This is a podcast tailored for the driven high-performer, seeking growth and success both now and sustainably for future you, as well. Our aim is to guide you from feeling exhausted to energised with ease and enjoyment. Here, we will help you harness the power of nutrition, sleep, mindset, and other high-performance behaviours to achieve your goals, gain more energy, reach the top, and most importantly, stay there.
While success undoubtedly demands dedication, it doesn't have to entail enduring hardship or constant sacrifice. In this podcast, we will help you find the right levers to pull in your life, prioritising ease over friction. We advocate for the path of least resistance and embrace longevity over the all-too-common 'all or nothing' tactics and mindsets.
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This is a podcast tailored for the driven high-performer, seeking growth and success both now and sustainably for future you, as well. Our aim is to guide you from feeling exhausted to energised with ease and enjoyment. Here, we will help you harness the power of nutrition, sleep, mindset, and other high-performance behaviours to achieve your goals, gain more energy, reach the top, and most importantly, stay there.
While success undoubtedly demands dedication, it doesn't have to entail enduring hardship or constant sacrifice. In this podcast, we will help you find the right levers to pull in your life, prioritising ease over friction. We advocate for the path of least resistance and embrace longevity over the all-too-common 'all or nothing' tactics and mindsets.
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Busy seasons are not the problem. A lack of strategy is.
In this episode of Stay at the Top, I walk you through the practical framework I first developed in elite sport to help athletes return to pre-season in peak condition, while still enjoying their off season. Today, I use this same framework with executives, senior leaders and clients navigating travel, end of year events, social commitments and festive celebrations.
If your calendar is full of lunches, dinners, corporate events or travel, this episode will show you how to protect your health, energy and habits without saying no to your life.
You will learn how to use my decision making tool, the Trifecta, to stay on track across nutrition, movement and alcohol and how to anchor your physiology with simple, repeatable habits that can hold even when life gets full.
In this episode, I cover:
- Why high performers default to extremes in busy seasons
- The real reason routine falls apart when the calendar fills up
- How the Trifecta works and why it helps you stay consistent
- The most common mistakes people make with meals, alcohol and movement
- Why skipping breakfast backfires and leads to overeating
- Simple morning anchors that protect energy and appetite
- How understanding your physiology helps you make better decisions
- Practical tools to enjoy the season without undoing your progress
Key Quotes
“Busy seasons are not the enemy. A lack of strategy is.”
“You can enjoy the festive season and look after your health. You can do both.”
“You do not need perfection. You need anchors that support your physiology.”
“When you understand your decision making tool, you can stay consistent no matter what the calendar looks like.”
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In this episode of Stay at the Top, I’m joined again by Dr Hayley D. Quinn, clinical psychologist, author and expert in compassion-focused therapy. We explore the shift from self-neglect to self-compassion and why so many high performers confuse sacrifice with strength. Hayley shares insights from her new book, From Self-Neglect to Self-Compassion, along with practical tools to help you move from surviving to genuinely thriving.
If you regularly push through exhaustion, downplay your needs or struggle to create space for yourself, this conversation will help you start changing those patterns.
In this episode, we cover
Key Quotes:
“Compassion is not weakness. It is courage, wisdom, and a caring commitment.”
“When you protect your wellbeing, you protect your performance.”
“Being compassionate to yourself keeps you accountable in a healthy, sustainable way.”
More about Dr Hayley D Quinn
Website https://drhayleydquinn.com
Podcast https://drhayleydquinn.com/podcast/
From Self-Neglect to Self-Compassion Book drhadrhayleyquinn.com/product/book
Free Resource https://drhayleydquinn.com/resources/
Welcome to Self®: Time to Thrive Group Coaching https://drhayleydquinn.myflodesk.com/timetothrivewaitlist
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In this episode of Stay at the Top, I explore why so many high achievers consistently place their own needs at the end of the line. This pattern rarely comes from lack of care. More often, it is habit, identity and conditioning.
