Every dancer wants to be seen — but the real magic happens when you’re noticed for who you truly are. In this episode, we break down what it really means to stand out in the dance world without slipping into perfectionism, comparison, or self-doubt. Inspired by Brené Brown’s reminder that we always find evidence for whatever we’re looking for, this conversation reframes visibility as an inside job.
Jessica shares a personal story about craving recognition early in her dance journey and how her perspective has evolved through coaching, wellness, and lived experience. From there, we dive into the heart of the episode: the difference between external validation and internal confidence, and why authentic presence will always speak louder than technical tricks.
You’ll learn how to shift from “pick me!” energy to calm, grounded confidence — plus simple mindset tools like visualization, meaningful affirmations, and expression-focused practice. We also cover real-world strategies for standing out in class, rehearsal, and auditions. Expect tips on professionalism, coachability, relationship-building, and using social media to showcase your artistry rather than chase approval.
When it comes to auditions, Jessica breaks down how to prepare in ways that help you radiate presence: fueling well, managing energy, staying resilient, and connecting through musicality and joy. You’ll hear how these principles show up inside Audition Success Coaching and Elite Best Body Coaching.
We wrap with quick journal prompts, a mantra to carry into your next class, and a challenge to shift from comparison to curiosity. The takeaway? Getting noticed isn’t about being the loudest or the flashiest — it’s about showing up as the truest version of you, consistently and wholeheartedly.
Tune in for a grounded, inspiring guide to visibility that honors your artistry, your wellbeing, and your individuality.
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In this episode, we’re redefining what a “dance nutrition plan” really means — because it’s not about shrinking your body. It’s about fueling for strength, recovery, and confidence in your dancing.
You’ll learn how to build a flexible, supportive approach to nutrition that enhances performance, supports bone health and mental wellness, and helps you feel truly at home in your body.
We’ll explore:
The Stress–Adaptation Cycle and why recovery and nutrition are just as essential as training.
How consistent eating and a supportive mindset can free you from food guilt and help you maintain steady energy.
The Functional Five framework — a simple, adaptable way to build balanced dancer meals without perfectionism.
How to spot the signs of underfueling and recognize when your body is thriving with enough nourishment.
Through personal and client stories, you’ll see how shifting the focus from control to care leads to lasting strength and joy in dance.
💬 Tune in to discover:
What it really looks like to fuel your body for performance, recovery, and wellbeing — and how to start building your own dance nutrition plan today.
Read more:
How do I know if I'm Eating Enough?
Ready to dive in deeper with personalized support?
Everyone sees the beauty, grace, and effortlessness of dance — but behind the curtain, professional dancers face immense daily stress. In this episode, Jess Spinner of The Whole Dancer dives into the hidden pressures of the profession — from the early days of training to the realities of company life — and explores how perfectionism, people-pleasing, and burnout can take hold long before a contract is ever signed.
Through personal stories and client experiences, Jess unpacks how the demand for “effortless perfection” impacts dancers’ mental and physical health. You’ll hear about the toll of overtraining, the stress of proving yourself in competitive environments, and how control around food or body can become a coping mechanism.
Most importantly, Jess shares practical strategies for shifting out of survival mode — embracing a growth mindset, redefining success, and reconnecting with the joy that made you fall in love with dance in the first place.
✨ Tune in to learn how to protect your well-being, find balance, and create a sustainable, fulfilling dance career.
Looking for more support on your dance journey? Schedule a free coaching consultation here.
Relationships in dance can lift you up—or hold you back. In this episode, we’re exploring how to cultivate the positive, supportive connections that help you grow as both a dancer and a person. 💫
Whether it’s your teachers, friends, or fellow company members, the relationships you build can shape your confidence, motivation, and overall well-being.
🎧 Listen in for insights on creating healthy boundaries, recognizing red flags, and surrounding yourself with people who truly get it.
For more support now, schedule a coaching consultation call!
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Comparison is one of the biggest hurdles dancers face — and the common advice to “just stop comparing” doesn’t actually work. The truth? Comparison is automatic. But you can change how you respond to it.
In this episode, I share a client story that sparked a powerful reframe: turning comparison into support. You’ll learn practical steps to:
✨ Notice when comparison shows up
✨ Recognize your own unique gifts
✨ Reframe envy into admiration and encouragement
✨ Commit to the process of building confidence and resilience
If you’ve ever felt stuck in comparison, this conversation will give you tools to shift your mindset, lift up others, and create a more supportive dance environment.
🎧 Plus, I’ll give you a sneak peek into my upcoming
Comparison Workshop, designed to help dancers understand the roots of comparison, develop real-time tools to redirect it, and leave with a personalized action plan.
➡️ Conquering Comparison In Dance Workshop: SIGN UP HERE, use code: podcast for $10 off!!
Looking for more in-depth 1:1 support? Schedule your coaching consultation here.
In this powerful episode, we’re challenging the outdated and damaging concept of the “ideal” dancer body. Inspired by a real conversation in my group coaching program, I’m sharing the unconventional advice that helped dancers feel relief, freedom, and power — starting with this: you don’t need to know your weight.
We’ll explore why the scale isn’t a true measure of your value, how focusing on numbers can harm your performance and well-being, and why it’s time to rethink audition requirements like listing your weight. Your ideal dancer body isn’t about a number — it’s about dancing your best, recovering fully, and feeling strong and confident.
You’ll hear:
Why dancers are ditching the scale — and what they gain instead
The truth about weight on a resume and what you can focus on instead.
How to define your ideal weight in a way that supports both artistry and health
The mindset shift that unlocks sustainable body peace and food freedom
This episode is your invitation to let go of unrealistic expectations and step into a more empowering, joyful approach to your dancer body. 💫
✨ Ready to redefine your own ideals?
