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Don’t be afraid to Talk - Podcast with James Lumumba
James Lumumba
75 episodes
1 week ago
I believe if we are going to affect the change we must go back to the very basics, which for me, in essence, is Conversation. Talking and listening to one another is KEY for growth and with these conversations, I hope our stories will bring us together and draw inspiration from one another. This podcast aims to get you talking about your Mental Health, topics such as Mental and Physical Health, Suicidal Thoughts, Trauma, Recovery, and well-being, We hope to raise awareness and offer you a different perspective and mindset or an idea that could inspire you.
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I believe if we are going to affect the change we must go back to the very basics, which for me, in essence, is Conversation. Talking and listening to one another is KEY for growth and with these conversations, I hope our stories will bring us together and draw inspiration from one another. This podcast aims to get you talking about your Mental Health, topics such as Mental and Physical Health, Suicidal Thoughts, Trauma, Recovery, and well-being, We hope to raise awareness and offer you a different perspective and mindset or an idea that could inspire you.
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Don’t be afraid to Talk - Podcast with James Lumumba
Co-Parenting After Separation with Tiffany Rochester

Curious about co-parenting and how to truly put your child's wellbeing first during a separation? This week on “Don’t Be Afraid to Talk,” James L sits down with clinical psychologist and co-parenting coach, Tiffany Rochester, to dive deep into the realities, challenges, and unexpected joys of co-parenting.

In this powerful episode:

💡 Tiffany shares why being kind to yourself is the real first step.

💡 Learn why shielding kids from conflict is the biggest gift you can give them.

💡 Discover practical advice on setting boundaries, navigating new partners, and building a healthy two-home family.

💡 Hear honest, heartfelt strategies for managing shame, handling blame, and why asking for support is a superpower—not a weakness.

Whether you’re a parent, friend, or just want to become a better ally, this episode is packed with wisdom and real talk. Tune in now for inspiration, compassion, and tools you can use today.


Follow: Tiffany Rochester

INSTAGRAM: ⁠ https://www.instagram.com/coparentingcompanion

WEBSITE: https://www.coparentingcompanion.au/

FACEBOOK: ⁠ https://www.facebook.com/CoparentingCompanion

YOUTUBE: ⁠ https://www.youtube.com/@CoparentingCompanion

LINKEDIN: ⁠ https://www.linkedin.com/company/co-parenting-companion


If you would like to share your story and help inspire othersor have a perspective on Mental Health, please contact me for our conversation.

Follow The Show:

INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/dontbeafraidtotalk/

FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/Dontbeafraidtotalk/

 

Help information

If you need help please talk to friends, family, a GP,therapist or one of the free confidential helpline services. For a full list ofnational mental health services see yourmentalhealth.ie.

 

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2 weeks ago
1 hour 3 seconds

Don’t be afraid to Talk - Podcast with James Lumumba
Navigating Grief: Jason's Journey with His Son Zachary

Join us in this heartfelt episode as we delve into the journey of grief with Jason, a devoted father from Atlanta, Georgia. Jason shares his profound experiences raising his son, Zachary, who was born with Eagle Barrett syndrome, a rare condition that brought unique challenges to their family.

In this candid conversation, Jason opens up about the emotional rollercoaster of parenting a child with medical needs, the impact of loss, and the lessons learned along the way. He discusses the importance of vulnerability, the complexities of male grief, and how he transformed his pain into a supportive community through "Letters to Zachary."

Whether you're navigating your own grief or seeking to understand the experiences of others, this episode offers valuable insights and encouragement.


Keypoints:

Discovering Medical Conditions

Understanding Eagle Barrett Syndrome

Zachary's Passing and Cause

Building an Online Community

Advice for Men Dealing with Grief


Follow Jason Tuttle

INSTAGRAM: ⁠ https://www.instagram.com/letterstozachary2022/

WEBSITE: https://letterstozachary.com/

FACEBOOK: ⁠ https://www.facebook.com/Tuttlepatriarch/

LINKEDIN: ⁠ https://www.linkedin.com/in/jason-tuttle-4264112a7/

TIKTOK: ⁠ https://www.tiktok.com/@letterstozachary2022

 

If you would like to share your story and help inspire othersor have a perspective on Mental Health, please contact me for our conversation.