When your default is to carry the load, it can feel uncomfortable to direct care inward. Yet the research and lived experience are clear. Protecting your own wellbeing preserves your capacity to lead, create and contribute.
This is a reminder to check your priorities, reassess what truly matters, and begin taking small but deliberate steps to support the person at the centre of it all: you.
In this episode, I cover:
- Why high performers often override their own needs
- The invisible cost of constantly saying yes
- How people-pleasing and identity reinforce old patterns
- The link between self-neglect and reduced energy, clarity and recovery
- Three simple ways to redirect time and attention back to yourself
- How boundaries improve performance and relationships
- The power of an anchor habit and how to protect it
- Small actions that make self-support more achievable
Key Quotes:
“Putting yourself first is not indulgent. It is strategic.”
“Every yes has a cost. Often the cost is you.”
“Self-care is self-preservation. It keeps you available for the things that matter.”
“When energy is protected, performance improves.”
“Supporting yourself strengthens every role you hold.”
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In this episode of Stay at the Top, I am joined by wellbeing and performance specialist Phil Wolffe, founder of Kinex Health. Phil has spent over 15 years helping organisations build cultures that actually support human performance. His philosophy is simple: wellbeing is a skill set, and when you upskill people and leaders, performance takes care of itself.
We explore the biggest shifts happening in workplace wellbeing, why traditional EAP models are falling short, and what is required to create sustainable performance from the individual to the organisational level.
Whether you are a leader, founder, or someone who cares deeply about their health and performance, this episode will challenge how you think about wellbeing at work and what it takes to make it stick.
- Why wellbeing must be viewed as a skill, not a perk
- The biggest shift happening in workplace wellbeing right now
- Why organisations need to focus on systems, not one-off events
- The hierarchy of wellbeing: sleep, movement, nutrition
- Why movement is the strongest predictor of longevity
- The role of energy as the currency of life
- How small behaviours compound into long-term performance
- The problem with traditional EAP models
- Practical ways leaders can support wellbeing at scale
- Why perfectionism is one of the biggest wellbeing barriers
- The case for proactive, not reactive wellbeing
“Anything is better than nothing. One minute is better than zero.”
“Energy is the currency of life. Everything is easier when you know how to create and spend it wisely.”
“Wellbeing is a skill set. It can be learned, applied and mastered.”
“Perfectionism is just procrastination in disguise.”
“Sustainable performance is not about giving one hundred percent every day, it is about finding the level you can sustain over time.”
“You don’t need more time. You need better timing.”
Website - https://kinexhealth.com.au/
LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/philwolffe/
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How does having more energy sound to you?
Not the short bursts followed by burnout kind of energy, but the stable, sustainable kind that powers your day and leaves something in the tank for life outside of work.
In this episode of Stay at the Top, I’m sharing three simple, science-backed ways to work with your biology, not against it. These strategies will help you boost energy, sharpen focus, and recover better without relying on caffeine or willpower.
Human physiology hasn’t changed for thousands of years. When you align with it, things feel easier, like swimming with the current. When you fight against it, everything takes more effort.
In this episode, I cover:
- How to align with your circadian rhythm for better energy, focus and sleep
- Why light exposure not caffeine is the best way to start your day
- How to use your sleep chronotype to structure your day around your peak energy and focus
- Why you don’t need more time, you need better timing
- The power of ultradian rhythms and how brain breaks improve focus and creativity
- The fastest way to downregulate your stress response using the physiological sigh
- Why micro breaks are not lazy, they are performance tools
Key Quotes:
“When you work with your biology, you make performance feel easier, like swimming with the current.”
“You don’t need more time. You need better timing.”
“Brain breaks aren’t time off, they’re tools for recovery and performance.”
“The best strategies are free, simple, and science-backed.”
Learn the Physiological Sigh technique mentioned in this episode. It is the fastest way to calm your nervous system and lower your heart rate.