Explore support through The Dancers’ Balanced Body Program or book a free coaching consultation HERE to get started.
Your food relationship — how you think, feel, and act around food — shapes everything from your energy to your performance.
In this episode, we explore why this often-overlooked foundation matters before you focus on food choices or physique goals.
You'll reflect on the influences that shaped your current mindset, unpack outdated beliefs, and start imagining a more peaceful, supportive connection to food.
Whether you feel stuck in restriction, guilt, or confusion, this conversation will guide you toward more ease, joy, and confidence in fueling your body.
✨ Ready to shift your food mindset with support? Book a free consultation to start your coaching journey.
👉🏼 Learn more about 1:1 Elite Best Body Coaching
In this episode, we tackle a common fear dancers have during summer break: “What if I’m already out of shape?” Whether your layoff just started or you’re a few weeks in, that creeping worry can feel loud—and discouraging. I’ll walk you through how to shift your mindset around summer downtime, why this break might actually support your dancing long-term, and how to approach movement and fueling without pressure or panic.
If you’ve been beating yourself up for not doing “enough,” this episode will help you quiet that inner critic, focus on sustainable progress, and step into your return to class with confidence.
🎧 Ready to use this summer to support your growth—physically and mentally? Click here to book a free coaching consultation and let’s talk about how you can make the most of this time.
This year marks 10 years of The Whole Dancer!! It's an incredibly exciting time so my amazing assistant, Tatum and I decided to share an episode where she asks me 10 (it turned out to be more than that) questions in celebration of The Whole Dancer.
In this episode I share some things I've rarely (or never) spoken about and you'll get to hear more about my "why" behind The Whole Dancer.
Audition season goal: land a paid dance job.
Reality: it might take a few tries—and that’s okay.
In this episode, we explore how to reduce stress and stay motivated with an inspired backup plan—a path that still supports your dance career without feeling like a detour. You'll learn how to:
Identify what’s missing (training, experience, exposure)
Build a plan that excites you, not one that feels like giving up
Use location, mentorship, and resources to stay on track
💡 A backup plan isn’t settling—it’s progress on a different timeline.
In need of support? Apply to work with me and book a coaching consultation here.
Or email: jess@thewholedancer.com
In the world of professional ballet today, there’s a structure that can leave dancers feeling stuck. Before you can get a paid company position, you often have to go through years of trainee programs, 2nd company positions, or other-named post pre-professional training programs. It’s a slow process.
This podcast episode will help you bring strategy to the experience.
Need support on your journey? Schedule a complimentary coaching consultation here.
In this episode, I’m opening up about my own experiences with body changes throughout my dance journey—navigating puberty, dealing with layoffs, and adjusting to life after stepping away from the stage.
But I know I’m not alone. So many dancers face intense aesthetic pressures and struggle with how their bodies change over time. We’ll talk about the emotional toll this can take and how we can all work toward embracing these changes with more compassion.
I’ll also share thoughts on finding support through therapy, coaching, and community. This is a conversation about resilience, acceptance, and finding strength in every phase of the dance journey.
Looking for support? Schedule a free coaching consultation here.
Time off from dance can feel incredibly uncertain and stressful. There are some ways to look at it that will in fact enhance your life and dance experience. Give this episode a listen to learn how!
Personal trainers for dancers.
What should dancers eat?
Dispelling myths and sharing truths about what to include in an effective, healthy, and supportive eating plan for dance.
For more support: Schedule a complimentary coaching consultation!
We've all been there. The cast sheet goes up and you walk over feeling hopeful. Then, you read the list and are totally disappointed with your roles.
This episode is about how to cope, gain perspective, and find a more productive path forward whether casting goes your way or not!
Get in touch!
Email me: jess@thewholedancer.com
Schedule your coaching consultation: CLICK HERE
Throughout the audition season, you want to take some time after each audition to assess and reflect. This podcast episode provides practical tips and tasks to help you grow through the audition process.
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That growth is going to help you show up with more confidence so you can get closer to your next career steps.
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For additional support through audition season, sign up for a free audition coaching consultation.
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Struggling with body insecurity through the audition process? Read this article I wrote for Pointe Magazine.
The Nutcracker season is incredibly busy for most dancers. Between holidays, rehearsals, performing, and more...it's just a lot to take on.
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You don't want to feel exhausted and burnt out when all is said and done. To avoid the burnout you have to support yourself (or get support) through the season.
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List for support, advice, and tips.
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Purple Carrot (affiliate link)
Book your coaching consultation.
Reach out by email: jess@thewholedancer.com
I was really surprised to see that I haven't talked about body image on the podcast much (at all?). This is an incredibly important topic and today's episode is quite actionable.
Give it a listen and let me know what you think.
If you'd like to read my Pointe Magazine Article on Building Body Image Resilience, click here.
Are you ready to stop fixating on your body and food and find ease in your dance journey? Schedule your complimentary coaching consultation here.
If you ever have a question or topic idea or you'd just like to connect, you can get in touch by email. Send me your thoughts: jess@thewholedancer.com
There are a number of areas of necessary preparation for Auditions:
So much is possible through the audition process. The hardest part is staying calm and confident. This episode shares how to do that.
Heres's the Pointe Magazine Article I reference in the episode.
Looking for more support? Book your Audition Coaching Consultation (it's free)!
Very often, dancers think that nutrition knowledge is what they need to achieve their "best" bodies for dance. In a lot of cases, it's not the first (or most important) thing that you should focus on.
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This podcast episode dives into that concept and helps you discover what might need your attention instead.
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Have a question? Email me: jess@thewholedancer.com
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Interested in exploring healthy, nutrition, and lifestyle coaching for dancers? Book a complimentary coaching consultation here.