Follow The Show:

INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/dontbeafraidtotalk/

FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/Dontbeafraidtotalk/

 

Help information

If you need help please talk to friends, family, a GP,therapist or one of the free confidential helpline services. For a full list ofnational mental health services see yourmentalhealth.ie.

Help information

If you need help please talk to friends, family, a GP, therapist or one of the free confidential helpline services. For a full list of national mental health services see yourmentalhealth.ie.

• Samaritans on their free confidential 24/7 helpline on 116-123, by emailing jo@samaritans.ie

• Pieta House National Suicide Helpline 1800 247 247 or email mary@pieta.ie – (suicide prevention, self-harm, bereavement) or text HELP to 51444 (standard message rates apply)

• Aware 1800 80 48 48 (depression, anxiety)

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2 months ago
49 minutes 19 seconds

Don’t be afraid to Talk - Podcast with James Lumumba
Dealing with Toxic Family Dynamics with Dr Jodi Aman

Dr. Jody Amen, a seasoned psychotherapist with 27 years of experience. Dr. Amen shares insights on family dynamics, how relationships can become toxic, and strategies for managing these challenging interactions. Listeners are encouraged to keep an open mind as they navigate the conversation.

Key Highlights:

• Understanding the dynamics of toxic family relationships

• How to recognize when a family relationship is beyond repair

• The importance of self-empowerment in setting boundaries

• Techniques for protecting your mental health while staying connected to family

• Navigating manipulation, guilt-tripping, and gaslighting

• The role of forgiveness in healing and moving forward

• Building a supportive community outside of your family


Follow Dr. Jodi Aman

INSTAGRAM: ⁠ https://www.instagram.com/doctorjodiaman

WEBSITE: https://jodiaman.com/

FACEBOOK: ⁠ https://www.facebook.com/doctorjodiaman

YOUTUBE: ⁠ https://www.youtube.com/user/JodiAman

If you would like to share your story and help inspire othersor have a perspective on Mental Health, please contact me for our conversation.

Follow The Show:

INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/dontbeafraidtotalk/

FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/Dontbeafraidtotalk/

 Help information

If you need help please talk to friends, family, a GP, therapist or one of the free confidential helpline services. For a full list of national mental health services see yourmentalhealth.ie.

• Samaritans on their free confidential 24/7 helpline on 116-123, by emailing jo@samaritans.ie

• Pieta House National Suicide Helpline 1800 247 247 or email mary@pieta.ie – (suicide prevention, self-harm, bereavement) or text HELP to 51444 (standard message rates apply)

• Aware 1800 80 48 48 (depression, anxiety)


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4 months ago
52 minutes 41 seconds

Don’t be afraid to Talk - Podcast with James Lumumba
Exploring Modern Masculinity with Don Gies

In this episode, host James L sits down with men’s coach Don Gies for a real and refreshing conversation about masculinity. Don shares his journey to self-discovery, the importance of mastering both masculine and feminine energies, and why balancing these is essential for a fulfilling life.

We tackle why vulnerability is hard for men, why traditional roles are shifting, and how men can reclaim purpose and competency through physical activity, self-reflection, and conscious leadership. Don offers practical steps for boosting masculinity, such as martial arts, ending unhealthy habits, and building emotional intelligence.

Ready for a deeper, more empowering take on being a man? Tune in for actionable insights and honest advice.

Connect with Don Gies: YouTube & Instagram: The Zeal of Man

Join his men’s group or reach out directly for one-on-one coaching.

Don’t forget to follow and share! @thezealofman

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5 months ago
1 hour 1 minute 22 seconds

Don’t be afraid to Talk - Podcast with James Lumumba
Peaceful Parenting with Luke Adsit

In this episode, James L sits down with peaceful parenting coach Luke Adsit, joining us all the way from Florida. Luke shares his journey from traditional discipline to conscious, connection-focused parenting—drawing from years of research, personal growth, and one-on-one coaching.