Watch Dr Andrew Huberman’s short explainer on YouTube
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In this episode of Stay at the Top, I’m joined by Dr Kate Mason, executive coach, communication expert and author of Powerfully Likeable: How to Be Powerful and Likeable at Work (and in Life).
Kate has worked with leaders across Google, Netflix, Uber and Microsoft, helping them navigate the fine line between being respected and being liked. In this conversation, we unpack how to balance authority with warmth, navigate the double bind women often face in leadership, and reframe how we think about confidence and connection.
This episode is filled with practical frameworks, mindset shifts and language cues to help you show up powerfully, communicate with presence, and strengthen your influence without losing authenticity or empathy.
In this episode, we cover:
- Why power and likeability are not opposites, and how to embody both
- The “double bind” women face and why it’s navigable with skill
- How to use language cues and delivery shifts to earn respect and connection
- The difference between imposter syndrome and imposing syndrome
- How to set boundaries and communicate “no” without losing rapport
- The real meaning of confidence and why it’s built through action, not waiting to feel ready
- How warmth and competence work together to create trust and influence
Key Quotes
“Confidence isn’t a feeling you wait for, it’s a behaviour you practice.”
“You can be powerful and likeable. You don’t need to choose.”
“The same behaviours can land differently depending on who says them and where, that’s the double bind.”
“It’s not about faking confidence, it’s about speaking from a place of clarity and conviction.”
More about Dr Kate Mason:
Website: https://www.katemason.co/
Links to book: Amazon
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In this episode of Stay at the Top, I unpack why relying on motivation, feelings, or willpower is one of the biggest traps high performers fall into and why creating your personal operating system is the real unlock for sustainable energy and performance.
Whether you’re leading a team, running a business, pushing your athletic limits, or simply trying to get more out of your days, having a framework that supports you is non-negotiable. This isn’t about being rigid or robotic. It’s about intentionally designing the structure, rhythm, and habits that allow you to perform at your best, across seasons of life
In this episode, I cover:
- What a personal operating system is and why every high performer needs one
- Why relying on how you “feel” leads to inconsistency and burnout
- The five key pillars your system should address: nutrition, sleep, movement, stress, and recovery
- Four common reactive habits that keep people stuck (and how to replace them with proactive frameworks)
- How to build your own system through a simple life audit and focus on the “big rocks”
- Real client examples of how a few anchor habits created massive shifts in energy, performance, and recovery
- How to zoom out, plan for different seasons, and bring periodisation into your life the way elite performers do
Key Quotes:
“If you’re relying on how you feel to decide when to eat, sleep or move, you’re already behind.”
“This isn’t about being a robot. It’s about having a structure that supports your life, not rules that restrict it.”
“You don’t rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems.” – James Clear
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In this episode of Stay at the Top, I’m joined by Claire Richardson, an Advanced Pain Management Osteopath and pain clinician with more than 15 years of experience. Claire leads a team of seven practitioners across two private practices in Melbourne and runs Wayfinder Pain Consulting, her online clinic dedicated to helping people improve their quality of life while living with chronic pain.
We explore why chronic pain is different from acute pain and why it requires a completely different approach. Claire breaks down the science behind pain processing and the role of the nervous system, explains why “resting it out” or “pushing through” both backfire, and shares practical strategies to help people find their Goldilocks zone for movement, recovery, and everyday life.
With one in five Australians experiencing chronic pain at some point in their lives, this is a powerful conversation that will benefit you directly or someone you know.
In this episode, we cover:
- The difference between acute and chronic pain, and why the terms are often misunderstood
- Why chronic pain is primarily a nervous system issue and how that changes treatment
- The boom-bust cycle and why neither extreme rest nor overexertion works
- Practical examples of finding the “Goldilocks zone” to stay active safely
- How the brain decides how much pain to produce, and why context matters
- The concept of “pain pizza” and how everyone’s contributors are unique
- Simple, evidence-based strategies to support neuroplasticity and reduce nervous system load
- Why social connection, sleep, and daily habits play a bigger role than most people realise
Key Quotes:
“You can’t rest your way out of chronic pain, and you can’t push through it either.”
