normal to feel conflictedHow to validate all your emotions, even the messy onesAnd ways to process dual feelings without shameLet’s normalize ...
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4 months ago
15 minutes

Self-Care Little by Little, Peace by Peace
The Power of One Choice
Message me and share your thoughts, on this, on life, on anything! You didn’t press play by accident—today’s episode is all about choice. The small ones. The scary ones. The ones that remind us: life doesn’t just happen to us, we shape it, we create it with our choices. Whether you’re stuck, scared, or just unsure—this episode is your gentle nudge to reclaim your power, one decision at a time. You’re only one choice away from a completely different life. 🎧Give a listen and reflect 💬 Comment ...
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4 months ago
15 minutes

Self-Care Little by Little, Peace by Peace
A Good Cry: Let It Flow, Let It Heal
Message me and share your thoughts, on this, on life, on anything! Ever feel like you're holding back a flood? This episode is your permission to let it out. We're talking about crying, from silent tears in the kitchen to full-on snotty sobs that reset your soul, crying helps our bodies and minds release what we can’t carry anymore and the positive effects are backed by science. This one’s for anyone who’s ever said “I’m fine” when they weren’t. For the ones holding back tears because t...
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4 months ago
15 minutes

Self-Care Little by Little, Peace by Peace
Message me and share your thoughts, on this, on life, on anything! On this week’s episode we’re diving into people-pleasing, how it drains your peace, how we’re emotionally and physically exhausting ourselves twisting ourselves into knots trying to keep everyone happy and how to gently shift back into authenticity (especially during the holidays). If you’ve been carrying the emotional weight of trying to be everything to everyone, this episode will help you set yourself free, with compassion,...