We dive deep into:

  • Natural consequences vs. punishment and rewards

  • Understanding children's motivations and emotional needs

  • Why projecting our dreams onto kids can backfire

  • The cultural shift away from communal parenting

  • Building trust, consistency, and better communication with your child

  • And the courage it takes to challenge generational norms

Luke also reflects on his own experiences as a father, and the emotional work involved in parenting differently than how he was raised.

Whether you're a parent, caregiver, or just curious about how to better support kids in your life, this episode is packed with wisdom and practical strategies.


Follow: Luke Adsit

TWITTER: ⁠ https://x.com/Peaceful_Tips

WEBSITE: https://peacefulparentingacademy.com/

YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePeacefulParentingShow

 

If you would like to share your story and help inspire othersor have a perspective on Mental Health, please contact me for our conversation.

Follow The Show:

INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/dontbeafraidtotalk/

FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/Dontbeafraidtotalk/

 

Your Mental Health information line - Ireland

Mental Health Ireland: 01 284 1166

Pieta House: 1800 247 247

Suicide or Survive (SOS): 01 272 2158

Aware: 1800 80 48 48

Samaritans: 116 123

LGBT Ireland: 1800 929 539

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6 months ago
1 hour 57 seconds

Don’t be afraid to Talk - Podcast with James Lumumba
Anorexia & Me with Sean Blake

In this episode, we welcome Sean Blake, a courageousvoice in the fight against anorexia. Sean shares his personal journey of recovery from the eating disorder, emphasizing the challenges and triumphs along the way. He discusses his experience with the documentary "Anorexia and My Family and Me," highlighting the importance of using his voice toraise awareness. As he reflects on his life in his 40s as a married father of four, Sean opens up about the complexities of managing mental health and the ongoing learning process in recovery. Join us as we explore the depths ofSean's story, the impact of family, and the journey toward healing.

Follow Sean Blake

INSTAGRAM: ⁠ https://www.instagram.com/seanblake80/ 

If you would like to share your story and help inspire othersor have a perspective on Mental Health, please contact me for our conversation.

Follow The Show:

INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/dontbeafraidtotalk/

FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/Dontbeafraidtotalk/

 

Help information

If you need help please talk to friends, family, a GP,therapist or one of the free confidential helpline services. For a full list ofnational mental health services see yourmentalhealth.ie.

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8 months ago
48 minutes 55 seconds

Don’t be afraid to Talk - Podcast with James Lumumba
Healing from Childhood Trauma with Robin Grace
In this episode, James sits down with Robin, a Garda from Clare, who shares his powerful journey of overcoming childhood trauma and advocating for mental health awareness, particularly among men. Robin discusses his experiences with dyslexia, the impact of being sexually abused by a female childminder, and the long path to healing that included therapy and meditation. Topics Covered:  Childhood experiences and dyslexia      The impact of trauma and abuse       The journey of healing through meditation and therapy The importance of support networks Mental health advocacy and community work    Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe for more inspiring stories and discussions! Follow; Robin Grace INSTAGRAM: ⁠ https://www.instagram.com/robgrace83/ WEBSITE: https://www.meapp.ie/ FACEBOOK: ⁠ https://www.facebook.com/courageousjourneys If you would like to share your story and help inspire others or have a perspective on Mental Health, please contact me for our conversation. Follow The Show: INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/dontbeafraidtotalk/ FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/Dontbeafraidtotalk/   Help information If you need help please talk to friends, family, a GP, therapist or one of the free confidential helpline services. For a full list of national mental health services see http://www.yourmentalhealth.ie/
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1 year ago
1 hour 8 minutes 59 seconds

Don’t be afraid to Talk - Podcast with James Lumumba
Religious Trauma, Cults & Spiritual Abuse with Nikki G

In this episode of "Ask the Therapist," host James is joined by Nikki G, a recovery coach and educator specializing in religious trauma and spiritual abuse. Nikki shares her personal journey as a survivor of a narcissistic family system and her experiences in five different cults. She discusses the concept of "cult hopping," where individuals seek new communities after leaving toxic environments, often without processing their past experiences.

The conversation delves into the definitions of religious trauma, spiritual abuse, and religious trauma syndrome, highlighting the psychological and emotional impacts of these experiences. Nikki emphasizes the importance of education and critical thinking in recovery, particularly for those raised in strict religious environments where questioning authority is discouraged.