“Pain doesn’t exist until the brain decides it exists.”
“Everyone’s pain pizza looks different. You need to figure out what your biggest slices are.”
“Small, consistent behaviours are what support nervous system change.”
More About Clare:
LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/claire-richardson1
Website: www.wayfinderpain.com.au
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In this episode of Stay at the Top, I introduce a powerful mindset shift that high performers know well in business but rarely apply to their health: A/B testing.
In marketing and business, A/B testing is second nature. You compare two strategies side by side, measure the results, and double down on what works. But when it comes to health and performance, most people take a “set and forget” approach. They hear a new strategy, protocol, or trend, adopt it, and stick with it without ever testing whether it is truly working for them in both the short and long term.
I share how bringing an experimental mindset to your health can help you stop guessing and start leading yourself like the high performer you are. From nutrition and training to sleep and recovery, this episode will show you how to build your own personal playbook instead of relying on one-size-fits-all advice.
In this episode, I cover:
- Why high performers need to apply A/B testing principles to health, not just business
- The risks of blindly following trends without testing whether they work for you
- A client case study on fasting: why short-term gains sometimes hide long-term costs
- How objective measures like DEXA scans and wearables can give you visibility under the hood
- Practical examples of what to test, from pre-training fuelling to sleep routines and hydration
- How to combine subjective data (energy, mood, focus) with objective data (body composition, HRV, recovery scores)
Key Quotes:
“If you are not testing and measuring your health strategies, you are guessing.”
“What works in the short term does not always translate to long-term success.”
“High performance starts with personalisation.”
“This is how you stop guessing and start leading yourself like the high performer you are.”
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In this episode of Stay at the Top, I’m joined by performance psychologist Dr Jo Lukins, who brings decades of experience working across elite sport, the military, and corporate leadership.
We explore the mindset shifts that sustain long-term success, why belief comes before competition, and how resilience is more than just bouncing back. Dr Jo shares wisdom from her 26 years with the North Queensland Cowboys, her work with the Australian Defence Force, and the high performers she supports in business today.
If you have ever struggled with limiting beliefs, the all or nothing mindset, or balancing relentless drive with wellbeing, this conversation is full of practical insights you can apply straight away.
In this episode, we cover:
- How Dr Jo found her way into psychology and became one of Australia’s most respected performance psychologists.
- The common thread between elite athletes, defence personnel, and corporate leaders, and why mindset is the key.
- What a “performance mindset” really is, and how it sustains growth at every level.
- Why limiting beliefs hold us back and how to reframe them.
- The all or nothing mindset, why high performers are drawn to it and how to move towards excellence instead of perfection.
- Resilience redefined, why it is not just about bouncing back but learning, growing, and bouncing forward.
- Practical tools to build self-awareness, values in action, and sustainable high performance.
Key Quotes:
“Resilience isn’t just bouncing back, it’s bouncing forward.” – Dr Jo Lukins
“Success leaves clues, and disappointments offer lessons.” – Dr Jo Lukins
“Excellence looks like getting most things done well most of the time.” – Dr Jo Lukins
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Instagram: @dr_jo_lukins
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrJoLukins/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drjolukins/
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In this episode of Stay at the Top, I’m breaking down six simple ways you can upgrade your nutrition without overhauls, restrictions, or complicated protocols.
Nutrition is one of the four behaviours every single person does daily (alongside sleeping, breathing, and thinking). It’s not about what you cut out, it’s about what you add in and how small, consistent upgrades can fuel more energy, sharper focus, better recovery, and long-term health.