Listeners will gain insights into the dynamics of power and control within religious communities, the challenges of navigating mental health issues in a faith context, and the need for resources tailored to marginalized communities. This episode aims to raise awareness about the prevalence of religious trauma and the importance of healing and support for survivors. Join us for an enlightening discussion that encourages open-mindedness and understanding.

 

Timestamps

00:01:15 - Nikki's Background and Personal Journey

00:13:08 - The Process of Spiritual Manipulation

00:25:06 - Indoctrination and Fear in Families

00:32:25 - The Misuse of Scriptures

00:46:43 - Narcissism in Religious Leaders Follow: Nikki G

INSTAGRAM: ⁠ https://www.instagram.com/nikki_g_speaks/

WEBSITE: https://www.nikkigspeaks.com/

FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/nikkig.speaks/

linktr: https://linktr.ee/nikkigspeaks

 

If you would like to share your story and help inspire others or have a perspective on Mental Health, please contact me for our conversation.

Follow The Show:

INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/dontbeafraidtotalk/

FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/Dontbeafraidtotalk/

 

Your Mental Health information line - Ireland

Mental Health Ireland: 01 284 1166

Pieta House: 1800 247 247

Suicide or Survive (SOS):  01 272 2158

Aware: 1800 80 48 48

Samaritans: 116 123

LGBT Ireland: 1800 929 539

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1 year ago
1 hour 17 minutes 12 seconds

Don’t be afraid to Talk - Podcast with James Lumumba
Building Resilience: A Journey Through Addiction, Recovery, and Family Changes with James Hansen

James Hansen, a remarkable individual with deep insights into addiction and recovery. From facing his own addiction diagnosis 14 years into sobriety to navigating the complex landscape of mental health disorders, James Hansen shares his journey of resilience, growth, and transformation. He opens up about his experiences with substance abuse, the challenges of undiagnosed ADHD, and the pivotal moments that shaped his recovery. Join us as we delve into his inspiring story, explore the intersection of ADHD and addiction, and uncover the profound impact of building a life worth living. This is a raw and honest conversation that sheds light on the power of connection, self-discovery, and the resilience of the human spirit.

Timestamps:

06:35 Absent father, stepdad fills paternal role. Struggles at school due to family issues.

10:43 Fear of rejection leads to people pleasing.

21:07 Father sacrificed volunteering for daughter's rehab bed.

24:33 Struggled with denial and comparing drinking habits.

36:09 Managing ADHD symptoms crucial for balanced life.

41:15 Overcoming struggles, maintaining recovery, accepting identity.

58:25 Navigating self-doubt while striving to be father.

Follow: James Hansen

INSTAGRAM: ⁠ https://www.instagram.com/jameshansen595/

WEBSITE: https://www.jameshansen.co.uk/

LINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/escapethechaos/

If you would like to share your story and help inspire others or have a perspective on Mental Health, please contact me for our conversation.

Follow The Show:

INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/dontbeafraidtotalk/

FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/Dontbeafraidtotalk/

 

Your Mental Health information line - Ireland

Mental Health Ireland: 01 284 1166

Pieta House: 1800 247 247

Suicide or Survive (SOS):  01 272 2158

Aware: 1800 80 48 48

Samaritans: 116 123

LGBT Ireland: 1800 929 539


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1 year ago
1 hour 2 minutes 51 seconds

Don’t be afraid to Talk - Podcast with James Lumumba
Surviving Medical Child Abuse with Jordyn Hope feat Marc D. Feldman, M.D.

In this episode, Jordan (Jo), a survivor of Munchausen by proxy abuse, and Dr. Marc Feldman, a researcher from Alabama, discuss Jo's story and the impact of medical abuse. Jo shares their experience as a survivor and their work with Munchausen Support, an organization aiding those affected by this type of abuse. Dr. Feldman adds his expertise to shed light on the issue. This insightful episode aims to raise awareness and provide valuable information on a crucial topic

Highlights: - Jordan's Background and Work

- Dr. Marc Feldman's Expertise

- Jo's Childhood and Medical Abuse

- Legal and Psychological Challenges in Addressing Abuse

- Judicial and Systemic Barriers in Protecting Children

- Survivor Support and Resources

- Shifting Focus from Perpetrator to Victim

- Challenges Faced by Medical Professionals Follow: Jordyn Hope

INSTAGRAM: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/flourishingwildly/TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@flourishingwildly Follow: Dr Marc  Feldman, M.D.
WEBSITE: https://www.munchausen.com/

If you would like to share your story and help inspire others or have a perspective on Mental Health, please contact me for our conversation.

Follow The Show:

INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/dontbeafraidtotalk/

FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/Dontbeafraidtotalk/

 

Your Mental Health information line - Ireland

Mental Health Ireland: 01 284 1166

Pieta House: 1800 247 247

Suicide or Survive (SOS):  01 272 2158

Aware: 1800 80 48 48

Samaritans: 116 123

LGBT Ireland: 1800 929 539

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1 year ago
1 hour 7 minutes 48 seconds

Don’t be afraid to Talk - Podcast with James Lumumba
Insights into Coping Mechanisms with Peggy Oliveira

In this episode of "Ask the Expert," Peggy, a childhood trauma survivor, former therapist, and author, joins the host to discuss coping mechanisms. The conversation delves into the unconscious ways we develop coping mechanisms early in life and how they continue to impact us into adulthood. Peggy explains the concepts of denial, avoidance, minimization, and rationalization, highlighting how these coping mechanisms manifest and the importance of awareness in recognizing and changing them. Tune in to gain insights into understanding and transforming coping mechanisms, the impact of childhood experiences on adult behavior, and the significance of self-awareness in healing and growth.

Follow Peggy Oliveira, MSW

INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/peggyoliveira/

WEBSITE: https://courageousjourneys.com/

FACEBOOK: ⁠ https://www.facebook.com/courageousjourneys

YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@theoneinsidepodcast

 

If you would like to share your story and help inspire others or have a perspective on Mental Health, please contact me for our conversation.

Follow The Show:

INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/dontbeafraidtotalk/

FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/Dontbeafraidtotalk/

 

Your Mental Health information line - Ireland

Mental Health Ireland: 01 284 1166

Pieta House: 1800 247 247

Suicide or Survive (SOS):  01 272 2158

Aware: 1800 80 48 48

Samaritans: 116 123

LGBT Ireland: 1800 929 539

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1 year ago
1 hour 2 minutes 42 seconds

Don’t be afraid to Talk - Podcast with James Lumumba
A Journey Through IFS with Tammy Sollenberger

In this episode of Ask the Therapist, Tammy, a clinical mental health counselor and psychotherapist, discusses her journey with managing anxiety. She shares her experience of calming her anxious part, highlighting the importance of self-care and self-compassion. Tammy also talks about her background as a therapist practicing internal family systems therapy, which she further explores in her podcast and book, "The One Inside."

Hightlights:

Tammy's Background and IFS Therapy

Mapping out your systems

Working with Exiles and Inner Healing

Parts that manage our lives

Uncomfortable feelings with self

Inner Conversation with Child Parts

Follow Tammy Sollenberger

INSTAGRAM: ⁠ https://www.instagram.com/ifs.tammy/

WEBSITE: https://tammysollenberger.com/

FACEBOOK: ⁠ ttps://www.facebook.com/theoneinsideIFS

YOUTUBE: ttps://www.youtube.com/@theoneinsidepodcast

TWITTER: https://twitter.com/ifstammy

 

If you would like to share your story and help inspire others or have a perspective on Mental Health, please contact me for our conversation.

Follow The Show:

INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/dontbeafraidtotalk/

FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/Dontbeafraidtotalk/

 

Your Mental Health information line - Ireland

Mental Health Ireland: 01 284 1166

Pieta House: 1800 247 247

Suicide or Survive (SOS):  01 272 2158

Aware: 1800 80 48 48

Samaritans: 116 123

LGBT Ireland: 1800 929 539


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1 year ago
1 hour 2 minutes 50 seconds

Don’t be afraid to Talk - Podcast with James Lumumba
Finding Beauty in Differences: Lauren's Journey with Disability

What has breathwork done for you?