These six strategies are practical, evidence-based, and designed to create leverage in your day-to-day life as a high performer.
In this episode, I share:
- Why high performers often overcomplicate nutrition and miss the basics.
- The critical role nutrition plays in energy, focus, recovery, and longevity.
- Six simple upgrades you can implement today
Key Quotes:
“Nutrition isn’t about restriction. It’s about optimisation.”
“If a meal or snack is brown and white, it’s not complete.”
“Recovery isn’t a single shake or meal, it’s a 24/7 process.”
“Sustainable high performance comes from small, consistent upgrades not overhauls.”
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In this episode of Stay at the Top, I’m making a bold call: every high performer should be using a wearable.
For years, I sat on the fence. But after seeing the impact on myself, my clients, and the leaders and athletes I work with, I now believe wearables are one of the most valuable tools for sustainable high performance. Not because of the numbers alone but because of how they help you connect how you feel (subjective measures) with what’s really happening in your body (objective data).
I’ll take you inside why blending both matters, and share real-world examples of how wearables like the Oura Ring and Whoop Band can help you protect your energy, recover smarter, and perform at your best.
In this episode, I share:
- Why subjective (energy, mood, focus) and objective (HRV, resting heart rate, sleep) data together create your “daily dashboard.”
- Why wearables aren’t about obsessing over numbers, they’re about spotting trends and acting early.
- My personal story of how wearable data helped me avoid disaster before delivering an international keynote.
- How one CEO client used a wearable to break the cycle of constant illness by improving sleep and recovery.
- How another client, a business owner and father, used data to balance heavy training with work and family demands.
- Practical takeaways for how you can use wearables without becoming obsessed with the data.
Key Quotes:
“Why would anybody run their health and performance without a dashboard?”
“The real magic isn’t in the numbers, it’s in connecting how you feel with what the data says.”
“A wearable gives you visibility under the hood, helping you act before things break down.”
“High performers don’t just push harder. They adapt faster, and wearables help you do that.”
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In this episode of Stay at the Top, I’m diving into an important question: Are your habits actually aligned to the season you’re in right now?
It’s a trap so many high performers fall into—benchmarking themselves against their “best ever” version. Whether that’s training six days a week, working 12-hour days, or surviving on minimal sleep in your 20s, we often use that peak as our standard. But true high performance isn’t about repeating an old benchmark, it’s about adapting to the demands of your current season.
From early parenthood, to heavy travel, to high growth work seasons, I unpack why our brains love “all or nothing” behaviour, why chasing your best-ever can backfire, and how to reframe success by aligning habits with where you are right now.
In this episode, I share:
- Why high performers often reference their best-ever as the baseline—and why that creates frustration.
- What neuroscience tells us about the all-or-nothing mindset (prefrontal cortex, dopamine spikes, and the amygdala).
- How my own back injury and return to swimming exposed the loud voice of “old benchmarks.”
- Why true high performance means evolving your habits to fit your current season.
- Practical examples of aligning habits in different seasons
- Reflection questions to help you identify which habits no longer serve you and what needs to shift now.
Key Quotes:
“Your previous best isn’t irrelevant, but it’s not always relevant either.”
“True high performance isn’t about repeating old benchmarks—it’s about adapting to your current season.”
“It’s not about doing the most, it’s about doing what matters most for the season you’re in right now.”
“The people who sustain high performance aren’t those who push the hardest, but those who adapt the fastest.”
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After what was meant to be a short break turned into nine months, Stay at the Top is finally back. In this episode, I share a personal update on life, motherhood, business, and why it’s time to stop procrastinating and get the show on the road again.
This episode is more reflective than usual. It’s about pulling back the curtain on what the last season has looked like for me: navigating the delicate dance of being a mum and running a business, finding new rhythms, and confronting procrastination head on. I also share why procrastination isn’t laziness, what it’s really signalling, and how taking messy action can move you forward in any area of life.