This podcast features an interview with Lauren, a trauma-informed breathwork facilitator from Scotland. Lauren shares her journey and experiences, including her childhood, living with a physical disability caused by an autoimmune response as a result of a viral infection. She also discusses the loss of her parents and her journey of self-parenting.

Shownotes:

00:03:46 Childhood shaped by disability.

00:12:43 The power of resilience.

00:14:49 Challenging negative perceptions of disability.

00:25:49 Discrimination against disabled people.

00:30:15 Grief can shape our identities.

00:44:11 Awareness and education are crucial.

00:44:18 Importance of self-education and healing.

00:52:11 Breathwork brings healing and transformation.

01:03:08 Start believing in yourself.

01:06:53 Self-love is an act of defiance.

Follow Lauren Stewart

INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/darlin_breathe/

WEBSITE: https://www.darlinbreathe.com/

LINKTR: https://linktr.ee/EllStu

 

If you would like to share your story and help inspire others or have a perspective on Mental Health, please contact me for our conversation.

Follow The Show:

INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/dontbeafraidtotalk/

FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/Dontbeafraidtotalk/


Your Mental Health information line - Ireland

Mental Health Ireland: 01 284 1166

Pieta House: 1800 247 247

Suicide or Survive (SOS):  01 272 2158

Aware: 1800 80 48 48

Samaritans: 116 123

LGBT Ireland: 1800 929 539

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1 year ago
1 hour 10 minutes 12 seconds

Don’t be afraid to Talk - Podcast with James Lumumba
Beyond the Clinic with Padraig Danaher

How occupational therapy can help people?

Padraig, a mental health occupational therapist based in Cork. Padraig specializes in trauma, anxiety, depression, self-harm, and eating disorders, working with both teenagers and adults. He has a background in social care and holds a master's degree in positive psychology and coaching.

Chapters:

  • Definition of occupational therapy and its focus on function
  • Importance of evidence-based practice in occupational therapy
  • Personalized interventions and goal-setting in occupational therapy
  • Building relationships with clients and becoming part of their families
  • Involvement in community work and delivering training

Padraig also discusses the use of practical strategies and interventions tailored to each individual's needs. He highlights the significance of building a strong therapeutic relationship with clients and the importance of understanding their emotions and behaviours.


Follow Padraig Danaher

INSTAGRAM: ⁠ https://www.instagram.com/the_ot_coach_/WEBSITE: https://www.theotcoach.ie/LINKEDIN:https://www.linkedin.com/in/padraig-danaher/

If you would like to share your story and help inspire others or have a perspective on Mental Health, please contact me for our conversation.

Follow The Show:

INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/dontbeafraidtotalk/

FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/Dontbeafraidtotalk/

Your Mental Health information line - Ireland

Mental Health Ireland: 01 284 1166

Pieta House: 1800 247 247

Suicide or Survive (SOS):  01 272 2158

Aware: 1800 80 48 48

Samaritans: 116 123

LGBT Ireland: 1800 929 539

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1 year ago
1 hour 4 minutes 35 seconds

Don’t be afraid to Talk - Podcast with James Lumumba
Executive's Journey from Addiction to Advocacy with Nick Jonsson

Our latest episode is a testament to the strength of human will and the power of transformation. I sat down with an awe-inspiring guest, Nick who candidly shared his turbulent journey, from wrestling with alcohol addiction to championing mental health awareness. Nick’s story, riddled with piercing highs and soul-crushing lows, shines a light on the importance of self-discipline and the valor in 'parenting ourselves'. His story is a rally cry for all who are trapped in silent battles, encouraging them to embrace their struggles and use them as a stepping stone to redemption.

 

Follow: Nick Jonsson

INSTAGRAM: ⁠ https://www.instagram.com/jonssonnick/ WEBSITE: https://www.nickjonsson.com/

FACEBOOK: ⁠ https://www.facebook.com/jonsson.nick

YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/c/NickJonsson

WEBSITE: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nick-jonsson/?originalSubdomain=sg

If you would like to share your story and help inspire others or have a perspective on Mental Health, please contact me for our conversation.

Follow The Show:

INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/dontbeafraidtotalk/

FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/Dontbeafraidtotalk/


Your Mental Health information line - Ireland

Mental Health Ireland: 01 284 1166

Pieta House: 1800 247 247

Suicide or Survive (SOS):  01 272 2158

Aware: 1800 80 48 48

Samaritans: 116 123

LGBT Ireland: 1800 929 539

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1 year ago
48 minutes 8 seconds

Don’t be afraid to Talk - Podcast with James Lumumba
It's Not Always Depression with Hilary Jacobs Hendel

In this podcast episode, Hilary, a psychotherapist, discusses the Change Triangle and the importance of understanding and processing emotions. The Change Triangle is a tool that helps individuals recognize and navigate their emotions, moving from inhibitory emotions (such as anxiety, shame, and guilt) to core emotions (such as anger, sadness, fear, joy, excitement, and sexual excitement). Hilary emphasizes the need to validate and experience core emotions, as suppressing them can lead to symptoms like anxiety and depression. She shares personal experiences of how she learned to recognize and work with her own emotions, highlighting the transformative power of understanding and embracing emotions. The episode also touches on the impact of childhood experiences on emotional development and the role of defenses in avoiding emotional pain. Overall, the conversation emphasizes the importance of creating a safe space for emotions and the lifelong practice of emotional awareness and self-compassion.

Follow Hilary Jacobs Hendel:

INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/hilaryjacobshendel/

WEBSITE: https://www.hilaryjacobshendel.com/

YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/c/thechangetriangle

FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/AuthorHilaryJacobsHendel

If you would like to share your story and help inspire others or have a perspective on Mental Health, please contact me for our conversation.

Follow The Show:

INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/dontbeafraidtotalk/

FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/Dontbeafraidtotalk/

Your Mental Health information line - Ireland

Mental Health Ireland: 01 284 1166

Pieta House: 1800 247 247

Suicide or Survive (SOS):  01 272 2158

Aware: 1800 80 48 48

Samaritans: 116 123

LGBT Ireland: 1800 929 539

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1 year ago
1 hour 5 minutes 11 seconds

Don’t be afraid to Talk - Podcast with James Lumumba
Breaking the Cycle of Conflict in Relationships with Dr Tim van Wanrooij

Dr. Tim van Wanrooij is a Chartered Counselling Psychologist based in Dublin. He specializes in working with individuals and couples, helping them navigate their emotions and relationships. Dr. Tim has a deep understanding of the complexities of human emotions and the impact they have on our relationships and overall well-being.

In this episode, James and Dr. Tim van Wanrooij delve into the complexities of relationships and emotions. They emphasize the significance of understanding the deeper issues that underlie conflicts between couples, rather than focusing solely on practical matters. The conversation explores why couples often find themselves trapped in repetitive arguments and how emotion-focused therapy can help individuals identify and express their underlying emotions. They also discuss effective strategies for navigating difficult conversations and uncovering the root causes of pain. Dr. Tim highlights the use of Emotion Focused Therapy (EFT) for both couples and individuals. The episode concludes with insights on breaking the cycle of conflict in relationships and managing relationships where one partner pursues while the other withdraws. Throughout the discussion, Dr. Tim emphasizes the importance of taking emotional risks, being vulnerable, and individualizing couples to foster successful conversations. Follow Dr Tim van Wanrooij

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YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPBNsclByB9yaHXgUSkDrfg

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Your Mental Health information line - Ireland

Mental Health Ireland: 01 284 1166

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2 years ago
1 hour 11 minutes 22 seconds

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PTSD – Life after the War with Rob Carranza

In this episode, James invites Rob, a former Air Force aviator with 25 years of experience, who discusses his journey from serving in uniform to battling and overcoming PTSD. Rob shares deeply personal experiences such as managing guilt commonly associated with combat veterans and his rock-bottom moments fuelled by PTSD. He highlights the power of acceptance and the immense benefit of open communication for those suffering from PTSD, anxiety, and depression. Rob also delves into how his faith and family support have been pivotal in his healing process and transformation. This is a heartfelt conversation that underscores the importance of mental health, faith, and innovation in transforming lives.