In this episode, I share:
- What the past nine months have looked like, from becoming a mum to returning to work and speaking.
- How I’ve redefined boundaries and guardrails to protect sleep, energy, and focus in this new season.
- Lessons from juggling motherhood and business ownership and why it’s a delicate but rewarding balance.
- Why procrastination is often about confidence, clarity, or capacity not laziness.
- Practical ways to reframe procrastination and start imperfectly.
- The simple mantra that can help you take your next step forward.
Key Quotes:
“Procrastination isn’t laziness. Often it’s a lack of confidence, clarity, or capacity.”
“If you wait for the stars to align, you’ll be waiting forever.”
“Taking messy action is better than waiting for perfect timing.”
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In this special and final episode of Stay at the Top Season 3, I’m reflecting on the season that’s been, sharing personal insights about my next chapter, and offering tools and reflections for anyone navigating transitions—whether in their personal or professional life.
As 2024 wraps up, I know this time of year naturally invites reflection—on what’s worked, what hasn’t, and what needs to change. Whether you’re navigating a personal shift, a career change, or just feeling ready to reset, this episode is packed with tools and reflections to help you step into the next chapter with clarity and intention.
In this episode, I share:
-A recap of Season 3 and a glimpse into my upcoming life chapter as I prepare for motherhood.
-The importance of being fully present and how I’m using this intention to reshape my commitments.
-Why it’s critical to ruthlessly prioritise what matters and let go of the rest.
-Insights into maintaining identity and career during major life transitions.
-How habits evolve and the micro habits that can ground you through change.
-The value of seeking and accepting support early in the process.
Key Quotes:
"Surrendering to this next chapter means letting go of how things have always been done, and embracing the unknown with authenticity and alignment."
"I’ve surprised myself by letting go of control and structure."
"I’m really looking forward to seeing how my habits and routines adapt in this new season of life."
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As we approach the final sprint of 2024, the end-of-year chaos is in full swing. Workloads are high, social commitments are piling up, and energy levels are dipping. It’s easy for habits and routines to slip during this time, but small adjustments can make a big difference.
In this episode, I share strategies to help you stay focused, energised, and consistent so you can finish the year strong and use this season as a launchpad into 2025.
In this episode, I share:
-The common challenges many are facing at the year’s end
-Why high performance isn’t about doing it all
-Practical strategies to streamline your routine, reduce mental load, and make intentional choices during a busy period.
-How small, seemingly insignificant shifts can compound over time and lead to dramatically different outcomes.
Key Quotes:
"Small, seemingly insignificant shifts in direction can really create dramatically different outcomes over time."
"High performance is not about doing it all. It’s about focusing on what matters most."
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In this episode of Stay at the Top, I’m joined by Dan Haesler, a performance and leadership coach who works with elite athletes, corporate leaders, and educators to bridge the gap between wellbeing and high performance. We explore how self-awareness, emotional regulation, and consistency are the keys to thriving in high-pressure environments.
Dan shares insights from his work with the 4x premiership winning Penrith Panthers, lessons on redefining leadership, and practical strategies anyone can use to elevate their performance.
In this episode, Dan shares:
-Why wellbeing and high performance are inseparable.
-How emotional intelligence is a cornerstone of effective leadership.
-Lessons from the Penrith Panthers on consistency and culture.
-How to redefine success and bridge the performance gap.
-His Four M’s framework
-Practical steps for leaders to foster self-awareness and build trust.
-How aligning with your values helps combat burnout and resentment.
-Dan’s personal habits for staying at the top.
Key Quotes:
“Well-being and high performance are two sides of the same coin, but in a lot of places they’re seen as completely different currencies.”
“You can’t lead others if you’re not able to lead yourself. How you show up, how you regulate your own life, is proportional to your ability to do that for everyone else.”
More about Dan Haesler
Website: https://danhaesler.com/
Dan Haesler’s Mental Skills Platform: https://playfearless.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/danhaesler
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/danhaesler/
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In this episode of Stay at the Top, I’m diving into a personal journey of transformation—from being burnt out and operating constantly “in the red” to creating a life rooted in sustainable high performance. This solo episode reflects on two essential changes that helped me shift from running on empty to thriving in an energised, proactive, and intentional state.
With the year nearing its end, many people are struggling to reach the finish line, so I’m sharing this reflection to inspire a change for anyone feeling similarly. If you’re ready to move from reactive burnout to sustainable high performance, this episode is for you.
In this episode, I share:
- Personal reflections on years of burnout and unsustainable work habits
- The two key changes I made to shift to an energised, intentional lifestyle
- The importance of boundaries in professional and personal life
- How proactive recovery became a non-negotiable for sustainable energy
- Simple strategies to establish daily, weekly, and monthly recovery practices
- Tips for creating a wind-down routine to enhance sleep quality
- Insights on how high performers can balance drive with wellbeing
Key Quotes:
"I was talking the talk, but I was not walking the walk."
"This way of operating and just being so motivated... can come with a consequence."
"We shouldn’t be getting to the point that we run ourselves into the ground, that we feel that we're operating in the red for us to take action."
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In this episode of Stay at the Top, I’m excited to chat with Paul Taylor— Neuroscientist, Exercise Physiologist and Nutritionist who is currently completing a PhD in Applied Psychology, developing Stress Fitness strategies with the Australian Armed Forces.
Paul and I explore why controlled stress exposure (from exercise to cold and heat) builds real resilience. And no matter who you are, Paul’s got straightforward science-backed strategies to get you to the top, and help you stay there.
In this episode, Paul shares:
-How your daily habits build resilience
-The unique stress benefits of cold and heat exposure and why combining them works.
-His take on intermittent fasting, protein, and keeping muscle as we age.
-Easy ways to add controlled stress for lasting resilience.
-How reframing challenges as opportunities builds mental strength.
-Why whole, minimally processed foods are key to health.
-Simple tools to track cardio fitness and muscle for long-term health.
Key Quotes:
“If you want to be able to deal with stress, you need to train your ability to deal with stress.”
“Real food doesn’t have ingredients; real food is ingredients.”
More about Paul Taylor
Instagram - @paultaylor.biz
Facebook - www.facebook.com/paul.taylor.794/
LinkedIn - www.linkedin.com/in/paultaylor1971
Website - https://www.paultaylor.biz/
Showreel - https://vimeo.com/853546200
Podcast - Paul Taylor Podcast
You can purchase his book Death by Comfort here
https://www.amazon.com/Death-Comfort-modern-killing-about/dp/1922611506
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In this episode of Stay at the Top, I break down a powerful tool I’ve relied on for years: the Stop, Start, Keep Doing Framework. Whether you're refining personal habits, team goals, professional opportunities, or any other area of your life this framework provides a clear path to focus on what moves the needle and let go of what doesn’t.
Today, I’ll share how I’m using it in both a personal and professional context in my own life and how you can apply it to achieve sustainable progress in any area of life.
In this episode, I share:
-How this framework can be used in any area of your personal and professional life and examples of how I have used it before
-How to use the framework to gain clarity on what to keep, start, and stop doing in any life area.
-How I’m using the framework for my business to prepare for my next chapter
-Personal example of how I am using this framework for my health and fitness goals
-How this tool benefits anyone looking to elevate how they operate by offering structured reflection for impactful changes.
Key Quotes:
“The really great thing about this framework is how universally it works.”
“Stop doing what no longer serves you; keep doing what moves the needle; start doing what aligns with where you want to go.”
“Taking a break isn’t about giving up—it’s about creating space for new insights and growth.”
“What I do know is that this next chapter and having a baby is something which is only really a very small period of time in my life. And I don’t wanna look back and think that I didn’t take the time to be present.”
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