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WEBSITE: https://glightleaders.com/

INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/robugcdad/

TWITTER: https://twitter.com/RobCLeadership

 

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Your Mental Health information line - Ireland

Mental Health Ireland: 01 284 1166

Pieta House: 1800 247 247

Suicide or Survive (SOS):  01 272 2158

Aware: 1800 80 48 48

Samaritans: 116 123

LGBT Ireland: 1800 929 539


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2 years ago
1 hour 3 minutes 21 seconds

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Communicating in a Relationship with Shane Birkel

Unlock the secret to thriving relationships as you tune in to our enlightening conversation with Shane, an expert speaker, educator, and marriage and family therapist. Get ready for a deep dive into the art of communication, something we often overlook but it plays a crucial role in the health of our relationships. Shane sprinkles the conversation with some practical advice on expressing feelings without blame, judgement, and the art of giving feedback in a loving and respectful manner. Expect to understand the roadblocks that hinder good communication and learn to identify signs of poor communication skills in your partner.

Together with Shane, we spotlight the importance of self-awareness, unravel how childhood socialization influences our relationships, and discuss how you, as a couple, can dismantle harmful patterns. We also expose the deeper, concealed issues couples often argue about, masked by superficial bickering.

In the latter part of our conversation, we zero in on the role of listening, a vital, yet often neglected part of communication. Join us as we share valuable tips on mirroring, acceptance of reality, and validation in a relationship. You'll also learn about the four steps of the feedback wheel, a practical communication framework, and how a regular gratitude practice can fortify your bond. Shane throws light on the concept of mirror neurons and their impact on mutual emotional states. Join us as we decode the complexities of couple's communication in this riveting conversation with Shane.


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INSTAGRAM: ⁠ https://www.instagram.com/shanebirkel/

WEBSITE: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/

FACEBOOK: ⁠ https://www.facebook.com/shanebirkel1/

YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCuKXyF_Zzx0h8ZehLpoUQcg

 

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Your Mental Health information line - Ireland

Mental Health Ireland: 01 284 1166

Pieta House: 1800 247 247

Suicide or Survive (SOS):  01 272 2158

Aware: 1800 80 48 48

Samaritans: 116 123

LGBT Ireland: 1800 929 539

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2 years ago
56 minutes 54 seconds

Don’t be afraid to Talk - Podcast with James Lumumba
SEX Education with Grace Alice

In this podcast episode, Grace Alice, an award-winning sex and intimacy specialist from Kerry, Ireland, discusses her journey to becoming a sex educator. In this episode we discuss contents from her book SEX Education and touch on topics such as CONSENT – REPRODUCTION – PROTECTION – RELATIONSHIPS. Join the conversation and learn how to approach discussions about sex and intimacy with warmth, compassion, and acceptance. Let's break the cycle of silence together!


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INSTAGRAM: ⁠ https://www.instagram.com/grace_alice_oshea/

WEBSITE: https://gracealice.com/

FACEBOOK: ⁠ https://www.facebook.com/gracealiceoshea

SEX EDUCATION BOOK: https://sexualhealthwest.ie/product/sex-educated-by-grace-alice-oshea/

 

If you would like to share your story and help inspire others or have a perspective on Mental Health, please contact me for our conversation.

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Your Mental Health information line - Ireland

Mental Health Ireland: 01 284 1166

Pieta House: 1800 247 247

Suicide or Survive (SOS):  01 272 2158

Aware: 1800 80 48 48

Samaritans: 116 123

LGBT Ireland: 1800 929 539


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2 years ago
1 hour 36 minutes 24 seconds

Don’t be afraid to Talk - Podcast with James Lumumba
I believe if we are going to affect the change we must go back to the very basics, which for me, in essence, is Conversation. Talking and listening to one another is KEY for growth and with these conversations, I hope our stories will bring us together and draw inspiration from one another. This podcast aims to get you talking about your Mental Health, topics such as Mental and Physical Health, Suicidal Thoughts, Trauma, Recovery, and well-being, We hope to raise awareness and offer you a different perspective and mindset or an idea that could inspire you.